I've been dating this girl for about 9 months, before I met her she was a soft cosplay model, the ones who get famous in nerd circles.

Anyways while we were dating she put a stop to it for a while, but now wants to go back, as she was invited by some photographer to go to New York city and do cosplay shoots. Obviously she is going to get gang banged.

I'm thinking about dumping her now, or waitin until she leaves then ghosting her, or manipulating her into not going.

I would prefer her to not go. Manipulation tactics to make her not go are acceptable and preferred.

What are some options and what do you think?