For background, I am in college and on a major sports team at my university. I have several good acquaintances on the team and in my classes but I’m not sure how to go from acquaintance to friends who hang out on a regular basis. They all seem to have their social circles established and either play video games in their free time or party (bars, clubs, frats, etc.). I party occasionally but I don’t feel like I’m outgoing enough to add value to an entire group nor do I have a plethora of girls to bring along to entertain myself.

I’m growing tired of my own social circle but not sure how to approach new potential friends and integrate into a new circle.

How do you guys go about making new friends, specifically those already living a high-value life?