20y old, student pilot in the air force. I'm currently in an LTR with a cute 23y old engineer.

I've set my frame early on in the relationship. Basically told her I don't want anything serious, don't want exclusivity etc etc

She told me plenty of times already that she loves the fact that I don't take shit from her, say NO to her and handle her roughly in bed ( thanks sex god method haha )

One of our main topic of discussion lately has been her graduation ceremony.

She doesn't want me to come wearing my dress uniform because ' it's her day and she doesn't everyone looking at me and taking all the attention from her... "

I'm really proud of being an air force pilot and rarely get to wear my uniform in events like these, so i'm pretty bothered by it...

On one side, I agree with her because it's HER graduation after all...

But I also feel like it's just a huge shit test/compliance test from her !

I'm still new to TRP, so I don't know if i'm being over dramatic and should just go along with it and wear a casual tuxedo... Or if i'm being a BP bitch and should definitely go wearing my military uniform like I want to !

Any thoughts and advices for further situations like this one ?