The Big Compliance Test List

62585 · 2012-09-14T18:17:22+00:00

Related question: when and why do you use compliance tests?

hoyahoya · 2012-09-14T18:13:39+00:00

I'm going to the bathroom, wait for me here

I can't hear you, come closer

Edit: when you drop your phone or any other object and ask her to pick it up for you. Girls pull this all the time so its nice to reverse the roles.

CriminalMinded · 2012-09-14T18:07:04+00:00

"Have a seat" and pat my lap as an invitation. This one is so money. Even more money if she does when there are other seats available.

vwin90 · 2012-09-14T22:27:04+00:00

I'm always amused at how humorous the comments are in random posts in this subreddit. Every now and then this community just goes "Nah we'll post funny comments on this one."

Bobsutan · 2012-09-14T18:12:26+00:00

say you love girls who smell good and tell her you want to smell her hair. sounds fuckin creepy i know but it's almost always worked for me

thebayway · 2012-09-14T18:00:59+00:00

Interesting post, disturbing username.

squarehouse · 2012-09-14T19:00:16+00:00

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iwenttocharlenes · 2012-09-14T22:24:34+00:00

I was watching a Love Systems video and I saw 5.0 and Cajun talk about a nice mindset to be in to check in where you are. Not really a compliance test, but a useful tool for beginners:

The gay-bar IOI. If you were at a gay bar and were talking to a gay guy, would you be doing what the girl you're talking to is doing? If yes, then you're at square one. If no, then she probably likes you.

I like this because it helps me get out of my head and not over analyze the situation. Abundance mentality helps this too, but if for some reason a girl is confusing you, try and match her up against this test. Versetti also pointed out we should act on "the absence of a red light, not the presence of a green." If she's still talking to you, even though she isn't twirling her hair or whatever, that's a good sign.

zquid · 2012-09-15T01:08:30+00:00

Compliance tests also have this magical psychological quality to them in that when you're asking someone to do something out of context and they comply they will be more inclined to comply the next time you ask.

It goes hand in hand with the sales technique of asking questions that you can only answer yes to up untill you ask the real question.

(Trust me I I've got a degree in this shit)

oh and it works for women as well

benmarvin · 2012-09-15T04:54:24+00:00

The best part of this post is that if you reverse them all, they're female shit tests. Take note.

Sakred · 2012-09-14T19:59:31+00:00

"I want to see something, stand like this for a second." Demonstrate briefly and/or physically place her in a stance of your choosing. It helps to use a famous or well known pose, like wonder woman or something.

TrixieDawn · 2012-09-14T22:18:58+00:00

If you messed up my hair, I mean, outside of fucking my brains out, I would kick you in the balls. Fair warning.

perhapsnotthrowaway · 2012-09-15T01:01:52+00:00

Don't...ask to smell a girls hair. Don't do that. I'm sorry.. I just don't see many of these coming off as anything other than creepy as fuck. Source: I'm a girl.

MonkeySteriods · 2012-09-14T19:45:28+00:00

If she fails the test turn and walk away midsentence.

62585 · 2012-09-15T01:09:05+00:00

Telling her to wear a certain outfit for your date.

ThrowawaySweden · 2012-09-14T18:30:49+00:00

Hold your hand out to her and see if she grabs it.
Ask her to bite your neck.

welcome2dc · 2012-09-14T20:48:41+00:00

Women like to avoid awkward situations, so I would argue more important than checking off a YES/NO is HOW she responds with body language and eye contact.

You can get a girl to give you a million cheek kisses and she may not be interested. And if you're at the point where she can bite your neck, just kiss her already.

HoffAmazing · 2012-09-14T18:59:09+00:00

I have great natural hair, I tell ladies to pet me all the time. I'm also 6'6" 300lbs, so its the whole bear thing I go with and bring up the bear necessities which is a fucking awesome song. Field tested multiple times and works well.

"Pet my hair"

skcin7 · 2012-09-15T03:34:30+00:00

Keep your hand on hers when you first meet, see how long she takes to remove her hand (60 YOC)

This is my favorite, but not as a compliance test. I use it all the time when meeting somebody new. Great way to create attraction as the first impression and it's innocent enough that it wont be considered weird or crossing any lines.

2012-09-15T05:00:33+00:00

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GoldenWarrior · 2012-09-14T20:59:52+00:00

I smell sidebar.

eagleclaw457 · 2012-09-15T01:44:00+00:00

hey will you bite my neck? haha

choc_is_back · 2012-09-15T16:04:05+00:00

Contrary to popular opinion, I often do like to buy a girl a drink (not as opener of course, but if we're talking for a couple of minutes and, well, I want a beer, I'll ask her if she wants a drink).

Typically she will get her wallet, but I just say "never mind, next round's on you."

The compliance test if she indeed buys a next round.

FinnTheZombie · 2012-09-15T18:13:56+00:00

"Teach me something."

I do this when talking about school, job, etc. It gets them to talk about themselves, and something they've got vested interest in.

I did this a few nights back with the desk girl at my gym. She was studying O Chem so I said "teach me something so she showed me how to ID an ether. This opened up to me talking about my own schooling, work, DHV etc.

Underbubble · 2012-09-16T18:35:13+00:00

good lord i hope that username isn't relevant.

hoyahoya · 2012-09-14T21:20:57+00:00

Really not sure about the "check them out" one. Most average guys can't help but look at a low cut shirt, what differentiates alpha males is how we don't appear to be drawn in by such common things as a nice rack. We see them alot, and yours are nothing special.

Imnewtoallthis · 2012-09-14T18:12:59+00:00

IF you think this is big, I've got a penis to show you.

ThrowawaySweden · 2012-09-14T19:11:56+00:00

Oh, and one that I myself don't particularly like:

Ask her to buy you a drink

sharperguy · 2012-09-15T09:39:03+00:00

Say "it's getting hot in here" and see if she replies with "so take off all your clothes"

PROFESSORCAT · 2012-09-14T21:40:14+00:00

this is just great

blackhatseduction · 2012-09-15T21:36:28+00:00

best username ever

Xervicx · 2012-09-14T19:38:43+00:00

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forgetitok · 2012-09-14T23:56:32+00:00

Does the manner in which a girl fulfills these matter?

E.g.:

If you ask her to spin around and she does so but in a manly, spastic fashion.

or if she responds to the "have a seat" lap pat action with a few dog panting noises and barks.

or if she buys you a drink but it turns out to be super girly or just disgusting or just water

or if when you ask to smell her hair she points to her crotch or armpit..

would you still take them as a IOIs? How would you judge these? I'm personally guilty of 3 out of these 4. :/

NickJordan · 2012-09-15T14:11:24+00:00

why use compliance tests or look for IOIs? just seems insecure to me. i assume every girl i find attractive wants me until proven otherwise.

you could do one of these tests and she fails, you assume she's not into you but it was a fluke and she actually is. too much room for misinterpretation imo. just assume she wants you and proceed accordingly until she makes it clear that she doesn't.

this attitude will automatically create a super confident mindset for you socially as well.

6PoolPwnage · 2012-09-15T18:28:42+00:00

"Have a seat" and pat your lap as an invitation.

To be honest, take this one down because too many guy's on here will be like, "Ah sheit, random boner coming through!"

zquid · 2012-09-15T00:29:26+00:00

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clueGLUE · 2012-09-15T01:29:53+00:00

High Five Compliance Test, usual high five but keep your hands slightly limp, if she's interested she'll grab/hold your hand when your hands intersect with each other.

2012-09-14T23:41:42+00:00

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2012-09-14T22:53:19+00:00

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Date	September 14, 2012 4:45 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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