Bullet point storyline:

  • Currently on vacation in a foreign country
  • Attended a dance festival where i met a local
  • We chatted and danced a bunch and she was very enthusiastic about meeting up after the festival
  • met up and went on a 'date' in her town (suburb of a major city that i'm staying in). i paid
  • Kissed/made out on the date
  • She wanted to see me again and made time
  • Went out again, explored the city and i paid for most, but not everything. We split dinner at my request
  • Went back to my hotel so i could change shoes...it had been raining and my feet were soaked
  • Escalated in hotel room but we had a dance event to attend. I put her hand on my dick and she played w/it and made her kiss it and i briefly had my hand down her pants. She wanted to brush her teeth after
  • Went out, partied and danced, had an awesome time. Lots of grinding and really close dancing
  • Tried to get her to come back to my hotel and stay the night. She lives in the burbs, said she didn't have a change of clothes for the next day, culture here is not one that smiles on the 'walk of shame'. We made out in the train station where we parted ways. Was probably too aggressive in trying to convince her to come - my guess is came across as negotiating which i know is a bad place to be
  • Still wants to see me multiple times before i leave - i know watch what she does not what she says but so far she has made time for me multiple times and is even taking the day off the day before i go back home

My gut says she likes the change of pace i am offering to local guys. She's lived in the USA but is native here and says she prefers americans. I do think i turn her on. 2 dates, have escalated both times. Am i being used or is third time the charm? Thanks TRP

Edit - a couple of extra points, not sure how relevant

  • I invited her to an event I'm attending and asked her to pay her ticket. She declined so i'm going by myself
  • I was showing her something on my phone and a tinder notification popped up. Neither of us acknowledged it