In an attempt to break my will over her proposed international relocation of my kids with her new husband (the guy she had an affair with), my ex is hammering me with motions right now, demanding attorney’s fees, etc., despite the fact that she knows I’m broke after paying for an attorney. In fact, that’s the point — women know they have the advantage and can beat a man down through extended litigation. It’s the same tactic she pursued before, except this time she can’t pull the CPS/police card without being censured by the court, which allows me to at least sleep at night.
However, it’s pretty distressing all the same. In order to keep some sanity, I have to take a lot of deep breaths and remind myself that there’s only so much that I, as a human being, can do. Of course, she found this website and is trying to use that against me in court. I’m not really all that concerned about that, but we’ll see what that gets her. It’s all fair game now, I suppose, but I still have to wait for it all to be on the record before I can mention any details.
As usual, I’m getting smeared, and as a man I have to play the moderate even as I’m being called a foaming at the mouth psychopath. This is part of the game — women are given carte blanche to smear, accuse and generally attack while guys are expected to behave as St. Francis of Assisi.
My kids are blissfully unaware, and I will continue on as though nothing has changed until it has. So, I’ll keep the posts coming to the best of my ability and wish the best to all men and women of goodwill out there. All we can do is try to do good works and fight evil, and have some faith that our lives on this earth have some meaning. There’s really nothing more to it, and if you can accept this there’s solace and comfort even in the worst of circumstances.
