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Isn't having social issues a red flag though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:13 PM
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I also think there are women who are just a little more old fashioned who prefer to wait for a committed relationship and would prefer their partner did too. You realize that a guy can only have committed relationships and at the same time not be a virgin, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:07 AM
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If you went to church when you were young and believed in God, that obviously affected your views on relationships. My comment was about non religious virgin women so that doesn't include you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:17 AM
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I was not religious in a strict sense So you were still religious to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:46 AM
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if they are religious maybe, but non religious women definitely do not want virgin men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:50 PM
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Because it’s unhealthy in any amount. Source The made up statistics about everything people talk about here are all junk. Until scientists go around and ask EVERY person So by this logic literally any survey about any topic is irrelevant? And he’s not the first guy I’ve met who’s like that. There are plenty of men out there who feel like using porn is unhealthy and plenty who feel like it’s cheating to be a cuck for someone else’s relationship/sexual experience. Ok now I just feel bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:23 PM
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The amount is irrelevant to me Why is the amount irrelevant “But all guys watch porn” no, they don’t. According to surveys, about 95% of guys watch porn. The remaining 5% who don't are most likely gay or asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:02 PM
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Obviously, it depends on the amount. Most people would agree kfc and McDonald's is massively unhealthy, but it's not a problem if it's once every two weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:37 PM
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Anytime a man wants to watch porn and masturbate without permission from a woman, women say porn hurts women and destroys women’s image and causes violence against them, and that it should all be taken down. That's only a small portion of radical women. Most women read and watch porn themselves, so it makes no sense for them to mock men who do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:35 PM
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Pretending that sex isn't important, much less, the main motivator to basically do anything productive in life for most men is no less dellusional then woman in their late 40's who "refuse to settle". Not denying sex is important, but I think saying it's the main motivator to do anything productive is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:32 PM
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I was not talking about gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:34 PM
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ome beliefs most feminists consider sexist Like what beliefs? If it's stuff like "body count matters" or "men and women are different" then I don't think that's sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:08 PM
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Dominant men != Sexist, anti feminist men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:00 PM
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Then they should improve on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:25 PM
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Why else would they not be in relationships but people physically and emotionally worse than them can?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:15 PM
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If there are toxic, overweight, boring people who manage to get into relationships, but you can't, that's the biggest flag that you need to evaluate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:47 PM
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You can continue searching for romantic attention while simultaneously doing self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:33 PM
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How else is a virgin supposed to get romantic attention if he doesn't improve on himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:00 PM
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You wrote a cmv post claiming that romance is just sex and friendship. I wrote a comment to disprove your point in the title. Because young children can feel romance while having no knowledge of sex, thus the claim you made in the title is false
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:37 PM
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The whole premise of your question is that you are assuming your experiences are the same as everyone else's. Just because you never felt romantic feelings apart from sexual ones, does that mean it is right to make it the case for everyone. I personally had my first serious crush at 10 when I didn't even know what sex was. Some people have crushes and relationships because they genuinely experience those strong feelings, sex might not even be on their mind at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:33 PM
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And for the dumbest of reasons. I dated in middle school because I was expected to and I had guy friends. That's the issue with your question. For many people they don't date because they are expected to, they do it because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:24 PM
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Except a lot of the times fiction can reflect reality. Kids get romantic crushes all the time on their classmates, but they don't have any desire to have sex with them. It's usually past the 12-14 years old mark that they begin to have sexual desires along with their romantic desires
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:18 PM
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Lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:57 PM
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Just curious, how would you explain romance in Disney movies and kids tv shows using this logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:44 PM
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Morality is important, it just has very little to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:10 PM
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You said that women cause drama and chaos, but you also said you are attracted to them. Thus you are claiming you are attracted to people who cause drama and chaos, which is just fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:32 PM
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It sounds like yours are as well, if this is the kind of logic you use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:30 PM
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So you are romantically attracted to people that bring drama and chaos. Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:24 PM
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If you think that why do you even want to date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 PM
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1000% agree with this. OP is being delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:15 AM
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Then it's not a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:56 PM
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Because a relationship consists of two people caring for each other's well being?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:25 PM
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I'm in my early twenties, so I'm not considering dating for marriage or long term right now. It will be a very different story when I'm 30 but for now I'm not that concerned with any future plans
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:47 PM
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If you have a likable personality, both men and women would want to interact with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:47 PM
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How do you not know anyone at your college? The college I'm from, there are clubs, volunteering, student groups, sports, parties etc. Even if you are an extreme introvert and don't do those things, or if your college doesn't have them, just go up to someone after class and ask if they want to work on homework together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:46 PM
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If the only reason why you are in a relationship is to get your dick wet there's something wrong with your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:25 PM
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If the guy is the one who is stressed and rejecting her advances, then she should focus on how he is feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:49 PM
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They are popular among women, so assuming men are curious about the type of stories women like, they will go looking for them. It's like how as a woman I watched harem anime that catered to men when I was young because I was curious about the fantasies men enjoy. For example, Hamza, a popular red pill YouTuber when wanting to find out what women enjoy would search for popular women romances and erotica, which is how he found the stories I talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:48 PM
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Those books are very popular romances among women, stories that have an awkward man as the mc are usually popular among men, not women. It's pretty noticeable once you step out of your bubble and actually pay attention to what women like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:37 AM
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> Cite me a story where the story ends with the woman actually ending up with the rich evil guy. 50 shades of gray, Hush hush, monster in his eyes, on dublin street, practice makes perfect. The list is endless and it's all stories that women like and it amazes me that men like you never notice them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:40 AM
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It depends on the framing imo. If the husband, after helping his wife asks, so are we going to have sex yet? Ofc she is going to get mad. The priority should always be how your partner is feeling, if you treat sex like it's an obligation that is already a massive turn off. There's no need to make this a gendered scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:19 AM
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To give an example, someone posted on XX that infamous "lonely men epidemic" article. All of the comments were some variation of "there is no epidemic!" "What about women? Women are lonely too!" "It's men's own fault they are lonely"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:51 PM
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What about the men who do put in effort? There's no sympathy for them either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:42 PM
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Wanting more women to have basic sympathy is being a pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:22 PM
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I agree with some of the posts there but I don't like how they are so unsympathetic towards men. It's like they can't even accept sympathy towards a fellow human being, they always have to put gender first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:29 PM
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As a woman, XX is an absolute shit subreddit which is why I don't go to it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:51 PM
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If you only do good things because you will face consequences otherwise, that is something you need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:34 PM
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Being disinterested in dating them does not mean not minding if they fall off the face of the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:16 PM
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It often slips out. For example, if you hold a lot of misogyny and general hatred and bitterness towards women, it usually manifests when you talk to them. She might notice you have a very negative attitude, bad mood, unfriendly language, and then avoid you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:32 PM
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So you only do good things if you face repercussions otherwise? What a sad way to live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:18 PM
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I have a very hard time believing that. What if she has nothing in common with you? What if she is super religious and you're not? What if she has very strong political beliefs that are the opposite to yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:08 PM
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Yes, but if society is already helping you, you have the responsibility in being at minimal a decent human being
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:59 PM
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Men rate women on normal bell curves of desirability Women are much more selective and unrealistic in their assessment (to the point of memes like https://igotstandardsbro.com) What does this have anything to do with cognitive dissonance??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:42 PM
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This study compares feminist women with non feminist women, I thought we were talking between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:21 PM
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Prove that it is women who experience cognitive dissonance and not men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:13 PM
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If you had an education, have a job, go to places like stores or parks, then you already have an investment in society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:08 PM
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No, it's not. Political correctness and blue pill is spread across genders, not just in women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:02 PM
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Those things are still very true though. Being nice isn't supposed to get you a date, it's supposed to make you a civilized member of society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:37 PM
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A lot of people who fail in dating do indeed have toxic personalities, but that's only a problem if your date knows about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:34 PM
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Obviously, but most other aspects of life are not meritocratic, why are they so hung up on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:31 PM
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That's everyone, not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:30 PM
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That woman was just being silly imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:19 AM
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there are red pillers who like women and are not angry, but there is a substantial number of them who are bitter and angry towards women and will say misogynistic things at every opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:00 AM
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Yup. I don't mind the red pill men who actually take the time and effort to improve themselves in terms of looks, charisma, and status to be successful, but there is a large percentage of them who just sits on sites like reddit to do nothing but complain and say misogynistic things about how terrible women are for not dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:58 AM
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I used to feel angry towards the men here, but now I don't. All I feel is pity that some people are just bitter all the time and can't see women as other than potential romantic/sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:03 AM
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So saying it is illogical for men to blame women for their dating problems is the same as saying it is ok for women to blame men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:55 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:42 PM
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It also applies to trans men so it actually applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:09 PM
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I'll address it as soon as you address my points
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:15 PM
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. But men have to pay child support if men keep the baby and men cannot say nothing if they want the baby and women don't Yea I don't agree with this men cannot say nothing if they want the baby and women don't I just explained why so now you are ignoring me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:07 PM
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Give me right, not gender specific, that men have and women don't. I already gave you one, it's called bodily autonomy which men have and now women don't But it takes two to tango, it is his baby too. Why does he has nothing to say about it? You literally couldn't have a baby without him. Because anti abortion laws take bodily autonomy from the woman and not from the man. It prevents women from choosing who gets to use their body and when. When a woman gets pregnant, the fetus consumes her bodil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:54 PM
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But you tell me what rights men have that women don't They have the right to make decisions for their body, which roe v Wade prevented women from having When women get pregnant and want to keep the baby, men have no say but if women decided to abort the baby, the men still have no say. Yes, because it is the woman's body that is being harmed during pregnancy, not the man's
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:46 PM
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Roe vs Wade was overturned tho so actually women don't have rights
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:28 AM
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Just because you don't want a relationship doesn't mean other men also don't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:08 PM
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No, we are not. Some people actually manage to have relationships where they are desired, not settled for. Relationships where either partner wouldn't want to be with most other people besides their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:49 PM
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Yep. I recently talked to someone about applying to jobs and then when I mentioned lying, she went on an entire "lying is bad" vent and about how people who lie are always found out eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:04 PM
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People in our youth tell us all sorts of things are bad when reality it's not true. Take lying for example. How many times have parents, friends, and teachers told us lying is horrible and you will definitely be found out? Even so, most people lie during interviews and on resumes. Some of the most successful people in business and politics are liars. Another example is "follow your passion" while in reality people fail 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:59 PM
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Cool. So dating apps cannot represent most women because most women do not use them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:39 PM
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They don't lie to everyone, they lie to you because they sense that you will take the opportunity to shame them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:38 PM
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So you want to shame people for their preferences, and then you are surprised when they lie to you about them??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:59 PM
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Dating apps are now a part of dating as they are the most common way of people finding a partner at 30%. 30% is not most people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:57 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:44 PM
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Have you looked at the comments to this post? Many of them are from men who directly say I resent women, women have no empathy, women ruined my life etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:24 PM
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Which shows you have no idea about what women's hardships are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:47 PM
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You have a double standard for men and women if you think that a lot of men are creepy and with no self-respect but almost no woman is creepy and they all have self-respect. Where are you even getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:45 PM
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So it's obviously not biology's fault, because otherwise all men would be simps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:42 PM
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There are many men who do not simp and do have self respect tho. So your statement is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:38 PM
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Then blame the men who choose to have no respect for themselves and simp for women unconditionally??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:32 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:10 PM
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You can choose to put in effort into finding a partner. You just don't choose to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:52 PM
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If you live (I'm assuming) in a western country, the government already provides opportunities to get an education, get a job, get financial benefits including healthcare if you are low income, etc. Society is already helping men, so men do indeed owe society something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:08 PM
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If your replies to my comments are an indication of your attitude towards women, it makes sense you're not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:03 PM
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I like how the men in this sub have no idea about women's hardships on dating and then whine about their own hardships, expecting everyone to hold their hand and feel sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:02 PM
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I know from experience that women are disgusted by me trying to present myself as a sexual or a relationship prospect Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:00 PM
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And your prescriptions are something that everyone must follow everywhere If that's the way you think, don't be surprised when women call you weird or creepy. If it's truly just me who has these so called "prescriptions", then you should have no problem doing cold approaches 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:51 AM
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No, the answer is she COULD have done it, Ok, but she can't reverse it You could always be less honest with the guy about your body count or try to get a guy who doesn’t care or a guy who does but is willing to compromise and completely avoid any kind of problems. That's literally the same case for men. If men were willing to date below average women, they can find women who don't care about height The evidence states that men find average women attractive. If you’re skinny, you’re already a 7 o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:38 AM
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You clearly hold the stance its okay for women to blame men but not for men to blame women Where? Just point it out to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:33 AM
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The date isn't supposed to be the "start" of the screening process. It's for after you already have a connection with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:31 AM
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You live with the consequences of your actions So the answer is she can't That is also true, because 50% of women are obese. That makes an average woman who is at, or below 5/10, obese I was talking about 5/10 women in terms of facial features, no body
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:00 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship before? It's not as simple as just asking for love and having that come to you. If you take even a 5 minute scroll onto r/dating and actually looked at female dating experience, there are men who will act nice to your face and then dump you immediately after having sex. There have been women looking for love and relationships for years and never find them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:39 AM
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Feminism is a polemical, combative ideology that starts with a truth and selectively collects facts to support the idea that men are loving life and women's lives suck. Thanks for proving that you know nothing about feminism whatsoever The man is still screening her just as much as she is screening him. If the man is screening her, why would he even ask her out on a date when he knows nothing about her besides that she is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:26 AM
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Morally equal does not mean men and women are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:21 AM
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How the fuck am I supposed to grow taller? So how the fuck is a woman in her 25s supposed to go back in time and decrease her body count? Most of the women that men don’t like are generally fat, which is again an indicator of poor choices. I doubt this is true. Most men would not want to date a woman they find below a 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:20 AM
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Because it's a dating app?? Most women who use dating apps are only looking for hookups, ofc looks are going to be 90% the indicator since you're not even going to have a long term relationship with the person you're matching with. How is that even representing most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:18 AM
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Exactly, most men on reddit complaining are just average looking, and they can easily improve their looks enough to find a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:16 AM
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but the vast majority of women will face no real difficulties in finding partners How bold of you that you assume this. Not everything is easy for women just because we are born the female gender, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:12 AM
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This isn't even the majority of women though. Is there anything to even prove that more than 30% of short women want men over 6ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:02 AM
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Your analogy makes no sense. Women reject men, and men reject women. Women care about looks, men also care about looks. We are not frogs and scorpions, we are both of the same species
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:00 AM
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Because literally everything you describe in a man’s preference is actually possible for a woman to do. It's not though. If a woman made bad decisions in her youth and ended up with a high body count, it is impossible for her to travel back in time and reverse that. Or, for example, if she was trafficked/groomed/raped, it would be something entirely out of her control. I guarantee you that if he says he likes “childlike” petite skinny women with humongous tits and ass, he would be rightfully rid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:13 AM
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Despite all this, the only problem men have is women LIE THROUGH THEIR TEETH about their preferences till their last breath about how it’s all personality and looks don’t matter The reason for this is because women generally get more shame for being shallow than men. If you look at the comments to those dating podcasts, whenever the guy talks about his preferences for submissive women, low body count women, traditional women etc, the comments generally cheer him on. But if a girl says he wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:43 AM
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I have no idea what you're even replying to at this point. Believe it or not, it's possible to be mature about rejection, understand that someone might not feel the same for you as you feel for them, and finally move on with your day. It's called being an adult. The only low standard here is how these men are treated by society and women for just... what? bad luck? Nobody on this sub is treating men poorly for having bad luck. People call out the misogyny of blaming women for their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:27 AM
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The fact that you are saying the only two options for resentful men is to either post misogyny on the internet or to plot against women irl shows exactly how low the standards for men really are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:35 AM
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It's amazing to me how little reading comprehension people on this sub have. When did I ever say it is "not illogical for women to blame men"?? It might be natural to feel resentment, but anyone mature enough would recognize those thoughts as illogical and coming from a place of emotions, and would refrain from posting their misogynistic thoughts on the internet for everyone to see
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:26 AM
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ridiculous claim that an average 5/10 guy doesn't have a hard time on dating apps Please highlight where tf I made this claim in my post (because I didn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:29 PM
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You can take photos of someone attractive that are unattractive. That's what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:38 PM
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You haven't seen the r/inceltears posts that they make saying they wish for "stacies" to get burned in a fire or have some lasting deformity? Or the posts calling for women to be raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:11 PM
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I 100% agree with you. I think any guy who doesn't want to compete should not compete. The issue is that there is large percentage of young and middle age men who do not want to compete for women who are 5/10 and below but will complain on social media and incel forums that they can't get a girlfriend as well as spread misogynistic messages. If 5/10 guys decide they don't want to date anymore, I am all for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:51 PM
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Which is why you have to show her that you're better than Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:33 PM
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Not every woman wants to just sleep around. If you can fulfill her romantically and emotionally, she will choose you over the Chad because she knows she can't keep him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:12 PM
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Dating apps aren't the only way to find dates. If you had bothered reading my post, I stated, "In the case that you can get dates, impressing them on a date isn't that hard. If you can't get dates, there is still a chance for you if you have 5/10 or above appearance and you approach women in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:50 PM
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You kinda had me up until that. OLD is miserable for average men Yea I think I made my point badly. I meant the standards are low in terms of talk chemistry and banter, after you are able to get matches. I acknowledge that it's much harder to get matches when looking for girls than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:37 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:33 PM
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If there is a way of increasing dating inequality without harming the free will of women I am 100% for it, but until AI becomes more advanced, there's no way to do it so until then there is only self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:20 PM
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Thanks for changing my mind with that single sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:18 PM
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If she’s not asking questions or even attempting to hold a basic conversation, it’s very likely not because the man is asking boring interview questions, it’s because she’s not interested. If she's already agreed to be on a date with you or matched with you, this means she already has some degree of interest in you. Your statement only holds true if none of those things apply in which case you find another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:51 PM
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Ok you got me there. I'll give you a point for that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:42 PM
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5/10 girls are not attracted to the majority of average men, I agree that 5/10 girls are not initially attracted to average men, but my point is that it's the same for reverse. That's why you see it's only women with big boobs and a curvy body getting all the likes on Instagram. Women with an ugly face or body are ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:41 PM
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Women below a 5/10 have difficulty getting into romantic relationships irl, similar to men, you just don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:29 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:19 PM
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A 3/10 girl with or without makeup will still be attractive to at least 60% of the men her age Is there evidence that this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:16 PM
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I agree with you, but it's also true that since this is a sub that debates dating it is inevitable that both men and women will have thoughts about what dating is like for the other sex. Men on this sub also make posts about how dating for women is easy and I will debate them on that but I won't tell them to become a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:13 PM
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Women don’t break their necks looking at the average men walking by You don't need women breaking their necks to look at you for them to want to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:00 PM
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I never need to feel like I have to pull the information out of them by asking them question after question after question Usually this happens after we become close friends. Before that in the very initial stage it is asking question after question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:00 PM
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Yea, this is basically my pov on the situation. I think it's much easier to date someone who you meet in person on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:57 PM
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His rebuttal isn't an actual rebuttal tho, because I said in the title of my post that this advice is for average men and then I said it again that this cmv disregards men who are below 5/10, who I admit have it much much harder. So this post isn't even about those men, who I already admit have it difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:53 PM
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I learned that men do not want women who are overweight or have a high body count or are old or are single mothers. That she must also have a nice face and be kind to him. I think women definitely have higher standards tho. Because women will want a man who is fit and is a leader among other things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:50 PM
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Women DO NOT HAVE TO KNOW what men want because men are not picky. How come you almost never see people teaching women how to treat men They do. That's why I watch dating advice videos from men to learn their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:43 PM
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Sure, I've been thinking of doing that but I just haven't figured out how to get good photos. Most photos I've seen of men are pretty bad. If an average man agrees for me to take his photos in addition to letting me create his profile, I'll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:42 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:39 PM
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So red pill men can talk about the dating experience of the average woman and how they have it easy but women can't have opinions about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:37 PM
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They do not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:36 PM
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You just don't understand how to read reddit posts, which this one is titled "for average men" meaning 5/10 men not "for all men".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:35 PM
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According to who? Many men on dating apps aren't physically fit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:34 PM
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I'm guessing your single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 PM
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If it's just physical condition, I think men would reach a 5 or a 6. However, we need to take into account that the average woman does a lot more (makeup, skin care, shaving body hair, etc) for physical appearance then men do. I think if men were in their peak physical condition and put in a similar effort into appearance like women, the average man will be between a 6-7
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:29 PM
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The average man can easily become 5/10 or 6/10 just by eating healthy or going to the gym. There are so many overweight men in western countries that average is actually lower than it actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:22 PM
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Him: “How was your weekend”. Her: “Ya it was good, was with friends.” Him: “Aah, okay”. This is your issue. You never want to say "Aah, okay." and move on to the next question. The "engaging conversation" you gave rarely ever happens, even between women. This is how it's supposed to be: Him: How was your weekend Her: Ya it was good, was with friends Him: Where did you go Her: Just that new Japanese restaurant nearby the mall Him: Did you order ramen? Her: No Him: Oh, don't like ramen? Her: No, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:20 PM
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. Two women getting together to hold hands and have ice cream isn't equivalent to a dude trying to smash You don't need to have sex on your mind right away. Your first goal should always be to get to know the person, not trying to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:05 PM
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They complain because they don't like them back. It's not because they want a romantic relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:57 AM
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A lot of people in romantic relationships started out as friends with no initial desire for dating. It's not uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:57 AM
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This could be it tbh. My dad is very over confident and politically incorrect and he has a great relationship with my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:02 AM
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No, she's saying you are right in that you won't find true love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:20 PM
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Better person does not mean to become a morally better person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:19 PM
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The way you've characterised nice men extends past simply being nice and is more like a shy, meek, anxiety-ridden puppy, because nothings stops a nice man from being flirty and passionate You just summarized what I said in my post. When men try to be "nice" to get into relationships with women, they overdo it by being over polite and agreeing with everything she says. They don't take the initiative and are afraid to express their opinions. Nice men are not as black and white as you're making out…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:16 PM
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mentally unstable women who date abusive men aren't typically harming anyone tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:50 PM
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Imo slightly below normal attention is the best for relationships. If you give her too little, she will become bored
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:52 PM
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That's my point. What you describe doesn't contradict being nice and respectful. If you put her on a pedestal and give her attention above a certain threshold, you are no longer treating her like a girlfriend but like a queen. And when you stop treating her like a girlfriend, she is going to stop seeing you the same way. You can literally be nice and respectful but at the same time treat her like a normal person rather than oh you matter so much I need to be with you all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:44 PM
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You are proving the point of my post. What you think of as an "asshole" is not actually an asshole. > Why is someone who is well-mannered, polite, sweet and agreeable not capable of being passionate or having a high level of talk chemistry? Why can they not be flirty? I can't believe I have to explain this, but someone who is those qualities will not be able to get close to a woman on an emotionally close and romantic level. That's why flirty banter and assertiveness is a staple in most romance …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:33 PM
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You are probably hanging out with the wrong women, then. I don't think a decent woman who graduated from Berkeley, has a high paying job, has a low body count, takes care of her appearance, has a social life, will go for a gangster criminal that adds nothing to her life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:20 PM
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those women are likely mentally ill or unstable, then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:01 PM
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the male definition of nice and respectful is called a friend, not a lover. A lover should be passionate and have a high level of talk chemistry and that is hard to achieve with someone overly nice and polite. Politeness of the type you encounter in a work setting naturally implies some degree of distance or formality, which is horrible for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:59 PM
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> When men think of nice guys it is exactly what what they mean: respectful, nice, well mannered and so on. This is exactly what I said in my post (which you would know if you had bothered to read it): Men's idea of a guy who is "nice and respectful" is someone who is well mannered, polite, sweet, and agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:56 PM
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Yea, that is the type of guy women think of when they say, "I don't want an asshole" but the type of guy that comes up in men's minds is different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:14 PM
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If you don't want to be like that, nobody is forcing you. But you have to acknowledge that a decent number of women will not like that or see that as a drawback
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:12 PM
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Eh. I think many guys fits that type of standard tbh. Have you ever watched Zach Star? (esp his channel zach star himself) Or Coach Kyle? Or Kyle Kulinski?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:09 PM
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women are used to be men being submissive and talking to them like some kind catholic priest volunteer worker with a servicing timid smile plastered on his face. Believe me, if she is a good woman, someone you would want to date, she would not enjoy her partner speaking to her like this. She would rather someone treat her like a person rather than some queen. Therefore chads upset women's ordinary equilibrium of power and world view. You clearly haven't read my post at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:08 PM
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I'm surprised how the men on this sub have no social awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:35 PM
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Unless you are living in an Asian/East European/other country that relies on traditional values, both men and women spend money and effort until they find someone that is good enough. What you describe isn't just a "woman thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:24 AM
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I have no idea how your minecraft analogy even relates to dating. I can't believe I need to say this but if men are successful in dating, this is a plus for women because we become successful in dating, too. If 90% of men are unattractive, it becomes harder for women to find relationships with the men who are. It only makes it tiring for us and having to spend more energy to find "the good ones", only to find them already paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:17 AM
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As a woman, this is an incredibly bad faith question. You might not be interested in a relationship but for the vast majority of people who are not aromantic/asexual, it is a very important component of mental well being because they want the intimacy and love involved in it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:38 AM
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And what if the AI wants to leave him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 PM
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Yes, and an AI girlfriend is the latter. Can she leave you when you are being abusive? Is she allowed to make demands from you? Is she allowed to be angry or unhappy with you? The answer to these questions is no, which is why an AI girlfriend is nothing more than a personal maid, and why she isn't a real girlfriend. Because she doesn't love you. She stays with you because she is programmed to. Not of her own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:56 AM
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So he wants an girlfriend that doesn't conform to his every wish? If that's the case, he wouldn't want an AI girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:05 AM
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If the guy I like prefers a robot that conforms to his every wish over an actual human being with her own wants and desires, that is already a red flag for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:38 PM
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Then you advocate for men to get equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:58 PM
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Because of your assumption that women only come on here to argue and hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:19 PM
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The definition of feminism is "the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." So it seems like you are the one redefining feminism through your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:40 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:38 PM
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And there have been a lot of those that actually go against equality Is there a source that says the majority of feminists are against equality? Also a definition does not determine the judgment of a movement Whether you want it to be or not, the definition of words matter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:37 PM
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Search up "feminism definition". That is quite literally what it's about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:23 AM
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I'm an equalist and also a feminist bc I believe in gender equality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:22 AM
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The definition of feminism is, "the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." So equality is literally in the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:42 AM
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Which is why it is important to have your own opinion on what words mean. Just because a feminist was once mean to you doesn't mean gender equality is unimportant or that the patriarchy isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:59 AM
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Feminism is a supremacist movement that normalizes preferential treatment of one group over another Feminism by definition is simply being pro gender equality. That's what I identify with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:50 AM
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I'm a feminist, but I don't think women are the "good gender". I think a similar percentage of women and men are bad, and I think in the current dating climate, there are too many extremes on both sides. I also believe that all the pills are partially right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:15 AM
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Because I'm curious about dating from men's perspective? Because I want to see opinions that are different from mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:11 AM
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It's not obviously sexual, it's just very rude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:05 PM
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Idk if it's sexual but it is very rude and those women shouldn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:25 PM
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Yea because there is that implication behind it. Women are allowed to be sad, and you shouldn't tell them to smile more because people shouldn't have to become more attractive for your sake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:01 PM
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Because he talked about a group of women who said that people saying telling women to smile more is patriarchal are demonizing mens sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:55 PM
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I have no idea why you think telling women to smile more is equivalent to feeling sexual desires. I come across unattractive men, but I never go up to them and tell them the things they need to fix. That is just being rude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:43 PM
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I think OP is just saying "with a man" not "with penetration"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:48 PM
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