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I am concluding to this, and i ll just keep it subtle in the mean time with body language eye contact etc.
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:54 AM
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How is that relevant to what i said?
/r/seduction10/11/15 09:01 PM
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The why someone is better at something is not something you should be conceared about, take it as a lesson, appreciate it. And try to figure what is that he does based on whatever you think it is and learn. Also stop being so damn negative and get your ego down, you made a post and people here give you LEGIT ADVICE, calling people dipshits will probably lead people to just ignore you. If you knew what is wrong why would you be here first place?
/r/seduction10/11/15 08:42 PM
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+1 to this, as soon as you learn to appreciate other people, you will start learning more and more. Was a victim of the same thing, everyone is different, if someone does something better than you, take a closer look, try to figure what he does that works.
/r/seduction10/11/15 02:43 PM
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I am kinda in a similar spot, and have the same dilema. So advice would be helpfull here as well. I ll try to keep it short met a girl while traveling, comes out we are from the same city. Broke it off with a number saying we should go out when we arrived. Later next week,during my birthday she send her wishes etc and told her to come over at the bar i ll be celebrating, she said she would but didnt, had a solid excuse. Now a week goes by and she says she feels bad for not calling and we arrange…
/r/seduction08/11/15 12:01 AM
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I think you missed the part where i said i could easily be this guy 1-2 years ago, having not learned the thins i have learned (go back 6-7 months ago where i made my first post here) . And also I pointed out thing we should take either as lessons or remind ourselfs of. I think its a pretty healthy critique.
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:49 PM
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Literally had an approach like that yesterday. Saw this good looking girl go past me . so it took me 10 seconds to go after her luckily she stopped at the pedestrian lights. I apprachoed with a big ass smile and no ded of takin off her earplugs. I said " Hey are you in a hurry, can i have a minute? " and boom. We talked for a while and i got a number and a date for sunday.
/r/seduction18/09/15 10:15 PM
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Well if you are watching a movie, put your arm around her shoulder ashuming you are on a couch, or even if it is a bed make sure you sit really really close.If she sits a bit further tell her "Hey get closer!", either command it or say it jokingly depends the situation and girl. Touch her neck or caress her hair , then gently kiss her, it doesnt matter if it is on the lips, chick, neck or what. The movie is not more important from what you want to do that night. That's the smoothest i can think …
/r/seduction05/09/15 06:16 AM
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Spot on. I feel that if you find the vods with the "seminars" on youtube or other sources (google them). You will benefit more that reading the book which is a novel, but keep in mind he talks about routines and canned lines, yes they do work but what you will have as a result wont be an honest improvement on your lifestyle. Models on the other hand imho, is probably one of the bests books i 've read this year, i kept having lightbulbs of situations and shit that i've done wrong while reading it…
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:14 AM
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I cant remember the best. But the worst thing someone said on a post i made was , "Hey get used to that lifestyle, you will barely interact with people after you finish uni and find a job." Or something among those lines, anyway his blame game was on point and i am really happy to have him proven wrong.
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:10 AM
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And that's why you stick away from canned lines. Sometimes they work sometimes they dont. An "opener" is meant to start a converasation going, here is the best one out there. "Hi! who are you?" said with a good posture and a smile.
/r/seduction31/07/15 09:11 AM
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Various answers here that are correct given their context and perspective. But honestly it's what about you want, and being honest with it. If you are on multiple dates just cause you feel insecure about doing anything at all with anyone of them then its wrong on your side of things, even before you tell the girl. But if you feel like meeting people and want to explore and have fun with them then its 100% fine as long as you are honest with your intentions and you dont become needy pushy on her …
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:29 PM
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Thanks for the reply, it wasnt about the girls it was more about "what the fuck are you doin man?" I Used to hangout with this dude quite often since he used to be on a serious relationship with my best friend. And at that moment i wasnt that much invested in the girls so i wouldnt care for someone i wouldnt necesserily consider a close friend but more of someone that is in a the close interaction circle with me. Anyway, i payed the price of 2 "sets" to get rid of him and understand what he is r…
/r/seduction23/07/15 05:35 PM
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Honestly groups to me seem easier to deal with. I will tell you why. If you feel the conversation is any awkward or dying with the girl you are talking, you can easily swap to someone else and ask them the same question. "Well how about you?" of some sort, + if they really seem to enjoy your presence and you are social and have a good vibe. If at somepoint you are str8 forward and tell them "listen guys i really like your friend i think she is cute can i ask her for her number/ take her couple o…
/r/seduction23/07/15 09:33 AM
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Awesome stuff, reading this was just what i needed for today. Dressing my self and heading outside right now. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction04/07/15 01:49 PM
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Hey similar situation here, went back to my hometown. Go out meet some people, picking up activities gym, various classes , volunteering etc helps.If there is a place you really like, make yourself regular there and meet the stuff. So even if there are days you feel weird about going out solo you can always go there and small talk with people. Its a weird situationi know, you need to treat it as a new start, get excited! you are gonna meet new people! show discipline and do what you have to do. …
/r/seduction11/06/15 10:33 PM
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Just clean it with soap well when taking a bath. Regarding the hair personally i avoid razors, i 've had times when the hair when under the skin and was painfull etc. If you have an uncut dick, make sure you pull the skin back when you pee. Also take showers often.
/r/seduction11/06/15 08:02 PM
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Absolutetly, i dont like to refer to those things as types rather than characteristics i find attractive. For example i tend to fall a bit hard on girls with brains, while i kinda feel hesitant when with dumb ones to do anything, because i feel i cant connect with them in a meaningfull way. Generaly i dont feel comfortable with girls i wouldnt introduce to family and close friends. Also regarding what OP says, just explore the girls themselfs and hold yourself to some standarts. If a girl has op…
/r/seduction07/06/15 11:21 PM
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Well you know your problem, i bet you know the cause of it and how to fix it better than i do bro :)
/r/seduction03/06/15 07:03 PM
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So many ways man.... Firstly work on your self, learn how to groom, improve you posture, get a haircut hit the gym etc. After that find activities you like, even if you dont know you like them try em out. Dancing classes art classes cooking courses skydiving books reading groups. Everything, find ways to fill your life with activities. Get a job if you dont have one, or try to volunteer for things, volunteers tend to be great and outgoing people most if the time. Next approach people outside. Ma…
/r/seduction03/06/15 08:28 AM
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As a former video game addict, DELETE every game at once, stop fapping. And go out, call some friends or even go out solo doesnt matter. Meeting people is one of the most fun things you can do.
/r/seduction02/06/15 08:28 AM
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I kinda get they way you view it and its wrongish... But lets twist it up a bit. How about you "warm up" with approaching them first place. Also no need to say a joke when you dont feel like saying one.
/r/seduction30/05/15 05:42 PM
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You are not giving any context. + living in small cities can be weird, maybe someone saw you from a store approaching all those people and thought you are harashing them since i assume you were there for a long time, given what you said.
/r/seduction30/05/15 05:19 PM
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The reason there is awkward silence is because when you say the story its like you are waiting for some short of evaluation. Unless asked for something like that or talking about a situation like this there is no place for this. Btw fuck routines, they mostly work on dumb people and none wants to be around dumb people.
/r/seduction26/05/15 03:24 PM
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Ithink you are missing the point, and i will explain why AFTER i respond to your question. Me 2 months ago: I am smarter, more interesting, funny looking with a red stripe on my beard, i am funny i can pull out a stand up etc blah blah blah. Me now: I dont care. True confidence doesnt come out as "hey, if i walk into a room i have to think i am better than everyone else there" because hey it works until you see a girl you like with another guy, that shutters your world. Real confidence is actual…
/r/seduction24/05/15 09:35 PM
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People suggested to you to read models by manson. I havent read it, but i have ordered it some time now and waiting for it to arrive. But i honestly think it will be a good one. And i am saying that on the basis of what the book is about and litle parts i 've read only on pirated versions and stuff and the fact that in my previous interactions as soon as the material ended i was back to being my old nerd that cared about being on the highest rank possible in every videogame i played. The hole po…
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:44 AM
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Thats my man! Confidence feeds of success. But keep in mind you have a long way to go, and a lot of work you have to do, you will hit a lot of bumps along the road, its up to you to take those as lessons. Now you need to improve on your self in anyway possible. You acknowledge the fact that you are overweight, do something about it. Start striking conversations with people around you, male/female anything just get used to talking to strangers. Only good thing can come out by putting yourself out…
/r/seduction15/05/15 10:08 PM
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Hey last past week i fell for a girl the same way you did. Just let it go, dont put pressure on her or something. Maybe she isnt interested maybe you did something that she didnt like . Think of you interaction with her carefully and find where you might have fucked up, and just dont call her again> if you see her out just say hi and have some chit chat. Going after her will only put you in her "creep" zone.
/r/seduction13/05/15 03:46 PM
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Hey props for trying, although ye i agree that her mother felt uncomfortable after a point and wanted to leave. Maybe you creeped her out for some reason. Anyway no worries, its an experience.
/r/seduction11/05/15 08:44 PM
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There are couple of approaches to this. You either brute force it to you, or maybe someone else can help you with that with better advice into liking them. (I dont like loud clubs either). Or you find other places to go that you enjoy, like bars, pubs coffee shops etc. I prefer them, i like the atmosphere more, comes more natural to go to a place where people are sitting, drag a chair or push someone a bit so i can sit on the arm of the chair they do and i found out its a way better place for me…
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:30 PM
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Interesting persective, i ll make sure to give it a go. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:46 PM
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Hi there, not sure if i am late, but i am guessing you are traveling a lot in new places. How do you set up new social circles around there, aside from the ones you work with. I have found my self in a reseted enviroment lately, and i am pushing myself into going out solo etc. I 've met some people others i find they have value others dont, how do you befriend them even more without being annoying. Also second question. I find approaching easier if i have a good "trickjoke" to tell, cause immedi…
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:25 PM
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That nina harley tutorial is pretty good. I feel that it among with the white tiger tantra from steve p are like a full set regarting that
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:16 PM
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Confidence getting out there etc, It doesnt come natural, although i enjoy every interaction for some reason the next day the fear hits me again.
/r/seduction04/05/15 04:51 PM
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Ye i am working out, made a post 2 weeks ago, still having issues. In regards to exersice i am already going to gym. Lost 5 kg in the last 3-4 weeks. Thanks anyways
/r/seduction04/05/15 03:23 PM
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You know what, you are right. When i first read you comment i have to admit i was a bit annoyed.But as time passed and i keep reevaluating the situation I ll make sure i take this one as a lesson for the future. The "like her a bit too much part" had to do with her sayin that she isnt interested in me sexualy but likes to hang out with me, and honestly i went to 6 dates since 1.5 weeks ago and this was the most fun of them, discussion wise. And i just responded that i have no intenterest to see …
/r/seduction04/05/15 12:59 PM
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Just be honest with her, ask her str8 up why she did that. Given her response, i feel you should know if you should keep hanging around her and how you should behave.
/r/seduction29/04/15 11:29 AM
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A casual "Hey! how are you?, havent seen you around work lately" Would seem great i guess.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:01 PM
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notice i said i got stuff to do with others, but how do i approach this particular situation.
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:02 PM
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I wanna jump here and give my 2 cents as someone that was having a real stragle with it, a couple days ago i made a post of how i am in a reseted enviroment for me, and how me having accumulated all this knowledge and i couldnt put it to use here! . Among with other posts from the front page and some of the responses in that thread. It made me believe that i not only cant let me down, but i cant let this community down. Everyone in here practises game for their own reasons, some want to make the…
/r/seduction25/04/15 08:27 AM
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Thanks for the reply, i actually went out yesterday trying to push myself. And I did did a couple of approaches. The first was just when i was leaving the gym, this girl walked in front of me with a dog and she smiled at me, so it took me 3 seconds and i went after her. Approched her telling she has a cute dog and i love em etc. After some chitchat i told i have to go home and we should exchange numbers, she said she is hesitant giving it so i did the "5 question answer everything wrong" game an…
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:02 PM
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