Hey dudes. I know this has got to be a faggoty question, but my steel needs tempering.

Working on self improvement, and some MRP sidebar books. Recovering nice guy. Marriage is in separation, and on its way to divorce. Lifting 3x a week and hit new PR of 225 on bench last week. 22% BF.

Basics covered?

Ok, here's where I need help. Got a few dates lined up, and it's pretty much in the bag. But, I don't want to be a lame dick. As AMS would say "Fuck these hoes to sleep". What do?