I broke up with my GF about 3 months ago. About 4 weeks after I met a couple of women at the same time and slept with them both quickly. They're both attractive (as was my GF), but only about 10% of my matches are attractive on Tinder. I've met all of these women exclusively through online dating. I mention attractiveness because I do feel a scarcity when it comes to attractive women.

Anyway, been having a good time rotating these two women. I started hitting the gym near my break up too and have been going back to salsa. I even carried on pursuing other women, though did start to feel a little burned out.

Recently these two chicks have lost interest. One because she realised I wasn't going to buy her shit, and the other because she's on a CC rampage and found a better dick. She bailed on plans to see each other on Friday so I've dropped her.

I still have matches on Tinder, but I feel like I need to learn to overcome this feeling of "lack" when I don't have pussy in my life. I've started to get angry and a little needy. I've promised myself I will never chase a woman again, but the feeling is still there and I don't know how the fuck to overcome it.

I've got a one-way to Thailand in Oct and will be quitting my programming job and getting a remote one to keep me afloat while I travel. I should probably prepare for that, but I can't stop focusing on improving my dating life (30 late bloomer and only started dating 2 years ago).

Do you think it would be useful/advisable to stop dating for a while? Stop pursuing chicks online and just get used to my life without sex? I went through a 5-year dry period and I don't ever want to return to that state of mind.