To the throwaway account whose post ghosted, and anyone else who thinks there is no hope.

miserablethrowaway2 · 2016-12-01T19:36:01+00:00

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Murfdigidy · 2016-12-01T20:58:01+00:00

Good advice, I think of seduction just like I think of my exercise... It's a lifetime not a diet or fad. Meaning people who stick with exercise see results just like those who stick with seduction. At 25 I was a Virgin and skinny fat. I was tall, good looking but your typical beta loser with girls. I was even friends with everyone but because I was such a beta nice guy girls passed me over constantly.

Now at 35 I'm in the best shape of my life, I curl 50lb dumbells and can bench over 200lbs. It took me 5 years to go from skinny fat to the best shape of my life. Same with seduction, at 27 i began to study and read stuff on internet, I was in a deep depression where I literally cried over girls that I liked, watching those same girls date other men over me that I couldn't see why, i was so depressed because I always thought if myself as a social funny guy with great qualities, so why were these girls always passing on me. It was so demoralizing.

I stuck with it, read more, watched more, practiced more and just like i went from curling 35lb dumbells to 50 I started seeing tons of girls give me more attention as I gained more confidence.

Confidence is the #1 aphrodisiac for all women, but just like exercise gaining confidence takes time and work. It's fall get back up, fall get back up. Before you know it 3 years later you look back and are like holy f this shits actually working.

Nowadays everyone wants a quick fix... Learn to get women in a weekend. NOPE, just like those stupid diet fads that claim you can lose 25 pounds in a week its Bullshit. This is work. I didn't curl 50 pounds because I skipped work outs, I just kept going and didn't stop. Same in seduction, I didn't stop. And even though I'm in an LTR with a 5'10 beautiful Swedish blonde I still flirt I still work on my game because seduction like exercise is a lifestyle not a fad.

Disclaimer: I say none of this to brag because quite frankly who cares you don't know me from a hole on the wall. The reason I say what I say is because I saw where I was and see where I am today and I want to give guys down on their luck a reason to say I can do this too!

Booster93 · 2016-12-01T21:24:31+00:00

Get good before you worry about the scoreboard. max your stats out.

Then socioeconomics play a huge factor as well, people never talk about this. You have to have money to have a place to throw parties. We live in the most superficial reality. were if you were unprepared your fucked till you force it, people dont want another "dick" in the room / their circle just to fuck their girls.

The problem is for a lot of us from age 10 to 20 you were playing video games everyday and watching movies. Instead of building social status and friends , doing something extracurricular ,getting good grades, working out and getting comfortable and understanding girls in HS and earlier stages of life. but dudes were so thats 10 years of doing all the things and investing time in that area and aspect of life. Its like being mad because your'e not a MLB player but you never spent a day playing baseball, but you want to tryout for a team and its just not going to happen until you put that time in. Like if We knew what we knew now we wouldnt give a fuck about games or all the useless shit that we chose to waste time on. Not too many guys that actually fuck girls all day are on here looking for that one tip to get them over the line, that doesnt even sound right. most of us are clueless. its your body, a ton of trial and error, forcing yourslef out there ,location and your socioeconomic status. You can control your body and effort and time put in to social things.

Aeon199 · 2016-12-02T06:32:11+00:00

What if a guy is autistic, past 30 with no experience, can barely even have a job, can't handle a social circle?

Could anything help this theoretical guy get women? Apart from the "no experience with women", those are his limitations, he is broken and just has to accept poor social skills and a poor ability to handle life in general.

Otherwise he is average looking and has a couple of basic hobbies.

Xanarxses · 2016-12-02T18:38:56+00:00

Yeah I've been trying to convince myself back into this for the past couple of weeks. Just lurking here. Not really working. I'd say I'm more resistant to buying into this PUA shit than I was 2 or 3 months ago.

This shit requires optimism and all that. Like Louis CK says, "You have to be stupid to be single"

I mean I'm only 20 but I already feel like I have two options for my future sex life. A monk or a wanker. And I'd rather be a monk. Feel bad enough without PMO.

youdonknome · 2016-12-01T21:40:06+00:00

To the people that commented. You guys are awesome. OP for the ghost post was very depressed, someone told him to keep jerking cuz he would never get anywhere.

There is hope. It is a process. It does take work. It does take time. But anyone who wants to get better can by just putting in the work and time. OP needs positivity, as "beta" or "nice guy" as that may be right now, OP needs to know that it is possible. We all needed to hear some uplifting shit, that's how we found the community or the sub.

So cheers to the positivity, and do one thing to make yourself better today.

Title	To the throwaway account whose post ghosted, and anyone else who thinks there is no hope.
Author	youdonknome
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	December 1, 2016 7:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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