Porn distorting how young men view sex - trying to stereotype men to sell her product

JockeVXO · 2012-09-21T18:35:59+00:00

young men think sex is all about them

I see, that's why the responsibility of procuring an orgasm, both for yourself and for your sex partner, is on the male! The party that is considered deserving of being pleased without doing anything is apparently the one about whom the sex is not all about..?

alphabetpal · 2012-09-21T16:52:31+00:00

young men think sex is all about them

Which hurts the "you're lucky something as special as a woman is even paying attention to something as worthless as you" trope that feminism relies on.

AnthonyZarat · 2012-09-21T18:04:08+00:00

"Ms Gallop said parents need to educate their children."

I have. I have told my older son that any relationship with a woman is an extreme risk because of feminist sexism and discrimination in family court. The same is true of business partnerships between men and women, because women increasingly use false allegations of abuse and SA for strategic reasons (ie to gain control of a business partnership or to gain custody of children in divorce). Given that there is ZERO legal or institutional protection for men from this feminist discrimination, there is NO SITUATION IN WHICH A MAN SHOULD EVER BE INVOLVED WITH A WOMAN.

Riesea · 2012-09-21T18:52:16+00:00

Well maybe if you would bother trying to teach young men about sex you wouldn't have this problem. Instead it's all "no means no" and take care of your kids when most boys don't know what a prostate is. Everytime I see this kind of article I'm thankful we have the internet. Otherwise I might still belive that hair on the hand nonsense.

McFeely_Smackup · 2012-09-21T22:00:12+00:00

Coincidentally (or maybe not) Cindy Gallop was the guest interview on this weeks Dan Savage "Savage Love" podcast #308.

http://post.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLovePodcast/Page/

As I listened to her talk, my opinion of her changed radically. She started out by saying she was a "pro porn and pro sex" individual...which I thought "good for her".

As she talked more and more, I came to realize that she is so far up her own ass trying to build a market to sell her ideas for money, that she doesn't give a shit WHAT she says as long as someone will pay her to say it.

She's pitched her whole personae based on an utterly manufactured idea that "men watch porn and then expect real sex to be like that, and then wonder why nobody is satisfied". With nothing to back that up whatsoever, except that it's the basis of what she's selling, so it goddamn better well be true, or she's fucked.

My favorite part was when she stated that men are growing LESS interested in pleasuring their partners due to the prevalence of porn...and she knows this because as a 50+ year old woman who ONLY dates "much younger" men, they don't care as much about her as men used to.

News flash honey...when you were 25, you were doing the men a favor when you spread your legs...now that you're 50, they're doing YOU one. Welcome to the world every man spends his whole life in.

She even spent quite a lot of time spinning an unlikely tale about how she couldn't get a business bank account, because her company name had the word "porn" in it...and as such can't cash her venture capital checks. Yeah, you know how all those porn companies all can't get bank accounts.

She's simply not a credible person and her schtick comes accross like a motivational speaker who took an old script and did a word replace, changing "motivation" to "pornography" and called it good.

Aaod · 2012-09-21T23:46:50+00:00

Sure but Disney does the same shit with their movies and princesses and society to the point every girl thinks she deserves prince charming no matter who she is or how she acts. Hence why so many girls want a guy waaaaaay out of their league. If they think guys are hey where is my porn star well girls are all where is my prince charming?

2012-09-22T15:48:25+00:00

This just in ... romance novels are distorting how young women are viewing relationships with men and courtship rituals. Their attitudes are further confused by feminist notions of equality between the genders and the radical feminist notion that all men should be exterminated or castrated to preserve the human species. Young women today often have unrealistic or even comical notions of what to expect from their male courtiers. it is leading many young women to conclude that there are simply no good men left in the world ... when instead many good men are simply avoiding contact with these damaged females.

Title	Porn distorting how young men view sex - trying to stereotype men to sell her product
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Date	September 21, 2012 12:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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