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All good. It can a problem, that's why I don't do it often. I included it because I opened more sets when I was a little looser after drinking. I guess I meant I should try to open up as much as I did this weekend without drinking.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:34 AM
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I definitely don't need some dude on Reddit analyzing my drinking habits. I go out solo often and don't drink at all. The real purpose of the night was to go out with friends I hadn't seen in a few months and get drunk. So that's what I did, and I worked on game a little bit also. Thanks for your unsolicited advice regarding drinking, and your kudos on the evening.
/r/seduction23/12/16 02:44 AM
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A lot of religious people do a lot of things they aren't supposed to. She may have been, but it really didn't feel like it. She told me she was Mormon probably about 15 minutes before she "introduced" me. So it was either a long drawn out joke, or she was laying the groundwork to see how I would react. Regardless it was a good night and I was probably a little too popped to close anyone at that point. Edit: spelling
/r/seduction22/12/16 09:19 PM
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I don't think there is any harm in asking. Maybe offer instead of ask, sometimes being direct is good. "I'd like to hang out sometime, let's do [whatever] . Does next Monday work?" Or you can give a couple of days, "... let's do [whatever] . I am free next Monday and Wednesday." If she is interested she can surely find some time on one of two weekdays... if she honestly can't find time, she will probably suggest a different day that will work. If she isn't interested she will just say no. Or she…
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:28 PM
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If you work with her you should ask her out in person. There is sort of a hierarchy, and you should use the option as high up the list as possible given your circumstances with any girl. In person > Phone call > Text > Chat / PM. If you see the girl regularly in person, you need to ask her out in person. If she says yes, get her phone number and text for logistics (time / place / etc). You don't want to be just another guy chasing her around on social media.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:10 PM
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How about a good way to keep it light, be yourself, and remain confident moving forward? Vs over analyzing psyching myself out.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:53 PM
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Don't read the pick up shit then (outer game). Read the self improvement stuff (inner game).
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:52 PM
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I'm an introvert. I try to talk to as many people as possible. That does not make me extroverted, I am who I am. You are using your unique set of limitations as an EXCUSE. We all have a unique set of limitations. I would imagine that if you are a decent looking guy and you are autistic, there are probably decent looking women who are also autistic. You would both have a lot of issues that are unique to people that have autism. Find an autism support group, or charity. And you won't be the only d…
/r/seduction02/12/16 07:55 AM
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So to ensure you weren't trolling, I looked at your post history. If your only limitations are autism, no job, no social circle; then yes this post would apply to you. You can read. You can interact with people, and you can improve. Seems that you are looking for all of your circumstances to have occurred before AND be documented as a success story in order to ensure that you will be able to complete your mission. We all have our own limitations. Some of the people in this sub have likely endure…
/r/seduction02/12/16 07:03 AM
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I'm sure your condition is far worse than mine, but I had a pretty high amount of white heads always growing up. I still got them into my late 20s, to the point where it was everywhere. I don't have scarring, but when I started drinking a lot of water and only 1 or 2 sodas a week (typically 8 oz Red Bull's when I am out since I don't drink alcohol), it is 99% gone. I don't have a stringent food diet, I don't over eat, but don't eat really healthy. I get a small one once in a great while but that…
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:58 PM
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To the people that commented. You guys are awesome. OP for the ghost post was very depressed, someone told him to keep jerking cuz he would never get anywhere. There is hope. It is a process. It does take work. It does take time. But anyone who wants to get better can by just putting in the work and time. OP needs positivity, as "beta" or "nice guy" as that may be right now, OP needs to know that it is possible. We all needed to hear some uplifting shit, that's how we found the community or the …
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:40 PM
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Some chick just told me she couldn't go out with me again because her family won't let her date our side of her religion. She is from Columbia, only been in the states 8 months. So this in fact may be true. Whether it is or not, she said she could be friends. I told her I wasn't interested in being friends with girls I like. I guess that made my intentions pretty clear, in a not creepy way. She qualified herself after, and continued to text. So it might just be some friction to get through. But …
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:46 PM
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I think you should work on talking to girls with your own personality, rather than a range of theories.
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:42 PM
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Sent you a PM regarding you reply to my original post. Also, this guide has invaluable information on it. Skip down to the links in the blue box. http://web.archive.org/web/20131019190413/http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:15 PM
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Don't be a dick. Everyone in this sub was unhappy with themselves at one point. A lot of us still aren't where we want to be, including myself. But we are ALL here to improve on something we aren't / weren't good at. OP, read the side bar. Read Models by Mark Manson. Start talking to strangers, start with guys if you have to. That might improve your social circle. Find hobbies (sports, photography, acting class, yoga, hiking, anything). Go to the gym (whether you are attractive already or not). …
/r/seduction01/12/16 06:52 PM
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Good job man. I'm glad you read the post. I can tell she isn't into me. I'm moving forward. It is the fact that it feels like it set me back that I was asking for advice on.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:18 PM
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I think here is fine, or ask seddit. But everyone will give you the same answer. When you text stuff like that, it appears you are hiding behind the comfort of a phone. Should be flirting / escalating in person. I will banter with a chick via text if she initiates the convo, otherwise just keep texts for planning meet ups. Same disclaimer applies :)
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:28 AM
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From my ex, who I still talk to: No winky faces, period lol. From the sub, text for logistics only. Game is for in person interactions. Disclaimer: out of the game 5 years for two LTRs, slowly climbing back in.
/r/seduction30/11/16 06:11 AM
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I'm not concerned about why she flaked. She flaked, I get it. I feel like it sent me back, like I had built up confidence and it's gone now. Like the reason I didn't have confidence is because I can't maintain interest. And I didn't maintain interest. It's like I proved to myself my own fears / insecurities are valid. I appreciate the responses. Going to keep working at improving myself and see what happens moving forward. Thnx guys.
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:43 AM
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It's not that I'm hung up. I'm fine moving forward. Because the date went well, and she continued contact, I feel like I fucked up somewhere. The confidence I had going into the situation with this girl is gone. Ego shot I guess. Feels like I am back to where I started or worse. Can't get the "frame" back.
/r/seduction30/11/16 04:49 AM
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I think that would be a better way of putting it in the TRP thread. A lot of how it is described makes it seem a little darker.
/r/seduction17/11/16 10:54 PM
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Can't figure out what STEM means. Not in acronyms. Anyone?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:50 PM
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I agree. I am good looking, successful in employment, make 6 figures. I have been working out and look a lot better than I did 2 months ago. I have been getting physical attention from women lately. My point with that is, I am getting the validation I thought I needed to be successful. But I still can't get frequent dates, mostly because I don't pull the trigger. Some friends know I am not successful with dating and prod me towards tinder (I don't even have FB, so it's not even an option). These…
/r/seduction17/11/16 05:12 PM
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We kissed, we didn't make out. Sort of a mechanical good bye from us both. There was a lot of kino from both of us, specifically in the car to and from the venue. Definitely need to escalate more if date 2 comes around. I hear what you are saying. I should have called her on flake 1. She seemed into me and continued to text after the initial flake. I guess I got a little comfortable with the situation and let my guard down.
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:27 PM
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Delivery is most important. Text messaging doesn't have facial expression or vocal inflection, so it is easier to say something wrong. I would say a line like that is better in person, because it's easier to make light of. Might feel heavy in a text.
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:50 PM
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You don't need to know unless she wants you to know. She is fair game unless you know the BF, and you are friends with the BF. Ask for what you want from her (date, phone number etc). Possible scenarios after asking for what you want: She has a BF she is in love with, you don't get the number. She has a BF, but is interested in you. Gives you number. She is single. Doesn't give you number. She is single. Gives you number. If I did my math right you have a 50/50 shot of getting what you want whet…
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:06 AM
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I get told similar things, and have 0 self confidence. I'm working on it. Been in the gym a lot lately. Trying to go out solo and initiate interactions. I wouldn't say anyone has ever told me outright I am super good looking. But I often get the "presence" comment when I ask why people are stand offish with me. I think it really boils down to incongruence. You know how to maintain, groom and hold yourself. But you get stuck in your head on your insecurities. You display confidence visually, but …
/r/seduction11/11/16 03:48 PM
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She seems interested. I'd ask her out, don't ask if she has a bf. She either does, and will tell you when you ask her out; or she does, but you show more confidence than he so she goes out with you; or she doesn't have one. No reason to ask. Edit: any girl is fair game until there is a ring on her finger. And even then she is still fair game if you wanna play that game (personally I do not).
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:13 PM
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Good job dude. I don't know why there is so much hate on this thread. This is a support community. You can choose what you believe, but dismissing someone because you are insecure in your self is juvenile. Keep up the good work bro. F@$& the haters. Seal that deal.
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:58 PM
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Went out with a married chick twice. Second date she told me she was going to file for divorce. Deleted all of her shit and blocked her. Seems exciting, not worth it.
/r/seduction07/11/16 02:53 PM
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Or stay later...
/r/seduction07/11/16 02:36 PM
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I may have accidentally deleted some ones comment. Not intentional if I did. Sorry!
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:45 PM
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Word. I am usually decent at gaming chicks (few and far between, but when it happens I'm decent). There was an immediate chemistry with this one, on both sides. For some reason that made it harder for me. Makes me over think every word lol. Thanks for the good words man. A lot of what you said will be good future thought.
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:45 PM
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I'm on board with that. No bad vibes here really. Just didn't know if a take away might be good so she doesn't leave me hanging in the future.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:20 PM
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Perfect advice. Thanks bro. Now, as I was reading your comment. Wha La she texts. I texted her yesterday at 2 PM. It's 11:30 today now. I had told myself yesterday, that if she didn't text yesterday, and texts me today I was going to tell her I made other plans since I didn't hear back. Good move? Or maintain original plans?
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:31 PM
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Awesome dude. I am also in the course of turning shit around. I have been a binge drinking alcoholic for my entire adult (and adolescent) life. I quit drinking for two years 2013-2015. Picked it back up again and shit got crazy. Now, no booze for two months. Just quit cigs 4 days ago, going strong though. About 2 weeks of no fap, and about a month in the gym daily. I feel better, look better. I've asked two chicks out. Asking anyone out is huge for me. Two in a month is a lot (trying to change t…
/r/seduction04/11/16 08:49 PM
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Wasn't looking for that much negativity. But thanks for the response. I'll probably just have her buy next time ;)
/r/seduction04/11/16 06:14 PM
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Fapping Cigs Booze Action: Approach at least 1 female weekly and ask for number. Disclaimer: I have already started this about a week ago, now I have a reason to make it last a month. Edit: added action
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 05:24 PM
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Ok. I typically play the reciprocate game. You buy something, I'll buy something. Last date, I just paid for everything with the chick. She works in a grocery store, she knows I make money, have a brand new car etc. I know we should reciprocate, I just feel bad making her pay. I got that smile goodnight too btw. Lol. Thoughts on how to approach that?
/r/seduction04/11/16 04:55 PM
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You got it mate.
/r/seduction04/11/16 03:58 PM
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Disclaimer: out of the game for 5 years. Slowly working my way back in. How I remember: changing venue is good, especially if she complies. if she does not comply, it isn't necessarily a rejection she may be out with friends etc. you want to lead the interaction, leave while you are ahead. Don't be too available. I have been just texting my name (one word text) to girls I have got numbers from. I typically do it within an hour of getting the number. This gives them the opportunity to display the…
/r/seduction04/11/16 03:47 PM
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Ok update, and response to the previous comment. So she has been pretty quick to respond to my texts, just not this one. She did text back with the info and a pretty nice kiss emoji. Should be good to go. In response, I hadn't really thought about the risk of a chick giving out her address, until after I asked. But it did cross my mind after I sent the text, and you are definitely right. Part of the problem is I am in a super small town, so to meet anywhere worth going is an hour. So when I had …
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:04 PM
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So In response to my previous comment. I went to the taco shop where the girl works last night. She seemed happy to see me, but I got a little nervous. Broke eye contact. We had made plans. So to confirm if I have fucked up, I sent a text today asking for her address to pick her up tomorrow night for the concert. No response atm. I'll post again if that changes. Smh😔
/r/seduction28/10/16 05:08 PM
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I'm in your boat man. I've been working on it. I have been going out solo to get out of my box. I typically go to EDM shows. I get decent reception on the dance floor. But going out solo is completely new to me. I've done it 3 times this month and interactions have gotten better each time. Fingers crossed, taking some chick I met to a show this weekend. All I had to do was ask her if she wanted to go. She didn't hesitate, and said yes. Trying not to fuck up the text game before Saturday rolls ar…
/r/seduction26/10/16 06:13 PM
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