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| 2 | How to deal with these thoughts and feelings?I’ve thought about it, but it seems so weird for me to go to therapy. It is quite taboo and something unheard of where I live.. i’m not sure where to start | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with these thoughts and feelings?I think it stems from me being a late bloomer on most aspects of my life. I’ve graduated and made my first good money at the age of 25, whereas friends have been working fulltime since the age of 18. I’ve played games and didn’t work out, when my friends were after girls and played a team sport I’ve always done something else in comparison to my surroundings. I was and still am the more nerdy person, I love computers and tech, whereas my surroundings mostly consists out of physical labor jobs (n… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/23 08:42 PM |
| 55 | Low SMV women have the same mentality as Beta malesLol. This sub is just a shell of what it used to be. You’re not a high SMV male when you’re fucking obese, smelly bitches that have a mold infested pussy. I’d rather chop my dick off than ever touch these women. Get yourself together my man. You can have normal looking Fwb’s. You’re the reason such girls exist in the first place. EVEN when they’re OBESE and have no hygiene they’re getting laid. This is what’s fundamentally wrong with men. Too thirsty and no standards. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/23 11:42 AM |
| 29 | How much easier does money make it?Ehh I have been a broke student for the past 4 years. I can say that money doesn’t play a role if your game and looks are good. You don’t need a place, even though it makes everything incredibly easier and more comfortable for both. My backseats still have cum stains and I’ve had girls pay hotels for me. Seems like you can’t manage to escalate sexually. I bet some of those 15 girls had a place of their own or would be able to invite you over to their parents house. Now that I have a fulltime job… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/23 09:39 PM |
| 19 | I'm dating a girl. I see no point in relationshipsYou just haven’t met a quality woman. They ARE out there, but extremely scarce. Most guys LTR these kind of women pretty fast. I thought all women were trash too, never once I was interested in a LTR until I recently dates this very feminine, pretty looking girl that always lets me know what she’s doing WITHOUT me even asking for it. I’ve never seen this with a girl. Also is not worried about money, pays for me and picks me up, if I want her to do so. These women love the type of dudes that are … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/22 10:27 AM |
| 0 | LTR admits to lies and secretsSo after 1.5yrs into the LTR you discover the deeper secrets? Why not earlier | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with this one?Thanks bro. These stages of being with a girl is something I haven’t really experienced yet. Still learning as always. | /r/newTRP | 02/10/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with this one?Yeah it has gotten to the point where you could say it is getting more serious. She was quite agitated when she found out that a girl that works where she works was a girl I had slept with, lol. Guessing that was a sign of that she has some jealousy. I thought why not give it a shot. It’s a fun girl to be with. Would you say that she’s withdrawing it because it has gotten more serious? | /r/newTRP | 02/10/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Gameplan for newbies by a newbie :)Sorry but this is horrible. People aren’t willing to listen to bullshit stories from strangers out of the blue unless you’re at a bar or club. Just fucking walk up to her and say something about her looks, ask a few general questions and close with asking a number. I love TRP, it has changed my life for the better, but I’m happy to say that I barely read any posts anymore and just live my life to the fullest. When I do read a post, it seems that the sub has gone way downhill. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I hated the Better Call Saul finale. So I've changed it. Get "Adam's cut", a much better version, without the white knighting.Coudn’t have anything on me without looking up my profile couldn’t you. The ratio on your post says enough. It’s not only my opinion. Anyway, have a nice week | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/22 07:14 AM |
| 20 | I hated the Better Call Saul finale. So I've changed it. Get "Adam's cut", a much better version, without the white knighting.Far gone from its origins sadly enough | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 6 | You're only fooling yourself - smoking w**d/drugs are the shittiest way to lose frame. Period.Can confirm, I’m one of his plates | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | MINDF*CK - To change your life, change your perspective (Guide to the world we live in)It depends on the project. It’s either hacking or securing and engineering (cloud) network infrastructures | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 6 | MINDF*CK - To change your life, change your perspective (Guide to the world we live in)Yeah. I needed this one. Sometimes I let myself go and start to give too much attention, or become too emotional (mostly when drunk). It is a continuous grind. Just sucks I’m pretty scarce rn during the holiday. I refuse to install dating apps ever again so I HAVE to force myself to approach girls irl, so it gets kind of lonely. However realizing I got accepted into a big 4 company within their cyber risk team after months of grinding, I’m happy that I always put the grind over women, especially… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/22 04:21 PM |
| – | Any advice for someone who has never been in a relationship?Exactly that! Sadly the post has been closed. My relationships as FWBs usually lasts around 2-3 months. Im just trying to realize why. The only things I can come up with is getting too “needy” by wanting to talk all day, or simply because I tend to drink much with friends and start drunk texting. Next to that I’m currently working hard to understand myself better when it comes to trust issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:53 PM |
| – | Any advice for someone who has never been in a relationship?Maybe I was not explicit enough. During the ages of 16-20 I sucked with women and was insanely insecure. After 20-21 my game is pretty on point and get laid on the occasion since my confidence and game are way better. Not trying to brag but it gives some background info as in why I still lack some experience in order to try something serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 01:21 PM |
| 8 | [FIELD REPORT] Pulled a blonde girl from a gay clubI’ve been pushing and pulling doors for the past 6 hours and did not get any girls yet. Am I doing something wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/22 10:37 PM |
| 7 | The Turbo Red Pill : cautionary tale.I’ve done gangbangs, honestly if a girl I like had the same past I wouldn’t care. How am I better fucking the nastiest kind of bitches? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/22 11:58 PM |
| 9 | You Can't Comply Your Way out of Censorship -- Whisper Has Been BannedWow im glad im not American reading that shit. LOL | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit.Consciously reflecting and improving on even your most smallest mistakes is very hard, yet that is what eventually everything boils down to. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/22 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit.Lol this is what TRP has come to, measuring “succes” by the amount of lays. A few months ago I got rejected for a cool graduating internship spot which made me feel like absolute shit the whole day since I put too much energy of wanting to get in that company. Literally the next day I was thinking like this post, it’s a part of life, I have to move on and improve myself to get even a better spot at a different company. Where were the girls and lays during this time? Nowhere. Yet they still ask m… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/22 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Don’t Be Average – Don’t Accept Society’s Blueprint For Your LifeI mean we all talk about how we hate the 9/5 etc.. but I’m just curious, what do you do? I’m 24 and coming from a broke ass family, to almost finishing by bachelors in cyber security, I really wouldnt able to do the shit I’d really love to do without a good ass income/financial net first. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/22 03:28 PM |
| 5 | the red pill absolutely worksThis is my point rn. My game has been good, I fitness religiously where people start to notice my physique, however I’m still a broke college student in my final year. My financials are shit and I lost most of my GME gains through dumb trading. I know what steps to take to financially build myself up, but my study is the only big aspect of my life that I need to finish to take all of this to the next fucking level. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | The Social PillAt this point I dont even care about getting laid anymore lol, I just customized my Mac terminal for 5 hours straight | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/22 12:11 PM |
| 4 | An Illustration of Critical ThinkingExactly lol, and from my experience girls like these LIVE for this shit and NO, not all of them are like this, however most are, especially when you’re heavy BP’ed. I used to be like this when I was 18/19. Most girls would just play me along and I’d feel crushed when it wouldn’t have worked out. OP was conscious enough to ask himself questions, which turned me redpill too. We all make mistakes even when we’re redpilled for multiple years, but it feels so fucking good knowing that the emotional t… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Get laid in 2022Yeah its a dangerous trap, however some women have trouble letting you go or really push for a relationship if only your sex is good. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 14 | Being a "beta bucks" is better than being an "alpha".What? Most successful people are actually people that take care of themselves and in return they become more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:25 PM |
| 13 | Final phase of redpill in my opinion: You get to chill and don't give a fuck for goodTrue. The gym isn’t even for muscles anymore for me. Whenever I have something on my head I know that after a good workout, it’ll become much less problematic and can think with a clear mind about the problem. I can relate to OP. It all started to pull girls, now I’m just having fun and doing what the fuck I just want to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 3 | My Experiences Working At One Of The Most Red Pilling Jobs On Earth.I’m not the largest since I’m only a beginner, but next to girls and guys that don’t lift I’m quite big. For example my legs clearly stand out when I’m sitting in a train next to guys that don’t lift. And it’s not excess fat its mostly muscle | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Learning to run through HellApparently David Goggins cant hurt me is good | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexIm a student that still lives at home with my parents (Turkish) so out of respect I dont bring ONS around, but the amount of times just having thelogistics wouldve gotten me laid is insane. Getting a place for my own is my #1 priority after graduation | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 8 | My Experiences Working At One Of The Most Red Pilling Jobs On Earth.And also safe to say that NONE of these girls are from dating apps. I’ve already known them irl. That also plays a major role | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 16 | My Experiences Working At One Of The Most Red Pilling Jobs On Earth.I’m 178cm tall and have been lifting for about 1.5years now. Game plays a major role nonetheless. Hell this girl im dating is even a little bit taller than me. Girls can smell confidence from a mile away trust me. It took me about 2 years to get to this point. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 50 | My Experiences Working At One Of The Most Red Pilling Jobs On Earth.Lol I’m a college student and barely have any money, girls pick me up and buy me shit just for the sole reason that I just dont give a flying fuck. If youd told me thie 2 years ago id say bullshit. Its crazy really | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 7 | The Danger of Reaping the Fruits of Your Labor Too EarlyHonestly I was just like you in beginning after turning red pill, I was like "holy shit, this shit actually works, EVERYONE should know about this" until you come to the conclusion that this all isn't that complicated, all you had to do was get rid of your habits, pick up a good sport (gym obviously not only for aesthetics, also boosts your testosterone -> more confidence) and learn and practice the sidebar material, once I realised this and which how TRP just used to be, everyone just told you … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 28 | The Danger of Reaping the Fruits of Your Labor Too EarlyI miss the good old TRP days. The days where I truly changed and now I barely check out TRP/AskTRP anymore (its closed aswell). Everyone here nowadays tries to sell their shit product/site/channel repeating the same bs. For people truly want to turn red pilled just read the sidebar (TRM very important) and the TRP pdf, and check out the only 2 YT channels I still regurarily watch, AMS and Rich Cooper clips. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Losing virginity in the car in a few days, any advice/tips?Bring a towel, lol. Also car sex is very fun, you both struggle getting comfortable so enjoy the moment. | /r/newTRP | 25/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Can’t inspire lust, any tips? (No Blackpillers please)What’s your bf% | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to function in group situations?Lol we really have our issues do we.. I’m way more comfortable in groups, alone I tend to be more awkward | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 4 | How good looking do you actually have to be to have women chase you?It depends. Do you want hot women or 5-6s. With 5-6s you just need proper game and not really need to rely on looks. If you want hotties it’s mainly looks and game. If you’re tall and have a good face, just looking healthy is already enough. If you’re shorter you need the muscle. Race matters too. Turkish girls like me way more than Dutch girls do. Especially on dating apps/social media. Irl it doesn’t matter that much. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you even reply is such situations?I can hold interest, but this girl was crying about her being sick. I was talking well beforehand and we had some banter. Only that part had me all puzzled. I also tend to say dumb shit when texting often. Is it better to just hold off | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you even reply is such situations?So I basically screwed up by texting not for logistics what you’re saying?🤣 | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | I have a weird type of anxietyMeditation | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you even reply is such situations?Yeah lol. I suck at texting man. My first reply was “Should’ve listened to me about giving you a belly massage” (we were talking about massages at some point) and she still yapped seriously about her being sick. At that point is it for validation? My best bet at this point is just to stfu and let my irl game do the work but getting a girl out on the first date seems such a fucking task to me | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to get past the barrier to escalate towards sex ?Thanks man. It’s just the inexperience and at those moments I’m too much in my head | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How to get past the barrier to escalate towards sex ?Damn, I already get anxious thinking about doing that. Thanks man, I’ll give it a try | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 0 | How to get past the barrier to escalate towards sex ?Is it a good book? Honestly I don’t know why something stops me from escalating. I have perfect scenarios in my head on how to escalate when I’m alone, yet when it comes to it I don’t put in any action. I couldn’t care less about the girl, but idk man seems like insecurity to me | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | How to get past the barrier to escalate towards sex ?I have many times | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety holding me back from slaying, should i start taking medicine for it?As someone who had killing anxiety, shaky legs, very shortened breath and pounding heart, I got 80-90% rid of it by lifting hard, actually talking to people, stopping with gaming and eating a mostly clean diet with (i dont drink anything else than water). Really helped me, I only have mild anxiety on the first 5 min of the date | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 38 | People that sucked with girls and now slay. How was your journey?I think the most important thing with women is escalating. You can have the mouth and body game all you want but not escalating lets you miss out on a lot of easy pussy. This requires a good amount of confidence and game which is developed over the years | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options today, is it worth even trying?They have options but you forget most are bluepilled/orbiters. Set up a date asap and show who you are irl. That’s what gets her submissive. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 11:00 AM |
| 4 | Developed oneitis for someone living on another continentWhat the fuck is this post | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?Yup, long and skinny arms. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?Holy shit I already eat a lot, sleep is no issue for me. But man eating more than that lol.. Do big shakes help ? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?I’m 5’11 but thats not small lol | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?Yeah it’s pretty fucking heavy. First set I can maybe do 4-5 max. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 15 | I broke all my PlatesDon’t take everyone serious on here. Most people just add some spice to their stories/problem. Focus on your own goals | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | When should you consider using anabolics or even TRT.No it’s not my childhood, I think it’s been more of my teenager years where I fell behind on social stuff and kind of looking to catch up to it as fast as possible even though I have succes now. I also don’t consider taking gear at all. However seeing what roids vs natural looks like is most of the time insane. Just not sure if it’s worth it in terms of balding, acne etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | When should you consider using anabolics or even TRT.What are we talking about though? TRT? Isn’t that hard to get if your test is at normal levels? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | When should you consider using anabolics or even TRT.I don’t necessarily want to be top 5%, but always wondered how I would look jacked af. It doesn’t stop me in anything, I have succes with girls, I just want to stand out with my physique after being skinny all my life. However I’m still relatively new to lifting. Wouldn’t it be dumb to use gear now. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | real-world shit tests and how you passed themMan every post is about your fucking dick stop it already lmao. My answer would be “Yep, it is” and wink right after. But stop it already dude. You don’t even have sex and worry about what girls think about tour dick. Hell me and 3 friends were running a train on a girl and I couldnt get it up while she was sucking me, I’m a grower so my flaccid dick isn’t anything special, that same girl couldnt stop sending me snaps the day after. It’s all about your confidence my g | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How to get over RedPillRage?You have to accept their nature. I didn’t and sometimes when drunk would try to bash their confidence the ground in, aka letting your emotions get to you. The fun thing is even that same girl I literally told “wow you are so fucking ugly with makeup” still would fuck me, why? It’s in their nature to fall for the confident guy. I was drunk but she sees confidence in me, paired with looks. After accepting their nature they just become a playful thing you could get sex out of. Who cares if they fuc… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I stay or should I go?Stack the cash for everythings over. Hell, you have so much more free time at your parents place. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Hypothetical: if you've been getting IOIs from girls your whole life, how would you know they were IOIs, rather than ignoring them as ordinary things?Before I was RP’ed my friend would always say “Bro so many chicks look at you” I was always like whatever, no clue what you’re talking about. After knowing what IOI’s are it’s funny how many girls make strong eye contact with me | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 4 | I tried to go TRP, I failed, Help me find out why?You’re talking about this girl like she’s a godsent, chasing her for 2 weeks while she obviously shows no signs of hooking up. In between those days she has most likely taken a load to her face by someone who barely speaks to her. Read sidebar goddamnit and you won’t be so blind | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 12:05 PM |
| 6 | I tried to go TRP, I failed, Help me find out why?Wtf is this post even. Delete everything you have with that girl, and read the sidebar and lift 6 times a week. Go download tinder or something and start banging other chicks | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | How to soft next / ghost?That’s because they’re childish and immature. Treat it as a shit test. Back in the day I also had a girl like that that would complain if I’d ignore her, too bad I was BP’ed at that time | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | How to soft next / ghost?Lol like bitches care about you leaving them on delivered. You can’t get them crawling unless you’ve fucked or dated them. Before that ghosting 9/10 is only to stop wasting your own time | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:07 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being behind in life? (28yo virgin)Same. Never felt suicidal or depressed but sometimes I’d imagine what it would be like walking infront of a train when I was traveling to school. Weird ass fucking thoughts and always thought that it was normal. Now I realize how freaky those thoughts are. OP you should lift hard, take your supplements (zinc, magnesium, vitamin D) eat right and actually do fuck a prostitute. Get some sexual experience and even that gives you a T boost. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | My texting game sucks. Really sucks. [Help/advice needed]Actually, you’re not bad in texting, believe it or not they are just low interest. “It’s either a fuck yes or a no” is something I live with nowadays. A girl that wants to date you will offer a rescheduled date etc. Hell I’ve had 1 girl call ME if the date was still on. Some girls just give their numbers to fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I learn to dress wellWel lesson 1 here is get as fit as he is | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 6 | to what extend do women break rules for alphas?Lol you care too much about your dick size dude.. Read the sex god method, it has all your answers. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Voe do you guys feel in terms of libido/sex drive as a low twenties?Ohh alright I’m pretty much the same. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Voe do you guys feel in terms of libido/sex drive as a low twenties?Wow messed up title, meant how. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?“More guy than girl friends” all I know that these girls are (major) sluts 9/10 times. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 10:50 AM |
| 11 | How to gauge if she’s DTF?Flirt, kino, escalate. Easiest way. If she replies to most things you do or say positively or flirts back you’re in. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Need your help! Got my Testosterone Levels checked. What now?I only drink milk with protein powder. Also what if you get morning boners but not each and every day? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Where do betas male/ nice guys learn their behaviors from?This. I’ve grown up with 2 sisters and 1 strong frame mother. Dad never learnt me game. Massive BP till I discovered TRP, they hate to see that I undertook changes to become a man. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 42 | Why more women than men watch the more extreme forms of porn today?Let’s not forget women have 100x more toys than we do. Things that make them cum 5 times within minutes. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Why more women than men watch the more extreme forms of porn today?Preach!!! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Busting Quick?This x100. Just fuck her. If you bust quick you can either go for round 2 or atleast you have fucked her which is the most dominant thing you can do. Not being able to penetrate can kill attraction real quick. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Loyal beta or be more alpha and risk losing her.Ouch you want to divorce your wife for another girl just to get laid with her? Not sure if that’s smart buddy. But who am I to judge. On a side note, what business do you have? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How true is “it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it”?Watch Jordan Belfort on how to communicate with body language | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I dominate her in sex, when she's asking for itRead the sex god method... can’t believe you haven’t trad that yet it is heavily recommended. You have to unlock that primal and predatory in you. Make sure you vibe and start lightly first, once you put it in slowly start building it up till youre ramming her and pulling her hair from behind. Maybe flip her over eat her pussy out while grabbing her by her throat. You have to be in that fully predatory mode. Man I’m already horny from typing this | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Fucking women with a child?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Fucking women with a child?Lol hell no LTRs are you crazy. I’m young still but seem to attract alot of single moms lately | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Gaming low interest girls - should you bother at all?This is so fucking weird lmao. I’ve had a girl I had added on snap. Talked, she ghosts me. Alright I send a random snap 2 weeks later and before you know it I’ve fucked her. That’s why I kinda like snap more, if they have interest again it’s easy to pull them back in your frame. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Can’t get a date what the hell is going on?Lol it’s numbers game. So many time wasters online. I just ask to hangout asap, if they won’t agree I leave them be. An important rule it’s either a fuck YES or skmply a No. I’ve had 3 dating app dates. 2 I’ve fucked and 1 I could have fucked but I messed it up myself. There’s a clear difference with those girls compared to the rest, they talk more, reply faster (not always) and most importantly offer you another option if they can’t date on your suggested day. Sometimes I think I might move too… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 11:21 PM |
| 10 | Does a Pullback Work with Low-Interest girlsNope. Can only raise their interest irl. Getting them out is the hardest part and most of the time never happens | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | No girls interested in me at all, is it possible to actual get abundance or should I just accept my fate as a provider for someone post wall? 25 years oldLmao I’m turkish and you saying falim gum made me laugh out loud. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Dudes in their 30s, how do you keep getting results with girls in their early 20s?How does your jaw look like? Why not grow a beard? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this is all pointless and am depressed. Need advice.Lol I fuck mentally unstable red flag parade girls as someone whos new to TRP. They’re nothing but cum dumpsters. Use a condom and train your sex skills | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Is lifting for me?Do it. Your first year growth is insane. Don’t mind people, you’re there for yourself. I started out with empty bar on most things. 6 months later and I can bench plates. It also makes your posture way better, you feel more confident and stronger overall. Do it | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Can’t really seem to pull chicks on datesOh I meant getting chicks out on dates more. I do surprisingly well on dates. That’s why I want to date more lol | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a double date?Depends what you’re going to do. If you go for drinks play a drinking game with sexual questions. Make sure you have it on your phone and can ask the questions. At some point when everyones tipsy just make up your own questions such as “girl x has to kiss with the person she likes most or else take 3 sips”. Amazing way to break ice and easily escalate. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is eating pussy beta?It isn’t lol. It’s what you think. As long as you fuck her good enough you don’t have to depend on your dick | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Is eating pussy beta?What is small? Girls aren’t made for the 8 inch cocks you see on the hub you know. They fantasize about it but can’t take even a average dick to its fullest | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:35 AM |
| 3 | I need some talking to.Enjoy the process. I had a date with the hottest girl so far and guess what; I fucked up incredibly hard. Went beta (in terms of trying to talk myself out of the shitty friendly date while she wanted sex) and she ignored me, lesson learned lol. Since I’m not very experienced that date had me feeling down for 1-2 days. After that mu test takes over and I start talking to the chubby girls on dating apps again to get my dick wet. Lol | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s the RP perspective on NoFap? Has anyone here tried it & seen positive effects on lifestyle, mental health, game, etc? Anyone tried it & been disappointed? I’d love to hear some anecdotesYour brain is still wires to images and masturbating. I have the same issue. I find it VERY hard to go 3-5 days without masturbating, however I don’t watch porn anymore. But I know for a fact that I get way more aroused when I’m a on long nofap streak (1-2 weeks) with a girl. Also since I’ve been used to porn for a very long time I usually get too much into a scarcity mindset and try to get nudes and sex talk instead of hooking up. Fapping kills your drive to go for real sex, I know that’s facts… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:26 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a weak blue pilled bitch after not escalatingWell I make my intentions clear from the go, they know I’m in it to bang, but sometimes I’ve drank a little too much and when you fail to deliver, I get ghosted yea lol | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop giving a fuck about my other guy's success with women around me?I had the same issue, my friends would talk what they’ve done with a girl and was like damn, why can’t I do that. Discovered TRP, startes discovering myself, hitting the gym, and slept with girls twice during a lockdown from dating apps. What has changed? Nobody every cares about what the fuck you’ve done with the girl, and you also start to give 0 fucks, and just laugh with them and joke about the stories. Trust me, it really isn’t something special. It just kicks your lazy ass to get you up an… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to have more sexual urges after lifting?Yup. Try to moderaTe fapping though | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about video games?If you can’t moderate it don’t do it. I have been in the exact same shoes. I’d play 8-16 hours a day when I was <20y old. I stopped it completely when I discovered TRP. All I do is watch some gym youtubers or a little bit of netflix in my free time. Fuck gaming, it’s the only thing I can get instantly addicted to again. The only moments I game is at my friends place for a round of zombies. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 5 | I feel like a weak blue pilled bitch after not escalatingI’s most likely next. Bitches want sex, I went limp mode twice and never heard from the girls again lol. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Me getting nexted so much made me immune to feeling any kind of regret unless I mess it up hard like you did which I’ve also kind of experienced. After 2 days you’ll be over it | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I go on no fap to fix my ED?I never really understood why fapping is such an issue. I sometimes masturbate once a week, sometimes daily. Back when I stopped touching it for 2-3 weeks I could easily fuck with a full erect dick. This was all without watching porn. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t I fuck when drunk but friends can?I don’t watch porn lol, I just masturbate occasionally. But I got to say I was pretty fucking drunk, had to vomit twice lmao. I could get it hard though that wasn’t a problem, but getting on my knees made it soft | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t I fuck when drunk but friends can?How different is Cialis from others? I have 120mg sildenafil pills (Cobra 120). The insane headache, heart pounding is not worth it. And honestly it didn’t even kept me hard when I tried to fuck (drunk). | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Losing erection when wanting to put it inI don’t get it, this has happened to me twice, I can fuck doggy but it seems to be more linked to alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Female BossLol fuck it. If it’s a temp job just fuck her | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl says I’m her friend friend what does that mean.It means your are friendzoned, just twice as hard. Maybe you can see her in her bra someday, she’ll ask if it looks nice for her date for that night | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 20 | Muscles that make you look manly/intimidating?Uhhhhhh. Literally every muscle makes you look bigger. Training your whole body puts size on your whole frame, training only your arms “because they look intimidating when big”, will still get you fucked. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a tool?Yeah, tweak it to your liking like “let’s do a drink sometime”, “let’s watch a movie together next week” if you don’t live on your own you can ask if they live alone or are alone for a day/evening. Get the number, try to avoid snap if they don’t give, however I usually take the snap and measure it from there. Set plans for the date and move on with your day, maybe text for a little bit of rapport to make her more comfortable into inviting you/her over on the first date. This really filters out t… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Blowjobs make me softMostly fat chicks know how to suck a dick properly. Probably reminds them of food, lol | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a tool?I bet if you’d just say “let’s watch a movie together” would work way better. I’m far from looking as pumped as you are (don’t even gym for 1 year) texting this works like a charm. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever explicitly text your girl(s) what you want to do to them?Before the first fuck or after? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with EDPorn is a real killer. I barely jack off anymore and if I do itms just to thoughts. Don’t use a death grip, jacking off a lot tenses your pelvic muscle, which leads to less blood circulation to your penis in the long term which means it takes more effort to get an erection (this is a FACT, which is why porn/jacking off is so hated). Try reverse kegels for awhile, don’t fap and you’ll have popping boners. Also I keep some sidenafil pills on me just incase. For the first dates you can take a quart… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 02:05 PM |
| 6 | newbie, got LJBFed. What did I do right/wrong?She has friendzoned you, only way to gain her sexual attention is to fuck a girl that has higher SMV than hers and she knows you are fucking her. Easier said than done. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | Sex parties, how do you organize them?The times I’ve had gangbangs with one/multiple girls is when a friend has a slutty girl, he goes fucking and we all just drop in 1 by 1. The mood really has to be there though. The exact same girls that we all just did everything with came last week, and they didn’t want shit and just went home after 2 hours... girls | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 4 | I’m so out of touch with my study due to lockdownMan mainly it’s caused by my environment. Schools and libraries have been closed for 1 fucking goddamn year. My friends here all work fulltime so I can’t relate to them. My good friend which is my classmate has the exact same struggle. I’d get shit done at school, with some coffee and looking at hot chicks in between my little breaks. I haven’t moved my ass for 1 year now. It’s insane how bad this lockdown is here (The NL). | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | When do you call it quits with a dateJust turned 23. I want to live on my own in Amsterdam but it’s goddamn expensive. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | When do you call it quits with a dateYeah lol. I’m new to the game (1 year ish). Unless I can go to her place (cant afford to go on my own yet), I like to do things slowly, first date car date, kino/kissing and maybe more than that. But usually I’ll leave it there and fuck them 100% guarantee on the second date if it was a successful one. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider Jordan Peterson red pill? What wisdom, if any, have you taken from his content?This is where middle eastern loyalty and respect for parents shines bright. Western culture is so much more different. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 12:07 PM |
| 5 | I feel like women are different by race in terms of attractionDefinitely. I’m Turkish in The Netherlands and honestly the times Dutch girls were into me is because they mostly had something with someone from a middle eastern background before or they just like foreigners. Getting Turkish girls is also waaaaay easier. They are initially high interest from the start. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Just had a first failed date, thoughts?Thanks man. I’m bummed out, I just know I fucked up such an easy lay during a heavy lockdown and curfew. But I guess we have to learn from our lessons. Do you have any advice regarding going for the kiss on a car date? Like how could I engage that? I find it so awkward to find a starting point | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Just had a first failed date, thoughts?Thanks alot for your feedback man. I hate this fucking lockdown so bad since I’m just dry on chicks and alot of them are timewasters. This one is the first one that came on a date after 2 months. She just replied though, should I leave her on read and wait till tomorrow to send a response back? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Just had a first failed date, thoughts?Because I wanted to get my dick wet. Lol. These corona times have gotten me fucked man. Too much scarcity. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Just had a first failed date, thoughts?No lol, I have pics from all angles and I’m not fat. Maybe she just thought I looked better on pics. But who cares lol, I’m on to the next girl. I’ve accepted the L | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Just had a first failed date, thoughts?Yep it sucks. Main reason is this lockdown just took all the fucking plates away. I’ll take the L and leave it as it is. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What makes some females attracted to "bad boys" only?Lol. It’s clear why women like badboys and it’s simply because they have a huge IDGAF attitude. You don’t even need to be a “badboy”. Focus on your looks, money, status, confidence and game and women will flock your way. Someone like James Bond is a prime ezample. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 18 | Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?Lol Dutch people are known for having shitty long term relationships. Most parents are divorced or cheat on eachother. This is extremely different in Turkey. Sometimes I’d just want to settle with a Turkish girl but they mostly have BPD like symptoms. Very jealous and overly attached if you make them fall in love with you, and since many of Turkish guys are pretty beta, this is very easy to achieve as someone who has been reading and practicing TRP for almost a year. The only positive side is th… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?I have 2 sisters, and parents who are struggling money wise, but we all have a close bond to eachother. I study bachelor’s, made a nice amount of money with stocks etc. Just general TRP stuff. I don’t see myself as damaged in any way, not on drugs either. I guess it’s the stability like you’re saying then. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong, really?Thanks man. I’ve been doing the same. But gyms closed for 3 months already, sitting inside for school all day for 8 months, at this point I’m happy that I’m sane and positive, only occassional pussy would be good since I havent watched porn in ages and never want to again | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong, really?How old are you for reference? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong, really?Yeah that’s the thing, you’ve got the logistics nailed down, it’s a thing I focus on but with this bullshit lockdown and Amsterdam being a place where rent is very high and hard to find a cheap place as a student, it just seems to me that my options are very limited | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong, really?This is the second lockdown, my last lay was before this one and this one is the worst. It’s been 2-3 months already and getting a lay seems tough right now lol. I was texting not too frequent but didn’t go silent, that always worked. I’ve been with girls throughout but I’m mostly drunk on the saturday with friends and girls, since that’s the only day I actually can socialize | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong, really?Yeah I am, so you’d say dating apps is purely attention at this moment. I’m on a 3 month dry spell this shit is getting to me lol | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about Valentine’s Day?Just tell your plate to eat the chocolates together she received from her orbiters after a good fuck lol | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl to fuck / get physical over textMe too but we got curfew here and lockdown really ruined dating for my age (23 and girls are usually 18-19). And honestly I’ve had succeses with talking sexually with girls, not always though but I agree. I always aim for to ask for a first date on the same day or after a few days. But can’t say that talking sexually doesn’t work, most are down to fuck after that too. It’s really a hit or miss | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl to fuck / get physical over textFlirt hard really works to see if she’s sexually interested, flirt moderately to give her sex vibes but a normal first date. I don’t remember the context anymore but this girl I was texting with after closing on dating app said something along the lines of “Taking you”. In my language you can interpret it as fucking someone. So Inreplies with “You sure have a weird fetish if you want to take me” (fuck me context). Try to flirt with things she says but don’t overdo it. Now she wants to meet up fo… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 6 | What’s one adjustment you’ve made to the way you carry yourself that completely enhanced your charisma/confidence?Holy hell I really fucking needed this. I find myself complaining or saying dumb shit trying to find something to say. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Investing (Long Term)GME to the moon is the only way 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀 | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you find girls often stop replying after a few messages on dating apps?Have you ever bothered making a fake girl account? You’ll see why they stop replying. Your message gets buried within 20 other dudes messages within 20 minutes. And if you’re in a hard lockdown it’s even worse. Just be patient and wait for the club/bar game | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls send nudes and ghost shortly after?I don’t, I’ve learnt from my mistakes. It’s just so goddamn hard to get girls out on a first date. I know I’m not the only one since my friends struggle too. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls send nudes and ghost shortly after?Yeah I’ve fell for that trap a few times before, you’re still left with your dick in your hand. However it’s not always the case right. I’ve had friends that girls sent nudes to without meeting up, they replying thirsty and still smash a few weeks later. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls send nudes and ghost shortly after?Yeah dating apps. Guess you’re right. I didn’t take the bait at all like replying with heart eyes or something thirsty. I wanted to set up a date at hers to see if she was interested enough. She told me she’s not sure if she’s available that day (which came to me as her not wanting to meet up). | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls send nudes and ghost shortly after?Snapchat is the way to go tbh for my age and location. I’ll aim for numbers more but snap works pretty well. I just don’t get it, I replied with what I posted and asked an unrelated question after. I swear getting girls out on a first date these days seems literally impossible (heavy lockdown). | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Is being an asshole alpha to women like a big pair of tits or ass?Too much asshole comes over insecure. For newer TRP people it’s hard to balance being a flirty jerk and asshole. Something to be self aware of to be better at this. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 10:00 AM |
| 31 | What was the biggest lesson you have learned from 2020?Almost everything is mental. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 09:56 AM |
| 7 | The schizo larp technique - how to keep yourself on your trackThis is Eastern spirituality, already a post made about this mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 09:50 AM |
| 24 | Do you ever just think about the extent that so many of these chicks go through to look a certain way and just feel...pity?Lifting weights requires a shitton of effort, time and dedication though. They’re not even comparable. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Thanks come again.When I had a few drinks I had the same prob. Also porn, stop it. But I’m sure it’s related to alcohol. You might be sensitive to it just like me, my body needs rest in order to get the alcohol out of the system, and it basically always screws up my erections. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Question for men with really bad baby faceOfcourse lifting helps. It makes you look bigger, many people have a “baby face”, maybe it’s far reached but if Anthony Joshua wasn’t that huge he probably wouldve had a baby face too. Also its not about the looks unless youre disfigured, game is more important | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 10:26 AM |
| 8 | Girl threw up on my dickRight, very alpha male of you man | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Is talking on the phone better than texting?Facts. Some girls just don’t want to meet up that fast UNLESS (and let’s be honest, most of us aren’t) you look like you’re some kind of celeb, very good tinder photos, jacked etc. I always banter for awhile, but don’t wait too long till I start planning a date. Max 2-3 days of bantering, and I’ll start going towards setting something up. I’ve had a girl that I talked with for a few dats, she didn’t reply to one text and I didn’t bother. I sent her a snap 2 weeks later and she wanted to meet aft… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Lost motivation to date and plate girls after being alpha-widowed?This guy again. Been making posts about his imaginary ex for over 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Good looking but anxiety is ruining my ability to get girlsTrust me it barely bothers me anymore | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 8 | Good looking but anxiety is ruining my ability to get girlsHmm. I was in your position once. That breathtaking anxiety that fucks up your whole body and feels like your heart is pounding out of your chest. It sucks really bad, how I solved it? Start in small steps. I was already overthinking about going to the gym. Start being aware of your thoughts. There’s a top post on TRP about the 3rd person perspective and controlling yourself like a video game character. THIS is what really helped me. I gained awareness of my thoughts and became so much more “enl… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | This corona bs is really getting to me nowI’ve read TRP thanks to the first lockdown, I can’t hate on that, it changed my life. It’s just that sitting inside all fucking day is so incredibly boring. Even when doing stuff, I just have 0 discipline here. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | This corona bs is really getting to me nowI’ve read TRP thanks to the first lockdown, I can’t hate on that, it changed my life. It’s just that sitting inside all fucking day is so incredibly boring. Even when doing stuff, I just have 0 discipline here. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm fucked and it scares meYou don’t need friends to get pussy. That’s a fact. My tinder matches never gave a fuck about friends, they just want to be dated and fucked. You should also learn to be able to go out alone. I was done with my internship early, went out to a local pub to sit by myself and enjoy the nice sunny weather and with an ice cold whiskey. Honestly the tranquility you get is pretty nice. No ones bothering you, you flirt up with the sexy waitress and you enjoy your day. This way you can meet new people to… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer?Wonder what the future shittest will be like. “How many brothers and sisters do you have”, “enough to colonize planet Mars” | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Girls tells me she lives on her ownYeah I have before, but dating apps are fucking messed up rn. Everyone is mentally scarce currently that doesn’t have a GF here, and some high interest girls (like this one) live far away. Just thank for your advice lol, I won’t drive that far unless atleast I could stay for a night over. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys accept the life of an alpha widow?Bruh | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls tells me she lives on her ownTexting works better for me than ghosting till day of the date, for girls I HAVEN’T met yet irl. Yes, I live in a small ass city in The Netherlands. I would’ve moved out, but it’s too risky with corona and EVERYTHING is locked down. So you could say I’m more scarce, no doubt in that. I used to travel for 3h total daily to my internship, honestly it doesn’t bother me that much. But only for a bang is not worth it, you’re right. Now I’m only overthinking because I didn’t have a clue wtf to do, but… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel some sort of pressureYeah but isn’t one of TRPs aspect to always focus on your “purpose” and becoming the best you can be at your work. I mean I enjoy my internship but do I really want to stay home all day while working from home, doing another 3-4 hours or “purpose” stuff. I can go to the gym for sure after a whole workday, even when traveling 3 hours in total back and forth. I enjoy working out, but I don’t enjoy staring at a screen again and letting my brain work while I’ve veen staring to one for 8 hours, but t… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 9 | If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer?I automatically assume every question is a shittest, it comes with experience and awareness to filter out normal questions. I mean you wouldn’t AA “how many brothers or sisters do you have” now would you, unless you want to act like a clown. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 01:56 PM |
| 79 | If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer?You reply with “You shouldn’t” or don’t reply at all, and change the subject. Never reply seriously to such questions. Or either move on to a new girl | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do I have to give a fuck to be an alpha when being an alpha means not giving a fuck. Paradoxical questionBest advice here. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Feel completely empty and broken after relationship“Makes me just feel like I wanna die and feel so empty and hopeless” “i dont care about a girl I used to talk to” I bet that bitch is getting her throat filled while you were writing this. THIS is the harsh truth. Read sidebar, lift, purpose. Watch every of AMS videos and report back | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Ways to deal with death grip?Facts. You really have to get “into” it. If you aren’t there you won’t get aroused. It’s like a mental passage to horniness. Once I’m in my element I feel like a fucking animal. Like seriously it’s insane. If I’m not my frame shatters cus of insecurities and overthinking and I’m a bitch. mental game bruh it comes with experience since jacking (to thoughts) you’re all by yourself and it’s easy. However this teaches you how to think with a girl (ie. Get to that mental state), cut out the porn, it’… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?Stop acting like a miserable crybaby BITCH. That’s what you are. Do you think people in Africa or India cry about their own dignity while living in literal SHIT? No, they fucking wake up everyday and walk 5 miles to make 0.01 cent a hour to fill their stomachs. Yet here you are, crying about a fucking girl (there are about 3 billion more remaining) and how you lost your dignity and want to end your life because of it. Do you really want to become only a distant memory, or do you want to get your… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How to get better at getting better?You don’t have to go hard all the time. You’re asking for a burnout and losing it all that way. For example I’ve been working and gyming all week, I’m not going to focus on my purpose this evening, might chill, watch some YT videos and come up with new potential ideas. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | The blackppill?Cenforce is a black erection pill | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Fuck Oneitis. What the fuck is this shit.Yes but judging from your post it seems like you’re pretty new, and if your read the sidebar well enough and wachted ams’es vids you’d know what not to do. I hope you learnt from it, ALWAYS go for the dates as soon as possible. IRL -> text. That also applies to nudes and sexting, that’s where I made mistakes hence the rule “only text for logistics” (don’t take it too seriously though, you’ll have to build some rapport for comfort unless you’re a celeb or model/seen her multiple times already). | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Fuck Oneitis. What the fuck is this shit.You’re giving advice to the new guys while you’re the one talking to a girl for several months that LIVES IN ANOTHER CONTINENT and haven’t even touched yet and DEVELOPED ONEITIS for her. Sir this is the pinnacle of what’s called a BETA. She’s getting her pussy pounded and licked while you’re waiting for her response. Advice for newer guys: Don’t be like this guy. A girl builds attraction for you IRL. Not over some fucking facetime calls. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Texting too muchLearn from this.. I messed up talking about sex after the first date. Too many details and the pressure formed mentally in my head. I had to bang her hard for her to stay around, and guess what, my dick gave out on me lol, didn’t have any pills to back up either. See that’s where people go wrong, I myself am not that much experienced with sex, but when I go in without ANY expectations, it’s literally stone hard. Keep the flirting stuff irl, and texting only to a basic. I know it gets your T leve… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Helicopter parentYeah this. I have hard time with this. My parents are immigrants, dad doesn’t work anymore due to an injury 20 years ago, but got too lazy to ever work again (the government here gives minimum wage). Well that didn’t fucking work out like he wanted obviously since rules change and he’s getting less money, more debt. Mother worked for 40-50 years and is done physically, but also gets less money now. Both parents poor as shit, and then I’m the youngest still living home, hoping to move out. My sis… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Only ever had one night stands feel like I missed out on uni. Advice on platingSeems like you haven’t read sidebar well enough; I’ll quote Rollo Tomassi which wrote The Rational Male: “NEVER, under any circumstances, NEVER reveal your true N count, especially to women”. You should always A&A that number. “How many times did you have sex?” “you’re actually my first time ;)”, “Oh what today? Already like 5 times” “I’m not sure, lost count after 75” Trust me, you’ll get more laughs and respect out of this than revealing your true N count, and if that’s high nobody will believ… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Only ever had one night stands feel like I missed out on uni. Advice on platingYou shouldn’t focus on the past. Continue working on your SMV and also get good tinder pics. Like really good ones, read some guides on TRP. With tinder you can easily get laid if you live on your own. Also it’s not a race to bang as many chicks as possible, shows that you care about a number that nobody really cares about. And even if you’ve banged 1000 chicks, I bet you’ll feel more empty at 1k chicks compared to 10 which were initially harder to get, but felt more rewarding. I also ruined my … | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Watching movie with friends when she puts her head on another guys shoulder2 years and probably never even kissed let alone fucked, yeah buddy. “Fuggetaboutit” - Donnie Brasco | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The RP Men, Help me understand frame.Lol I totally lost my frame after having sex after a loooong time, so funny I couldn’t A&A anymore. I’m very good in having a frame on dates though. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | This happens alll the time??2020 is the years where the hoes get the MOST attention through social media ever. Don’t take it personally. Make a fake girl account on a dating app and see the results with your own eyes. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Are there peaks in testosterone regarding libido?That’s pretty strange. Sometimes I just feel so much more libido than other days/weeks. How do you feel before having sex? Or when around with girls in clubs that you later end up fucking? I’m healthy I know for a certain, first date kino already got me buzzed up, but I always start to get anxiety when it comes down to sex. It doesn’t stop me though, I continue looking for plates, but it’s just something mental that blocks me from escalating further mainly in group situations because I’m insecur… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Texting a potential plate/LTRText her: are you free x day or x day next week on x time to do x? Her; yes I’m down to go on x day on x time You: alright I’ll see you then, I’ll hit you up day before x day Now I feel way more confident from this on a date vs talking about sex all day long, putting a ton of pressure on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Texting a potential plate/LTRI want to fucking slap you rn. If a girls says that (that’s what I’ve been told TWICE in a row on a date) it means that you’ve successfully differentiated yourself from the ORBITERS. Every fucking girl is used to texting 24/7 with their beta orbiters. It’s very easy to go to full texting while you shouldn’t. Learn from my mistakes. Just set up dates and do all talking and escalating there. They don’t care about Billy saying how beautiful she is, they care for your message that you send every so … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Texting a potential plate/LTRA girl saying you’re a fuckboy is a shittest and a very basic and good one. Means she’s interested. She doesn’t really care if you’re one at all. Trust me bro the more you text the more likely you’ll fuck up. I’ve made the mistake numerous of times. Everytime I link it back to texting. Just build rapport for a few days before the first date is all you need for texting. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Texting a potential plate/LTRI didn’t text for logistics, sometimes you say dumb shit, and eventually it was all about sex and what we would do to eachother, date day was there, put too much pressure on myself (half the shit I said was bs over text) and couldn’t perform, boom plate ruined. Because of this I went there with outcome DEPENDANCE. I know I had to do everything I said in order to keep her around, and I couldn’t. That’s why texting is so fucking crap. I perform really well with girls I never text, because I don’t … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Girl likes me physically and mentally, but now she isn't interested in hanging out with me?Girl logic brother. Never think too much about this. They have 1000 reasons to ghost you. I had a plate that may have sucked my dick for 1 hour total that evening, I’ve never heard from her 2 days later lol. Whenever that happens I’m always happy since it’s less time wasted on a girl and more on myself. Just search for a new plate | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:30 PM |
| 10 | Is eating pussy beta?Man I love eating pussy, ain’t nothing beta if you eat it out like it’s some A5 wagyu. The plate I was with was moving like she was having a seizure | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | My year so far after discovering TRPCould you provide some examples/explain it a little better? Do you mean not improving anymore past this point? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 18 | My year so far after discovering TRPI have to say sometimes I laugh at the amount of times lifting is repeated, but it brings more mental positiveness than physical imo. Very important | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do women like bad boys?I have a scar on my left eyebrow from back when I was a kid(like from tony montana from scarface), buzz cut with a fade, I usually wear branded expensive clothes (thanks to fashionreps subreddit, check it out), I’m Turkish while I live in The Netherlands. Keep a slight beard. People are usually quite respectful to me. I’m just your average IT guy lmao | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Kino in the car?Opening: a kiss on the cheek, throughout the date, take her hands and say something about you see (ring, nails etc.). If she replies positively tell a story or give an example on her leg, (i.e. you have to go up the street to the left (while “drawing” that locations with your fingers on her leg). Or if she works out feel her quads and tease her “I don’t feel anything that points that you’re working out tbh” with a smirk. Close: kiss on the lips or a hug, Basic shit like that, you don’t even have… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Why do women like bad boys?Because those “bad” boys mostly don’t give a fuck about women, and sometimes even not their families, only about theirselves (hence the reason they’re jailed most of the time). A perfect image would be Walter White from BB, before he went criminal, would a hot girl date someone like that, hell no, he’s too nice. I have the looks of a dealer, and many girls dig that(and trust me also MANY don’t either, you usually attract trash type of women), until I surprise them with the fact that I study a ba… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | how to greet her for the first time in a car?Damn sometimes I felt autistic but this takes it to the next level | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?I can easily masturbate to imagination, think about past sexual experiences. Before I went looking for porn again I could nut pretty fast with only using 2 fingers. Now after porn even that is getting harder and I guess you’ll slowly slip into using your whole hand again (death grip) | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?It’s 100% distraction. Before lockdown I had to wake up at 6, catch the train and travel for 1 hour, work all day, go back to home, eat some food, workout and my day was already done. Now I work my internship from home, and got all the “time” I want. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?How did it change you? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?Tru jacking it once a week to imagination. It is what helped me in the first place. I can’t go that long I always have raging boners in public places which is annoying as fuck | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?I can feel it doesn’t feel as rewarding. Probably some dopamine shit going on. But honestly I had to jack it for 5-10 min on thoughts alone without porn, where as when I stopped with masturbating and only did it like once a week, without porn I could bust a nut very fast. Something has messed my brain up and I can only think of watching porn more often. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 12:20 PM |
| 15 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?Yeah it didn’t take long, but I’m baffled how fast it has affected me after watching it again. Literally 2 weeks of watching daily and my orgasms feel very weak. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 11:57 AM |
| 32 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?Disgusting how toxic porn is if you start watching it daily. What do you recommend about being horny throughout the day though. It always hinders me working | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 11:53 AM |
| 7 | 16 year old needing advice from some grown menLol you’re 16 man. Very fucking young, trust me your life hasn’t even begun yet. Lift hard right now, use your age as a advantage and your 20s will be amazing. Be very grateful and humble that you’ve discovered TRP at 16. I’m lucky to discover it at 22, some discover it in their thirties, and some are stuck in the BP reality forever. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Couldn’t get it hard?Do you have any exercises for this? For casual dates I managed to break that blockade. Also for hookers, I go in without expectations and as you said, my dick was rock hard. I think I’ve messed up with sexting beforehand and putting pressure on myself to perform. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Couldn’t get it hard?I know I’m far from red pill. I only do very well on dates, but further than that I haven’t got much experience. Maybe that plays a factor too | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Couldn’t get it hard?Why can friends of mine get it hard at the ugliest of girls lol. I know it’s mental but what should I do to get rid of it | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Couldn’t get it hard?I’m 22, work out 5-6 times a week, eat almost only healthy food, drink water, take supplements. I didn’t have this experience prior unless I’m drunk/very tired. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Couldn’t get it hard?What should I do the next time? Take a half of viagra/cialis? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Am I in good path Towards life ? Im 19Not true until you find very close friends (very rare though). Other than that yea it’s mostly just for socializing. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 32 | "Placing HER hand onto YOUR thigh"I’m a lyrical spiritual miracle individual | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What's up with early 20s chicks being major potheads?I ment lmao as in that you’re supplying your whole area. Good job brother | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What's up with early 20s chicks being major potheads?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | She just sent me a photo. How should I proceed?If it’s snap it’s for attention | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with the fucking bs of my parentsHow am I lazy if work 40 hours a week (internship) pay their rent, and study next to it? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 09:55 AM |
| 0 | What if you have 1 plate?Thanks man. I have abundance mentality since I work, lift and study all day, I don’t care if she goes away, but I just want to increase the odds of keeping her around since it’s my only plate right now. I’ve already spun the hamster in making her think I have multiple things going. She also knows my confidence is pretty high. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How to become an alpha male?It is possible, I was a heavy beta, 2 feminist sisters, kind of absent father (taught me nothing except just being there for me) and a strong frame mother. All it took was heavily reading, internalizing, changing up my whole diet, almost 0 sugar, cut out gaming, cut out watching netflix, going to the gym 6x a week. Sidebar helped me with how to be around people and ESPECIALLY girls, all the other stuff increases your confidence and IDGAF mentality. I also got a well groomed buzz cut and girls mo… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How to MASTER your own emotions?Being aware and acceptance helps alot. Whenever I’m anxious, I consciously tell myself that I feel anxious, and that anxiety fades away. If you really want to have a very strong frame you have to be able to live in the present moment and be stoic. Watch David Goggins hellweek of navy seals podcast. The first hour of the training is over and you have 129 more hours to go and barely no sleep. Do you think in problems and panic shitless as in “fuck, I got 129 more hours to go” or do you live in the… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Was my ex already seeing someone elseWow holy shit you’ve written more about your ex than I’ve did the last few days on my essay lol | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How long can you do a workout routine?Thanks man, I always felt “strong” in the beginning, but that feeling is kinda gone. Ofcourse my lifts are progressing but that solid feeling I had is gone. Do you have any experience with that? Is that a sign of weakness? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How long can you do a workout routine?It’s a workout routine on the fitness subreddit aimed for beginners. It’s 6x a week. But I had noticed some stalling in gains, probably need to up my calories or do more reps/sets. It’s just a solid routine since you also do all the compound lifts which I like the most | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How long can you do a workout routine?So I can still do Reddit PPL as long as I progressive overload? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | If a girl talks about another guy what should I say?If she does this over text, you’re in her orbit and she sees you as a friend (I’ve experienced this as a beta), if she does this next to you on a date she does it to shittest you and measure if you get jealous. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Did I lose frame? (Screenshots attached)Never directly imply what you want to do. It sounds vert needy and desperate. I asked this girl to go to a hotel with me for the second date to “watch a movie”, ofcourse she knows that she’ll get her brains fucked out | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Naturally increasing testosterone?Lifting (5-6x a week), eating lots of healthy food, vit d + zinc + magnesium + omega 3 supplements, proper sleep and actually talking/meeting girls changed my whole personality | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | How to last just a few minutes longer when going from behindGrabbing your dick with your whole hand and jerking it as fast as possible. Results in losing the sensitiveness. Not recommended | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Who was the hottest girl you slept with and how did it happen?Shit like that makes me think if the matrix or some shit exists. What are the fucking odds. Small world man | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Went on first date, need second date advice?My b lol was tired when I was reading this | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Friend was about to fuck my plate...Wild story. Need advice.We had a gangbang with a girl only 1 friend was supposed to fuck, I guess people have different perspectives lol | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Went on first date, need second date advice?She has, but I just don’t know that city well enough man. If it was my own city it was no biggie. Anyways, I got her to agree so I’ll see what happens | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Went on first date, need second date advice?I asked her and she agreed, how was I being insecure? I could’ve done a better job for sure on some parts, but that’s part of the process, but I played the game quite well imo and she did not expect me to like her as in asking her out in another date, so where did I go wrong lol. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to have friends/social circle to be successful financially?Can vouch for this. Many of the IT students are just straight up terrible (no offense) with social skills. If companies see that you’re a social, confident guy they’ll see through the lack of experience compared to someone who has literally 0 social skills but has a lot of IT experience (not always obviously). Also helps getting higher up. While as you can promote to a manager and IT guy stays IT guy forever. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What is the red pill and how do I take it?Just start reading the sidebar and UNDERSTAND it. First mistake was me not taking the time to read it. Just start from the top the bottom. I have to be honest I haven’t read it all but I read the most important things to properly learn what TRP and game is. Also watch AMS. Now I’ve almost watched every video of his. Just take it with a grain of salt though. He’s older and more jacked, so the same rules don’t always apply to us younger guys that live in a total different generation. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 11:51 AM |
| 5 | What to do when plate says “I love you”Yup and then she would’ve been really broken, she saved herself so you could credit her for that, lol | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 11:47 AM |
| 4 | How to give up on women because a lot of rejectionMumbers game bro.. i got frustrated too sometimes, but it’s all numbers. One of the first matches from a dating app sent me full body nudes and wanted to fuck within a week. Literally went without any high interest girl after that for a month or so, and now I have a date again. For me it also heavily depends where I live. In a larger city I see more succes. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Serious, how to make a good amount of money next to being a studentJust sharing my overthinking thoughts time to time lol. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | 24 y/o (m) red pilled for more than 5 yrs, improving, but not getting laid anyways. What am I doing wrong?It's not that hard if you live on your own really. You either ask for a first/second date at your place or hers if she lives on her own. This is usually the best way to get laid since she only comes down to your place for 1 thing, and no not to watch a movie or drink wine. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from being a simpI remember being such a beta that a girl was texting me her Tinder matches and I commented on why she was matching with older guys. Man I want to kick myself in the balls if I think about those days. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Serious, how to make a good amount of money next to being a studentThat thought has crossed my mind too, however I’m in the IT field so I don’t really worry that much. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Been working out and eating enough but still not gaining muscle.Yup changing to PPL 6x got me insane changes compared to SL5x5. I still struggle with eating though. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | You read people's questions on here and how straightforward what they should do is, and it makes you realize your own problems aren't that big of a deal and have straightforward solutions once you remove yourself from the situationI feel as if I’m 16 again due to the raised amount of test, constant libido, and practically 0 anxiety anymore. All to thanked to life changes and not some magic medication. Put in the work and you will receive its fruits. The best way I can put it in is I’ve started to make my life a game, instead of putting my life into one. This makes challenges etc. More fun. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | You read people's questions on here and how straightforward what they should do is, and it makes you realize your own problems aren't that big of a deal and have straightforward solutions once you remove yourself from the situationI meant it in a way of a slave to the ones feeding you your addictions. Fastfood companies, gaming etc. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | You read people's questions on here and how straightforward what they should do is, and it makes you realize your own problems aren't that big of a deal and have straightforward solutions once you remove yourself from the situationYup. I turned beta after 16, never knew why until I discovered TRP. Addiction to gaming resulted in bad diet and no exercise = depressed, heavy anxiety around girls, beta, weak you name it till a few months ago. (I’m 22). It’s sad how much time I poured into gaming, and nobody questioned it as long as I was doing well in school. And I don’t talk about 1 hour of CoD or FIFA I’m talking about 10-16h days if I had the time. No wonder TRP is quarantained because it fucking changes lives into better,… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | First time, couldn't get hardIt’s porn and I shit you not I bet you jack off with your while hand too. This causes the sensitiveness to go away. The so called “death grip” will fuck you over almost 9/10 times. When I jack it I use my thumb and pointing fingers on my LEFT hand (I’m right handed). Trust me it sounds weird as fuck but my dick works amazing again. Rock hard and you feel everything. (Less with a condom, you can even try that to getting used to condoms). If you can’t feel a good bj without a condom it’s 100% link… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 12:56 PM |
| 21 | Late Bloomer. Feel sad that I lost our on a decade of prime sex.Ne grateful for what you have. You have a working dick, you discovered TRP, you don’t have physical/mental issues. Stop complaining. You haven’t missed out on anything except some stories to tell when you’re drinking a beer with your friends. The missing out part is what the media wants you to believe, since girls are in their peak in their 20’s, however mean start peaking inntheir 30’s. With a fit body you can easily slay 20’s even when you’re >30 | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 09:01 AM |
| 7 | Can I get some advice guys? Whenever I get sexual women leave?Sidebar. A whole lot of it. You’re coming off very creepy and desperate this way, also 70% of the males talk like this (on dating apps, try it yourself). Keep texting to a minimum next to some fun banter. Sidebar. Flirt in real life, can’t build attraction over text | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 18 | Have you ever had a chick lose weight after meeting you?That burning fat part is bs | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers who moved out of home in there late 20's how has this affected your sex life?I’m in the same boat. Not a good relationship with my dad, and want to move out HOWEVER we live in fucked up times, everything is closed here except gyms and moving out now would be dumb for me since I follow my internship from home. I really want to fucking move out to a way bigger city, but this is not the time right now, keep that in mind. Keep grinding in the gym, once this shitshow is over we can shine. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are ridiculous, and shouldn’t be taken seriouslyIt might depend yes, I’m 22 and most girls my age are in their prime. I’ve also had succes, but it’s pretty hard | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are ridiculous, and shouldn’t be taken seriouslyI always dress and look (groomed etc) nice, and I’ve had succes with the apps for sure, but it’s not realistic. Far from it. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | I just realized that I never catch IOIs, and because of it girls chase. Who can relate???Good don’t shit where you eat unless it’s a temp job. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why does it feel like I’ve just hit puberty (22y/o)Could you give me some examples? My goals are mostly long term. I.e. I want a motorcycle and maybe start a youtube as a side hobby, I’ve learnt how to invest in stocks etc. I’m looking for a place to live on my own, but that’s mostly luck. Next to this the most limiting factor is money | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm getting worse results even though I've been self improving?Covid here makes it pretty difficult. Girls are in the perfect spot rn for attention the whole day because all clubs and bars are closed in my country. So it’s hard to compete(especially on dating apps). I’d say care less and work on yourself. If everything goes back to normal you’ll shine since you’ll look way better. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:36 AM |
| 17 | Why Are Men In Our Society Such Simps?This. My father never taught me shit. My sisters and mother did everything for me, you can imagine how incredibly beta I was. I was probably depressed too after my 16th even though I never knew what it was. Now at 22 I’ve never felt so horny in my life before after taking some fucking action and the best part is my sisters fucking hate it. How I act cold and not interested anymore, how I start going to the gym etc. I wish all the men good luck in their lives with 2 very feminist sisters. I’m so … | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Doing cardio after weights?Would I still be able to put on muscle? I’m fairly skinny but my front holds most fat. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Doing cardio after weights?Thanks man. 3 times a week after work out? I try to gym 6 times a week | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Doing cardio after weights?Do you know a recommended HIIT for a beginner? I prefer no physical running (i.e. something like cycling machine, rowing or punching bag) | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Whey intolerance?I use whey isolate, and it stopped the amount of gas I was getting from whey protein, hell I couldn’t even properly sleep anymore. If I consume too much dairy I also get night sweats | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you temporarily lose your drive?I’m also doing a dev internship. What a coincidence | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 12:35 PM |
| 8 | What do you do when you temporarily lose your drive?I have the same issue brother, and maybe it’s caused by a lack of having a routine. I work from home now thanks to Covid and it FUCKING sucks. I still live with my parents so that makes things worse, I just become so lazy when I’m at home all day. Before this I had to wake up at around 6 in the morning, travel for 1h30min to my internship, work all day, travel back 1h30 min eat something quickly, go to the gym and have 1 hour before I slept. I felt extremely energized and never tired, now I’m ta… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl I want to see doesn’t want to go to a hotelThe thing is I’m a student, and finding a place to live on my own in Amsterdam is pretty hard unless I decide to sacrifice working almost 24/7. All bars are closed (literally everything). And she lives 30 min away from me. But I’ll take it more easy | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl I want to see doesn’t want to go to a hotelThanks man, I’ll keep this in mind. The one time I did a car date it was actually very succesfull, kissed her but it wasnt a girl I liked (waaay too skinny). She went insane after I ghosted her | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Girl I want to see doesn’t want to go to a hotelCulture thing | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Girl I want to see doesn’t want to go to a hotelI’ll try setting a normale date first then, but the thing is I’ve already shown my neediness by asking to go to a hotel. Also considering to just soft next this girl. I’ll see what she replies. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Mental masturbation to trp contentBecoming aware results in you taking action though, atleast it did for me. I don’t have any plates atm, but I know I can say shit to girls/next them because I have goals and things going on in life which I didn’t have before. Girl doesn’t want to meet? Good, I’ll next her and grind harder at the gym + it saves me money + I can socialize with friends and laugh more than I’d do with a girl. The only thing that really is true is SMV, you just can’t be high SMV if you don’t put in the work. My probl… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What are respectable natty gym PRsFor reference I’ve been lifting for 4-5 months and my squat 1 RM is 75kg at 70kg ish. You should take it more seriously | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Social conditioning from your childhood will determine whether you will have beta qualities alpha qualitiesParents don’t always determine what you become. My sisters played a big role in me becoming a hardcore beta. Everything I did was for them, I didn’t know how to be self dependent, I didnt lift because they didnt “like” the buff type bodies, I had no purpose because I did it for them and my parents. It sucks very hard but im also grateful that I managed to get this far in my life (most of my friends are working minimum wage jobs, I’m studying bachelors Cyber Security (IT). Thanks to TRP I found o… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Does sleeping after smoking weed make you very hungry in the mornings?No usually I wasn’t so hungry early in the mornings, I’ve noticed it was happening more early on when I go to sleep stoned. I thought maybe someone had the same experiences just to confirm it, I’m asking this question because I don’t want to lose weight if it’s caused by weed. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 08:55 AM |
| 6 | Is there a specific way you should be talking with women?Very relaxed and laid back, watch AMS video on it. Just don’t become either a stone or a clown. Keep the balance, crack some jokes but don’t act like she’s your friend. If you can show that you’re more relaxed than her it’ll raise the interest levels. Basic sidebar stuff. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 07:35 AM |
| 6 | How to proceed after a good first date?Can sense the oneitis developing from this post lol | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have more success being a “natural” purple pill guy instead of a “forced” redpill guy?Man this awareness that grew with me is a fucking blessing. It is day and night difference being aware of literally everything. You also learn faster and become more outgoing. Without TRP I’d be hard stuck in a very beta mindset. I’m far from an alpha, but a clear headed mind knows what he wants. I get angry with myself if I skip a gym day, where as before I’d make up excuses because it “hurt” (DOMS), can you just imagine how beta I was lol. It’s a long learning process, make sure to enioy it | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 09:34 AM |
| 1 | 17 year old here, should I be visiting these forums to heightmaxx, as they call it?Lol be glad you don’t live here in The Netherlands, I’m 5’11 and still feel small. In my native country I’m tall af | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Peaking in your 30sI know I’m talking to women and working hard on my looks, I just have to be patient with it since I can’t really represent myself as a high SMV male at this point. Girls are pretty flakey atm but once in awhile I can snag that horny one with some luck | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Peaking in your 30sMan this is the life. I’m a broke student and can’t stop dreaming getting an awesome bike, living on my own in a big city, crushing it at the gym, having a good paying IT job. Gotta finish my damn study first. Also you’re right I’m 22 and living a healthy lifestyle gets you already horny as fuck, even more horny than I was when I was 16. If Not consider going TRT route | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Logistics (setting up the first date)Ask 2 days or days when you are free. I.e. are you available on friday or sunday | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How are these numbersLol | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 4 | I have the opportunity to get dates/hookups but I'm way too anxious to actually do them. Help?Get your testosterone levels checked. If you don’t want to do that try taking zinc + magnesium + vitamine d + onega 3 supplements daily and eat alot of healthy food, especially eggs. Try to gauge how you feel in a month or so. My anxiety was mainly caused by low test. I still get slight anxiety when I’ve had a night of drinking, alcohol is literally an upper/downer for me at this point. Before Id use to feel fatigued, now my body is energized but my mind is fatigued | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Shrooms?Lmao the first time I did shrooms I was tripping nuts for 4-6 hours, you won’t have any insights, just enjoy the adventure because it will be | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Rate my tinder profileOnline dating is scuffed lol. Seems like it is really just plain simple luck unless you look like a celeb with a super amazing body, you look great, maybe try cold approaches (the hardest thing to get started with, I know, since I dont do it either) or just wait for clubs/bars to open again. The thing with dating apps is you get buried down so fast the initial opening has to already be good. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder profileLol 4 fucks in so many swipes. How old are you? Where do you live? How many likes do you get with these pics? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 0 | How do you make a daddy/girl ("princess") dynamic work? I'd love to hear advice, similar experiences, and some pitfalls as wellThis post gives off pedo vibes | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How are these numbersIt’s not about the numbers, it’s about the progress I’ve made, would you consider that good? I don’t care about the numbers that I lift since I’m a beginner anyway, I just want to know if I’m on the right track for those months | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How are these numbersI know that it’s not much, but I just wanted to know if I was progressing nicely enough. I’m following Reddit PPL with my own additions of exercises (i.e. I want to develop my chest more so more chest exercises) | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How are these numbersThanks, also thanks for the strength measurement site, won’t have to post a post like this now since I could use that for reference | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How are these numbersNo I was just wondering if I’m doing it right, or that something is off with my diet/T levels | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Feeling like a loser..you think you miss because you care about others opinion, stay fit and improve yourself, you’ll get 20 year old pussy even when youre 40. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Holy shit I am one boring motherfucker HELPThis also applies to everyone in general. If you can do this daily in your life people will feel like youre showing interest in them | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 8 | Feeling like a loser..Damn you’re 18 calm down. It seems like your life resolves around getting laid. Fix that shit first. Only getting laid gets you nowhere in life | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why dont I have the urge to date women that I have to chase/do more forYeah it sometimes goes unconsciously but I rarely ever chase anymore except in the begin. On dating apps it’s also a numbers game if you’re not buff af showing off sadly enough | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Why dont I have the urge to date women that I have to chase/do more forSolid advice, I didn’t think about doing it like once a month. My last date was about 2 months ago from a girl that clearly showed high interest. And yes it’s also partially afraid of failure more in a sense that it’ll be a waste of time and money, I’ve asked out some girls from my city but no luck, that doesn’t stop me though, it’s just that the matches are usually far away. What about I get a match when I’m low on money, should I wait with messaging her until like a few days/week before trying… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was legal it would change everything?Yeah. I have only fucked hookers twice but both times you can just laugh/tease them so it becomes less “awkward” if youd care about that. Some chatting some fucking with a girl that youd never be able to fuck at that time and youre gone. Fun experience but not worth the $ | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 5 | 200 likes with super-boost / 0 without itAlgorithm. You have to be top 10% already to get a lot of likes. Also even my fucking name plays a role. I created 2 accounts with one Dutch name and other my real name (Turkish). I got 30 likes within a day and decided to delete it, and my Turkish name only got 12 likes in like 1-2 days. It stings lol. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 08:31 AM |
| 4 | If sex work was legal it would change everything?In Germany you can fuck HB 10’s for 30 eu for 20 minutes. Hookers just aren’t the same though. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:27 AM |
| 6 | How long does a good physique takeI’m grateful that I’ve discovered TRP at 22 and not at 30. Ive always looked skinny so a proper looking physique would probably ramp up my confidence even more. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How long does a good physique takeYeah, theres clear difference. I dont really see it with my own eyes sometimes, however tshirts fit me more tight, on pics my arms look bigger and I just look as a “whole” instead of a slenderman. There’s not much visible muscle yet. I really wonder how I’ll look in the coming 8 months. Hopefully by next year corona is gone so I can flex my body lmao | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Need your guys insight on doing steroidsThe thing is you’re doing beginner numbers after 1 year of lifting. It really sounds to me you’re trolling too but if not, you’re clearly doing something wrong. You HAVE to eat a lot. Don’t go for big meals every 2-3 hours since I can’t do that too, instead eat macro rich foods every 1-2 hours. Like I get rice cookies and put chicken filet on top of it. Or eat some quark with fruit. As long as you fuel yourself every hour to two with plenty of water. Don’t dirty bulk since you’ll get fat, lean i… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Need your guys insight on doing steroidsI dont always go 6 days a week, usually 4-5, only manage to do 6 when I have energy on fridays after work | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Need your guys insight on doing steroidsThat’s impossible. 1 year of lifting to only get those results. I’m working out for about 3-4 months. I started with 5x5 but quickly switched it up for Reddit PPL 6 days a week. I’m also 5’11 and around 70kgs, My lifts are and they arent even 1RM’s. 82.5kg deadlift 65kg squats 50kg benchpress 47.5KG barbell row 30 kg OHP I practically started everything with bar only except deadlifts and squats (so absolute beginner). Train more and eat way more. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Does only getting interest from low SMV women (overweight/obese) mean anything?What is attention in this case really? IOI’s? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 10:35 AM |
| 22 | No such thing as a Female SimpMan as a 22 year old that just started working out, thinking of how men age like wine if you keep lifting and maintaining a healthy lifestyle is a whole fucking abundance mentality on its own. Why would I even give a flying fuck about a girl right now when I know that in 10 years she’ll be looking like a mess and in 10 years if I still hit the gym I’ll be looking like a greek statue. I want to have a incredibly strong discipline so I can just lift the rest of my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 10:28 AM |
| 3 | 22yo. I want to stop being a little bitch.Wow this. Don’t force yourself into something you are not even though it IS possible, it’s not required for other people to like you, if you care about that. I’m 2 weeks in my internship and can’t really place myself between the people even though they are very friendly and kind, I’m just younger and since I come from a very different environment it’s hard to be social, but I occasionally throw in some convo material or jokes, but usually I’m just silent. However when I was with this girl that’s… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Why were you beta?Social dad, but wasn’t really there for me except for protecting me from harming myself (bad friends, drugs, gambling etc), 2 feminist sisters that cant stop talking about politics, 1 strong frame mother. I’ve been a fucking bitch all my life. I was so fucking furious for luckily a short period of time, however when I think about it again the rage starts boiling. My life was always led by others (mainly family). Only till recently Ive decided to do something about it. Lifting, trying my best to … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 0 | 50/50 or 100% for hotel (100% DTF)She is, and she knows I am too looking only for sex since we havent spoken about even anything close to serious yet (DARE). Also she is older than I am so she is automatically more submissive. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | 50/50 or 100% for hotel (100% DTF)I’m from the netherlands, a decent room close to us both costs 140 euro, and honestly I’m not paying 140 euro for pussy when I’m doing my best to save up to move out asap. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Really don't know whats wrong with me.Also most of it is exaggerated. People like to humbly brag | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How to create abundance when in a lack of abundance?I nust realized I had this thought, purpose is really your go-to option when things don’t go as you planned. Girl cancels date? Who cares, I’m searching for a room in a big city anyway, I can spend time on that, couldn’t go to friends because it was too busy there? Guess I’ll sleep and be fit for a good workout tomorrow. This is what abundance/purpose is. Things that make YOU better | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Why do many TRP's hate "Chads"?Yup. Some chads really become a massive beta for the right girl. Great knowing TRP and sidebar since that’ll (hopefully) prevent that | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 01:41 PM |
| -1 | Should I make moving out to Amsterdam #1 priority over everything else?Sorry, I’m a student so my budget lies around 500-600 rent per month for a room. Amsterdam is pretty expensive in terms of finding a place to stay in. However living in such a big city away from your parents is way better for connecting with people and building my own life. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I going to far (sexually) ?So you’re getting everything you want, she does it and you STILL complain? Hand me over a .44 magnum so I can blast my brains out reading this post | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 5 | What are the odds a girl accepts going to a hotel/her place on the first dateGuess I shall go full abundance on these bitches and just go straight to the point lol | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Is this normal or not? Porn brain? Do you get hard/excited merely from seeing a woman or kissing?I bad this issue before too, I’d never get hard on horny dhit. This stuff comes when you change your lifestyle snd naturally increase your Test level, and most importantly having a clear mind (!!) and no anxiety. It caame slowly over time, I already get blood flowing when I see a girl in hot leggings or just looks sexy. This is harder when drunk though. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Did I go too far or wasn’t she interested enough?Thanks brother. Solid advice. Don’t want to waste too much time on these hoes | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Did I go too far or wasn’t she interested enough?Thanks man. How does one get to that stage of agree and amplifying, just continue experimenting with what works? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Did I go too far or wasn’t she interested enough?Could you elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Did I go too far or wasn’t she interested enough?I don’t know man sometimes the opinions here are so different. And again I’m still experimenting but thanks for your input, I haven’t played this game in a very long time so I have to learn the ropes. On to the next I guess | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Name plays a big role in my country, apparently (Online apps)Well it’s no coincidence that I got more likes with a Dtuch name when 99% of the women are Dutch on Tinder, but I know what you mean. I’m still in the early phase of all this stuff, and lifting just takes time. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Name plays a big role in my country, apparently (Online apps)Do you mean it has to be a name official on paper? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Name plays a big role in my country, apparently (Online apps)I’d wonder how I’d do in Turkey, but in all seriousness, how bad is it to say that you have “Dutch roots” running in the family, hence that I use a Dutch name. I didn’t realise name was an issue until now, as fucking stupid as it sounds. I’m probably moving out of my parents house and end up in a way bigger city where barely anyone knows me. Couldn’t I just fake it there? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Name plays a big role in my country, apparently (Online apps)I’m Turkish so you could say so. Dutch people have a hard time pronouncing it the first few times. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 10:19 AM |
| 9 | Reminder: Women are slutsAlso a ticket to jail “entitled to her body” right let’s touch a random fucking stranger you’ve met 10 seconds ago on parts where she has tattoos | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What does really cause the calmness inside your head after TRP?Why are some jacked people still heavily insecure/mega blue pill? I never got that too | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 07:09 PM |
| 6 | What does really cause the calmness inside your head after TRP?It’s so weird to me as in why the world(music, movies, advice, school) markets caring/being nice for other people is how you’re supposed to live. I’ve been fed that lie and lived like it for 22 years and just a few months after TRP and lifting I’ve never felt so relaxed in my life, and people around sense that energy every other day. I always thought this RP/mindset stuff was bullshit, it wouldn’t help me. I thought I need a therapist and medication to free up my mind. Guess I was heavily wrong … | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | What does really cause the calmness inside your head after TRP?What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl with 300k followers on tiktok - how to proceedI would say “me neither” and continue escalating/kissing | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 7 | Girl with 300k followers on tiktok - how to proceedIt’s basic sidebar material though | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man.Watch how Bas Rutten lives his life (former champion kickboxer) https://youtu.be/bFNZRPhtUGQ . Honestly If you’re young (22 like me) I don’t think you should be that strict on yourself as long as you eat, sleep, exercise, work etc. Well enough | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man.May I ask what your daily tasks are as a cyber security specialist(?). I’m a 3rd year bachelors student cyber security and don’t know what to expect. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Have any of you tried psychedelics before? How did it affect you?I tripped 2 times on shrooms before I knew about TRP/mindsets. Both time were a blast. First time was much more intense though. I’ve also done XTC + MDMA and I didnt really like that since I tripped my balls off for a good few hours (it wasnt at a party/festival). Honestly nothing changed my view or the way I was thinking. The only thing that triggered me into changing myself was smoking excessive weed during the lockdown period. One day I just felt, as AMS says it, sick and tired of being sick … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Really tend to struggle to wake up early on off daysYou should post this on the copypasta subreddit its a pretty good one🤣 | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Really tend to struggle to wake up early on off daysIt’s not that I am being lazy but weekends I tend to eat like shit because of alcohol/parties and can still manage to go 5-6 days a week or this week it was incredibly hot and just went swimming. I really like PPL and dont want to switch programs again. However I guess youre right with diet. Im pretty inconsistent with it | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with bully friends?Lift become huge and stop responding to their jokes or laughing. Or either be assertive, this needs physical to back it up though. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with physical appearance and personalityThanks man. I’ve always been a scrawny dude, and honestly growing at this rate is insane. A good friend of mine thats been lifting for several years told me id look very good if id gym like this next summer. With corona shit going on and hopefully gone next summer, I cant wait to see the results | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with physical appearance and personalityYup. A different body will change how people behave around you insanely much. I’ve been gyming and eating seriously for about 1 1/2 months now and already noticing difference. Honestly I’m so stoked for next summer since internship + winter = easy training days, you grow very fast in the beginning and the increased IOIs im getting already is absurd. Cant wait till I’m actually big. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Is life after 30 really that depressing and horrible or is it just the guys here?Lol I’ve only read that life really starts in your 30s. If you’re good looking (shredded, healthy), have built up TRP experience for several years, have a good career, financially set, I’m pretty sure you’ll do better in your 30s compared to your 20s. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | What do I lack when I can’t say stuff I want to say (at work/general)Alright thanks man. Really needed this advice. I used to stay such words too when I made a joke in a friends group, or make a gesture so everyone gets its a joke, which probably comes from insecurity. It has gotten way much less nowadays and I’m conscious of it. And with saying a straight no I don’t really have much problems anymore, even though it still happens time to time. I guess work stuff has to be taken slightly more serious in comparison to being outside with friends/girls. I just don’t … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea to watch porn with an LTR?Lmao butthurt | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Need serious help.Also lift, testosterone makes you give less fucks | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 09:05 AM |
| 7 | Need serious help.Forget the past, read sidebar, watch AMS, meditate, eat healthy and adopt the mentalities described in the sidebar. I had the same when Id go on dates or even think about it my heart would be pounding in my throat and id feel like suffocating. Now its all gone. Also the eastern spirituality mentality really helped (TRP one of the top posts or sidebar ) with all this. Be aware of your thoughts and feelings | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Skin careWhat about your body? Back/front. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever rejected a girl just because you could?Yup, she was wayyyyy too skinny for my liking, she called me a player next to my friends (I barely get laid right now lmao), m I just minded my own business and ignored her, later in the evening she squeezes my butt. Girls are fucking weird man. This was after discovering TRP btw. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | My confidence is fakeAfter 2 years you still didn’t read the sidebar good enough. Your mentality has to be balanced in “I’m enough” to “I’m a god of my own little word”, not “I should be the ultimate god and best in everything”. Guess what, in life there WILL always be someone that’s better on every little aspect in life. You thought you were financially set, well guess what Jeff Bezos outclasses your budget by probably 1000000000x. There will always be someone better in gaming. Some are just naturally born so, move… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 4 | How long did it take for you guys to see drastic changes when it comes to life in general and women?Could you elaborate how it fucks up your ego? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Sexual dreamsYou should probably hard next her at this point | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Having issues getting to the next step (kino, escalation)Thanks man. For the biggest part of my life the truth I known was act respectful and careful, you’ll get all te girls. I grew up with feminist sisters and mother and my dad cared for me well, but never really taught me shit. I guess I should give it more time to let it sink in and become comfortable with it. I’ve been going hard changing my whole personality, and the results are far better compared to when I was BP’ed. People offer you help, they want your attention, they want to be around with … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | How do I keep from getting burnt out in social interactions?I sometimes have the exact same thoughts. Sometimes I just wish I could go back to being BP as in my behaviour. It’s so less exhausting, but this is only the trap. It’s choosing the easy way out because you lack self discipline. Try to be very consistent through lifting, reading material on daily basis, watching RP videos (AMS). You’ll realize that this IS the truth, there’s no going around it. Also don’t be hard on yourself, it’s ok to take a chill day off, sleeping 2-3 hours longer. As long as… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Having issues getting to the next step (kino, escalation)Also, I recognise I forget most of TRP material/things I repeat in my head when I’m drunk. Should I stop drinking/drastically lower alcohol intake? Because of corona I can drink a shitton more, I cant even feel tipsy anymore (which usually helps me in clubs, while being drunk makes me fucking stupid) | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Having issues getting to the next step (kino, escalation)How long does this need to be? I honestly don’t really believe in that stuff. I stopped watched porn, but I still jerk of like 1-2 a week if not 1-2 a month just to imagination. After some weeks I just tend to relapse to jerking as the easiest option(this js probably where I should just continue not jerking), but it doesn’t really change how I feel. Should I really stop for like 3 months+? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 06:20 PM |
| -22 | Synthetic MasculinityHow does alcohol kill testosterone? Plenty of friends manage to fuck girls when drunk. However it ruins me making me way too loud and clownish. Im 3 months in TRP | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/20 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Girls find me attractive, but I can never get to the point of actually fucking themJust move on to the next girl if shes not interested. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Girls find me attractive, but I can never get to the point of actually fucking themThere is, it is by not wasting your time texting them, directly ask them for a date, shell either answer yes or no, and with a no you shouldnt be worried about thst answer either way since abundance mentality. Sidebar and AMS basic stuff. We’re all learning bro, but actions (kino, leading etc) is really where TRP shows itself. Its the only way to get girls wanting to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 20 | Girls find me attractive, but I can never get to the point of actually fucking themActions speak louder than words. Ive had alot of girls I texted thst I would fuck their brains out, was too pussy to set up appointments. Get rid of that mentality and start inviting them over instead. They dont want to come over? They used you for validation | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Stupid question about liftYeah ive been following PPL after building base strength with 5x5. I just dont like going 3x to the gym, With PPL I atleast go 4+ and try my best to go 6x a week but weekends and drinking fuck it up. The progress Ive made with PPL as a beginner is baffling. I feel power coming from my whole body | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps msging me everyday .Ofcourse it doesnt. Mystery is something that makes a woman wet. If youre not texting she’s most likely wondering what the fuck youre so busy with. Test her with a reply like “Im just busy” and shell most likely want to know what the hell youre so busy with (shittest). If youre her top option you should only text for logistics or reply very slowly | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Triggered ASD over text! Is diffusing possible Or should I next?Monk mode for 6 months, lift, read, work on your purpose. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys do when a girl dry texts?Making plans for a date at X location at X time, nothing more | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | What kind of soap and cologne should i use?Sauvage always works, if you really want to be present get sweet and spicy perfumes like spicebomb. Mind the word bomb it really sticks around and people WILL smell it | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Could basic replies such as “what are you going to do?” be considered shittests?Ive worked with her once before and today was the second day. The thing is she has a bf but she hasnt brought that up. I guess ill just ask her out since she’ll be gone anyway. Its just that the way shes been throwing tests at me seems like shes interested Ofcourse they might be fake shittests, so im not too invested. Ill see where it flows. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Could basic replies such as “what are you going to do?” be considered shittests?Ive maybe explained it wrong, shes a girl Ive known like 3-4 years ago in my BP days. I havent seen or contacted her since those years. Shes working at this place im working at but quitting this friday. I was just wondering how to handle such questions. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Waking up early out of my own/less deeper sleep?Where can I find those? I also have lactose intolerance for whey protein. Ever since I’ve been taking those scoops I’ve had gas and troubles with taking a shit. But without I’ll never get to my daily protein numbers | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Test through the roof since adding massDGAF attitude | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when you can’t beat it?I’m waay less severe than you, but I was ALWAYS in my head, overthinking and overanalyzing everything. I couldn’t breathe properly anymore when I’d set up dates, got a phone call from internships etc. My mind was running hardcore. I’m glad to have the same friends, and at some point I was smoking a shitton of weed, and was drinking every weekend with my friends. My friends are mostly natural alphas and I was the one of the few heavy BPed ones since I came from A strong feminine family (2 feminis… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | LTR addressed another man as ‘darling’AWALT | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you care about your kill count?I hooked up with this girl few weeks ago, I remember her how she looked like 3-4 years ago, bit chubbier and better body proportions. I drove to her and the second I saw her I was like NOPE. I decided to hang around still just to get some experience with TRP material since i’m new to it. My friends were all like why didnt you bang her this and that, bitch why do YOU care about who I bang, I dont want to fuck a small ass skinny girl that that looks like dogshit. And she was crazy too. Super hard … | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Lost weight, lost sex drive and confidence.Squats train your whole body bro. Check out 5x5 stronglifts on squats and how to do them with proper form. Its a waste to only do them once a week tbh | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Lost weight, lost sex drive and confidence.Thats probably where it goes wrong, trust me squats and deadlifts really boost your bloodflow and test. And not squatting is just dumb since it’s one of if not the best exercise to do. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I give her a flower on the fourth date?Oneitis | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Are friends even worth it?Lol. You can just stay at home and not care about the partying at all. You lack abundance and have FOMO, also you seem not to know how to love being alone. I’m honestly in the same shoes as you, friends are a distraction from my study. It’s just the lack of discipline to not being able to focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | 17 Yr Old. Body of an anorexic my bmi is around 16 and im ready to get big. How do i do this?It’s better to bulk lean, and throw in some junk food next to it. You’ll build up alot of belly fat purely from junk food. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 0 | How to be her top priority?By letting your actions speak. Spoon feed her the attention. Basic sidebar stuff. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Advice on having a lot of sexAbundance mindset. Quality comment | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Any of you anxious over thinkers?Meditate, lift, be aware of your thoughts and talk the negative ones away. really helped my anxiety. Gotta work on abundance and confidence now | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I calm myself down in heated moments👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻beautiful quote | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Diet for beginner in lifting?Thanks man. I said fuck it and went out and bought myself some groceries. I’ll try to cook it on my own tomorrow. My friend who’s lifting for years told me not to overdo it since it can be pretty heavy, to eat that much out of nowhere. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Applying gameAMS advised to “fake it till you make it”, it works in some sense, but really the only one you’re lying to is yourself. He stopped advising that shit and told men to get their shit together first, so you can maintain an abundance mindset. Who fucking cares what people think of me? My life is going to way I want. That shit creates confidence and frame which creates the NGAF mindset, something we all came here for. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | First dateSo continue and try to smash within the following 2 dates? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Craving female attention?It sounds to me you’re not loving yourself. You only love yourself when you get validation. I think it boils down to NGAF and having precise goals and missions. Focus on you first, like be aware of your thoughts, emotions. Check out emotional intelligence. Don’t overthink, just be aware what you’re thinking about, and the emotion with it, then talk away all the negative emotions (ANXIETY is a big one) in your own head. One of sidebar material tips is to turn it into excitement instead of fear. S… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:10 PM |
| 9 | How to get laid the fastest way possible?Yeah, and does anyone actually fucking care about it. People forget that shit in the next 5 minutes. It’s only “cool” for validation, which you shouldn’t thrive for as a male. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 3 | What went wrong? text gameText for logistics. I wasted so many hours texting girls but never ended up doing something. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe how TRP is changing me as a personI think masturbating everyday is pretty bad to do. It drains your energy man. Do you know that shit feeling you have for awhile after masturbating? Feeling like shit = less attention from women. They sense that shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe how TRP is changing me as a personI haven’t masturbated frequently these last months. I only masturbate to imagination when I feel super horny when I wake up. I can say I maybe jack it like 2-3 times a months, no porn. So you could say yes. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Texting during dateAfter all these years pre TRP I used to constantly text. Now I fucking realize how much time I’ve wasted. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you game girls on Instagram, if you have great photos and a decent following?Yup this. I had a girl dm me because she saw me, apparently she tried to hit me up but I was drunk and didn’t realize it. When bitches want you they’ll reach out to you no matter how. That’s the plusside of having social media, but dont look for validation. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 10:44 AM |
| 12 | how do you guys get over missed opportunities with women?This. It’s a sign of overthinking and overthinking is BAD | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | There’s 1 guy in my friends group everyone enjoys being with. Without him everyone is more boring, sometimes when I’m with 1-2 others we barely talk at all.What’s EQ? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | There’s 1 guy in my friends group everyone enjoys being with. Without him everyone is more boring, sometimes when I’m with 1-2 others we barely talk at all.Thanks alot man. With that good friend of mine I tend to lead the conversations too. It just feels we’re at the same frequency (study wise, family situations, parents, struggles). I’m starting to catch the drift you’re explaining me now regarding the friends I’m awkward around with. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 3 | There’s 1 guy in my friends group everyone enjoys being with. Without him everyone is more boring, sometimes when I’m with 1-2 others we barely talk at all.Could you give me some examples of open ended questions? With that good friend outside my friends group we’d laugh all day about goofy shit. Our humour is practically the same. It’s all natural when I’m with that friend, but with the others it goes way harder. It it because we just have way less in common? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.I barely watch porn at all. If almost to none, 2-3times a month. Ive picked up masturbating on my imagination instead. I dont jerk daily too. I guess its just the laziness from not engaging in physical activity. I used to kickbox and my blood was pumping before TRP. Ill start lifting from today. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 09:26 AM |
| 3 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.Thanks alot. Guess progress comes slowly. I wanted to apply TRP from the start and got over a little bit aggressive to one of the girls. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.Thanks alot brother. I just don’t understand how my friends can all do these stuff when completely drunk or stoned. I guess it makes me the different one from the group. Im going to stop with weed. Its a habit that came from corona boredom. Im going to start lifting today with a friend of mine starting from today and get that habit running insyead. I luckily watch what I eat (not always) and tend to drink only water. I guess I should really find myself first before even attempting the game stuff… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 09:23 AM |
| 15 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.Yeah. Fuck me. I feel like a total mess right now after thinking the things ive done since quarantine. Thanks for all these messages. I needed a reality check again. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.How can I dig deeper into myself? I’ve been thinking about what drives me, what my dreams are, my passions, and shockingly I can barely come up with anything? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 8 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.I don’t lift at all. I’ve decided to go to the gym today. My sleep pattern is a mess lately, I drink and smoke weed way to often. Sounds like I need to get my shit together? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.Thinking of it, no not daily anymore. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.I mean is it strange if I’ve felt like this my entire life? I’ve only had horniness(like really fucking horny all day, I’d start jacking once I got home) when I was working fulltime. I’ve been a student all my life and still doing bachelor’s for some time. All my friends work fulltime already. I guess I should start lifting, but I feel this is more of a mental issue. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 04:18 AM |
| 6 | If you don’t approach girls at all, will you be a virgin forever?How do you plan on changing this? I think I have the same issue. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 04:03 AM |
| 6 | I barely feel horny at all, I’ve realised.I mean anxiety has always played a role in my life yes, I’ve never really been the one that escalated things. The only times I’ve done sexual stuff is when the girls escalated on me first (and those weren’t the hottest ones obviously). My sister had similar issues, she would always be the “outsider” out of her friends. She’s 30 now and changed her mentality after a burn out and is succesfully dating etc. But I really don’t want to wait till I experience something similar to force a change. I’ve … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 12:48 AM |
| 31 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?Yup. It won’t stop, ever. Just watch the movie “Das experiment”. Giving someone power they’re not used to changes their mentality. Most police officers are generally not smart so giving them power makes it even worse. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 9 | How do I stop putting attractive women on a pedestal?I’m 22 and snapchatting here is rather popular. It’s a good alternative for a number. During these coronatimes, is Tinder recommended to get plates spinning? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Guys from Europe/The Netherlands, which products do you use for face care?I’m 22 and they are rather dim spots. You don’t really see them and it doesn’t look as bad as I might have described it, however I just focus on it everytime I look in the mirror. And I know a cleaner face is just more attractive, even when the spots are minor. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys from Europe/The Netherlands, which products do you use for face care?Would I get this prescribed even with minor spots? It’ on my cheeks so I myself am concious of it. It’s not bad though, they are just remains. What if accuntane messes up my face instead? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 03:27 PM |
| 7 | 28 year-old male kissless virgin here. How am I supposed to go from this point to spinning plates? I need advice on how to handle my insecurities and how to put things into action.Not giving a fuck might be a real task for some people. However, I 100% believe this gradually grows if you put effort into stop overthinking etc. by working on yourself. Honestly if you feel good, you give way less fucks, I've noticed. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I start changing my personality/mindset?Is there any guide or book or something that summarizes the same problem? The pussy/beta mentality doesn’t only show itself with girls. I recognise it when I’m going somewhere (i.e. with friends to someone) and I’m always the 2nd or 3rd behind. How do I change myself into becoming that person that opens the door instead of following others? This might ofcourse be a way smaller step and totally unrelevant, but it provides you and the readers some insight in how I’m thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How can I start changing my personality/mindset?No she went to come alongside with me to check out, outside, I thought that hinted to us being alone and she expected me to do something since the guy was passed out drunk anyway. That dick riding came later, I myself think I missed a good opportunity to undertake some action, because I’d rather avoid the fight or flight feeling that lets me shake on my legs. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | How can I start changing my personality/mindset?Okay, so yesterday we had a small party. Few guys few girls. Everyone a little bit tipsy, and I start messing with one of the girls about some random shit, one of our friends is pretty drunk and she doesn’t like it, comes over for a hug, slowly sliding her hand over my back to herself. I noticed that hint, drunk friend goes outside t his car to take a nap and she asks me to check on him because the engine is running with her(!). My beta mode kicks in knowing I can undertake action, but ofcourse … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 08:05 AM |
| 2 | How can I start changing my personality/mindset?Yes, I’m grateful to have a nice looking face, but would still rank me slightly above average. I take good care of myself, I just don’t know how to keep/get a womans attention/interest in me that I like which starts to get kind of frustrating since it’s like a mental barrier that stops me. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 06:33 AM |
| 48 | Drake's StoryThats fuckeddddd man. Stay strong | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 02:05 AM |
| 21 | Rule #1 in lifeLmao! “It’s the 5 year old kids fault!” | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 3 | A catTeka sounds like something 6ix9ine would drop | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 10:56 AM |
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