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| 2 | Best content I've seen on how to express excitement without coming off as needySeconded. You can't always tell at the outset whether someone has such issues, but once you find out, stop trying to cure it and move on to someone who is open to the idea of you liking them. Ive realized in order for someone to not be "freaked out" that you like them beyond sex, they must like themselves. If they don't, you can't do much to change that. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | A great exercise that will make you more attractive to girlsSaving this post, and yes this is true. It's a technique used in trauma therapy. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Negging Is For 10sOk appreciated | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 12:14 PM |
| 15 | Negging Is For 10sYes thank you. When I see negging in real life it comes across as a guy projecting his insecurities on to me. It's very boring. Playful push pull is much more fun. Sorry if this is an unpopular opinion, but to me negging is an outdated concept, like women being advised they can't wear pants at work or men being told pink is a girly color. Examples of push pull play: Me to guy: "You keep moving your chair closer like every five minutes ;)" . Him: "Oh? So shall I move it back then?" . Me (laughing… | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 09:52 AM |
| 11 | This Is Why You Get Ghosted & IgnoredCan I chime in (as a woman) and say that this not necessarily a manipulative technique. I find it quite meaningful that you choose to look at what a woman lacks. Not in the 'hey you suck at this' way, but 'hey so this is what you don't have in life...I can give it to you'. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 08:57 AM |
| 3 | This Is Why You Get Ghosted & IgnoredI actually totally agree with what you said (and with the original post). 'Bad boys' are not putting girls on a pedestal. They're offering a hand out and saying, hey let's have some fun wink wink! I think there's a genuine disconnect between when women say they want 'nice guys' and what guys assume that is. I posted earlier in an AskMen thread about a related issue and got a bit shot down for it, but no harm in exchanging views I guess. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me.Yes this. Keep the momentum going and try to meet up asap. This is why it’s better to connect with someone on a Thursday so you can arrange to meet them Friday or Saturday. If you start talking to them on Monday, and plan the date for Friday the interest will fizzle out. Source: am a woman. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Telling A Girl You're Making Out With HerJust jumping in to say I'm a girl and I agree with this approach. When a guy tells me on a date that he's going to make out with me I'm definitely receptive to it. If he says it on tinder he is raising the bar really high for himself. Is he Super attractive, good at flirting, funny? If yes then sure, I'd take it as a positive. Is he striking out on one of those things? If so then his declaration only makes him look like the Shermanator. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Definitely more delivery than anything. Do it in the flow of things. Smile coyly, have fun doing it. Don't act stunted or worried. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?See above | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?I didn't call it sexual chemistry. And I don't understand the question. I'd be happy to explain my end if you elaborated a little. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:35 AM |
| 19 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Good Closes: Him: "I think I want to come sit next to you." Me: "Sure why not" Him: Comes stands next to me, looks at me seductively and moves in for a kiss Me: Bliss Him: "I have a confession to make, I haven't heard anything for the past five minutes because all I've been thinking about is how good it would be to kiss you" Me: "Well okay then, I think we should find out" Unexpected Close: Spend date arguing about differing political views. In my mind, this is not going down in any way imaginab… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:34 AM |
| 23 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Girl's perspective here. I will sleep with a guy on the first date based on two crucial things: 1) the minute he sits down opposite me, there must be instant chemistry. After going on 3 dates a week for the past 6 months I've come to realise chemistry is not a magical thing. It happens when the guy constantly makes eye contact and smiles in a flirty way with you. And then slowly engages in more flirtation e.g. Touch or sexual joking. 2)Close. At the end of the date make a move. I could give spec… | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:22 PM |
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