It’s time to discuss men of quality. Men that have high self-esteem. They’re a rare breed, but trust me, they do exist out there.
These are the type of men that women should want to have relationships with. If they look in the right places, they will find these men. They do not hang out at bars or clubs, ever. That’s not what they are about.
Nor are they attracted to hot women. They know better and simple beauty is not something that draws them. A sexy dress does not distract them. A youthful face and ample bosom are nothing to these men, not slender legs, or high heels, and a pert bottom. The vamping, the hyper-sexualization, the seductive voice, a woman laughing at his jokes, touching him, staring deeply in his eyes, or telling him that he is wonderful, or handsome or even how attracted to him she is does not work on him.
His self-esteem is too high. He knows these are merely games. He does not trust beauty for he knows it fades, make-up, that simple lie that women use, will never deceive him. A slinky dress? Please, he knows that is more artifice than art.
He does not think about sex when he sees a woman, he thinks about important things, sex is beneath him. Nor does he ever have fantasies about women, especially young, nubile and sexual ones. No, his thoughts when they turn to love are ones focused on the purest of all ideals. How noble he is, how pure and unsullied. He laughs at sluts and their wanton ways because they have no power over him.
He is not abusive ever, his feelings never control him, his baser desires never overwhelm his senses. He is steadfast and good.
A man of quality, looks for a woman of quality, one with depth, one that is intelligent, smart, powerful. One that is interesting to be with.
Men of quality are attracted to women like Helen Thomas:
They would never fall for a woman using “girl game” like this:
They’re too smart for that, only a man that’s damaged goods would even consider a woman like that. Men of high self-esteem are never drawn to youth, beauty or sexuality.
Just as women of high self-esteem are never drawn to aggression, bad-boys or game.
