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| -1 | He ain't wrongWomen's soccer used to be more popular than mens and bring in a lot more money due to its rise in popularity during ww1. After the war, men's soccer couldn't catch up so the sport was outlawed for over 50 years and ridiculed once the ban was lifted. There's a reason why it's lagging behind.. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/07/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Hello Seddit ! After reading quite a lot about pick up, I feel everything tends towards not using canned techniques or openers and about just being yourself. But, if it's that simple, why isn't everybody doing it...? Isn't it too good to be true...?Being relaxed, fun loving and open to new social experiences are part of core values and identity. Changing who you are is not a bad thing. Change is awesome and we do it every day. Telling someone to be themselves when who they are isn't making them happy is kind of cruel and dismissive. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Hello Seddit ! After reading quite a lot about pick up, I feel everything tends towards not using canned techniques or openers and about just being yourself. But, if it's that simple, why isn't everybody doing it...? Isn't it too good to be true...?I like the martial arts comparison and it highlights my point. To learn e.g. Wushu you start practicing and you practice a lot. You start with the basic things, you do thousands of slap kicks until they're perfect, you sit in horse stands until you think your legs might break. When those basic things are second nature you build on that you keep practicing one concrete thing at the time until you're like fucking water. What never happens is that you ask for advice and get told "just be like water… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Hello Seddit ! After reading quite a lot about pick up, I feel everything tends towards not using canned techniques or openers and about just being yourself. But, if it's that simple, why isn't everybody doing it...? Isn't it too good to be true...?... top post in the last thread I opened had the advice "be funny and attractive" and here people are standing up for the idea that "be yourself" and "have fun" are things to aim for, of course they are but people want to learn how. Pickup is about learning how to have fun and how to be a better you. I've never read anywhere that canned material should be anything other than training wheels and support and they're great for that. Whlie you're learning they give you something concrete to do, to e… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Seddit, Why do I lose attraction for a girl once she begins liking me?Maybe be you're gay? :) | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 09:03 PM |
| 3 | If she asks you for your number, is that an IOI? [FR, # close]Get drunk, have sex. Just remember to escalate gradually during your drinking competition. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 11:30 AM |
| 0 | The Big Compliance Test ListAfter some reddit stalking, how's the sarging coming along? We're still waiting on your next [FR] ;) | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 02:07 AM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test ListI'm guessing these have all been openers? In that case you're forgiven. Still I kind of like giving people the benfit of a doubt, Striking up a conversation with a stranger is hard and I'd like more strangers to talk to each other so I'd never want to discourage that no matter if it's boredom at a buss station or someone just looking to get laid. oh and licking the face is alright, that's friendly. Sniffing my crotch or ass that's dominating behaviour and if you pull that shit on me in a club Im… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Has any single parent done this?Sure but I'm 31 with a 2 year old daughter. Are you a full time dad? Not sure if anything I know applies when I don't know more about the situation. One night stands should never be a problem, not had any serious relationships since I became a dad though (eventhough I've met two girls who weren't phased by me having a child, those relationships went from being fwb to just fantastic friends). My daughter spends every other weekend (friday-monday) at my place and I visit her at her moms place on t… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 01:38 AM |
| 12 | The Big Compliance Test ListCompliance tests also have this magical psychological quality to them in that when you're asking someone to do something out of context and they comply they will be more inclined to comply the next time you ask. It goes hand in hand with the sales technique of asking questions that you can only answer yes to up untill you ask the real question. (Trust me I I've got a degree in this shit) oh and it works for women as well | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 01:08 AM |
| 1 | The Big Compliance Test ListPoint is if she doesn't comply you can pretend that it didn't happen and no one will remember it 30 minutes later. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:58 AM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test Listread the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:53 AM |
| 4 | The Big Compliance Test ListGood god I'm so turned on right now... which three? If you ask her to spin around and she does so but in a manly, spastic fashion. You're not graded on grace but on compliance. You get an A. or if she responds to the "have a seat" lap pat action with a few dog panting noises and barks. I no longer care about tests, I will tickle your belly and scratch your ears. or if she buys you a drink but it turns out to be super girly or just disgusting or just water I wouldn't ask you to get the first roun… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:51 AM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test ListSorry, there just seems to be a lot of confusion in this thread about the purpose of compliance tests. Don't overstay, don't be afraid to walk away are good sentiments but when it comes to compliance tests... ask her to touch her nose with both pinkies. If she looks at you weirdly and still does it you need to work some more. If she does it immediatley and looks at you expectantly you know that you're good. It shouldn't be binary, use them as a compass instead. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Hey guys serious question - how do I become more masculine?Ok, there's no cheat sheet to this but I'll try to write one anyways. Take everything I say with a grain of salt. Take up more space, both physically and mentally. When you sit spread your legs. When you talk use your arms in slow measured movemenets. Try to learn how to interrupt a conversation when you need to, it's mostly timing, tonality and posture but if you know how to do it you can gain the attention of an entire room in an instance. Touching people as a man in a social situation is almo… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Who's at fault, me or my friend?Friends are like busses if you miss one you can always catch the next. Girls you just met at bars, they are forever. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How old is everyone here?31 and I whole heartedly agree. I can move smoothly between 20-40 which is absolutely lovely both extremes have qualities that are easy to appreciate. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 11:39 PM |
| 1 | It seems to me that a lot of guys around me that are getting attention from girls do not smile very often. I've also noticed that guys seem to act more beta around guys that smile less. What's /r/seduction's opinion on smiling, and looking like you're having fun vs 'tough guy' macho guy look?Smiling is communication, if you smile constantly it comes off as a broken record. The key is to smile when it's appropriate and to do it with emotion and intent. When you talk to someone keep your face neutral, when they say something funny/flirty/interesting you smile and the best way to do it is to let the smile come gradually and then build and spread from your mouth to your eyes to your body. Smile to show that you enjoy what they're saying but keep it analogue and responsive to how you fee… | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 11:13 PM |
| 17 | The Big Compliance Test ListSee... perfect compliance test. I ruffle your hair without coughing up blood = you like me. ruffles TriixieDawns hair | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 11:00 PM |
| 3 | The Big Compliance Test ListStupid. Do a compliance test properly and it wont be awkward. It shouldn't require anything major but by gauging how hesitant she is you get a clear indicator on how much attraction there is from her side. EDIT: not calling you stupid just saying that compliance isn't a shit test. There is no way for her to fail and there shouldn't be any reason for you to walk away (walking away would be stupid) | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 10:55 PM |
| 21 | The Big Compliance Test ListUpvote for contributing to the conversation but you're missing the point of a compliance test. Compliance test is asking/making someone do something that they wouldn't do if they weren't attracted to you. It's supposed to be something minor that allows you to gauge your rapport. Classic example (from mystery i think) is putting your hands out infront of you palms facing down and looking her in the eye expectantly. wait. see if she mirrors the gesture, raise and lower your and see if she follows.… | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with women who hint for gifts, for you to spend money on them.Sounds like you're being to affectionate, if you're kissing all the time. Back off let her come to you, unless you're about to have sex then you go caveman on her. When it comes to sweet things, one of the best things to do is showing that you've listened to her and that you remember what she's said. Stuff like "first I was thinking we should go to this nice Italian place but i got a table here instead since you said you weren't big on pasta. " Don't pay for stuff, especially if she expresses an… | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 10:55 AM |
| 12 | Dealing with women who hint for gifts, for you to spend money on them.Tell her you're into her as well but that you too need some wooing. And by that you mean blowjobs, anal and some of her girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Rules for setting expectations?After sex is more or less certain, but before the point of no return has always worked for me. Being honest and saying 'this is just sex, ok?' has never made miss out and the morning after is so much less awkward when she knows what's on the table. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 10:17 PM |
| 1 | At what point does exclusivity need to be brought up?To late now, but you should manage expectations early. Ideal time to tell a girl you don't want monogamy is after you've seduced her but before you have sex. When the buying temp is high she won't turn down some sweaty sex and then she can decide if she still wants to see you again. In your situation, tell her right now. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:21 PM |
| 0 | 100% is easy. 99% is a death trap.If I had two downvotes you would get both. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Once you get a girl in the bedroom, how do you escalate?Just didnt want to presume anything. It sounds to me like you need to slow down and speed up at the same time. By getting a girl on your bed you've set up a situation where sex is the most likely outcome, that kiss you're going for isn't just a kiss, it's foreplay. You're not getting turned down for a kiss you're getting turned down for sex. A girl not wanting to sleep with you if you've not established attraction is not weird at all. Kino and kino escalation should happen earlier together with … | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Once you get a girl in the bedroom, how do you escalate?... How old are you? | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 11:06 PM |
| 3 | I'm cockblocking myself right nowLol I'm swedish, never been to wallmart and I had to double check the translation of lingerie... I can honestly say that It's synonymous with undergarnments in sweden. Do they only sell granny panties at wallmart? | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm cockblocking myself right nowAll in your head, fumbling with the latch will not stop a girl from sleeping with you if thats what she wants to do. How old are you by the way? | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm cockblocking myself right now...next girl you're with go out and by her some lingerie. There's nothing weird about a man buying that shit. | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Juggling between multiple girls without lying to anybodyOh... Making out and being honest is almost never a problem, hell, having sex and being honest is almost never a problem and it doesn't matter if you've got game or not. If you've built attraction and it's "on" you'll be hard pressed to find a girl that will back out just because you tell her that she's not the love of your life. If you do tell her while she has the choice of backing out, you will feel better for not decieving her and she wont have to be confused the day after. Sometimes they ha… | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Juggling between multiple girls without lying to anybodyThe key to the 'this is the way I live, you can either accept it or be out' statement is that not all will stick around, but the ones that do will do so for the right reasons. You'll feel better about yourself, they'll feel better about the relationship, there will be less heartbreak and less drama. It's a win-win situation but you'll have to risk not getting layed, that shouldn't be a problem though... abundance, live by it. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What to do if a girl says no, but is pulling you into her?More like LMR(last minute resistance) or ASD(anti slut defense) shittests wont happen in bed. If you got that far you probably already past her shit tests. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Gaming an Older Woman on OKC. She's Worried The Age Difference May Be Too Great, But Has Agreed to a Date. Tips, Ideas on How to Approach This?All good then, just saying I've been to quite a few dates with girls who were really attractive on the daitngsite but once we were meeting up I had a hard time recognizing them at the bar. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 02:00 PM |
| 1 | I think I want a fuck buddy. How do I get one? (X-post from R/sex).I've had a few fuck buddies and I think some of my experience might be applicable. Getting to the point of having sex is no different if you're pursuing something serious or if you're just interested in a casual relationship. All the rules for males and females still apply. Now if you don't want it to turn into something serious you need to manage expectations once you're ready to do the dirty deed. I always try to do this before any clothes are lost and so far it has served me well. There comes… | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Gaming an Older Woman on OKC. She's Worried The Age Difference May Be Too Great, But Has Agreed to a Date. Tips, Ideas on How to Approach This?Age clock at 40? At 40 the clock has likely already stopped, if she's well kept and attractive she's more likely to not want anything serious than OP is. | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Gaming an Older Woman on OKC. She's Worried The Age Difference May Be Too Great, But Has Agreed to a Date. Tips, Ideas on How to Approach This?You'd be suprised what they can get away with... for one thing, are you sure those pics aren't from when she actually was thirty? | /r/seduction | 16/04/11 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing?I'm trying to read between the lines of your replies here so if I'm way off feel free to call bullshit. Sounds to me like you're doing some sort of multiple oneitis thing, where you're getting to know a girl and sort of putting her up on the pedistal before you even start hitting on them. There's nothing wrong about being attracted to a girl because of her personality or the way she carries herself. But you need to understand that most people really aren't special. Everyone's walking around with… | /r/seduction | 06/04/11 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Watch this guy (jimmy carr) dominate 4 female talkshow hosts at once...He needs to burn that jacket though, makes him look like a bobblehead doll. | /r/seduction | 06/04/11 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Anyone care to comment on seducing your wife?I've never ever heard of a guy getting laid because he did the laundry. I've heard plenty of women claiming that it's sexy but I'm pretty sure that it's the same kind of self decieving as when they say they want someone with a nice smile and a good sense of humour. Doing laundry doesn't make you a man, it makes you someone with clean underwear. | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend never had passion for me. Help?Sounds like it's mainly a sexlife problem. If the sex is good when you have it, then what you need to do is take the actual sex out of the equation. Start doing sexual things to her, but don't let it escalate into actual sex. Choose situations where there can't be sex, like a dinner at a restauarant, out shopping, over at her parents house, and then do something slightly sexual. If she responds then escalate but never take it to far. Examples would be whispering something dirty to her, then back… | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 09:10 AM |
| 1 | seddit, help me figure something out pleaseSex is fun, there's nothing meaningless about one night stands; that's like saying you want to avoid meaningless laughs. Don't worry to much about being a virgin, pick a girl that seems interested and focus. Make sure you kino and that you escalate. Make it clear that your interested. Be prepared to fail a couple of times and try to realize that it doesn't matter if you fail. When you fail, try to analyse what you did wrong (misread her, acted to fast, to slow) also analyze your success and try … | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Am I to old for her?The magic formula only tells you the limit where it starts to becoma socially awkward, it doesn't tell you if anything else. A thirty year old dating a twentytwo year old, nets you a "she's kinda young" a twenty year old and people will start feeling awkward around the two of you. Think of it as a normal bell-distribution around the formula and it actually works in some magic way. If you're planning a serious relationship however, there's alot of risk in going for a 21 year old. She's got alot o… | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How to handle being teasedAs you said this isn't about getting her to like you, she's being a dick and needs to realise she's out of line. Unless everybody at your workplace are genuine assholes they're thinking she's behaving badly as well, so what you need to do is tap into that. If you call her out on her behaviour you'll see that your co-workers will side with you. On the other hand, grinning and bearing it will make her behaviour borderline ok to the people around the two of you ("that was a horrible thing to say bu… | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 06:02 PM |
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