More lies by my ex wife when will it stop!!

AnthonyZarat · 2012-06-29T15:25:11+00:00

I have been following your story closely. On many occasions I considered telling you something, but I thought better of it. It is a difficult thing to tell, because you could easily misunderstand. I swear to you two things: (1) I am a bone-deep advocate for father's rights and men's rights, and (2) I want to help you to not feel isolated or excluded.

Your story is compelling. Your are a good writer. Your situation is tragic. Your experience mirrors the experiences of millions of fathers around the world. For all of these reasons, your story should exert a strong gravitational pull on a large community of like minded men.

Do you ever ask yourself, why the response to your story is limited?

Please understand, I am not here to judge. I am here to explain. Also, this is only my opinion. Others may disagree.

In my opinion, this is the reason why you sometimes move forward, and sometimes spin your wheels:

*** You are the face of the enemy ***

For millions of men, the abuse by proxy perpetrated by vindictive and evil ex-wives happens at the hands of police officers. Women destroy the lives of fathers using the gavels of men dressed in black and the guns of men dressed in blue.

You are the bogey-man dressed in blue. I empathise, and I want the best for you. But I am fucking scared of you. For abused men, you are our broken bones and our maimed bodies. You are our shattered hearts and our wounded souls. You are the awful day that our children are taken from us by force.

I just thought I would let you know. We are rooting for you, but very few of us feel comfortable in your presence. I wish it were different.

And of course, maybe I am wrong.

Title	More lies by my ex wife when will it stop!!
Author	Johnwrighty5
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	June 29, 2012 2:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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