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RED FLAG 🚨zoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:44 PM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:23 PM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:38 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:07 AM
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NAH, SISzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:13 AM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:06 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:35 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 PM
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STAY WOKEzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:36 AM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:13 PM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:12 PM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:01 PM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:31 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:55 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨zoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:57 PM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:38 AM
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DISCUSSIONzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:21 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:08 AM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:52 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:25 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:48 AM
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RANTzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:59 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:02 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYzoologist_to_be/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:22 PM
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Thank you for you kind words, it means a lot to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:43 AM
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It’s nice to know I’m not alone, I seriously appreciate your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:43 AM
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Thank you, reading this comment means a lot to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:42 AM
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Yeah, I think I need an internet purge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:42 AM
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Thank you so much, I just want to cry reading this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:41 AM
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This comment was really helpful, I didn’t realise that there was so much of this shaming of women who want to date although I did see a post about pretty privilege that I didn’t think was something this sub dealt with. I had been feeling quite negative about men recently and even looked at one of the anti-dating subs to see if that’s what I wanted but quickly realised it wasn’t. I’m glad you posted this as a clarification that new users of the sub were derailing conversations and blaming other m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:02 AM
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Yup, butt stuff is also a porn lie fed to us because women suffering is the prevalent kink in porn. No, butt stuff is not enjoyable sexually for women. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:59 AM
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Yup yup yup!!💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:21 PM
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I feel the same way. I’m 19 and have been hurt time and time and time again by men. I’m sick of it and I don’t want to put myself out there to just be hurt. I don’t want to play the game. I just want to cry because this makes me feel like I don’t have a space all over again. I hate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:42 PM
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Omg, I can’t believe I did that🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:17 AM
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RIGHT THAT BOOK! Please I’m begging you, I will edit that book for free and give my personal testimony on my experiences for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:52 PM
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Was molested by a girl 3 years older than me when I was 7. Got groped and sexually harassed at ages 13, 14, 15, and 17 in school by other male students. I’m also 19, born in 2001
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:49 PM
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I agree, I’m 19 and even I had to overcome watching porn starting from age 11. I don’t watch porn now but it fucked me up so bad mentally and this sub is helping me slowly recover but a LVM I used to know talked about how he wanted to choke a woman during sex and I felt physically ill thinking that was just something a guy thought was a normal sexual act. I think that FDS has made me safer in life in general and has helped me cultivate female friendships but I think it’s sad that they are really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:45 PM
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He’s in jail?!? I didn’t know but this is good news for me as I wasn’t aware, thanks for letting me know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:49 PM
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Surviving R Kelly, prepare to be OUTRAGED with a capital O.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:58 PM
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Watch the doc on Netflix about R Kelly and his life long depravity. It’s so awful but like this is what women go through everyday. Why R Kelly isn’t rotting in jail is because we have a justice system made for powerful evil men by powerful evil men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:00 PM
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Yes, but it’s just the idea that this is where porn is leading because of the increase in brutality this won’t be satire for long it will be a reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:29 AM
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Satire or not just the fact that this is a common thought disturbs me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:08 AM
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I had a LV guy friend who I tried to keep in touch with after we graduated from high school last year. I was the one putting time, energy, emotion and care into this relationship and he was giving nothing in return. He constantly would ghost me for months and then suddenly call me on HIS terms like nothing was wrong with ignoring my texts for three months. Then he told me that not all me are bad but then proceeded to tell me about his fantasy where he wanted to choke women during sex. I found FD…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:39 PM
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Can confirm. Was groped, sexually harassed, had images of myself altered to look like an underwater model and passed around the school and even seen by teachers who did nothing. All my friends had been either harassed or groped, some when they were sitting in class. Nothing ever happen to the guys but a few of the girls left school because it was so traumatising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:19 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah, I guess it’ll just take practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:58 PM
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So it’ll be easy to tell them apart and ban them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:58 PM
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The podcast is amazing and your mental health comes first! Reddit can shove it, they aren’t worth your time. Sending hugs!! You are a QUEEN!👸🌺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:50 PM
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This gave me chills, it’s an amazing poem, very sad and very powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:20 PM
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I ALSO DONT HAVE TO EXPLAIN WHY I FEEL SOMETHING EITHER....even tho I’m a hopeless people pleaser I will try not to do it anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:36 AM
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Yeah, I’m just so tired of being called a horrible person, I’ve been assaulted sexually in front of others in broad daylight, I know it’s not the victims fault they are assaulted, but Christ why is it so wrong to want to look out for other women and potentially help them avoid danger?!? Why only treat the trauma after but not try to prevent it from happening?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:18 AM
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Yeah, I was just saying that it is better to be safe and avoid a lot of casual sexual encounters with men because the men who want casual sex are mostly LVM who can’t be trusted. If you are adult it is 100% not your fault because people are sole responsibility for their own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:43 AM
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QUEEN!! You are amazing!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:15 AM
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You sound so educated in this area, you should start your own community about it. I’d join!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:20 PM
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Yeah, alway thought that cavity searches were awful but never really put two and two together. Cavity searches are legal r*pe. Wow this really changes my out look on cops, not that I liked them to begin with but they are basically scum all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:59 PM
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Exactly, I’m just stunned she even wants this when clearly it’s already affecting her after only one casual hook up😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:25 AM
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This comment is very thought provoking, honestly this makes me sceptical of anything said and done by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:05 AM
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Exactly, let them be ignorant and keep pushing woman away with their awfulness, and scrotes, DIE MAD!🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:21 PM
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Lol thanks for spreading the FDS gospel scrotes! Your unintended advertisement is much appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:11 PM
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Yes QUEEN!!! You deserve everything in life, you are worthy of love and respect and anyone who doesn’t give it to doesn’t deserve you in their life. You are a warrior!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:16 PM
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My dyslexic eyes read penises as pennies and I’m like whats up with copper coins and men?😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:38 PM
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Yup, I straight up told my brother all men are trash and he was like ‘Yeah you right’😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:43 PM
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Already when I was 15 I guy at my school took a photo from Facebook and used it to put my face on an underwear model and showed it to everyone in my grade. Even a teacher saw it and said nothing. I didn’t go to a teacher about but I told my dad and he immediately blamed the fact that I was on a boys only basketball team. Like this is your fault that people think your a slut, you shouldn’t play male dominated sports. I quit the team and I had to go back into school to be further harassed by this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:04 PM
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I remember hearing about a new dating app and one of the features was that you couldn’t block and delete a person without first providing an explanation. Wouldn’t you know the creators were scrotes and were probably tired of women ghosting them🙄 Also you could only talk to three people at a time so yeah this is totally unfair to women because we are mostly high value but the men are almost all LVM on dating apps so this feature would seriously limit our ability to weed out all the a LVM to find …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:23 AM
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It’s so awful that women coming out of the sex industry feel so much fear when we should really be celebrating there ability to leave and helping them through all the trauma and grief they have endured. Men can sleep with 100+ woman for free and no one bats an eye but I woman survivor of sex work faces so much societal back lash. The double standard is so painfully clear it hurts. Any employer that take issue that you were in the sex industry isn’t worth you time because I’m sure there are jobs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:41 AM
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Yes! It’s utter bs especially Freudian concepts, he was a legitimate perv LVM who wanted to have sex with him own mother if I’m not mistaken🙃 said that female babies are jealous of the sexual attention their mothers get from their father at the age of a toddler no less. No proof all misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:27 AM
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There is a big difference between being triggered and being offended. You can be offended by something but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve been triggered because to be triggered is to be reminded of a traumatic experience and relive it due to something resembling or reminding you of the trauma you’ve experienced. Being offended is not the same as being triggered and using it to mean offended dilutes the meaning of the word triggered to mean any time a person feels upset about something. Thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:57 PM
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Yeah, this sounds like the typical dysfunctional southern family drunk on religion and female servitude. I grew up Christian and had people my age when I was younger say that women are below men and when I went to religious conferences for young people an anonymous question that was always asked was ‘Are men greater than women?’ I can’t really remember how they answered it but they probably just didn’t. There is no verse in the bible that says ‘Women are below men’ or ‘Women have less value than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:43 PM
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This has happened with every single one of my friends except one who is my best friend and she always makes time for me and I always make time for her. Recently, a man friend I had a crush on for years decided he didn’t need to respond to my text for like 3 months. At that point he had already ghosted me a few times prior and if we chatted on the phone it would be on his terms only. I blocked and delete him then he went whining to my best friend. She straight up told him I had blocked him becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:39 AM
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I’ve got another cat now and she is the sweetest cat I’ve ever owned! My dad tried to pull this crap when we got her as well, reminding me of this experience. It shows how little patience he has and that he think he knows best when he obviously doesn’t. And he accuses me of thinking I know everything🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:40 PM
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Me too! Mines name is Forrest and he has just got a new tunnel and he loves it🐢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:38 PM
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Well now that she is accustomed to going out the cat flap and things I think it’ll be alright, I’m going to a uni in the same city so I’ll be able to come for regular visits. I’m more worried about my tortoise as he has very special care. She actually got neutered recently but my dad is away at the moment so his advice of ‘just let her outside, don’t listen to the vets advice on two weeks she’ll be fine’ will be falling on deaf ears😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:28 PM
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Well those are my words, she’s just brought up the painful memory after me having a panic attack yesterday and not being able to sleep all night, you know as you do🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:19 PM
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Yeah, it’s a struggle as I’m in therapy and he doesn’t want therapy but clearly needs it. I give him advice I’ve got in therapy and he likes it until I say the words ‘my therapist told me that’ then he gets defensive and says he doesn’t need therapy but he’s ok with using me as free emotional labour. I could write a entire post about that honestly but that’s the gist of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:18 PM
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Thank you for this. I needed to hear it. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:14 PM
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I’m ok now, I have a wonderful cat but not without my dad pulling all this crap when we got her. Men don’t stop LV behaviour and I’m not surprised anymore at the things he will do because of FDS giving me all this lovely insight into the mind of a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:14 PM
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Thank you for your kind words. Writing this I did realise how much blame I put on myself for this happening and that, like you said, I was powerless in the situation. I’m doing a lot better now with being in therapy after fighting long and hard to get it. I also now have a lovely cat who is wonderfully, but you know my dad tried to pull this crap when we got her. Men don’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:10 PM
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I have a cat and tortoise! I still live with my parents as I’m taking a gap year before uni. My dad tried this shit with my kitten just recently so it really drove home that men don’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:05 PM
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I got the cat of my dreams recently, a ragdoll mix because they are like the therapy breed of the cat world, and he threatened to throw her out for seeing a little poo on her fur because she is a kitten and still learning how litter boxes work🙃 men never change. He also tried to be aversive with this cat as well but I seriously put my foot down that I was raising this cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:03 PM
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Happening with vets and vet nurses, the field is 80% women and it’s reflected in the decrease in pay that is being seen for animal health care professionals. It’s so awful how the system treats female dominated fields.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:23 PM
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He had a responsibility to not be in a relationship with her and give her an ultimatum: either she gets help or he can’t continue with the relationship. That’s what your supposed to do because if you stay and do nothing you are enabling the behavior and the person doesn’t see the damage they are doing because you accept it. He is responsible for her choices because he approved of them and let her continue with self destructive behaviour. People who have addictions and eating disorders or self ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:06 PM
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Any man wanting to have sex with a woman who is close to death is horrible beyond words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:56 PM
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I don’t like the ‘hairy leg’ insult, makes me cringe...all women grow hair on their legs and using it as an insult is pretty dehumanising, like a women not shaving makes her less of a women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:34 AM
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lol yup😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:28 AM
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Using an old puppy pool to collect rain water, works like a charm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:31 PM
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I do quite a lot of those things now as I’m still living in my parents house which has a nice yard. With all the rain we are getting I haven’t had to water my outdoor plants in weeks! Also I’ve turned my room into a seedling nursery😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:14 PM
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And also, so my people in the royal family in England were put in prison, outcasted from the royal family or just straight up executed for things such as conspiracy to over throw the sitting monarch or for much less as we saw with Elizabeth’s father and his many wives. Elizabeth was basically shunned by her father Henry the 8th until all the other heirs had died and she was the last one left alive. She survived that situation and came out on top so there was a real chance she would have been exe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:30 PM
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This is a mood for life right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:22 PM
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Like, I want a room for my cat, a jungle room for plants and my tortoise, an indoor aviary for the parrots and birds I will rescue, at least one room for guests and friends, a conservatory for more plants, a huge yard for all the rescue dogs I’m going to get... the list goes on and I’m going to need a big house for all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:21 PM
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Thank you so much, had a horrible day today and this made me feel so much better. Much love💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:37 AM
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Omg, this makes so much sense. I didn’t know any of this but I have tried to commit suicided in the past and never linked to two together!! I mean I know a mother is very important but I didn’t have a clue as to the statistic. I literally just want to cry now because this makes me feel so f#%ing validated. Thank you so much for giving me this info, I can’t tell you how much this means to me to know I’m a survivor and my pain was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:21 AM
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What are some things you do to piss off the patriarchy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:52 PM
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What did the comment say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:17 PM
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Honestly wish sometimes it was my dad who cheated and left because when my mom checked out when I was young my dad was clueless to how to raise me. No more Girl Scouts, no more play dates, no more having breakfast made for me, ever, and no more help getting clothes. When my mom left it seriously affected me. My dad was engaged to my now step mom literally 5 months after they divorced. Another five months and I was in another country, ripped from my support network and everything I knew and I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:27 AM
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I wouldn’t date a guy who likes anime. Made a whole ass post about it and felt very validated in my standard when the latest podcast episode came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:42 AM
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Yes, when I’ve tried to talk about women keeping themselves safe by educating themselves about reg flags in a situation with a man I got told I was victim blaming. It’s so frustrating because that’s just like saying we should let people drive cars without a license and then just accept the amount of road accidents that would occur and not try to help the issue of bad driving causing harm. Dealing with men is like driving a car, if you aren’t sufficiently prepared you can do serious damage to you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:40 AM
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It’s so sad that this is the reality because like you said, there are very awesome anime, but for every good one there are 10 degenerate one with a NVM fan base. I also agree that there are not anime spaces for FDS minded women but plenty of communities for those who like loilli. It’s just so messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:03 AM
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I’ll use Narruto as an example again, Narruto is literally pro porn as the main character loves it, his martial arts teacher reads it, and another teacher of his writes it. I’m not say all anime, but the culture surrounding anime is enough for me to not want to support it until they get a grip at stop being so toxic and damaging to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:44 AM
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Ok, first off, anime in general is not positive towards women, I’ve seen Narruto and one of the earliest jokes is that Narruto can turn into a sexy women to get what he wants. Honestly would never let my kids to watch anything except Studio Ghibili films. Literally this is like the not all men argument, because most anime is anti women, male pandering, and leads to a warped perspective of women and what we deserve. But yeah, go ahead it keep thinking not all men, because your right but totally m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:55 AM
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Totally agree, but the purpose of this post was to bring up issues surrounding the anime community, it’s culture, and the way in which abusive and harmful content is produced and defended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:55 PM
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Hey could you delete this comment? Really don’t want anyone looking anything up that could be harmful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:21 PM
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Oh yeah, didn’t remember that consent laws changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:58 PM
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Not sure I would ever want to visit Japan, don’t know how I feel about going to a place that only banned CP in 2013 and the age of consent is 13. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:46 PM
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This is very similar to how I got introduced to anime, it was through a friend who was older than me and she really like it but always told me to stay away from certain genres, but the internet has a strange way of getting you to those dark places even if you’re not looking for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:41 PM
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I didn’t even want the possibility of being responsible for anyone looking up that abomination so I didn’t want to give it’s name. I shudder to think that it was made at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:06 PM
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Yes, it was a very traumatising thing as I had no formal sex Ed yet and had already started my period so was curious about things and one thing led to another. I had free internet access at any time so when ever I see young kids have phones I just feel so scared and sad for them. Parents need to do better with this stuff, it damages people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:04 PM
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Yup, it’s so gross and vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:51 PM
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I’m so glad my post gave you some relief, can can relate so hard to beating myself up about not stopping abuse but you are right when you say that the abuse is the fault of the abuser. They take full responsibility of it and your response doesn’t determine if what they did was right or wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:38 PM
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Damn, you’d think that they would at least be TOTALLY and UTTERLY OPPOSED to even the idea that a person was attracted to minors because you know what’s worse then regular p**n?????? That’s just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:49 AM
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I not sure I’d support a man or a woman being away from their kids for long periods of time as it can be very psychologically difficult, but this double standard is appalling. My dad moved for my mom so she could be closer to her job in another city leaving behind his career and starting completely new so she wouldn’t have to be an absent parent. The marriage didn’t work out in the end because my mom was cheating on him and it came out that’s why she was away at ‘work’ for extended business trip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:58 AM
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Thank you for sharing this essential knowledge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:59 PM
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Yes, it’s like watching a horror film unfold before you’re eyes and you’re paralysed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:59 PM
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Thanks for sharing this! I’m so glad my post has caused all this super important discourse around things like this. More of this needs to be know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:57 PM
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So sorry you and you’re baby had to go through that can, can kinda of relate to this a little because when I went to visit a family friend she ended up hitting her child repeatedly(he was barely two) for not coming when she called him because he was playing with me. Kept hitting him until he stopped trying to get me to play with him and instead go to her. It was a really traumatising experience for me and I was only 10 when if happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:58 PM
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Yes, this is me to my dad and abusive people I used to go to school with. It’s so frustrating sometimes when I look back and think ‘Why couldn’t you do something about it?’ But like you said I got punished out of fight or flight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:07 PM
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Ah, I see, this has defiantly also been something I’ve experience and felt like I was being nice to an abuser when I shouldn’t have but not being nice carried a whole other set of problems and dangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:45 PM
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Haven’t heard of the fawn response, care to elaborate what that one means?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:38 PM
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Yup, but we can’t count on that happening any time soon so we must be ruthless in advocating for female only safe spaces, in the outside world, workplaces, and online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:15 AM
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The freeze response is actually very hard to override especially for young people, it’s a part of a survival tactic like playing dead for opossums. The protecting should not be put squarely on young girl and women’s shoulders, they should have designated female only cars and spaces on trains, they have some in Japan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:44 PM
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Yuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:11 PM
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Thank you, needed this reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:59 PM
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I want pink hair so bad!!! If LVM don’t like it then that’s only ever a plus!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:55 PM
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Lol been cooking since I was very little and once when I was 14 was talking to a guy who was 18 and told me he had just learned to scramble eggs🙄 literally at 12 I made cupcakes for my own birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:08 PM
12

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:28 AM
15

What’s the full title?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:38 AM
6

What are some things I should look our for when trying to find an instructor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:51 PM
13

Yeah! I want to do boxing so bad but that’s when the pandemic hit, but hopefully now that gyms or opening up I’ll get to take some lessons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:12 PM
46

Thanks! Only 19 and I feel like could’ve settled fit a LVM if not for FDS and been miserable. I’m focusing on me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:18 PM
16

This!!! Happened to me literally yesterday with a guy friend!!! Not a friend anymore🙄 He was all like ‘You seem like you like me because you text me and have called me a few time. I’m getting these vibes you know. I need a girlfriend so bad, I cannot live without one. You don’t really mean you don’t want a relationship, who’s going to love and take care of you?’ I was so done at this point I just hung up. Male entitlement is absurd!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:56 AM
3

This right here! So many female characters are either just bad or straight up propagating stereotypes and I’m so sick of it! They either over sexualise a character or she has no personality I mean the list goes on and on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:29 AM
134

She is everything I aspire to be and more...she was the first Disney princess without a man to make her happy in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:02 PM
5

Smart Ass: You point out something he said was incorrect once...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:17 AM
29

That’s ridiculous...I had a guy friend who I blocked and delete recently because he ignored my calls and texts for months and thought that calling me only when he felt like it and never when I wanted too was totally ok. He then proceeded to text my best friend asking why I had blocked him!!!! I was so shocked he had even noticed because he never cared to text or message me back before so why the sudden change of heart?!? I didn’t care what he had to say for himself and now I feel so much better …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:05 AM
8

Wow...totally incorrect but still having the mandacity to think he shouldn’t have to correct his post...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:40 AM
3

Same, I felt so much pressure because I was a swimmer but I seriously had such a bad reaction I couldn’t bring myself to shave it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:43 AM
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