| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | FWBs with flatmateProbably. Oh well. Toast! | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | FWBs with flatmateI don’t want anything serious and if I did I don’t think we’d be compatible enough. As friends? Yes. If we had absolutely nothing in common I probably wouldn’t have let things bubble to this point. But I like spending time with her, I just hope that we can keep things at the level they’re at now. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 09:49 AM |
| 6 | FWBs with flatmateIt’s more so her that I’m worried about. She’s only 18, and has already shown signs that she has become highly invested in me. She comes over every night, and I would feel bad for saying I want to be alone. And it’s only been a week. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 09:15 AM |
| 0 | FWBs with flatmateI guess so! And she hasn’t shown any red flags that she’s the type to stalk me through my door crack or something like that 😂 so I hope I am right when I say I’m in the clear | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 09:01 AM |
| 31 | FWBs with flatmateWe don’t share anything but a laundry. I barely saw her before this whole arrangement. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | How to go from here?Dude, you finally lost your v card. For now, just be happy if you ask me! Why keep overanalysing? | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 05:50 AM |
| 10 | How should I reply to this !Send a dick pic. That’s always my go to!! | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Symptoms of a dry spell hitting hardCertainly feels like more proportionate to the effort I’ve been putting in recently | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Symptoms of a dry spell hitting hard..? Elaborate? | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Lots of IOIs but no actual interestThere’s your answer | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.I have a lot of female friends who I love totally platonically with no ulterior motives, but I guess the whole “connecting” thing with sex has never fully resonated with me. Even if I genuinely love her. Maybe I have watching porn growing up to blame for that | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.I guess a simpler reason why I don’t get the whole “worthy” thing is that in general it is regarded that girls on OLD are open to just hooking up and nothing more. So I don’t get why i have to act like someone needs to share this “spark” with me in order to just get off. It’s not like there’s any investment or commitment in hooking up if both of you are honest. Is being picky sexy or something? You can appreciate a lot of beauty and not be desperate in my opinion | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.I get what youre saying abundantly clear. It’s tricky though because, if I am being sincere, as long as she’s attractive and she wants to, I’m dtf. And that screening process is already pretty much done for me by time I’ve matched with them. All the rejects I simply don’t send a like. Granted this standard is subject to change and become more airtight as time passes, but I’m in a place in my life where I want to try all sorts of sexual experiences as I am recently single and did not have this co… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:13 PM |
| 3 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.If I go on a date with a woman, it means I am willing to have sex with her. I’m not desperate for it, but I don’t try to hide it either. However I think sometimes I let them in on this too early. My rationale has been, “I’m a guy who thinks this girl was cute enough to go on a date with her, surely she knows I want to fuck her whether I explicitly imply that or not”. I’m still a newbie to this stuff though, so I’m wondering if I am wrong in this regard. I had 2 dates last week (friendzoned in fi… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Arighty boyos, what could I have done different last night?Really? I thought I was doing the opposite, coming in to head on as just another guy who wants to get in their pants. Which from my understanding is a reason for them to say no even if they ARE attracted to you. Also I don’t understand how someone would be down to bang, and not down to kiss? I kind of see the kiss as an indication that things could get spicy from there. Without the kiss I sort of keep distance out of respect for their boundaries. But oftentimes I can’t even get the kiss in play. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:48 AM |
| 6 | HookupWhat’s wrong with no strings attached getting laid if both are consenting? | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 11:19 AM |
| 3 | you guys are making this harder than it isI don’t think you guys should give up quite yet, lots of potential there. I know some terminally online gamer friends who secretly would love to get laid and this would be perfect for them. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for women on seducing men?I am all for sexual empowerment in every gender—even if that looks like a lot of partners. The thing that makes men prefer a lower body count isn’t that it’s “gross” but because men are insecure. In a perfect world, I would be able to be completely free of any jealousy and the number of past partners would be irrelevant. So just keep that in mind | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for women on seducing men?I guess I can’t speak for all men. Only myself. Then again, most of my friends are women so maybe I’m out of touch with what men think | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | you guys are making this harder than it isThis sounds fun, did it ever get published globally? | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for women on seducing men?This is news for me that men don’t like “sluts”. I think it’s more accurate to say that men prefer women with a low body count who they are seriously dating. Whether you do things considered “slutty” or not doesn’t really impact that metric when it comes down to it. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Party coming upGive us updates! If you have game, this is literally the best possible situation to implement it | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I was NOT readyAll of my friends are girls. And I find some of them attractive (though I wouldn’t do anything). It’s as soon as they want ME where my brain goes into overdrive. One of female friends wanted to cuddle in her bed after my breakup. I’ve slept in her bed a thousand times but just from her saying that my anxiety went through the roof so much that I declined | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I was NOT readyHonestly whatever fun I could have had was thwarted by my anxiety. I have a feeling there’s a whole lot of fun to unlock when I can actually take action and not be paralysed by the initial anxiety | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | I was NOT readyIt feels essentially debilitating though. Surely that’s a me thing. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I was NOT readyI can only wonder why that happens to us man. Is it just a product of an unfamiliar situation that has a lot of stakes? But surely something as natural as companionship should not feel so tormenting. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | First choice or notWould much rather be someone's final choice than their first. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?yes i appreciate how lucky i am to live here | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?sydney, australia | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?thanks | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?last two are good ideas | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything to do on a Friday/Saturday night besides going to bars or clubs?thanks but think of the context of this subreddit | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 0 | i asked a crush out, got rejected, still into her"by posting here you're implicitly asking for advice". that's fair to assume but not true, though i am thankful for anybody willing to give their input on my situation, including yourself | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 0 | i asked a crush out, got rejected, still into herit only happened yesterday, if i had to pay a dollar fee everytime i wanted to post something to reddit, i wouldnt post. but its free, so i use it to vent. not asking anybody for anything. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 12:46 PM |
| 0 | i asked a crush out, got rejected, still into heri use reddit to vent | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | asked her out today, she rejected mewhy did they reject you | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 09:55 AM |
| 2 | asked her out today, she rejected mei want to know why i was | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | asked her out today, she rejected methats my only question | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | she rejected me but that's not the pointno. not really. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | she rejected me but that's not the point-she considered us friends, we would chat -she knew me -we talked -she was single, in fact she expressed interest to me in finding one -my approach was very casual and playful, i said "what are my odds?" "what are your odds of what?" "you said you were looking for a man right? what are my odds? (playfully keep in mind)" she doesn't know of my mental health problems, atleast i dont think she does | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Hello Seddit, can anyone tell where did I go wrong? She didn't respondedyou sound like her neighbour, also the answer leads to nowhere | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 02:38 PM |
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