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of course there are quality women out there, but they demand quality men and marriage. they're the girls who have been with the same guy since they were young, not the chicks you hook up with on tinder. my brother married a girl like that, I married a whore. they're few and far between, and you'll probably never catch one when she's single unless you're college sweethearts.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:08 PM
1

violating the terms of a contract has clearly stated legal consequences. marriages have no such terms, they are dissolved at will for any reason under the sun.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:02 PM
2

you're young, go party and have fun. you're going to regret missing out on all that when you're older.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:01 PM
1

not doing the things you promise does not guarantee dissolution as it would with a legal contract, it's all up to the individuals' discretion.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:49 PM
1

again, there are no terms and conditions to acquiring or maintaining a marriage license. it's a status granted by the state, there's no bargain to uphold from a legal standpoint.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:03 PM
1

not written obligations, she can divorce him even if he does everything he promised. not a contract, a temporary status
/r/askTRP08/07/17 06:47 PM
1

the status is that two individuals become a single economic unit. wealth is assumed to be shared
/r/askTRP08/07/17 04:29 PM
0

legally, there are no terms and conditions. you keep the status until you don't want to anymore. I'm MGTOW, so I'm not sure who you're arguing with. but you sound ignorant when you call a license a contract.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:40 PM
0

yes, it's a license you purchase to attain a legal status. there are no terms and conditions in a marriage license. you keep that status until you don't want to and then you can change it for any reason whatsoever.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:31 PM
7

you know I never got the "Indian guys are creepy" meme until these posts started popping up.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:28 PM
1

divorced guy here... where do you get this idea that marriage is a contract? it's a status, there are no terms and conditions.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:23 PM
21

you can get annoyed at anything you want. while you're at it, go ahead and get annoyed at trees for growing
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:16 PM
2

Because I was seeing a couple of women at the same time, I didn't give either them much attention. Hardly ever texted.. they chased me. lol, keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel alpha. women are masters of push/pull, they know what they're doing... you were only ever one of many they were "chasing." let me guess, you met them on tinder? texting is the lowest effort, lowest commitment kind of communication known earth.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:45 PM
2

and don't think for a minute that women don't know how much a shred of their attention is worth to you.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:35 PM
27

I've heard this story from other late bloomer programmers so often it's a cliche at this point... let me guess: you have lingering insecurity about women from back when you were a nerdy virgin and if no one is fucking you at the moment you start to feel less-than. your problem is you're still pedestalizing women. you're rationalizing to yourself that they're just casual partners who you don't care about and maybe you don't, but the fact remains that you need them for validation. you have relinqu…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:29 PM
9

she has a solid male role model in her life and standards and you don't exactly sound like a prize. let me save you some time: you're a dweeb trying too hard to "act like a douchebag," not an alpha. all you're doing is putting your insecurity on blast, bro.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 01:12 PM
8

if TRP is making you treat your mother poorly you really don't understand the material at all. that's some pussy shit.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 06:46 PM
22

let me save you a lot of time and angst: no one cares that you were cheated on. by airing your dirty laundry you'd only be putting yourself on blast as someone who can't keep a lid on his emotional shit. and another thing: people don't act in a vacuum, her friends and acquaintances will figure out what kind of person she is if they haven't already. just move on, live your best life, and hook up with other girls.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 06:38 PM
50

why should we care? he posted a (from the sound of it, unsolicited) personal attack and got personally attacked. if some chick told me she'd stumbled on my twitter and proceeded to attack my appearance id be pissed too. dude has the social intelligence of a marshmallow.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:48 AM
9

it's not about getting rid of the cum, it's about clearing the urethra of possible contaminents. my ex used to get hellacious uti's when she didn't (like, when she was drunk.) a woman who doesn't pee right after sex will learn right quick.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:28 PM
2

I admit that I don't portray myself in a sexual light. Mainly because I don't know how to do it. Too many rejections by women before I even get to that point that I just never learned that skill. Let's say a girl asks you out and she's grisly looking. 350 lb landwhale, smells bad, jacked up face... where does your mind go? you imagine yourself having sex with her and you think "eww no way." well, despite how unappealing she is, by asking you out she forced you to think of her sexually, however b…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 10:40 PM
2

you don't have to, that was just an example. but you must communicate your attraction or she's going to treat the interaction like a platonic conversation. women want to treat it like a platonic conversation because flirtation puts them on the spot. yes, attractive women almost always know they're attractive but they don't see you in a sexual light unless you portray yourself that way. if you don't let a woman know that you're attracted to her and force her to acknowledge it one way or another (…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:15 PM
6

the key to flirting is playfulness and lightheartedness. stay away from anything that could be too serious or too polarizing. don't talk about politics or get into the nitty-gritty of your job or anything like that. my buddy gets a lot of numbers by teasing women about their favorite sports teams. like (and I'm not doing this justice) "you're cute... well, for a Steelers fan. the only people I know who root for Pittsburgh are fat old guys." its complimentary (shows your interest, that you think …
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:47 PM
15

as long as you're bogged down hating yourself you're not going to move forward in your life. I know this advice is going to piss you off as a thirty-something grown man, but you need to start small. and for what it's worth, I'm a forty-something divorced guy who had to start over with my life in shambles a few years ago. your lack of flirting skills is holding you back more than your height. you need to practice before you get to the big leagues or you're going to be dating women with reason to …
/r/askTRP03/07/17 04:41 PM
1

why does their race and hair color make a difference?
/r/askTRP03/07/17 03:52 PM
1

in this day and age you don't "accidentally" get pregnant, you "throw caution to the wind and see what happens." your friend and his girl weren't trying to prevent a pregnancy, that much is for sure. but besides that, OP, you can't control other people. live your own life and let them live theirs even if you can see what's coming.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:43 AM
2

let it go. "teasing" her about it will read as fishing for information, and insecurity on your part.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:38 AM
1

you sound like you have anxiety, address that before having sex with strangers or the what-ifs will eat you alive.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 03:51 AM
2

this isn't about society putting women on a pedestal, it's about wanting us to tell you you're not paranoid and obsessive, which you are.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 03:43 AM
2

To me, going on dates comes off as more than casual. Hanging out is one thing, but dinner dates? You can't blame her for thinking you were heading for something more official. Even though you said you didn't want anything monogamous, you seem to have been giving her signs of greater interest. If I like a girl, I generally tell her subtley that I'm seeing other people (don't blurt it out.) I'd rather lose her right up front than have her bail after we'd had a good time together because she found …
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:54 PM
2

In 1-3 you were probably an obnoxious drunk and you probably lost all sense of personal boundaries. Don't be that guy next time. Learn to handle your alcohol. In 4, you broke basic MMF threesome etiquette. as the third person and not a member of the couple, you're to be as anonymous as possible. you're fulfilling a fantasy for them, not getting to know her. it looked as if you were trying to sneakily start a separate conversation with her.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 03:53 PM
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Your problem is that you're desperate. You're giving strange women who don't even know you exist power over your life. Let me guess, talking to women makes you nervous? Nervousness makes you act different than you would if you were cool and collected. People can detect it easily. Abundance mentality, my man. You have to get out there and talk to women and put the fear of rejection out of your head. So what if some girl rejects you? You're probably never going to see her again. And there are plen…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 03:45 PM
0

These answers would be all sorts of red flags for a woman. Never answer with a real number if she asks how much you make, just say you make enough. And some of these other answers ("quite a lot") quickly veer from AM into creepy territory.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:34 AM
7

Girls are attracted to smart guys, provided they are also attractive. intelligence is an attractive trait, but not so much that it overrides an ugly appearance or lack of confidence. You're not going to get ass just by being smart. Girls aren't going to seek you out while you sit in your room avoiding people because you're above it all. And anyway, you're confusing 'smart' with 'antisocial.' you can be whip smart and still party and be a fun person to be around. And this is one of those areas wh…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:23 AM
2

Oohh my bad I misread. Next.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:13 PM
7

You didn't do that much, bro. Making out doesn't mean anything. You probably could have fucked her but didn't go for it.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:06 PM
1

You said you'd get back to her and you haven't. She's waiting for your response. You're psyching yourself out needlessly and it's obvious you're already developing oneitis. Get a grip and text her before she nexts you.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:05 PM
9

She ghosted you. She's not interested.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:02 PM
1

Yeah. I think you took the "be an asshole" thing too literally and started veering into meanness territory a bit. You need to let her know she's appreciated sometimes or it's only a matter of time before she will look for that validation elsewhere. And, as you discovered, if you never show her appreciation her friends will work against you.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:01 PM
1

First off, you're 18. You have plenty of time to figure this out and no reason to be so angry. There are good people and shitty people in every group, and Christians are no different. Second, you're blaming your religion for the fact that you were a meek and scared around girls. Christian girls want alpha Christian men. You can be attractive and still live your religion and your morality, whatever that turns out to be. I think you need to monk mode a bit and figure out what you believe. Your lat…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:52 PM
4

He would have to pay for the DNA test (usually north of $200) and if she decides to file for CS he doesn't have a choice. "Not volunteering" is just posturing and she'll know it. If she really wants the kid he's screwed, and since he was in a LTR with her his dating prospects won't be so good either unless he skips town.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:41 PM
7

Really common rookie mistake... being cocky doesn't mean being mean. the confidence might lure her in but if you don't offer some comfort and validation she'll eventually leave. No one, not men or women, wants to hang around a person who only takes and never gives forever. Remember, asshole is code for a really confident, masculine guy not an actual prick. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:38 PM
1

Indeed, and that's pussy-worshipping beta bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:49 PM
1

Did you stutter or are you just backtracking? I believe your exact words were "you're not complete as a man if you're not slaying pussy."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:42 PM
1

It doesn't always take having a lot of sex to realize it's not worth the effort. Most self-declared MGTOW's are not alpha don't get me wrong, but the amount of sex they are or are not having has no bearing on that. It's their personalities and unchecked emotions that make them beta, not their sex lives. Again, the only thing women define is what they find attractive. That's it. They don't define what's alpha. Go read up on the philosophy of leadership, I think it would do you good.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:32 PM
1

Sexual strategy is about sex! Our goal here is to build confidence and get men laid by mimicking traits that women perceive as alpha, but finding success with women doesn't an alpha make. You'll know you've really internalized the sidebar when you realize just how unimportant sex really is, and just how shitty and not worth it the majority of the sex you'll have is. The sexual awareness we promote here is just one stepping-stone among many on the path to becoming a whole man.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:22 PM
2

Again, no. Plenty of alpha males would be considered, for lack of a better term, MGTOWs. The choice not to involve himself with women is just that: another choice. It has no bearing on how much of a man he is. Remember: women determine what is attractive but alphas are molded by circumstance. A good looking, charismatic guy can get plenty of ass but if he's not leading people in some capacity he's not an alpha. He's just a lucky beta who's time will pass if he doesnt put up the effort to define …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:09 PM
3

He can get pussy if he wants, but what defines him as alpha is his ability to lead. You must not have any alpha role models in your life and that's understandable, they are rare, but when you meet one you will realize how truly mundane sex becomes to him as he gets older. When it comes to you that easy there's nothing to it, you find better uses for your time. It's a release and not much else. You better yourself and your society, you have no time to be buying some young slut a drink. That's for…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 09:58 PM
5

No. Plenty of beta males still "slay pussy." The great majority of men are beta and many of them still do well for themselves sexually, they just do so by mimicking alpha traits. Alpha is being a leader. Alpha doesn't stop to take tabs on how much ass he's gotten. Alpha will forego sex if it's a distraction from his goals.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 09:45 PM
33

Nah. See this is the kind of beta male low-quality shit that has made this place go downhill. You think that if you read some articles and fuck an arbitrary number of women an arbitrary number of times that your "alpha?" top 10%? fat chance, OP. All you're doing is begging women for validation and letting yourself get threatened by men who choose not to. It's beta male supplication through and through. You've learned nothing, you're trying harder than ever. Manhood is defined by decision-making.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 09:27 PM
-2

Are you autistic?
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:11 PM
1

You're afraid of rejection and you're avoiding it because you're not desperate for friends. You want new friends, but you don't need them like you did when you were younger. I'm sure you got "rejected" by tons of people as a freshman, you just don't remember them because they didn't turn out to be important. It's tough to clear that hurdle.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:15 PM
15

Any time the night ends without a lay, it feels like a failure because of how she framed it. And guess who you're thinking about while you're in Vegas surrounded by beautiful girls? Guess who you're surreptitiously trying to impress? She got you good with that mental jiu jitsu bruh.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:12 PM
6

A very very attractive bartender is going to be swimming in options. She's surrounded by uninhibited guys throwing themselves at her all day and all night, many of them attractive. Why on earth would she put the time into pursuing you? What makes your flirtation more special than the dozens of other guys she's talked to in the last few hours? You're not edgy or mysterious, you're another customer who she's hoping to get a tip from. If you don't cut through the white noise and signal that you're …
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:09 PM
1

There aren't any tips and tricks for how to "force" yourself to make friends. It's a hierarchy of needs issue. When you were a new freshman you had to make friends because you had none. Now you've gotten comfortable. Just make yourself do the same thing you did before. Go to school events, join clubs, talk to people in your classes, be as friendly and social as possible and then pursue hanging out with those people once you meet them. Assume that you will always have to be the one to make the fi…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:00 PM
1

Your internal dialogue is too loud. You're expecting these girls to respect the time you've put into pursuing them because your time is valuable to you. But what the fuck do they care? Until you prove that you're special you're just another guy trying to fuck them. One of dozens. They don't owe you shit. If something better comes along they have no reason not to bail on you.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:41 PM
1

You can't change what you like, but what you like is pretty universally attractive. Generally when a guy has a specific type it's more niche than this... like, I only like girls with tattoo sleeves or I only like girls with glasses. There's always going to be a lot of competition for the sorts of girls you happen to be into and you know you have to stack up. That's half the battle right there, my friend. Maintain your abundance mentality, don't fall all over yourself when you meet a girl like th…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:55 PM
1

I could be getting "cucked" in the most literal of senses but it doesn't even raise my blood pressure one bit. Bro you can't be cucked by a girl you're casually fucking. You don't care what she does because you're not emotionally invested in her, you two aren't committed to each other in any way. I don't know if you're obtuse or trying to humblebrag, but what you have is a classic FWB/plate arrangement, nothing more. You're not better or more alpha than anyone else here, you just haven't caught …
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:27 PM
1

The only real difference is that your body only produces certain chemicals (melatonin comes to mind) while you're asleep in the dark. You might consider doing some research and supplementing if you feel you need to, but otherwise plenty of people sleep unconventional hours and are perfectly healthy.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:20 PM
3

Good luck to you then
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:29 PM
2

Go back to school for finance and get a better GPA.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:22 PM
0

You're a secretary with experience bring a security guard and a B-average. you're going to need more than that to get into finance.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:16 PM
1

If you expand the definition beyond just class (as TRP sometimes does) to include good looks, social skills, etc. then yes everyone has hypergamous urges whether they admit it or not. We all want as high status a mate as we can get, though that meaning is different for women and men. There are a lot of men who would drop their old ladies in a heartbeat for a legitimate chance at a younger, hotter girl. Branch swinging knows no gender. However, the technical definition of hypergamy is the act of …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:13 PM
1

I'm not going to lie... I don't see what the big deal is. It's natural to cover up other people you might have been seeing or into when you met the person you're with now. To me, she's just being polite... In fact it's endearing if you like the person. The fact that it bothers you so much is just evidence that you're over this relationship and over her. You don't have to justify yourself more than that. Most relationships run their course and end, just don't go sinking money into one next time u…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:48 PM
1

Oh OK I misunderstood. Well in that case there's nothing really holding you back, just save as much money as possible because there will always be unexpected costs to moving out and on your own. Give yourself plenty of monthly financial buffer and enough to put in savings.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:04 PM
3

Most people generally look miserable. Most people generally don't know how little control they have over their lives. You can become a slave to anything. Navigating a marriage is like navigating any other relationship or arrangement. if you don't have a backbone you're going to have a bad time. People are opportunistic and nobody, not even your lovely wife or girlfriend, is going to take it easy on you because you're too much of a pussy to deal.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:02 PM
2

Every bald guy thinks his head is somehow especially "weird" and that he can't pull off a shaved head. It's just cold feet. I've never seen a head so weird it couldn't be shaved.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:52 PM
1

You have two choices... 1) You can try to improve yourself, earn your partner's affection, set a good family dynamic, and be a father instead of being a beta pushover bitch. 2) You can bail and live in whatever accommodations you can afford with what's left of your salary after your child support payments.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:49 PM
4

You weren't their best option and something better came along
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:14 PM
1

First off, realize there's just as much bullshit in TRP communities as in the BP world, just a different brand. I've been with a lot of women and easily 2/3 of the field reports I see around here are poorly written erotica at best. A lot of guys use this as an outlet for their masculinity or to gain "a following" so you have to accept that varying degrees of exaggeration and "edginess" come with the territory. If you believe everything you see here you're no less gullible than a bluepilled beta.…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:57 PM
2

Been with girls that just get too sensitive and can't take it anymore. In my experience, this means she's about to come but isn't used to the sensation. I've had it happen a few times while going down on less experienced girls. If you calm her down and work her through it, you might just give her her first O which is fun af to be a part of. Sex education is fucking awful, at least here in the SW. You'd be amazed how many otherwise non-repressed young women just have no idea what kind of sensatio…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:21 AM
7

You're not their first choice of people to hang out with and something better came along.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:35 AM
2

When a girl really likes a guy she'll over think everything she says to him. If she feels "carefree" around you you're a throwaway. She'll use you as a way to predict how guys who matter to her will react.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:52 PM
5

She most definitely does not see you as a Chad. Quite the opposite. If she liked you she'd care about your opinion, you're just a source of validation for her.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:45 PM
1

If you need step by step instructions for how to be alpha in situations as specific as this, you're hopelessly beta.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:48 PM
3

Abundance mentality, your turn is over.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:52 PM
4

No. Keep being silent, leave it alone. She's not a person you need in your life one way or another and you know it, but you're letting her get in your head and you're hamstering. Let her wonder.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:43 PM
1

Statistically speaking they'll fuck you up. Working out will increase your appetite.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:28 PM
4

I'd go low contact... don't text her until maybe the day before to make sure you're still on for some kind of date or meet up.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:26 PM
1

I think I can boil this down to one key element, and it's not oneitis: you're not being treated the way you feel you ought to. you want your ex to grieve the loss of your dick and you want your friend to respect you enough to keep his paws off her. You want him to think of her getting fucked by you when he sees her, but he doesn't give a shit. you don't want these people to just move on as if you weren't in the picture the way they have. But human beings are opportunistic. Just as you can't expe…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:30 PM
6

You're lying to yourself that you don't care. You care a lot. You feel emasculated because you think you're better than your friend. Tell me this... would you want to be a loyal friend to someone who was always trying to AMOG you and who looked down on you and thought of you as a beta creep or would you want to show him up? He's showing you up and it's working. He's in your head. Sounds like you think you're hotter shit than you are. your dick will work just fine once you take your ex off that p…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:00 PM
3

If she's blindsided it's going to be difficult to keep things amicable. People don't like feeling like they've been misled or lied to, and if she thought your marriage was in good shape when in fact you wanted to end it that's how she's going to feel. Spell out your reasons as clearly as possible and don't leave any room for misinterpretation. You don't want the hassle of her trying to wiggle out of the divorce or make it up to you, but rather a clean cut and a new start. You might be able to co…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:44 PM
1

she's just agreeing and amplifying. Think of it as "that's something a girlfriend would do, not me" and not "if you made me your girlfriend I'd do that."
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:50 AM
1

Tinder and girls I smoked with
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:19 AM
2

Why? They're just people.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:43 PM
1

Whenever you feel confident in your ability to spend within your means and pay your balance on time. If overspending is a temptation for you, don't get one. No credit is better and easier to fix than bad credit.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:38 PM
46

You're probably not the only one, there's a lot of autists on here
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:58 PM
4

You may find those traits again or you may not, but remember that you made an informed decision to end the relationship. There's no going back, it's over. Go build a life that matters, don't rely on someone else to bring meaning to you.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:55 PM
1

I get it. I'm sticking to my original premise, but I understand yours. Party on, my man.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:35 AM
1

Whatever you say.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:31 AM
1

Unless you have phenomenal social skills you're going to end up looking like a sperg doing this.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:28 AM
2

I understand your point, I've been all over it. But OP is only going to Charlotte and Austin, and both those places are islands of northern transplants.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:27 AM
1

In Austin or Charlotte?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:11 AM
5

You're not going to get any "southern experience" in either of those cities, it's all northern transplants.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:43 AM
1

lmao yes, hygiene. she put a new one in.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:29 PM
1

Strike a good balance between discovering yourself socially, sexually, and romantically and doing what you're there for. Make new friends, have one night stands, find a professor who can be a mentor in your field, and get your heart stomped on. Learn what it means to relate to other people on a number of levels. You will regret it later on if you completely neglect your social life in favor of your grades or vice versa. Getting good grades and learning your shit doesn't mean never partying or go…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:10 PM
3

I have developed a real liking for 20 something women. No you haven't. Women in their 20s have always been attractive, they've been turning your head since you were a teenager. But now you're stuck in a validation trap and you think being picked by a twenty-something will assuage your fears and prove you've still got it. It won't. You're doing what a lot of middle age guys do and putting your self-worth in the irresponsible, immature hands of young girls. It's a recipe for you to get wrecked. If…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:11 PM
1

Traditional doctors tend to be pretty dismissive of back pain just because it's such a tough symptom to diagnose and usually isn't serious. I haven't had those issues myself but some of my buddies have. The chiro will give you a more thorough anaylsis and treatment plan.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:24 PM
2

I moved to a small town in the Southern US to stay with my brother who took me in, it's full of uneducated, bible loving, overweight rednecks though and it's really getting to me recently. I think literally every guy at my job is gay, or such a neck-beard, loser, cuck that it's just horrible being around people like that. The girls aren't much better, there are 3-4 cute girls, that I would probably flirt with if I wasn't tethered to my desk all day. But mostly everyone there is obese, at the end…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:12 PM
1

For the migraines look into 5-HTP For the back pain, have you tried a chiropractor? Medication won't do anything but mask the pain and probably make an addict out of you.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:48 PM
3

You'll always occasionally have that urge, it's biological, and you'll always find yourself turning your head to look at pretty girls but once you've had enough sex with enough people it becomes mechanical. Eventually you internalize the validation you get from a woman wanting you and you realize there are much better uses for your time than chasing her to a finish. Don't get me wrong, I still love having sex, but it's not nearly the priority it was when I was younger and unsure of myself and my…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:13 PM
1

Every guy is wired a little differently. Some guys can't go more than a year with the same woman and some happily have life-long relationships. It boils down to what gets you off and what you want out of life. Do you want the validation of knowing you're sleeping with lots of women or do you want a life partner? Or maybe a series of long-lived affairs. I've had several LTR's and they all ended for reasons other than faded desire. Honestly, just knowing that my girl is putting in effort to look g…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:10 PM
3

You're too deep in the jargon, man. Step away from the rule book. She's a person and it's natural to get frustrated when you care for someone who doesn't seem to reciprocate your affection. Don't get weird about it, don't apply another layer of rules, be kind and appreciative but not smothering or overbearing. If someone suddenly flipped a switch with you and went from distant to super affectionate you'd wonder wtf is up with this weirdo, who are they trying to be? I don't say this often but you…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:55 PM
5

the fuck?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:48 PM
4

"next time I see you in $CLOTHING, I will reward you by $ACTION" For the love of god don't say this kind of shit on the third date. You'll sound like a total fucking sperg. Just tell her her dress is sexy as you give her a massage.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:25 AM
1

Honestly? Most of those women are hired guns. There are agencies that specialize in "casting" parties. Escort agencies and some of the lower-end modeling agencies in major cities all do this. Sometimes those girls will bring their semi-pro friends. still for a fee, of course. I went to a few of those parties in Vegas and LA, so maybe in other cities it's different but those girls were definitely pros. And think about it. if you have that much money to lose, the last thing you want is to have ran…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:43 AM
1

Not shit tests. You made them uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:33 AM
26

If you're getting rejected like that, you're not top 10%. You might suspect that you are, but only women can determine your SMV. Work on your game.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:01 AM
1

She wants marriage and a family and she will find a guy who will give that to her. You let her know you're not that guy, so go get what you want out of life because nobody is going to tell you or wait for you to figure it out. There are tons of women out there why are you hung up on this one who was just holding you back anyway
/r/askTRP08/08/16 08:12 PM
38

He needs to get a rape kit ASAP if he wants to try and catch this guy. if there's still DNA in his system there won't be for long. If this guy is a habitual rapist it's important for the cops to have his DNA on file so that they can run it against their database or corroborate it with similar cases. He shouldn't be afraid of judgment in reporting it. The police deal with this kind of shit and worse every day. Your friend also must get an STD panel, embarrassing though it is. Unprotected gay sex …
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:58 PM
2

stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:28 PM
3

So she rejected you and you kept coming, hamstering to yourself that this made you some kind of irresistible asshole... can't fault her read on the situation. A guy with options would have better things to do than chasing girls who aren't interested.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 05:22 PM
1

if you feel threatened let the cops know.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:18 PM
6

wtf? no. sex boosts your testosterone if anything. you're psyching yourself out and thinking your boner away. the reason you're going soft is 100% fear. you're not thinking about fucking, you're thinking about "what if she gets pregnant this time?" either trust your gf and get over it or go back to condoms.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:16 PM
1

Does your girlfriend know you're not exclusive? Cheating is beta af. If you want to fuck around end the relationship.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:36 PM
7

I'm thinking this probably came off more butthurt than alpha. The movie wasn't necessarily a dead end, so that was a weird sword to fall on.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:32 PM
7

Move on. She still has feelings for her ex and is doing you a favor by rejecting your commitment. No use playing games planning out the length of time between texts. Just a simple "I get it, no hard feelings" and then don't contact her again.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:24 PM
2

Orientation is a great time to meet people, get a few numbers and facebook friends, etc. and then build interest and stay in touch throughout the summer. It's important to remember that girls are as desperate to meet people at college as you are, so they're going to be more open to getting to know you than probably any other time... no one wants to be the loner weirdo who didn't make any friends in their dorm. This is also one of the few times that I'd advise that it's OK to hit on girls who hav…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:18 PM
5

Do you have contacts in other cities? I would try and reach out to anyone you know outside your hometown to see they know of anyone who is hiring. I'd also look into some kind of counseling to work through the abuse you suffered... clearly it's affecting you profoundly.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 07:07 PM
1

You made yourself sound really possessive and butthurt.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 07:03 PM
14

They aren't interested and are letting you down gently.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 06:05 PM
2

My take on it is you missed your chance.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:05 PM
-1

Most approaches end in rejection anyway.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:46 PM
-4

Set yourself apart while also acknowledging that she probably gets a lot of compliments. "must be annoying to have to shoo away losers all day, huh."
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:13 PM
3

Part of being successful with women is knowing a bad bet when you see one. Shit testing assumes attraction has been established, and it's not usually nasty or mean-spirited. Let this one go, man.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:46 AM
2

Sounds like she's mocking you. Ignore her, don't pursue. The best case scenario that could possibly come out of that is a huge headache for you.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:39 AM
2

If you were a narcissist you wouldn't have this degree of self-awareness. I think your problem is that you're trying too hard to appear a certain way to certain people, especially girls. You're putting on a show in your own mind but it's forgettable for your audience. Stop giving so much of a shit... It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:36 AM
1

Sounds like she feels you're being distant and is applying some dread. Making her wonder and saying as little as possible goes a long way but there's a limit... you might need to pull her in with some comfort.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 12:52 AM
5

I don't know anyone who goes to the bar to play pool after work. Don't get me wrong, it sounds great in theory, but at least where I live the bar is just a bunch of people on their phones. If I'm going to do that I'd rather not overpay for alcohol.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:11 PM
7

According to the actual study its 14% of men and 16% of women, and that number roughly doubled for men and tripled for women since the 60's.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 07:54 PM
5

Who wants to leave the house anymore? I can pick up a sixer of any craft beer I want and have all the media and conversation in the world at my fingertips. To try and get laid by some chick as disinterested in being out as me? Meh.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 07:14 PM
2

if "liberal hipster faggots" are a career concern for you you're in the wrong field. Period.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 02:51 PM
5

she's projecting her insecurities onto your ex. Was your ex prettier than her? more fit? more successful? more clever? she's probably looking at your ex as a manifestation of something she lacks, and assuming it's something you'll go looking for. Be stern. "Whatsherface will never affect our relationship, I don't miss her or think about her at all. But your constant jealousy just might."
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:30 PM
19

Be evasive or be honest, but don't lie. Leading a girl on to think you're exclusive when you're not won't get you the results you want. There's no reason to get emotions involved unnecessarily, I learned the hard way it'll backfire. And if she can't deal with it and leaves no big deal, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:50 AM
4

Women have frames too, and they're instinctually better at utilizing them than men are. A woman naturally knows how to bring you into her frame, and it'll work 99% of the time if you don't know what she's doing. That's how guys get roped into becoming providers. Why do you think we talk about it so much? It's something that most men have to learn.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:23 PM
3

There's no such thing as 'alpha' and 'beta' hobbies. Do what you want, man, whatever helps you unwind, so long as you do it in moderation. Sounds like you've got your shit together.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:20 PM
2

You seem really high on this idea of bathroom stall sex, so do it. That's not exactly the kind of activity that you need an established rapport with someone to do.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 07:20 PM
11

Either you're misinterpreting her or she played a mean joke on you. She's not interested either way.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:50 PM
1

Live and learn, mate. Some guys prefer LTR's and some prefer casual hookups. It's not going to work out with this girl but if you want a LTR focus on finding a good woman when you get back home.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:24 PM
4

No one here can tell you when she'll decide to fuck you but it seems like you're moving in the right direction. She's young and hesitant, and there's no magic pua trick that'll force her to put out before she wants to. As far as whether or not you should next, that's up to you. Is the relationship satisfying in other ways or is the lack of PiV a deal-breaker? Do you have better odds with other girls? Only you can decide that. But since you're only 16, I don't think you should get too invested in…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:50 PM
4

Her sexual needs? Bruh she has access to his billions she can hop on a solid gold vibrator and cry into wads of hundreds if she wants. And she's mostly off the hook for having to fuck him since he probably doesn't have it in him to have sex all that often, if at all. That's winning the trophy wife lottery right there. And once he dies she'll have access to those billions and sexual freedom. It's a morbid bet, but one women are more than willing to make. Look at Anna Nicole.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:38 PM
1

Work on your insecurity, women smell that shit. You got embarrassed and gave her all the power.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:48 PM
3

"I don't want anything serious" will suffice, then NC. No need to explain yourself more than that. But seriously seeing her 6 times/week is a lot, mate. Sounds like she thought you were in a relationship because you were acting like it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 09:32 PM
6

If she does it's a red flag for both of you. Rekindling an old flame sounds good in theory but making it into a LTR is usually a really, really bad idea. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 09:24 PM
1

Has she gained weight or do you just want her to be as proactive as you are? If it's the former is gently mention that it looks like she's gained a few lbs and ask if shed like to join you for some workouts. If it's the latter maybe suggest doing some kind of fitness challenge (training for a 5k?) or team sport together to give her a taste for it. You want to help her form a positive mindset around fitness so don't be mean-spirited.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 09:20 PM
2

You blew it homie.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 09:15 PM
3

'Silly' isn't an insult at all. They're telling you they find you charming but don't take you too seriously, all while making themselves look cute and playful to you. It's girl-game.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:27 PM
4

If she's doesn't want to lose it to you she won't. That's her choice to make, isn't it? You have no obligation to protect this girl's honor or make sure she saves herself for someone special or whatever. If she wants to fuck someone casually and you're too noble to be her first she's just gonna find someone else. In my experience women want to lose their v-cards and be done with it just as much as guys do.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:43 PM
1

Or I'm realistic. Guys who are awkward and haven't fully internalized TRP are more likely to get a rape accusation than pull it off correctly.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:55 PM
0

She is already moaning and having a good time, so she hardly notices the extra touching and is not bothered. Over time this addition to eating out becomes normal to her and pressure can increase. Jesus dude have you ever even done ass play before? Because that's not how it works, real life isn't porn. the clit and the asshole are two totally different things. Would you notice if a chick started rubbing your asshole while sucking you off? Because what you're talking about is pretty analogous to t…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:40 PM
4

Try supplementing magnesium before you get on a SSRI. most people are deficient, and it's very calming.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:25 PM
5

OK, so you realize you have a problem and you're not living your life in a way that makes you happy and your answer is to wallow some more? Get your shit together, man. You're obviously a smart dude with friends who care about him, that puts you miles ahead of most guys. If going out to meet chicks isn't doing it for you then don't do it. Focus on yourself for a while and find pursuits that make you happy and enrich your life. Girls will come and go regardless, you have to be your own rock with …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:32 PM
1

There are a lot of guys like you who want some kind of shortcut to developing social skills without leaving the house or changing their lifestyle. There isn't. You just have to go out and surround yourself with people until you stop being nervous. Ask your housemates if they know any good parties, join clubs, talk to people in your classes, whatever. You're in college FFS it's never going to be that easy for you to meet people ever again.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:48 PM
3

Most of the hot girls you meet in Vegas just hanging around clubs and parties are escorts. The more flirtatious she is, the more likely this is the case. That's how they pick up business: you'll get them to your door and be horny af ready to go and they'll start negotiating a price. Now, if you ask me, it's incredibly safe and convenient knowing that their pros, but it's good to know how it is going in and be ready to part with your money.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:21 PM
1

You will lose weight but you will struggle to put on muscle or even make it through a workout.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 10:59 PM
0

You're attracted to crazy and insecure because crazy and insecure is spontaneous and adventurous and fun. You take the good with the bad.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:20 PM
1

Start with psychoanalysis, then CBT to maximize effectiveness.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:52 PM
1

Get yourself off an hour or so before you go out or have a girl over. This will clear your head also. And don't drink too much.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:49 PM
1

Yeah but that doesn't mean shit. There's a huge difference between someone who has three plates in a year and someone who goes out every night and only manages three ONS'. It's impossible to know who's top 20% because you can't quantify effort.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:10 PM
3

lmao bro nobody's defending her I'm sure you're the only one who even read the post. We. Don't. Care. You're getting all worked up because something some woman said on the internet hurt your feels. Get a grip.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:07 PM
3

It's an internet forum. Go get some fresh air if it bothers you so much you're acting beta and emotional as fuck.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:04 PM
8

Be curt and polite with her if she tries to get in touch with you, but don't contact or pursue her she's obviously not in a good headspace. Doesn't sound like a big deal to me, just a fling that didn't work out.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 08:59 PM
6

Why do you give a shit? Stop being so butthurt, it's pathetic. You got called out, move on.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 08:55 PM
2

If you lie down with dogs you wake up with fleas, my man.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 11:41 PM
2

In this context shame is a wasteful emotion. Stop caring about what you used to be like because nobody around you gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:23 PM
1

My brother joined the military and had a tough time transitioning back after his tour ended. He came out with a lot of valuable skills but some employers are hesitant to hire veterans (so he says,) even though it's illegal. And if you have a tough time focusing and putting in 40 hours/week of grind you'll probably hate enlisted life. It's all about discipline and in the field there are long, boring stretches of having to be alert doing nothing. I think maybe a better route for you would be to ta…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:11 PM
1

The key thing to remember is that the world is full of thirsty guys. Girls know that most guys will do anything to fuck them, so don't be that guy. Be the guy with options. Find common ground and mutual interests, but don't dwell on them so long that the conversation veers into consistently nonsexual territory: "you know you're probably the most beautiful girl I've ever talked about the legend of Zelda with. Like... hot as fuck but still a badass."
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:37 PM
1

Definitely, she wants to feel desired but she also wants to feel safe. Push and then fall back, rinse, repeat. Sounds like you're doing a good job of not coming off thirsty. Happy sexing, my dude
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:26 PM
1

If you want more be open and honest about your intentions (you think she's hot and want to fuck her) but play the part of the respectful guy. Push without looking like you're pushing, you dig? See how far she'll let you go but make it clear that you'll stop if she says so and she'll be putty in your hands... "I know this is a big step, but your body is so perfect I can't help myself. I want to see how hard you can come." if she didn't want you she wouldn't have invited you to stay the night. She…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:01 PM
1

I think people can tell when you're doing something just to impress women, but yeah it's weird. I had an ex (we were only together briefly, thank god) who's whole life revolved around who she was dating and what guys were checking her out and it was exhausting... she didn't have any hobbies and she never did anything for herself, everything was about how she looked doing it. So I can see how women would be turned off by that too, when guys do everything with the end goal of looking alpha and get…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:39 PM
2

You can't put so much stock in what women or anyone thinks, you're letting them control you just by going about their lives and ignoring you. Do you want to live your life on an emotional hairtrigger where a sniff of rejection sends you into a tailspin? Because that's what you're doing bruv. Women were more interested in me when I stopped spending every waking minute obsessing over them and just did what I wanted to do. Its kind of ironic actually. People know when you're insecure and trying too…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:27 PM
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