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| 2 | How Canada's sex-assault laws violate rape victimsComments are heavily moderated, but it's a good discussion in the comments. The Globe is notorious for vote brigading by feminist(s) with multiple accounts. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/13 03:07 PM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)his staying there in that moment on the video we had was putting the child in more danger. So you decided to criticize him for what he should have done in the past, instead of telling him what he needs to do. I wouldn't trust your judgement, after such bad judgement about wooly. If he already had evidence of being beat up to the point that she was really putting the child in danger, then he should visit a lawyer right away. Nobody criticized Gary Shirley, he didn't cause her to be violent. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/13 05:13 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Of course the only chance the man had was to collect evidence. Then why aren't you advising men to do so and how to collect it? He should be going to a lawyer to take it in front of a judge. The issue isn't whether he should leave in an opinion after the fact about a fictional abusive woman, the issue is if he has enough evidence and if his kids are safe. She's putting the child in danger, it's almost as if she's threatening to hit the child if he doesn't leave. He has evidence, he's got to use … | /r/MensRights | 04/10/13 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Honey Badger Radio: Femservatives! Oh my!"women's right to be a stay at home mother" ~Erin Pizzey Please discuss. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 11:01 PM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Hey Dean, can you make this public again so we can analyze this properly. Wooly has already deleted her video, but I'm sure we can all agree that she didn't show any empathy. You're apology was very empathetic, but I wasn't one of the ones insulting Wooly, I just disagreed with her and you in your focus on the man's responsibility to leave and lack of viable options like collecting evidence. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9-HvxW5Gto&feature=plcp | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 10:19 PM |
| 0 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Well agentorange sockpuppet, he should have accepted to debate 5 months ago. Collect evidence or run and hide? Do you have an opinion? http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/random-encounters-in-the-sea-of-pain/ | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 09:57 PM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)1) I did not delete any comment by you. Well, the comment didn't go through, it may not have been deleted. 2) I absolutely, positively, DO NOT advise men to abandon children to abusive women. Perhaps there's a misunderstanding here then, do you agree that the only chance this man and child has under the circumstances is to collect evidence? There's no point in coming back when she's calm and taking a video of her calm. You need to make a video when she's hitting you. Did you remember what happen… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 09:55 PM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I didn't follow up because he erased my previous comment. Thanks for letting me know. Here goes. Edit: My response to Dean. Okay Dean. Here's the subject. We're going to re-cap your advice to abused men to abandon their children to an abusive woman and the complete lack of empathy for that man to make such a decision exhibited by yourself and woolybumblee. Maybe Paul should be able to form and opinion on such an important decision for abused men too. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 03:17 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)If you present yourself in various forms of "unprofessional" or unprepared then people aren't going to think you're serious and aren't going to take your movement seriously. The whole unprofessional business goes much further into AVfM's involvement with the Woolybumblebee and the Earl Silverman Centre. That was step by step unprofessional and extremely poor judgment on the part of Dean and Paul right back to the beginning of 2013. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 03:10 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)They need a better understanding of feminism and how the 2nd wave marxists feminists were left to the sidelines by the capitalist feminists. Also, the fact that feminists aren't the cause of all men's problems. Erin Pizzeys screed on communism was suitable for the 1950's, but in 2013, 22 years after the fall of the soviet union, it's cringeworthy. Focusing on a small vocal faction of militant feminists detracts from a proper understanding of the whole of society. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:46 AM |
| 2 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Who are you? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:36 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Page views are good for spreading information but that doesn't translate into any real world progress. The real trick to AVfM's exploding growth in page views has been producing more articles, many of low quality. It's not objectionable language, but a reliance on rhetoric and avoidance of discussion. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:35 AM |
| -1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)If he's going to make public appearances, then he needs to know how to dress. That's not teeny girl crap or lookism, that's just a fact of life. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:23 AM |
| 4 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)But their strategy hasn't produced tangible results They haven't produced tangible results battling feminism, but they have for men. Anti-feminists have accomplished less. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:13 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Stop mansplaining! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:09 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Manhood academy is the perfect example of a fart that gets noticed. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:04 AM |
| -2 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)Mansplaining patriarchal logic. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:02 AM |
| 2 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)What does opinion policing mean? This. If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! Well, Maybe it's you who has the problem. Yes, I disagree and they're afraid of debate and trying to shut people up who disagree. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 02:01 AM |
| -3 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I know, but it's true. Even if I was best friends with Dean, I would tell him. Edit: I didn't downvote you, I upvoted to even it out. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:57 AM |
| 3 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)That's because they're not explicitly anti-feminist. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:44 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)But rather than spending your time trying to tear down people who are actually trying to achieve something, I don't know what they are trying to achieve because I have the impression they are dishonest by avoiding debate and not answering questions. I also have the impression they are throwing men under the bus (Dean, Paul, Fuzzybee) to promote anti-feminism. Edit: what | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:42 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I'm pretty much 95% in agreement with AVfM, which is good, but they gotta stop opinion policing. They are not the MRM, they do not represent all men and they are not the leaders of anything. The sanctimonious cock stroking gets irritating. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:39 AM |
| -3 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I agree, it's nice to see AVfM out in public for once. Please teach Dean how to dress. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:27 AM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)you were given Dean Esmay's cell number on several occasions to arrange a debate Nonsense, that never happened. Edit: Arrange it in public and prove it. Obviously you are from AVfM, make it happen skippy. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:08 AM |
| -1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)AVFM seems to get a bit of a negative reaction around here, mainly because the demographic here is a lot younger. That's not the case with me, I've been around for a long time to see how AVfM operates and know very well that there are other organizations that do stuff and get results. There's no point in having lots of web hits without any real accomplishments. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/13 01:05 AM |
| 2 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)This, and I think AVfM has the ability to make progress, but they're slanted too far with 95% anti-feminism. It's been made very clear that they don't help men, they are an activist organization. The anti-feminism get's a bit ridiculous when I hear Robert discussing circumcision. I remember on one radio show they had a doctor anti-circ activist and it was obvious that he was cringing and very uncomfortable. Not from the language used, but because because of the baseless rhetoric. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 10:43 PM |
| 3 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)They've changed a lot of laws and are working on Shared Parenting. Meanwhile, Paul Elam can only mope about no-fault divorce and won't support the efforts of Fathers Rights Activists. Edit: Fathers and Families has the best record of legislative success, the largest membership base, the highest media profile, the most funding, and the most successful legislative representation of any family court reform organization. Fathers and Families has: http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/fathers-and-familie… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 10:04 PM |
| 8 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)They've made a lot of progress and changed a lot of laws. AVfM hasn't done anything. Edit: Fathers and Families has the best record of legislative success, the largest membership base, the highest media profile, the most funding, and the most successful legislative representation of any family court reform organization. Fathers and Families has: http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/fathers-and-families-accomplishments/ | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 10:03 PM |
| 4 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)They're not done. They've done more for fathers than AVfM ever has, which is nothing. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:59 PM |
| 1 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I don't have any problem with the language, just that it's an ideological echo chamber that is purely anti-feminist(not that there's anything wrong with that) and using mens rights as a cover. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:57 PM |
| 10 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)An insane idiot ranting on a street corner also gets noticed. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:56 PM |
| 6 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)When I first got involved with AVfM back at the very beginning, intellectual integrity used to be important. Now, ideological conformity is most important. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:55 PM |
| -5 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)No I can't, he's scared. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:54 PM |
| -5 | If you don't get AVOICEFORMEN.COM, STFU! (Or, how AVFM.com is selling the MHRM)I get it, I totally get it. I just think Paul Elam is an intellectual coward insulated in an ideological echo chamber. Why is Paul Elam so scared of debate? CAFE is light years ahead of AVfM. AVfM's historic moment was leaving their computers. Oh, you also sound like Big Red. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 09:05 PM |
| 0 | If marriage is dangerous for men, what is the alternative?I downvoted it because it was bad information. Source: Been there, done that, including paying for kids who aren't mine. Edit: It appears neither are correct, here is some clarity. For tax purposes, you are common law after one-year. For spousal support, you are common law after 3 years, but less if you have a child together. http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/familyla.pdf | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 05:51 PM |
| 1 | If marriage is dangerous for men, what is the alternative?Actually, it's two years in Ontario, but you still don't have to share property that was brought into the relationship. After you get married though, all debts and assets are half hers. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/13 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Mediation advice please!It's better than arguing in court, but not mandatory or binding. I always figured that mediators should report to the judge about who is more cooperative. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Common MRA Myths: A rebuttalThe point being made was that a suicidal person can make several suicide attempt but only one successful suicide, thus skewing the statistics. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Any news from Toronto?Miles Groth talked about opening a men's center and his experiences with running a men's group at Wagner college. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Any news from Toronto?Hopefully they won't get charged as much next time. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 05:47 PM |
| 17 | Any news from Toronto?All kinds of people attended, all ages, races and plenty of women. My impression was that the large majority were very supportive. There were three respectful questions from feminists during the Q&A. More women are attending post-secondary education but the number of men hasn't decreased. More men take trades instead of post-secondary and make more money than a woman with a degree. New men's center should be called men's and trans center. There was a contingent from AVfM, GWW's attendance was re… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 05:45 PM |
| 36 | Any news from Toronto?The lecture went very well. The lecture hall was packed, I counted about 112 people there. There was about 70 at the Nathanson and Young lecture. I asked one of the organizers about the absence of protesters. Apparently, they decided to protest the rally this morning instead. FYI, CAFE stated that because of the additional security fee, they raised six times that amount in donations over the weekend. Great job guys. I was there, AMA. Edit: this morning | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 04:33 PM |
| 1 | No more keyboard warriors in the MRM. Stand up and be counted!That's the effect of insulating himself in an ideological echo chamber. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 03:34 PM |
| 1 | No more keyboard warriors in the MRM. Stand up and be counted!Yaaawwwn. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Do Not Miss Tonight's AVfM Radio - TORONTO LIVE! This is the moment we've all been waiting for...Damn, where were the protestors? No I wanted those idiotic feminazi to look like even bigger idiots than they are. Maybe they're realizing just how dumb they look and that they are actually helping our cause. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 03:18 PM |
| 12 | Do Not Miss Tonight's AVfM Radio - TORONTO LIVE! This is the moment we've all been waiting for...The lecture went very well. The lecture hall was packed, I counted about 112 people there. There was about 70 at the Nathanson and Young lecture. I asked one of the organizers about the absence of protesters. Apparently, they decided to protest the rally tomorrow morning instead. FYI, CAFE stated that because of the additional security fee, they raised six times that amount in donations over the weekend. Great job guys. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Do Not Miss Tonight's AVfM Radio - TORONTO LIVE! This is the moment we've all been waiting for...Smooth as silk, there was one feminist there asking respectful questions about the growth of university enrollment and implying that the number of men attending post secondary hasn't decreased, just that the number of women have increased. Miles Groth answered it like a boss. He agreed, but shifted focus on the fact that the proportion of men is decreasing dramatically. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Do Not Miss Tonight's AVfM Radio - TORONTO LIVE! This is the moment we've all been waiting for...No, it was on campus. I can only speculate that protesters finally realized they were hurting their cause and helping ours. I was there, AMA. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 04:28 AM |
| -2 | Link between the right to vote for men and compulsory conscription?You can do further search for sources, all you need to start is the basic history. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 01:05 AM |
| -4 | Honey Badger Radio: PARTY IN TORONTO!They're intellectual cowards who are afraid of debate. Edit: I mean specifically Paul Elam and Dean Esmay. Typhonblue has recently shown me just how dishonest she is. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Link between the right to vote for men and compulsory conscription?Here you go. http://www.newmenstime.com/index524.html | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 12:33 AM |
| -8 | Honey Badger Radio: PARTY IN TORONTO!Yeah, it's nice to see all of the AVfM crew step away from their computers for once. Not you though, you won't be there. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 10:18 PM |
| -8 | Research shows: Support for feminist goals is hampered by a dislike of feminists.The AVfM equivalent. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 09:26 PM |
| -6 | Honey Badger Radio: PARTY IN TORONTO!Better call in the AVfM vote brigade. AgentOrange has lots of sock puppets. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 08:54 PM |
| -1 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Good one, accuse me of being feminist. LOL, you guys don't just look stupid, you are stupid. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 08:30 PM |
| -7 | Robyn Urback: Move over, abortion — men’s issues are the new taboo topics on campusIf you make that argument in relation to the Toronto protests then nobody will take you seriously, because it didn't happen. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Robyn Urback: Move over, abortion — men’s issues are the new taboo topics on campusLet's be clear, it's the protestors that are creating all the controversy and media coverage for these events, not AVfM. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Robyn Urback: Move over, abortion — men’s issues are the new taboo topics on campusThe protestors justify their extreme actions by pretending they are protesting against rape supporters. As far as a know, none of the protesters where encouraging or supporting "mutilation and murder". Saying such things just makes you sound foolish. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Robyn Urback: Move over, abortion — men’s issues are the new taboo topics on campusThe protestors use all those same sort of excuses too, but it's not a matter of what is right or wrong, but rather a pragmatic analysis of what is most effective for mass public consumption. Get out of your echo chamber and talk to real people some time. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 06:18 PM |
| 13 | Research shows: Support for feminist goals is hampered by a dislike of feminists.We should learn from their mistakes and not emulate them. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 06:08 PM |
| -1 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Go back there then if you prefer an ideological echo chamber. Who the fuck are you to think that you can tell others to STFU outside of that echo chamber? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 04:14 PM |
| -4 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Go ahead, you're just making shit up and attacking strawmen anyway. Why are Paul Elam and Dean Esmay so scared of debate? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 03:17 PM |
| -3 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.you admitted not giving "two fucks" about doing anything pro mens rights. Keep batting at strawmen you fucking liar. I am very interested in men's issues, however A Voice for Anti-Feminists doesn't represent men. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 03:15 PM |
| -8 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.This is funny because it's actually you who I had in mind Your examples are all strawmen then and a complete misrepresentation. Fuck off troll. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:57 PM |
| -5 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Go back to AVfM and stroke your dicks. My life is none of your fucking business. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:55 PM |
| -5 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.I've already challenged them directly, multiple times. They're intellectual cowards. Go back to your ideological echo chamber where nobody will disagree with you. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:46 PM |
| -4 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.STFU Keyboard Warrior. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:46 PM |
| -2 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Like a 5 day old account that is obviously another sock puppet. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:31 PM |
| -6 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.Bitching and whining about bitching and whining. Tough shit eh. Go back to your ideological echo chamber at AVfM. Tell those intellectual cowards that I'm still waiting for them to debate me. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:31 PM |
| -7 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.I refuse to shut up. Why are Paul Elam and Dean Esmay so scared of debate? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:14 PM |
| -7 | Do-nothing MRAs need to shut the fuck up.This reminds me of how the Toronto protesters eliminate dissent by teaching protestors to respect all forms of protest. It's very totalitarian. Is this AgentOrange again? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilI know who you are, your voice is very distinguishable, even with a crappy voice modulator. You create sockpuppets and false flag operations, you're an internet troll. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Patent Pending - Hey Mario (BRAND NEW SONG!!!) This is how MR / Red Pill ideas embed themselves in the mass culture.Wow, that was really funny, thanks for sharing. This is a great song for young bros. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 03:41 AM |
| 1 | What’s Missing When Dad’s Missing?: Statistics on the importance of having a biological dad in the homeNo. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s Missing When Dad’s Missing?: Statistics on the importance of having a biological dad in the homeI don't think they wouldn't be good parents, especially if they are involved from the birth of the child. Adoptive children still have a yearning for their family history. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilMost people already either don't know about , don't understand or don't agree with patriarchy theory. Most people also don't understand is how deep it has infiltrated society and don't take it seriously. It's almost like attacking strawmen, nobody will take it seriously, many will laugh because it's stupidly funny. It may get attention, but not not positive attention. Why not go all out with spanky and the gang and advertise a "he-man woman-haters club"? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilYes, you are. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilNo it wasn't. I was out of town for the last 8 hours and didn't have internet access. You're a lieing cunt. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:42 AM |
| 0 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilLet me see!" Sees website + campaign materials taken from a goddamn Austin Powers movie. "snerk Really?" Problem is, most people won't make that effort. "YOU'RE A RAPE-APOLOGIST INCEST SUPPORING SCUM MISOGYNIST!" Not many people take them seriously either, because it's stupid. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilI didn't miss it as satire. It's very funny as an inside joke. I was surprised at Typhonblue's reaction when I made it very clear it was a joke. You must have read my comment, why are you still making this claim? The problem is that most of the general public aren't educated enough about these issues and some will take it seriously and most will just think it's stupid. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilIt's only satire among MRAs, most people won't get it and will just think it's stupid. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:32 AM |
| -2 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilI'll be in Toronto on Friday, will you be there? Nope, you're a keyboard warrior. You know the real problem with focusing on radfems? Nobody takes them seriously. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilHere's the problem though, the general public isn't that smart, it's too clever and the satire will go right over their heads. It's only funny as an inside joke. Most people already think patriarchy doesn't exist anymore, but they do think there are some men who still think like that. With the "Don't be that girl" campaign the popular thought was "hey, they got a point there". With this Patriarchy Party concept the popular thought will be "this is stupid". Meanwhile, MHRA's holed up in their ide… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/13 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilYes, it does. How does it help raise awareness of men's issues? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilI'm pretty sure that it plays right into it. However, the more important point is that it does NOTHING to raise awareness of men's issues. It just makes you all look like a bunch of jokers. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 05:59 PM |
| -6 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilEdit: Retracted because they finally answered the question directly. That wasn't so hard now was it? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilJust answer the fucking question and stop acting stupid. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 05:37 PM |
| -1 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilThere's a difference between joking amongst ourselves and public advertising. Can you answer the question? How is this to our benefit? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Stop reporting Facebook pagesI agree with that, but I would rather that man-haters were more easily identifiable than hiding behind false claims of equality. They're thinking those things already, I'd prefer they spoke honestly. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 04:34 PM |
| 2 | What’s Missing When Dad’s Missing?: Statistics on the importance of having a biological dad in the homeBecause bio-dads are important, just like bio-moms are important for their children. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 04:24 PM |
| -2 | Meet the Patriarchy Party Candidate!--MR-E submits candidate for City CouncilClearly this is a joke intended to garner attention. However, how is it to our benefit to use a tactic that re-inforces feminism's claims that "MRA"s are male supremecists? Edit: Nice work on the graphics there Typhonblue, you must make the best sammiches. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Stop reporting Facebook pagesOn one hand, the hypocrisy of facebook in what they will and won't censor is interesting. On the other hand, I prefer that the hateful speech remains as an example. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Random encounters in the sea of painI'm still not sure if Dean Esmay has recanted on his prior advice for abused men to abandon their children to their abusive mothers. He doesn't want to talk about it. See you on Friday Dean. Edit: Ha, downvote cowards. You can't avoid me in public. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend has a speech class where she has chose men's rights as her topic [HELP]You should research some father's rights sites, instead of reddit which is mostly young unmarried demographic. The issue is based around the status quo winner-take- all, adversarial primary care-giver model of family law. Do some research on why shared parenting is better for children. The punishment for non-payment of support is debtors prison was abolished in civilized society until recently. The punishment for unscrupulous mothers who bad mouth father's and interfere with "visitation" is almo… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How pervasive is feminism among women?There was a demographic survey posted here a few days ago. I hope somebody reposts it for you, but I think the feminists are in single digits. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Biological dad returns 4-year-old Veronica to adoptive parentsThat wiki article clears it up Dusten Brown was a member of the Cherokee Nation[16] and serving in the United States Army at Fort Sill, Oklahoma and the father of one other child. Christina Maldonado was a non-Indian single mother of two.[fn 2] Brown and Maldonado became engaged to be married in December 2008, and Maldonado informed Brown that she was pregnant in January 2009.[18] On learning Maldonado was pregnant, Brown began to press her to go ahead and marry him, and refused to provide any f… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Biological dad returns 4-year-old Veronica to adoptive parentsShe's 4 now and the judge ruled in late 2011, so he must have at least filed in early 2011 when she was only 1 or 2. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 02:46 PM |
| 5 | How is it even possible to be a white heterosexual male and hate white heterosexual males?Relevant | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Imminent, need help with process and ensuring best possible outcome.You should file for separation first. I suggest taking the mediation route while also consulting with an attorney about the final agreement. Be on your best behavior, she will likely try to goad you into further conflict. Am I required to answer her calls? Could I just ignore them without repercussions? You should answer her calls and try to be cooperative. If it doesn't go well then suggest another time or communicating in writing. With the marriage still legal, what must I do pertaining to her… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 06:25 PM |
| 3 | You guys are not as "objective" as you think you are.It's Jeremiah, he's been banned before for being a perpetual asshole. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 01:43 AM |
| 1 | You guys are not as "objective" as you think you are.We the patriarchy support rule of law. We support due process. We the patriarchy support equal opportunity. We the patriarchy support equal rights before the law. We the patriarchy support justice. None of this has anything to do with being a man, or the definition of patriarchy. The historical definition (not feminism's) of patriarchy is a system where positions of power were held by only men. Feminism's definition of patriarchy fails because not all men had access to positions of power and not… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 01:42 AM |
| 0 | You guys are not as "objective" as you think you are.This is a stupid issue. Enjoy arguing with straw men. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 12:03 AM |
| 2 | CAFE event in jeopardy - they need our help now! High security fees put the event at riskHow much is it to get into the event? I think they only asked for $10 at the other lectures. Show up anyway and I promise you will get in. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Are we the patriarchy? Yes, IMO.We the patriarchy support rule of law. We support due process. We the patriarchy support equal opportunity. We the patriarchy support equal rights before the law. We the patriarchy support justice. None of this has anything to do with being a man, or the definition of patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Are we the patriarchy? Yes, IMO.That's an admission of intrinsic privilege. Where's my privilege card? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/13 11:17 PM |
| 4 | CAFE event in jeopardy - they need our help now! High security fees put the event at riskThere's an interesting little bug there in that form. I was playing around with changing the country and the state field doesn't automatically show up for US residents. For some reason when I selected another country other than Canada and US, pressed submit (error incomplete form), went back changed to US, the state field actually popped up. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/13 11:00 PM |
| 3 | CAFE event in jeopardy - they need our help now! High security fees put the event at riskI haven't gotten that membership yet, but I'm seriously thinking about getting a plaque with my name on it. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/13 08:21 PM |
| 19 | CAFE event in jeopardy - they need our help now! High security fees put the event at riskI'm going to pledge a further $5 for every single protester that shows up. Make sure you bring your friends. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/13 07:24 PM |
| 25 | CAFE event in jeopardy - they need our help now! High security fees put the event at risk$300 donated. If anyone needs a ride between Niagara and Toronto just let me know. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Looking for stories of Male Domestic Violence Victims1995 Movie about Domestic Violence: Men Don't Tell http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_gLDF2dGLY http://www.dahmw.org | /r/MensRights | 19/09/13 11:43 PM |
| 4 | "It is worth remembering that evidence suggests that marriage continues to be more beneficial for men than for women... That said, I think the marriages that start off with a feminist wedding and according to feminist principles are probably more likely to benefit both partners"It is worth remembering that evidence suggests that marriage continues to be more beneficial for men than for women... It's not a matter of cause and effect but rather selection bias. Men who are less healthy and die younger are less likely to marry or stay married. I think the marriages that start off with a feminist wedding and according to feminist principles are probably more likely to benefit both partners Judging by the divorce rate, I doubt it. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/13 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Looking for stories of Male Domestic Violence Victimshttp://www.batteredmen.com/ | /r/MensRights | 19/09/13 10:34 PM |
| 3 | About to start a custody battle in Georgia. I could really use some advice.Try to be the good guy and let them expose themselves as unreasonable assholes. Don't give her any money unless it's documented, otherwise you might be stuck with back-paying support that you already payed. Good luck man. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 03:28 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond to this?It's an old article. It's disingenuous because it doesn't show actual numbers or even link to any official data. It's biased because it only reports the numbers for women, as if homeless men don't exist. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Our schools need to help boys become menI suspect they're going to double down and do more of the same as a solution to the problems that it created. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/13 03:55 AM |
| 3 | CAFE Announces Next Campus Event at UofTThey are quite entertaining but it becomes disheartening when that's what gets all the attention and discussion in the media and the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/13 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Our schools need to help boys become menSchools can attempt to define and indoctrinate boys into a new meaning and perception of manhood. I wasn't very impressed with the article. The responses were good and the Globe reader poll was encouraging. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/13 03:25 AM |
| 1 | CAFE Announces Next Campus Event at UofTAs before, AVfM will have mostly coverage and discussion of what's happening outside the lecture hall. Those protesters provide valuable media attention, but the issues seem to get left in the dust. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/13 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Our schools need to help boys become menBonus, the Globe reader poll: Do you think schools are failing boys? | /r/MensRights | 10/09/13 01:23 AM |
| 15 | CAFE Announces Next Campus Event at UofTSounds great, I'll be there. I'm looking forward to hearing Miles Groth. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/13 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Why won't people hire male babysitters?How times have changed. Male babysitters used to be preferred | /r/MensRights | 09/09/13 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Articles I'm seeing posted here are interesting reads; however, I don't think they are very realistic.nor have I seen myself being glared at by others Have you ever been a father with daughters? hey presented both sides of the story meaning that they didn't just spread awareness of females being victims of domestic violence, but men being victims of dv as well. I'm gonna need proof OP, otherwise I'm going to assume you are liar. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/13 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Custody Help-Decision TimeDepends on how much evidence and how much money you actually have. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 10:53 PM |
| -2 | Feminism and Anti-intellectualismThat's true, but exactly the same thing is at AVoiceForMen. Paul Elam is an intellectual coward scared of debate. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 10:30 PM |
| 5 | AVfM: When a girl hits youThis is the reason why I parted ways with AVoiceForMen. Their Senior Editor Dean Esmay recommended to abandon your children to an abusive woman and the site owner Paul Elam was too cowardly to even form an opinion on this important issue for abused men. They did this all the while white knighting for the known misandress Kristina Hansen. Do not contact the police. Do not contact social services. Take the abuse and collect as much evidence as possible, then contact a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/13 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Thought I would post something positive. A domestic abuse pamphlet found in a men's bathroom.Gender neutral brochure is good. However, I would be very surprised if the services offered were also gender neutral. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/13 09:57 PM |
| 1 | If your girlfriend or any woman pulled a knife on you, how would you deal with the situation?.You have to back off and try to de-escalate. Also, get witnesses, camera, etc. ASAP. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | [PSA] As a long-term survivor of spousal abuse, I urge anyone in that situation to GET OUT!How do you feel about abandoning your children with your abusive tormentor? Do you think life will be any different for them? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/13 12:14 AM |
| 53 | "For every dollar a man gets a woman gets paid 90 cents" - I need ammo against this bullshitThe “pay gap” is probably the most widely-cited example of supposed disadvantages faced by women today. It is also totally misleading, as it is only a snapshot of average yearly full-time incomes that does not account for overtime (about 90% male), type of work, or other non-discriminatory, voluntary factors. The Department of Labor recently funded a study that proved this and found the pay gap is caused by choices, not discrimination. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/13 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Two legal questions regarding my upcoming divorce and personnel restrictions on visitationPersonal story OP. When I got married, I already owned my own house. As soon as I got married, that house became half hers. When we got divorced, I had to pay her for half the value of my own house. I was only married for 16 months of hell. Debt works the same way. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/13 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Two legal questions regarding my upcoming divorce and personnel restrictions on visitationDebt obtained prior to marriage, marital funds went towards paying debt. Still doesn't matter? You were married and that was her debt too. I've been seeing mention of the morality clause on all sorts of divorce forums and I am worried that the judge will stick this as a condition of my visitation. I find this hard to believe that the judge would do this without some evidence of harm. More likely, it will reveal your wife as petty and vindictive and just piss off the judge for wasting their time. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/13 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Two legal questions regarding my upcoming divorce and personnel restrictions on visitationI admitted to starting and ending an affair Doesn't matter, no-fault. Question 1 - Ever since graduating I have overpaid my student loans in an effort to pay them off as quickly as possible. I continued to overpay during the marriage. Wife is trying to get compensation back for these over payments since they came out of marital funds. Is this something that she is entitled to? Smart man. Judge doesn't care what was paid for/bought before separation. Question 2 - For the pendency of the divorce I… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Some asks about MRA movement in ELI5, this guy gives awesome response.Might want to delete this post and re-post with the np tag. http://np.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/1lci6g/can_someone_please_give_me_an_explanation_and/cbxueh1 | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 08:44 PM |
| 0 | The Saudi Arabian cabinet have passed a ban on domestic violence- against women. Men once again left in the dustFalse dichotomy is a logical fallacy. There is another way to implement domestic violence laws, by making them apply to everyone and non-gender discriminatory. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 08:10 PM |
| 0 | The Saudi Arabian cabinet have passed a ban on domestic violence- against women. Men once again left in the dustClaims of "oppression" aren't justification for further discimination. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Being taken advantage of by mother of my daughter?Should talk to a lawyer at a minimum and find out if $400 a month is reasonable at your income. It would be smart to get everything in writing including the custody arrangements. Otherwise, things seem to be going well and you might not want to rock the boat. At the very minimum, make sure you pay her by check so that it's always documented. Also, make sure you have a bound written journal of all your interaction with your child so that you can substantiate that you have a good relationship, goo… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 05:45 PM |
| 2 | The Saudi Arabian cabinet have passed a ban on domestic violence- against women. Men once again left in the dustSaudi men are different than what we are in the west, they aren't stupid so if things start to turn to the worst no doubt you'll get men protesting the changes. I would dispute that. There are similar to men in the west, except that they are ultra-traditionalist, which we know has done a lot to promote protection of women, male disposability and lack of concern for men. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 05:39 PM |
| 2 | The Saudi Arabian cabinet have passed a ban on domestic violence- against women. Men once again left in the dustThere is no data available to know. The one thing that we do know is that violence against women is now criminalized and violence against men is still unrecognized, unspoken and legal. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Double Standards - Lock & Key TheoryJust about any woman can sleep around without much effort. It generally takes more effort for guys, so it's considered to be more of an accomplishment. Personally though, I don't think it's an achievement to be proud of for anyone. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/13 09:56 PM |
| 2 | So why are dad's overprotective about their daughters dating but not their sons?I think that's just a myth. Both boys and girls need to be wary of pregnancy but boys don't have any choice in the matter so they are more at risk. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/13 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Hi. People on this site seem to talk about feminists a lot, but..Hi there. I'm an advocate for non-biased treatment of family violence. I'm demanding it. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about 50:50 custody of children?Question for feminist OP. Why do mainstream feminist organizations officially oppose a presumption of equal parenting, rather than the status-quo winner take all adversarial system that is not in children's best interests? | /r/MensRights | 26/08/13 08:14 PM |
| 1 | MHRM calling the worldAn antifeminist echo chamber run by intellectual cowards that throw men under the bus | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Long post, controlling ex-wife, current plan but would appreciate your thoughtsI think you need to set up your own place for visitation with your kids and establish your own rules. That sounds bad OP, I hope things work out for you. Damn, I'm glad I divorced my abusive wife when my kids were young. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 05:53 PM |
| 7 | If feminism refers to porn and stripping as exploitation of female physical qualities, then why isn't professional sports an exploitation of male physical qualities?Feminism is not a monolith. There is no distinct split between old and new. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:58 AM |
| 7 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectOh, there's so much more than that going right back to the beginning when the site first started. I gotta admit, they've improved since then, but they're still shit. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:47 AM |
| 0 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men Project"yup....fuuuuck." | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:45 AM |
| 7 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectYes, the occasional article about men's struggles gives them the aura of credibility. So many men's advocates have turned their backs on GMP that they get excited when someone actually writes something for them. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Honestly, why do you all give a shit about this stuff?It's because you're a dumb fucking asshole. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Honestly, why do you all give a shit about this stuff?Traditionally, that's how men have always been valued for their ability to provide and protect. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Honestly, why do you all give a shit about this stuff?Tell us about your privilege? Did you grow up with a silver spoon in your mouth? Did momma wipe your ass for you? I had to work for everything in my life. I was never given anything. I never got my privilege card. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, why do you all give a shit about this stuff?My dad didn't get dumped. He was only valued for his ability to provide money. When he lost that ability, nobody cared about him. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:14 AM |
| 1 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectI know exactly how you feel. I've been there. Check your PM. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Honestly, why do you all give a shit about this stuff?I don't like labels, but I'm a successful professional with a six figure income and a house by the lake with a pool in the back yard. I don't watch football or play vidya games. My Dad worked hard all his life to provide for his children and when he lost that ability, he was tossed away like yesterday's garbage. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:09 AM |
| 9 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectEnjoy your jail cell. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:03 AM |
| 7 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectNo, it's not the norm but on rare occasions they do run this type of article. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:01 AM |
| 12 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men Projecthttp://www.batteredmen.com/ http://dahmw.org/ http://www.malesurvivor.org/ http://www.spousalabuse.biz/ http://www.safe4all.org/resource-list/index?category=1 http://www.saveservices.org/ | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:00 AM |
| 3 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectI have no problem with their rhetoric, just that they give shitty advice to abused men and are completely lacking in intellectual integrity. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:59 AM |
| 6 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectNot just the larger person. The primary aggressor model is also based on who has more financial resources and who is less emotionally distressed. It's not just "believed" to be based on the Duluth Model, it IS based on the Duluth model. http://www.theduluthmodel.org/ | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:58 AM |
| 1 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectThis is the reason why I parted ways with AVoiceForMen. Their Senior Editor Dean Esmay recommended to abandon your children to an abusive woman and the site owner Paul Elam was too cowardly to even form an opinion on this important issue for abused men. Do not contact the police. Do not contact social services. Take the abuse and collect as much evidence as possible, then contact a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:55 AM |
| 12 | “What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?” -- Good Men ProjectNow, isn’t that strange? When she had a fat lip, it was a felony and I was going to jail. But when they finally agreed and realized that she tried to stab me in the neck… it stopped being a crime at that point, it was a mental health issue. [And] it was my responsibility to call and get her an appointment. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Christina Hoff Sommers proposes a new kind of Feminism, what do you think?She's not influential among feminists, they hate her. All it could do is provide minority subterfuge for the majority of man hating gender feminists. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Honeybadger Radio: the skeptic witch hunt - tonightA voice for.... Time for a new name. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Is there a liste of arguments against Gender Studies?Gender Studies is just the same old Women's Studies that analyses masculinity through a feminist ideological lens. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/13 02:08 AM |
| 3 | I was looking at these domestic violence reciprocity stats that say 70% is reciprocal and the majority of the remaining 30% female on male DV. Where do these numbers come from?The article below printed in the 9/07 issue of the Harvard Mental Health Letter (V. 24, N. 3) and is on the Harvard Medical School's website. It is by the researcher from the Centers for Disease Control, Dr. Whitaker, whose recent reseach found 24% OF HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS HAD VIOLENCE, HALF OF IT RECIPROCAL,AND THAT WOMEN COMMITTED OVER 70% OF THE NON-RECIPROCAL VIOLENCE AND INITIATED THE RECIPROCAL VIOLENCE MORE OFTEN THAN MEN, and women suffered more injury but men suffered significant i… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/13 11:45 AM |
| 2 | What happened to the Earl Silverman Center?All your donations officially went to the Hansen Soap Company. That should have been the second red flag. The first red flag was that she was a misandrist cunt, but you all kinda ignored that didn't you. The third red flag was that there wasn't any named board of directors or treasurers. The fourth red flag was that there was no accounting of donations when it got moved to a private web site. Enjoy your soap, you purchased it from the Hansen Soap Company. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/13 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I need an explanationIt's because women aren't generally willing to take on dangerous, labor intensive jobs, STEM fields or those that require 100% commitment and 80+ a week. That's how you make the big bucks. Also, The “pay gap” is probably the most widely-cited example of supposed disadvantages faced by women today. It is also totally misleading, as it is only a snapshot of average yearly full-time incomes that does not account for overtime (about 90% male), type of work, or other non-discriminatory, voluntary fac… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/13 01:20 AM |
| 2 | If you have RES, I suggest you delete it.I didn't get that far with the update. I generally don't like software updates because they always seem to add stupid extensions to my browser that I then have to remove. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/13 01:04 AM |
| 1 | If you have RES, I suggest you delete it.I'm using Chrome and I didn't download the update. It was weird, because it didn't give me any option to close the download page or refuse it. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/13 01:02 AM |
| 1 | If you have RES, I suggest you delete it.I got this notice requiring an update. It seemed fishy like a virus so I shut it down and scanned my computer. Now I don't seem to have RES anymore. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 11:47 PM |
| -4 | Erin Pizzey's response to Cathy Young's accusations of misogyny and hateful speechShe's not a "radical feminist", she just dislikes AVfM. Personally, I don't support "women's right to be a stay at home mother". Also, Erin is full of shit because women can still stay at home on welfare. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 11:11 PM |
| -2 | Erin Pizzey's response to Cathy Young's accusations of misogyny and hateful speechI'm not mad, I just can't take any woman seriously who confuses rights with privileges and then conveniently ignores the importance of fathers. While I don't agree with Cathy Young that AVfM are woman haters, I'll take her side over Erin Pizzey's any day. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Erin Pizzey's response to Cathy Young's accusations of misogyny and hateful speechHmmm, mothers or the state, mothers or the state, mothers or the state? Who's missing from all those options? Who is the one saddled with all the responsibility because of women's right to be home with their children? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 10:05 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about the word "creep"?It's a word used for unattractive men that women have no interest in. The opposite sex equivalent would be "dog" or "fugly" | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Whats a reasonable amount for child supportYes, which means that it's not based on the child, but rather intended to level incomes. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 07:24 PM |
| -1 | Erin Pizzey's response to Cathy Young's accusations of misogyny and hateful speechWomen have lost their right to be home with their children. Good grief, it was never a right to impose such responsibility on men. Also, stop claiming ownership of children. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/13 07:22 PM |
| 7 | New divorced Dad, maybe looking to vent and get some advice.I try to keep in contact with my children as best as I can. My son is 3.5 and my daughter is 2. I video chat with them almost every night as well as call them almost every day and tell them I love them. I try to write them every day and send them things when I can. Good for you. I feel like she is trying to push me out of their lives and replace me with her boyfriend Probably. Maternal gatekeeping has a huge impact on pushing good fathers out of the lives of their children. What can I do to stil… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/13 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A post on why courts are NOT biased against men - thoughts?Let's just move past the bias issue and get to the point. Most family law courts operate on a primary caregiver model, which gives all of the power and control over to that parent which spends N+1 hours more time with the children. That primary caregiver who spends N+1 hours more time with the children can scuttle any attempt at joint custody / shared parenting by simply NOT co-operating. This leaves the other parent in the position of relegated to an occaisonal visitor and ATM. It just so happe… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/13 02:11 PM |
| 22 | Can you give a reliable source where it is stated that men do not earn more money for the same job? because after i googled it, I only got plenty articles like: "Women are payed much less..." over and over.The “pay gap” is probably the most widely-cited example of supposed disadvantages faced by women today. It is also totally misleading, as it is only a snapshot of average yearly full-time incomes that does not account for overtime (about 90% male), type of work, or other non-discriminatory, voluntary factors. The Department of Labor recently funded a study that proved this and found the pay gap is caused by choices, not discrimination. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/13 01:58 PM |
| 1 | An epic rant from the pastGood rant, that's and FRA. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/13 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Top 10 mistakes Fathers make when seeking Shared Child CustodyMight be helpful in Australia, but in Canada case precedent is that if a primary caregiver (mother) refuses to share custody and deliberately scuttles all attempts by not co-operating, she gets full custody. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | the MGTOW database - double standards - Where's the Men's Resource Centers ?When did she do that? First time I heard of this. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/13 04:51 PM |
| 3 | the MGTOW database - double standards - Where's the Men's Resource Centers ?Every attempt to set up a men's resource centre at Canadian universities have been viciously opposed by feminists. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/13 04:51 PM |
| 9 | Get your popcorn, folks: Five Reasons to Be a Feminist ManHe missed making the point about how feminism is helping men too. /s | /r/MensRights | 07/07/13 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Had a discussion with someone about the wage gap in r/TILYou didn't do anything wrong, you were just arguing with an ideologue who will never be convinced. http://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/comments/w4ioz/bom_link_and_quote_farms/c6hrr5b | /r/MensRights | 07/07/13 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Please adviseStart collecting evidence by secretly recording her, write a journal of your daily interactions with her and your child. Start talking to a lawyer but don't serve divorce papers until you have a strong case. Don't react to her provocations, be the adult. Good luck OP, it's going to be a roller coaster ride. http://shrink4men.com/ http://www.batteredmen.com/ http://dahmw.org/ http://www.malesurvivor.org/ http://www.spousalabuse.biz/ http://www.stopabuseforeveryone.org/ | /r/MensRights | 05/07/13 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Second Shift PhenomenonHere's a start: Men spend much more time at work than women. According to Statistics Canada, men in 2005 spent on average 6.3 hours per day doing paid work as opposed to 4.4 for women. Yes, they did less unpaid work on average per day (2.5 hours per day versus 4.3), but it evens out. On average, men spent 8.8 hours and women did 8.7 hours per day of paid and unpaid work! http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/75-001-x/10706/9268-eng.htm A recent 25-nation study by economists from Berlin, Brussels and Texa… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/13 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are you an MRA?I don't like labels, but I care about men. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/13 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Father needs advice/ help.Sounds like your doing the right thing OP, best of luck to you. You should get some legal advice, but your best bet is self representing otherwise the lawyers will take all your money and leave you broke before it is ever resolved. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/13 02:47 AM |
| -4 | Barbara Kay: Nicole Doucet is innocent, because of her sexMy title is more accurate, that's why I changed it. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/13 03:21 AM |
| -1 | Barbara Kay: Nicole Doucet is innocent, because of her sexbecause - synonyms as, as a result of, as long as, as things go, being, by cause of, by reason of, by virtue of, considering, due to, for, for the reason that, for the sake of, in as much as, in behalf of, in that, in the interest of, in view of, now that, on the grounds that, over, owing to, seeing, since, thanks to, through, whereas Edit: My title more accurately reflected what Barbara Kay actually said. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/13 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Barbara Kay: Nicole Doucet is innocent, because of her sexHer case is being reviewed it's likely she WON'T escape going to prison. No, it's not. Yes, she has. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/13 02:23 AM |
| -1 | Barbara Kay: Nicole Doucet is innocent, because of her sexThat makes no sense at all. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/13 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Dave Foley describes his dealings with extremely fair and reasonable alimony laws (podcast)I don't think anyone gets the sarcasm unless they already know Dave Foley's story. Dave got divorced from Tabatha Southey (Globe and Mail Columnist) at the peak of his career and was stuck with incredible alimony payments. He couldn't get them reduced after his career tanked and could never go back to Canada to see his children or he would go to jail. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/13 12:29 AM |
| 0 | I'm looking for a few Punished Fathers. I posted my plight a few days ago and here's what happened in my brain during the last 72/96 hours.That's a great idea but these organizations already exist. Starting you're own only divides the fathers rights movement. Get involved. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/13 01:52 PM |
| -6 | My Custody Ruling TodayHe's not very convincing that it is in the child's best interests. In fact, he has provided no explaination when questioned. Sure there are reasons for it, like a completely unfit parent or abuse, but the sole-custody winner take all model of family law is bad for everyone, except lawyers. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 09:00 PM |
| -8 | My Custody Ruling TodayWell, contrary to what you and the judge think, sole custody judgements are not in children's best interests. Sounds to me that you both just wanted to win and didn't want to cooperate. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:32 PM |
| 7 | My Custody Ruling TodayStudies have shown that children fare best when both parents involvement is maximized. Why was sole-custody so important to you? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:25 PM |
| 1 | My Custody Ruling TodayBased on my experience with previous posts of this type, I'm expecting a lot of downvotes and cheering for the adversarial winner take all model of family law. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:11 PM |
| -3 | My Custody Ruling TodayWhy do you think that sole-custody is in the best interests of your son? Most often, it is not. After three years of adversarial court proceedings and money down the drain, do you consider this a success? How much money did this cost you? Are you rich? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Discussion of the term "patriarchy".I think you missed the first line. Not a very good reader. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/13 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Discussion of the term "patriarchy".Well, that means NOW is part of the Patriarchy since they officially oppose efforts by Father's Rights groups to reform family law and implement the presumption of equal shared parenting. Also, The contemporary feminist discourse tends to focus exclusively on the fact that important and influential roles in society are filled by men in a patriarchy, and use this observation to conclude that patriarchy is about male dominance and male power. Through this generalization, the power of a small subse… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/13 02:56 AM |
| 1 | ‘Stain on the justice system’: Calls for inquiry into decision to clear teacher who hired hit man to kill husbandI wonder what form this inquiry would take? Would this include the prosecutor, the provincial justice, the supreme court? Who would run the inquiry? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What's MensRights consensus on this?Actually, it's about 1/3 for domestic homicides which only represents about 0.001% of all domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 04:00 PM |
| 7 | What's MensRights consensus on this?You're not going to find a consensus but they are playing a statistical trick by using % of all homicides rather than comparison of real numbers. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Someone told me everything posting in this sub-reddit about DV is a lie and linked me this...Do you have anything credible to cite other than biased blogs? Feminists usually quote justice department statistics and men are far less likely to report DV to police. MRAs usually quote societal surveys which include both men's and women's self-reporting. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 03:18 PM |
| 1 | On Ideologues, Isms and Evangelical Atheists...and some of the complaints were that she was a misandrist giving shitty advice to male victims of domestic violence. Paul continues to avoid his blatant screwup when he threw male victims of domestic violence under the bus in preference for is new anti-feminist snowflake. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/13 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Main ideologies in the manosphereNot a bad article for the-spearhead. However, you neglect to recognize that the loss of traditionalism is also due in part to industrial and technological advancement and simple economics where most families can't afford to have one person staying at home. Also, it's not best for men, that's just idealistic romanticism. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/13 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthPut me on ignore. You're just an AVFM sockpuppet. Stick your head in the sand. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/13 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Owning Your Shit: Okay, I really wasn't interested in doing this, but... | Karen (GirlWritesWhat) talks about The Wooly Bumblbee AVFM drama on her blog.No it wasn't and she's not cute at all. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Does Ritalin really help? A startling new study of thousands of Canadian children ...found that overall, these drugs have no long-term benefits whatsoever.I've heard before that boys are being medicated at ~5X the rate of girls (or more, don't remember). Quite often they are being medicated for acting like normal rambunctious boys. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:30 PM |
| 9 | Straight Male Feminist Trying To Understand MRAsPatriarchy positions men to be on the loosing end of most family courts because it promote the misogynistic image of women being better "caretakers" than men, thus making it unequal. It isn't feminism that is altering the family courts, its patriarchy. When fathers rights groups lobby for equal shared parenting, it's feminist groups like NOW who oppose them, not "patriarchy". | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 11:29 AM |
| 8 | Owning Your Shit: Okay, I really wasn't interested in doing this, but... | Karen (GirlWritesWhat) talks about The Wooly Bumblbee AVFM drama on her blog.I don't have a problem with MGTOW or libertarians, they're only tangentally related and secondary issues. It's the primary men's issue that Paul missed the red flag re: her crapping on a male victim of domestic violence and Dean's white knighting for her. He lost all respect from me when he refused to form an opinion in preference for placating his new special snowflakes. Then AVfM promoted her to run the earlsilvermancenter. Paul was warned, now it's only blatantly obvious that she is unfit to … | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | GWW explains the history of WBB and AVfMdo you have any evidence he did it in bad faith or without reason? I suspect it he did it to be inclusive of a new female anti-feminist writer who was also anti-athiesm plus. He probably downplayed the red flags and had too much misplaced hope. Perhaps it was desperation, perhaps he gave her a pussy pass. Any which way it can be explained is not good because he lost his integrity and my respect when he refused to even state his own opinion on the matter. Then he threatened to ban me for "threate… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:53 AM |
| 2 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."I'm only speculating GWW but I've been on AVFM from the beginning and on MND prior to that. Paul is a pragmatist and he's always wanted to grow the "movement" by being more inclusive and attracting gays, blacks and women. I understand it's important to be inclusive and I've never really had a problem with any of them except for the tradcons trying to turn back the clock and the women claiming feminine privilege. I never really had a problem with Bern or Mr. E and I was in the middle of that shit… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:39 AM |
| 1 | GWW explains the history of WBB and AVfMI don't hate AVFM or Paul Elam. I used to have a lot of respect for him...until he threw male victims of domestic violence under the bus. Edit: Here's a picture of me and JtO on a hill with some protestors. P.S. Fuck you. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or does the epicenter of the MRA movement seem to be in Eastern Canada?They were, but it never happened so it doesn't count. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or does the epicenter of the MRA movement seem to be in Eastern Canada?Vancouver had a bunch of poster campaigns, but no events. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it me or does the epicenter of the MRA movement seem to be in Eastern Canada?Not necessarily. CAFE put on a lot of lectures that were protested by feminists and gained some media attention. AVfM jumped on board with their anti-feminist campaign but I don't think I ever read an article or discussion on AVfM about the content of the lectures themselves. CAFE is going full board where AVfM tripped and fell on their face by creating a Canadian Centre for Men and Families with reputable endorsements like Lionel Tiger, Miles Groth and Warren Farrel. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 11:45 PM |
| 8 | GWW explains the history of WBB and AVfMShe collected a bunch of money, got Murray Pearson to set up a website for her (earlsilvermancenter.org) and not much after that. I'm predicting that nothing ever comes of it and she pockets the money. She's the wrong person to be counselling men, particularly male victims of domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 10:45 PM |
| 2 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."I put 100% of the blame on Paul and the reason is that when I questioned him about WBB throwing DV victims under the bus, he chose to stay silent and refused to form an opinion on a distinctinctly men's issue. Not only did he exhibit poor judgement on WBB, but also a lack of integrity in not addressing the issues. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 10:23 PM |
| 1 | GWW explains the history of WBB and AVfMYes, I realize this is embarrassing for AVfM to promote someone like this as an advocate for male victims of domestic violence. It was a big mistake and Paul ignored all of the red flags and warnings. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 08:49 PM |
| 0 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."Apparently Paul wasn't aware of the red flags He was definitely aware of the red flags, but chose to throw male victims of domestic violence under the bus to promote his new athiest female leftist anti-feminist. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthI take it you'll be defending all of Paul's stupid decisions and bad judgement. I'll place a bet that the earlsilvermancenter.org is never created and that money disappears. The evidence is in Kristina's past failures to follow up on anything including avoiceforboys, canadian news director and the african circumcision whatever. You guys are a fucking joke pretending to advocate for male victims of domestic violence with that crazy lady. You should be ashamed of yourselves. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Thought I would share my story. I just found this subreddit, figured I would share the write up of my case.I'm so sorry for your loss. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthHow is WBB working out for you now jackass? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 06:42 PM |
| 1 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."For a brief time that something was just a blank website layout. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 03:21 PM |
| 1 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."She was an athiest that had a falling out with Athiesmplus. Paul was impressed by her anti-feminist rhetoric and elevated her (tokenism) to positions at AVFM that she wasn't ready for. She's only been an "MHRA" for about 4 months and hasn't done much of anything. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 03:21 PM |
| 2 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."She's a nobody who has never had any compassion for men and boys. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:51 PM |
| 2 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."She always had control of it. Some other guy set it up for her and she never did anything with it. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:50 PM |
| 7 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."I'm a DV activist and I am greatly bothered that Paul Elam threw male victims of domestic violence under the bus so that he could expand his anti-feminist harem. He did more than make a mistake. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:26 PM |
| -1 | An argument for slut-shamingIt lowers women's market value. ...when the cost of sex is very low, as it is today, the derived demand in the marriage market is not going to be very high. Marriage is the ultimate commitment -the highest price that could possibly be paid for sex, which women don't demand today. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:20 PM |
| 2 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."is backing up what shes doing with actions. All she has done is collect a whole lot of money and got some other guy to set up a blog for her. She hasn't done shit. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 11:10 AM |
| 9 | TWBB: "So my YouTube channel is now dedicated to exposing the lies and bullshit that is going on in the MRM, and at AVFM. I am going to do it the same way I would if it were radical feminism, religion, or any other bullshit scam."I watched the 1hr 20min video and that was already too much for me. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I disliked WBB from the start when she shit all over a male victim of domestic violence and told him to man-up and abandon his children to this abusive wife. Paul fucked up big time in making her anything more than a writer. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Kristina Hansen and husband rage hard at Paul Elam after she is removed from AVFMYou're hacking at strawmen. I made a point about Mr. E who doesn't seem to have any MRA agenda other than what appears coincident with a religious agenda. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Kristina Hansen and husband rage hard at Paul Elam after she is removed from AVFMNo sir, your spin is moot. It is a well known fact that world religions have always always promoted demographic growth using reproduction as the primary means. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/13 11:06 PM |
| 24 | So there aren't many mens shelters out there... maybe there's another way?Individual differences among people are much greater than averages among the sexes. The gender apartheid model breeds hatred rather than healing and is not family friendly. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/13 02:59 PM |
| 29 | So there aren't many mens shelters out there... maybe there's another way?Men and boys need at the very minimum, counselling and legal advocacy. Domestic violence services should be completely gender neutral, family focused and all gender ideologues should be purged. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/13 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Kristina Hansen and husband rage hard at Paul Elam after she is removed from AVFMtl:dl - Liberatian strawmen. Paul, JtO and GWW need to GTFO and you're all a bunch of "pussy faggots". | /r/MensRights | 15/06/13 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Kristina Hansen and husband rage hard at Paul Elam after she is removed from AVFMI'm not gonna pick sides here because everyone has a few valid points, even a broken clock is right twice a day. Both Paul's and Kristina's narrative of "what happened" are incomplete. When Mr. E(Enigma) first arrived at AVFM, his only form of men's activism was to promote making babies to breed feminists out of existence. This is essentially a traditional religious perspective. Kristina and Uncle Bernie are two sides of the same coin. When Kristina first arrived on the scene, she was shitting o… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/13 02:10 PM |
| -7 | This is what you donated your money to for the EarlSilvermanCentre.orgtl;dl - GWW, JtO and PE need to GTFO, and you're all a bunch of faggot pussies. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/13 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Question: domestic violence in less fortunate countries(sorry if already answered)Here's a summary http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID64B-PR64%20IFAS.pdf | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 05:53 PM |
| 2 | How often do women molest men?Here you go. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Picture from the Russian gay pride parade. (x-post from WTF)Is there a story to go with this? What happened? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’That's completely understandable, but the NP is one of the few publications to provide some reasonable mainstream coverage of men's issues. Also, CAFE isn't like that. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’He also wrote this article on the Fiamengo lecture http://news.nationalpost.com/2013/03/09/marginalized-and-on-the-defensive-university-conservatives-forced-to-grow-tougher/ But he mischaracterized CAFE as "university conservatives". All too often, the NP likes to politicize such things. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’what's up with that 'headline'. Well, my theory based on being a long time reader of the NP is that they have some traditional men (coughKellyMcParlandcough) on their editorial board who like to white knight for women and blame the failure of modern men on a lack of traditional masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’I'm saving that for future use. Thank you very much. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’Why? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Leading expert on ‘maleness’ comes to Toronto to support ‘men’s centre’He's been around for a long time, they also have Miles Groth on board. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 03:02 AM |
| 3 | The future of child rearing?Sorry, but no. Crying babies would drastically reduce my productivity. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Question: domestic violence in less fortunate countries(sorry if already answered)Yes, gender symmetry exists in less fortunate countries too. INTERNATIONAL DATING VIOLENCE STUDY PUBLICATIONS http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID-Sample-4-04.htm EVEN IN MALE-DOMINANT DEVELOPING NATIONS, MORE GIRLS HIT PARTNERS THAN BOYS | /r/MensRights | 11/06/13 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I need studies about the wage gap.Here you go | /r/MensRights | 11/06/13 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Junk Science Week: Terence Corcoran on women on boardsFYI, Rona Ambrose, federal Status of Women Minister is a Conservative. Laurel Broten, Ontario’s Minister Responsible for Women’s Issues is a Liberal. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/13 02:45 PM |
| 2 | The Truth About the Wage GapYou forgot link, but here you go | /r/MensRights | 07/06/13 11:19 PM |
| 3 | So, there have been a few posts deriding this sub for all the negative posts. I thought I would share something more upbeat.Good for you OP. I'm looking forward to the summer as much as my kids are. I live with in bike riding distance of two beaches, I have a pool, treehouse and swingset in my backyard and I'm 15 minutes from Niagara falls. My kids best friends live here too. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/13 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Conversation with WooleyBumbleBee (Kristina Hansen)Well, there was IMD 2012. Poof, money all gone, no IMD. Also, can you provide some accounting of fundraising for the Earl Silverman Centre? Say good bye to your money. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 02:15 PM |
| 22 | Barbara Kay: Calling all male bashers - The Canadian Federation of Students vs. Canadian Association For EqualityPlease support CAFE's latest initiative to help men and boys. Canadian Centre for Men and Families | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 02:03 PM |
| 2 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyHer opinions are divisive and shows how little understanding and compassion she has for men. Libertarians aren't co-opting the movement, that's what you newbs fail to understand. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 02:02 PM |
| 2 | When did the bias from courts in child custody begin?Source? What does child custody have to do with contracts? | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 02:40 AM |
| 0 | When did the bias from courts in child custody begin?You're off by about 100 years. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 01:59 AM |
| 3 | When did the bias from courts in child custody begin?It started in the 1800's with the Tender Years Doctrine, which was replaced in the 1900's with the Best Interests of the Child, which pretty much works the same way. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 01:59 AM |
| 3 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyThe theory behind libertarian being supposedly pro-men is to eliminate state funding of feminist groups to reduce their political influence. Supposedly, in a fair society there wouldn't be any artificial levelling of abilities and those who succeed would do so on their own merit. I don't think there are any libertarian policies that specifically help men or anyone else for that matter. I also find the individualist and competitive nature of libertarianism to be counter productive to compassionat… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 11:24 PM |
| 1 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyWell not entirely true, E. Belfort Bax was a socialist. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 09:49 PM |
| 0 | De-escalation: It's useful!You're not effective at all. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 08:56 PM |
| 0 | De-escalation: It's useful!Pro-tip, just because somebody thinks you're an idiot, doesn't mean they are a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 08:55 PM |
| 5 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyThere's no denying that the MRM and AVFM have strong libertarian roots, however it would be a mistake to label AVFM as a libertarian stronghold. It is more so an anti-feminist stronghold where political ideologies come second. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 08:36 PM |
| 5 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversythat GWW is just needlessly politicizing the MRM I don't think so. I've never seen GWW try to push out others with different political viewpoints. Personally, I'm more libertarian too, but I am quite interested in the marxist viewpoints of the MRM and would never throw them away since my first priority is men and not politics. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 08:09 PM |
| 4 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyDunno, personally I think she's dumb as a bag of rocks and Paul fucked up. Edit: Actually, some explaination here where she displays her lack of knowledge, understanding and compassion for men. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n1k0hWqURE | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:56 PM |
| 1 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversySo, now that you know it is then you have nothing to criticize? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:51 PM |
| 2 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyWhat are you talking about? I am MGTOW. Edit: Except I'm not celibate, so more like Zeta. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:50 PM |
| 0 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyWBB = WoolyBumbleBee LLP = Lefists, Liberals, Progressives http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1fkmnh/thewoolybumblebee_apparently_leaves_avfm_due_to/cabn7cx | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:35 PM |
| 2 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyGWW = GirlWritesWhat WBB = WoolyBumbleBee MRA=Mens Rights Activist MGTOW=Men Going Their Own Way LLP = Lefists, Liberals, Progressives AVFM = A Voice For Men WTF = What The Fuck | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:20 PM |
| -8 | GWW speaks out about the WBB controversyPaul fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthAVFM's growth has been made possible by acting stupid to get attention, kinda like the retarded idiot that everyone stares at. Also, by increasing the number of shitty articles to increase web clicks from it's loyal followers. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 06:28 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthYou're right, I don't give a shit about A Voice For Anti Feminists but Dont Give A Shit About Men. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthNo I'm not. Cry moar baby. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthUR funny for an asshole. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Conversation with WooleyBumbleBee (Kristina Hansen)Well, Elam should concern himself with more important things, like where all that money went that was scammed from men. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 06:22 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthHe's scared shitless of debate. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:35 PM |
| -4 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthHe has the largest audience, that makes him the most credible blogger. LOL, go follow him loser. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:35 PM |
| -1 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthIt's been a while since I've been acused of being feminist. Fuck off loser. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:34 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthHey look, it's....Fuck off loser. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthWhy not? Free speech doesn't apply on a private website. They can do whatever they want. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Conversation with WooleyBumbleBee (Kristina Hansen)That's close. AVFM doesn't help men, it's primarily an anti-feminist activist site. Paul should have realized a long time ago that Kristina doesn't give a shit about understanding men and she's dumb as a bag of hammers. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:21 PM |
| -7 | Conversation with WooleyBumbleBee (Kristina Hansen)A Voice for Anti-Feminists doesn't help men. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:06 PM |
| -3 | Conversation with WooleyBumbleBee (Kristina Hansen)I'm not even taking the MGTOW side, but I don't like the intellectual dishonesty of WBB or Paul Elam. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 04:04 PM |
| -5 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthAre they banning anything that is actually pro-men's rights? Or is it just A Voice for Anti-Feminists? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthFacebook has every right to do anything they want, just like Paul Elam has every right to ban dissent (as he does) to maintain his ideological echo chamber. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:41 PM |
| -3 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthIt's not a public place, they don't have to allow free speech. If you don't like it then leave facebook. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:40 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthThe fact is that he's a hypocrite and I don't give a shit about his personal campaign against facebook. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 02:44 PM |
| -4 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthI've been on that site from the very beginning and I've seen it happen multiple times. Maybe if Paul ever comes out of hiding, we can have a debate and he can attempt to deny the truth. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 01:34 PM |
| -6 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthTalk to Paul about being a hypocrite. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 01:33 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthGo ahead and put up a fight. Don't expect anyone else to be your useful idiots. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 01:17 PM |
| -2 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthHaving seen it happen many times. Maybe if Paul ever comes out of hiding, we can have a debate. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 01:17 PM |
| -7 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthBecause it's not a rigid ideological echo chamber like AVFM is. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 01:16 PM |
| -22 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthSorry Paul, Facebook isn't a public space, they can ban whoever they want and for any reason, just like you. How does that hypocrisy taste? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 11:42 AM |
| -16 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthThat's bad, but also hypocritical from an intellectual coward who bans dissent. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 11:34 AM |
| 9 | Should women really have 50% of executive positions?I can ignore everything you just said and just consider the pool of available candidates. Men are far more likely to be willing to give up their home life to dedicate themselves to a company. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:40 AM |
| -1 | MRAs really should cut down on name-calling. It only helps our enemies.They want us to be tame, to be quiet and keep our heads low, that kind of shit has led to a generation of weak and apathetic men who just take the shit without a single word. I disagree, it's the younger generations that are tired of putting up with this shit and actually speaking out. The old folks are the weak and apathetic men. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:10 AM |
| 0 | MRAs really should cut down on name-calling. It only helps our enemies.I think over reliance on insults and brute force is counterproductive, but if our enemies can only focus on the minority of insults then it only shows the weakness of their argument. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 03:09 AM |
| 5 | How do you discuss domestic violence as it applies to both sexes, both in real life and on reddit?Simply get them to recognize that violence is a human problem and family violence is a family problem that usually affects and gets taught to children. Most domestic violence is bilateral and instigating and exacerbating a mutual fight is bad for everyone. The average size difference between men and women is negated by the common knowledge that men are socialized to not hurt and to protect women and that there is not the same socialisation for women's violence, which is often seen as comedy. Als… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 02:52 AM |
| 3 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.Is it okay then to steal money and shit on male victims of domestic violence? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 09:04 PM |
| -5 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.Nah, they publish tons of shit these days that's not worth reading. They've gone from the quality model to the quantity model to increase web clicks and the false aura of growth. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Setting up a custody agreement prior to marriageis it possible to setup a custody agreement prior to having children for 50/50 custody with no child support Sure, but it won't stick if she changes her mind later. Also can alimony rights be waived with a prenuptial? Yes, but make sure you both have your own lawyers and there is a significant waiting period (months) before marriage. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 07:20 PM |
| -8 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.No fucking way. Paul only proved to me that he's an intellectual coward. You are one of the few who I seemed to find some agreement that she was dumb as a bag of rocks. Surely, you must have seen some of the other many red flags? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 06:33 PM |
| -4 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.WBB doesn't fit in, she's dumb as a bag of rocks. Her whiteyknighty Deangina can get lost too. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:34 PM |
| -3 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.I think it was only about 4 months for the special snowflake. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 01:56 PM |
| 1 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.I like variety and the "extremist" label doesn't bother me one bit. It's the pure stupidity of WBB and lack of intellectual integrity by AVfM that has become an ideological echo chamber that pisses me off. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 01:56 PM |
| 3 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.No shit she's dishonest, she has a long term scheme to pocket the money. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 01:38 PM |
| 2 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.What exactly are you impressed with? The defunct avoiceforboys? Getting a group of homeless men together for coffee and calling it MRA-Montreal? A complete lack of knowledge about Canadian news and laws? Not reading or unable to interpret studies? Shitting on male victims of domestic violence and telling them to man-up and abandon their children? Funding raising for a shelter with no plan or accountability measures in place? She's dumb as a bag of rocks and it reflects badly on AVfM. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 01:36 PM |
| 4 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.Nonsense, but there were many red flags that WBB was dumb as a bag of hammers that couldn't be trusted. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 01:31 PM |
| 5 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.AVfM forgives her for her fabulously ignorant tantrums I hold management 100% responsible. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 11:17 AM |
| 3 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.She's pocketed it and it will never be seen again, just like IMD 2012. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 11:17 AM |
| -9 | TheWoolybumblebee apparently leaves AVfM due to "concerns direction the site has taken that is not benefiting the MRM". Makes claims of "ideology that is creeping in" by being cryptic and giving zero details. Comment "Rebecca Watson of the MRM" nails it.I hold Paul Elam 100% responsible for lacking the intelligence to see through her bullshit and call her on it. I hold Paul Elam 100% responsible for her scamming $5000+ from the MRM and running away with it. Be a man Paul and admit your failure. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 11:16 AM |
| 12 | Quick questionThe 1 in 4 is estimate of unreported "rape", but what it actually is from a Mary Koss questionnaire about unwanted touching and the like, where many of the women did not consider it rape or sexual assault. http://www.leaderu.com/real/ri9502/sommers.html | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 08:35 PM |
| 9 | My son's teacher has falsely accused me of physical abuse.It's worse than the US and social workers are unaccountable for their negligence. It doesn't hurt to have a lawyer on standby, but the only advice they will give at this point is to do the interview. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 01:15 PM |
| 2 | My son's teacher has falsely accused me of physical abuse.YES, I have which is why I suggested recording everything. Guaranteed, any lawyer will tell you there is nothing they can do about a simple interview by CAS. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If anyone ever asks you why we need Men's Rights Activism...It's a good list. I hate labels too. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 12:05 AM |
| -4 | My son's teacher has falsely accused me of physical abuse.It's not a legal issue, yet. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 11:59 PM |
| 66 | My son's teacher has falsely accused me of physical abuse.Talk to your son about it and secretly record all interactions with social workers and teacher in the future. It's not illegal in Canada. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Robyn Urback: Student union brands men’s rights groups as ‘hateful’ clubs that ‘justify sexual assault’I don't think there are fraternities in Canada. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 08:33 PM |
| 8 | Student union brands men’s rights groups as ‘hateful’ clubs that ‘justify sexual assault’Please add a comment thanking Robyn Urback for her attention to these issues. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Penis-free swim has Sault Ste. Marie enraged.The pool I go to regularly has both women's only and men's only hours. As long as they are consistent and fair then I don't see any problem. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 03:08 PM |
| 13 | Feminists fight the legalization of Sex work in BC. Their proposed laws would criminalize men, and not help sex workers.The fallacy of this approach is that it still forces prostitutes to work underground to protect their clients. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Feminists fight the legalization of Sex work in BC. Their proposed laws would criminalize men, and not help sex workers.This is where feminists collude with evangelical Christians like Andrea Mrozek (IMF Canada) who made exactly the same proposals in a Toronto Sun article a few years back. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Canadian Association for Equality is launching a campaign to open a men’s centre in Toronto. Visit, share and help fundraiseI'll donate to this. A reputable board of directors, an actual plan and 1000% more credibility than Woolybumblebee. Hey, what's she doing with all that money? How is it being accounted for? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Does a man have to pay child support if he is still legally married, but seperated from his wife?She'll get full child support from the date of separation, not whatever she asks for. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 02:27 AM |
| 9 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.No, it won't, especially if he writes a letter to his supervisor documenting everything that was said and his disapproval of the course. If he gets accused again, he documents it again and makes a complaint about a hostile and harassing work environtment. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Does a man have to pay child support if he is still legally married, but seperated from his wife?He doesn't actually owe anything until there is a court order, but she can fight for back child support and will get that plus cost if it goes in front of a judge. He doesn't need to take my advice though, he needs a lawyer before signing any agreement. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Does a man have to pay child support if he is still legally married, but seperated from his wife?I'm sure she's still getting legal advice. The amounts are pretty clear cut. She'll know enough about what she can expect and if you are smart, you will get a lawyer to review any final agreement before signing. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 02:12 AM |
| 12 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.OP can write his own letters. If he ever gets fired for future fake complaints, he can hire a lawyer if he's documented everything. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:54 AM |
| 14 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.RobotAnna is creepy and harassing me with her creepiness. Please fire her. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:53 AM |
| 3 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.Don't do this either. Don't make threats. Document everything that was said and send a copy to your supervisor. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:52 AM |
| 15 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.Don't do this, you are required to take the training if requested. They are paying you for it, consider it an opportunity to slack off. You could even get into a group discussion about harassment from anonymous sources with spurious complaints. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:52 AM |
| 32 | So I was accused of sexual harassment today.Document everything that was said in writing and send a copy of it to your supervisor. At the very least, this will create a paper trail for future lawsuit. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Does a man have to pay child support if he is still legally married, but seperated from his wife?Yes and even if there is no court order, you will have to pay back all child support from the day of separation. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 01:43 AM |
| 3 | From an outsiders perceptive, the MRM seems like a misogynistic, anti-feminist movement. So for the sake of something different how about we talk about the things about women and feminism we actuallyfeminism is how it shows that gender rolls are socially constructed It's just theory and still up for debate. It seems more like it's a mix of both with shades of grey varying between characteristics and individual. how masculinity is see as stronger and better than femininity. Not necessarily. Feminine virtue and purity have always been seen as better than masculinity. and none are stronger or better than the other That's just nonsense, on an individual level gender stereotypes are useless and … | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Doing a lit project on true gender equality, how should I format it?Maybe she's suggesting that a man shouldn't write about "true gender equality" or that you shouldn't do the paper at all. Have you ever seen the Norwegian documentary Brainwash - The Gender Equality Paradox? It caused a tidal wave of controversy and led to massive defunding of gender equality programs because they were ineffective. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Doing a lit project on true gender equality, how should I format it?But I'm not sure if it appeals to the biggest possible amount of people Considering the amount of trolly memes and crap that gets heavily upvoted on reddit, I don't think that really matters. Post it anyway. I asked, she just said a paper wouldn't be the best option I'm not sure what that means, do you? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Doing a lit project on true gender equality, how should I format it?you guys probably don't want to read a paper Yes, I do. how should I format it? Shouldn't that be a question for your teacher? appreciate tips on what to include in it. Male disposability, chivalry, misandry, hyper-agency, education imbalance, suicide, workplace deaths and injuries, family law, domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 06:11 PM |
| 3 | The fan is about to be hit. I need to advice.Sounds like he's accumulating equity at least while she pays the mortgage and property taxes. She probably can't afford to buy him out and the only other option is to sell it, which would create a lot of bad feelings. It's also a lever that he can use against her to prevent her from financially destroying him in court. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The fan is about to be hit. I need to advice.??? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 04:56 PM |
| 2 | The fan is about to be hit. I need to advice.Good man. How did you figure out the amount? Are you still paying for this house that you don't even live in? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 04:01 PM |
| 8 | The fan is about to be hit. I need to advice.You should make it official and in writing, the payments and schedule. Don't give her any money that isn't traceable. She can make claim to all back payments. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Studies done on CanadaSuicide http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/11-008-x/2002002/article/6349-eng.pdf http://www.imfcanada.org/article_files/Canadian%20Suicide%20Statistics.pdf http://www40.statcan.ca/l01/cst01/hlth66d-eng.htm {click on left tab for male-female comparison} Homicide http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/85f0033m/2010024/t007-eng.htm Domestic Homicide http://www.statcan.gc.ca/bsolc/olc-cel/olc-cel?catno=85-224-X&chropg=1%29=eng http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/85-224-x/85-224-x2008000-eng.pdf Child Maltreatment http://w… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’That's why I stick mostly to Father's Rights groups that are concerned about fathers, rather than relativity to mothers. I don't think it's okay simply because they're doing it to mothers too. Also, have you ever looked at the differences in marketing between mothers day and fathers day? Of fucking course fathers will be negligable on "family day", it's a no brainer. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’I'm just looking at the issue as having a negative impact on fathers, which it is. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 09:41 PM |
| 2 | (MI) Regreting a recent court negotiation. Custody case.I insisted upon travel being split and she immediatly insisted upon me doing all the driving to bring him home (she just left and he's with me). What does the actual agreement say? If there is nothing on paper and you are the non-custodial parent, then you are stuck with responsibility for travel. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’There is so much stuff out there which diminishes the role and importance of fathers Yep, like not recognizing fathers day. Hmmmmmm? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’Of course the role of fathers will be diminished when most "families" are now single mothers. A combined family day will just be another mother's day. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Studies done on CanadaSure, but for instance Statscan stopped collecting and reporting data on the relationship of the perpetrator in child maltreatment (mostly women) and doesn't collect data on homeless population (mostly men) | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 07:36 PM |
| -4 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’It's a parent's issue, but the only thing men have left as a positive male identity is fatherhood. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Studies done on CanadaNot necessarily, they are selective in data collection and often biased in their analysis. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 07:30 PM |
| 16 | The way Men are treatedMy parents divorced when I was 13. It sucked. My Dad was treated like shit by everyone and it took a lot of years to figure out that even though he was far from perfect, he wasn't nearly as bad as everyone portrayed him. Sure makes you want to get married, doesn't it? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Let Samsung Know How You Feelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9HMhSvnbmk | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts?Horse play and outdoor adventures used to be okay for groups of boys, now it's a no no because somebody might get hurt. They might as well combine them because now they both suck. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts?It's not fair but generally girl scouts sucks (not all but it depends on the leaders and parents involvement) and is mostly a craft group run by busybody moms. I remember when boy scouts used to be about outdoor adventures, not so much any more that it's been taken over by busybody moms afraid that anybody will get hurt. It's more like girl scouts now and it's no surprise that it's losing popularity. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Parents launch petition to bring back Father’s Day cards after school replaces holiday with ‘Family Day’Also, Barbara Kay: Let them have Father's Day | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts?In Canada, there is no longer any "boy scouts", it is just "scouts" and girls are allowed to join. There is still "girl scouts" though and that's unlikely to ever change. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Searching for men's rights leader/ figure to interviewYeah, I really want to hear the story behind that one too, but he has confirmed in the past via other methods. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Searching for men's rights leader/ figure to interviewIt's true, but also embarrasing that he lost his fucking password. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manYou posted a case precedent about an assault conviction when a security guard attempted to remove a man who refused to leave, not for a conviction for using a cellphone. The other case precedent was for a repeated violation where "As a last resort, the airport authorities served him with a notice under the TPA prohibiting him from entering upon the property" These are clear tresspass violations in contravention of the act, as I previously alluded. You're trying too hard, but I dare you to make a… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 03:57 AM |
| 5 | "Why Has Humanity Always Fantasized About the Capture and Rape of Women? Misogyny’s deepest roots are exposed in the endless repetition of stories about capture and rape," or at least that's how AlterI've never read any of those stories, but I never read women's romance novels. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 03:41 AM |
| 18 | Samsung portrays men as unevolved slobs.It's great advertising. Now I know not to ever buy a Samsung product. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Stunning college degree gap: Women have earned almost 10 million more college degrees than men since 1982That may be true, but most of those degrees are in arts and not applicable to running businesses or countries. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manExcept that nobody has ever been convicted of trespassing for using a cell phone in a theatre or spitting in a pool or for walking on grass to deliver papers. Why is that? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manengages in an activity on premises when the activity is prohibited under this Act Yeah, so where under the act is it prohibited to text on a cellphone in a theatre? Hint, it's not. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:57 AM |
| -4 | So we live in a patriarchy, huh?When I was told that by the year 2100 women would rule the world, I replied, ‘Still?’ -Teh Patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:39 AM |
| -3 | So we live in a patriarchy, huh?"The Hand That Rocks The Cradle Is The Hand That Rules The World" -Teh Patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Mothers who drown their kids == Acquittal; Dads who drown their kids == Death SentenceOr this one: http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2010/11/17/barbara-kay-when-a-mother-is-on-trial-the-father-is-the-accused/ | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Mothers who drown their kids == Acquittal; Dads who drown their kids == Death SentenceThis is probably a better comparison. http://www.news.com.au/national-news/curtis-mcconnell-outraged-at-return-to-australia-of-allyson-mcconnel-after-drowning-sons/story-fncynjr2-1226616959017 | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manProvincial Trespass to Property Act That only applies if he is asked to leave and he doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manOf course he sounds like a jerk, crappy CBC reporting is only giving one side of the story. Biased as usual. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Woman shocked that Police are summoned after she allegedly assaults manI don't trust the CBC account of this story. It only gives one side of the story and Lani Selick is a CBC employee. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 12:52 AM |
| 9 | Hello MensRights. I have a few questions for active regulars here. (some back story)Probably not, there is a lot of disagreement on many issues. Personally, I find labels to be meaningless. MR is not so concerned with social issues as it is with legal issues. At least that's my opinion, but you will find plenty of disagreement here. Personally, I have no interest in getting married. No benefit, huge risk. I'd like figure out an answer to that myself. It seems we are in the first stage of spreading the message. There are various organizations including many father's rights group… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 01:35 PM |
| 25 | Activist for sex workers and legal sex work gets censored by "Feminists Against Censorship."Feminists have joined forces with religious groups to get rid of all the wonderful striptease joints in London and elsewhere. It's Victorian puritanism disguised as modern progressivism. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Lost and angry about ex and my daughter. I have some questions and need help dealing with her...He could get a court injunction to prevent her from moving out of state, although he may not get it if she has a good reason to leave. He doesn't have any say about how the money is spent. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Baby dies in dad's care, he's sentenced to 2 life terms in prisonIsn't that usually what men do just before they toss a condom in the bin? No. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 12:22 AM |
| 15 | Baby dies in dad's care, he's sentenced to 2 life terms in prisonThere's too little information/evidence provided by the media to form an opinion. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 12:22 AM |
| 11 | Are there any Mens Rights Groups actually trying to change laws and public perception?http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/ http://ncfm.org/ | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 09:30 PM |
| 1 | NYC - Can I prevent my daughters mother from taking her out of country if she has full custody?You can get an injunction if you know that she's planning on moving. I don't think you can stop her from going on vacation. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 01:40 AM |
| 1 | The feminist, pro-father, and pro-child case against no-fault divorceIt doesn't change anything, there will just be extended separations and more false accusations of domestic violence. So-con neglects equal shared parenting and mandatory mediation. Eliminate the financial incentive to divorce. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Stony Brook University to Create Center for the Study of Men and MasculinitiesIt's Michael Kimmel, a gender feminist shill, domestic violence denier and author of Guyland. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Need Help!My kids were weaned after 12 months like they should be and I've never had any such problems. It's only third world countries where children have no other means of nutrition that they recommend breast feeding for longer. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Need Help!The baby was fussy because it was different people taking care of it. You are assuming it was because of the breast itself. Babies can get used to a new schedule and new caregivers, it happens all the time. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Need Help!Without a court order, you can't demand anything. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Need Help!It's irrelevant, she can pump breast milk. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 11:37 PM |
| 3 | So, what do you think I (a lesbian) should know about masculism? Also STEM fields.Interesting. I grew up in a blue collar family and a blue collar community so it was always assumed that I would go into trades or something like that. My Dad actually thought post-secondary education was a waste of time and had a lot of contempt for office types. It just so happens that I excelled in high school and was rejected by all the trade unions as being over qualified. My friends were also all nerds and my (female) counsellor advised that I was selling myself short for not considering p… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 04:13 PM |
| 14 | Is Feminism really needed anymore. Seems like Men are struggling way more!It shouldn't be a competition. We should be able to co-exist. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:55 PM |
| 5 | So, what do you think I (a lesbian) should know about masculism? Also STEM fields.My Dad worked in trades and did a lot of construction. He worked long hours, away from home quite a bit and in a dirty and dangerous environment. I wanted to avoid all that and still not be stuck in front of a computer all the time. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:52 PM |
| 6 | So, what do you think I (a lesbian) should know about masculism? Also STEM fields.The hours are long and the work is thankless and unfulfilling. I don't know about that. I usually only work 40 hours a week and get paid very well. I get to see something built that I was involved with from beginning to end, it's very satisfying. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:17 PM |
| 4 | So, what do you think I (a lesbian) should know about masculism? Also STEM fields.I don't know much about masculism and this probably isn't the best place to ask. Also, what do you make of the gender gap in STEM fields? Should this be resolved and if so how (in your opinion)? There's been tons of money thrown at women trying to attract them to STEM fields and it still doesn't work. Maybe you can explain why you weren't interested in STEM to give us a perspective on why women choose other careers? I work with a number of very capable women but they're still a minority. Watch t… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:13 PM |
| 14 | Help! My parents want to circumsize me.Actually, not true. I've seen one study that suggested circumcised men were on average about 1/2 inch shorter. No, I won't bother digging up the link because it's irrelevant and your foreskin and your penis size is none of your parents business. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:54 AM |
| 1 | just a question.It's a theory, not fact. The contemporary feminist discourse tends to focus exclusively on the fact that important and influential roles in society are filled by men in a patriarchy, and use this observation to conclude that patriarchy is about male dominance and male power. Through this generalization, the power of a small subset of men, is taken to represent all men, without investigating whether other men really have any power. Another factor that also isn’t investigated is whether the small … | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:31 AM |
| 44 | Help! My parents want to circumsize me.Just say no fucking way are you cutting up my penis. You don't need to give a reason. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:29 AM |
| 32 | My fiancé refuses to sign a pre-nup, based on her history I insist on one. Am I out of line?Seems pretty clear that she intends for you to be the new meal ticket. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 02:08 AM |
| 0 | The goal of the Men's Rights movement?I'm 17 year old male who tries his best to take in all views. A lot of what I've seen from Men's Rights is just really damned juvenile and I'd like to know what this movement is meant to be so I can actually understand it. Hey kid, I'm a 35 yro professional. I'm laughing at you and your juvenile ignorance. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 01:52 AM |
| 3 | The goal of the Men's Rights movement?The reason why there's a Feminist movement is because the vast majority of the world's cultures have placed gender roles on the populous and women were usually set in the subordinate role where they essentially were men's property. No, not property. Throughout the history of "patriarchal societies" women were treated as men's responsibility. Women were not treated like slaves in civilized society. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 01:50 AM |
| 4 | The goal of the Men's Rights movement?I'm primarily a father's rights activist and domestic violence activist. I've met some reasonable feminists but they are minority compared to the mainstream feminists like NOW that oppose Equal Shared Parenting and the women's shelter industry that opposes recognizing the truth about domestic violence. Aside from mainstream bigoted feminists, the bulk of society are pretty much uninformed and apathetic. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 01:47 AM |
| 8 | The Perils of Toy Shopping With a Feminist MomThis is easy. I just let my kids have options without stereotyping them based on their sex. Sometimes they like lego and RC cars, sometimes they like polly pockets and dress up. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 01:05 AM |
| 2 | My high school is organizing a debate about gender superiority in the workplace and I could use your help, /r/MensRightsfeminists trying to show women are better Why all the research and news media on women's "superior" management style using cherry picked data? It seems ubiquitous these days. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 07:48 PM |
| 3 | My high school is organizing a debate about gender superiority in the workplace and I could use your help, /r/MensRightsI agree, but arguing women's superiority in the work place isn't so un-PC. They don't even bother arguing about equality anymore. http://www.theglobeandmail.com/report-on-business/careers/the-future-of-work/how-women-will-rule-the-workplace/article11861929/ | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 07:28 PM |
| 2 | My high school is organizing a debate about gender superiority in the workplace and I could use your help, /r/MensRightsI work in traditionally male dominated industries and I have found that when people (men) start at the bottom and work their way up, they understand the business better and have more respect from the employees. For women to do the same thing in these industries, they would have to put in the time and effort by doing dirty and dangerous work. Most women aren't willing to do those types of work and want to start in the office which doesn't garner the same level of respect from the workers. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 07:26 PM |
| 1 | UNFPA - Engaging Men and Boys: A Brief Summary of UNFPA Experience and Lessons Learnedengage men and boys in protecting their families and communities from gender-based violence (GBV) and ensuring access to basic necessities. aka reinforcing traditional gender roles for men to promote women's empowerment. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | UNFPA - Engaging Men and Boys: A Brief Summary of UNFPA Experience and Lessons LearnedClose, but this is an actual quote: Working towards gender equality – by empowering women and engaging men – is fundamental to achieving a host of development outcomes, including reducing poverty, improving health and addressing other population concerns. Men’s and boys’ relationships with women and girls can support – or impede – improved health and development outcomes. Involving men in improving SRH and in caring for children can benefit men, women and children. In times of crisis, it is even… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 05:53 PM |
| 1 | CBC's the Current gives air time to Hate Mongers. 12.45m onwards, gets worse. (link fixed)I'll watch this later, but I've noticed in the past Anna Maria Tremonte's gender bias, particularly when she did an interview for the SFU Men's centre. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/13 08:47 PM |
| 0 | "R.v. Ryan - woman hires hitman to kill husband. At trial, husband isn't allowed to address her accusations of DV. She walks. Does his internet appeal mark a change in how court cases are reported?Her defense was based on justifiable homicide because she was in fear of her life, an extension of the battered woman's defense. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/13 08:44 PM |
| 7 | "R.v. Ryan - woman hires hitman to kill husband. At trial, husband isn't allowed to address her accusations of DV. She walks. Does his internet appeal mark a change in how court cases are reported?Although, for all we know when the trial first started years ago, he may have actually been a horrible witness. He got full custody of their daughter in family court. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/13 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Jackson Katz spreading more lies and propagandaHe's been doing that all his life. Is there an important part of the video worth watching? I've already seen too much of this guy to waste 19 minutes. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/13 01:11 AM |
| 5 | I can't figure out if I should lawyer up or leave the situation alone.You should get a formal agreement of support and visitation, joint custody if you can get it. Start a journal and collect evidence. Record all interactions with her and the police (if it's legal). File a police report if she tries to kick down your door or creates any mischief. If the officer that is fucking her ever shows up at your door, file an official complaint. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/13 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Alienation after nasty divorce. What can I do?Write letters/cards to them on a regular basis. Try to move on from the past, be positive, show you care. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/13 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Please help me raise awareness to get my daughter back to me in a safe and stable home.There are a lot of people representing themselves in family court because they simply can't afford attorney's. Quite often an attorney will drain your resources before the process is finished and then you become forced to take whatever you can get. I suspect you're going to need more than just 1k. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/13 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Please help me raise awareness to get my daughter back to me in a safe and stable home.You sound like you're doing the right thing. Consider representing yourself in court and only using an attorney/paralegal for paperwork and filing. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/13 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Five Stupid Things About the Men's Rights MovementPure projection, he's actually talking about feminism. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Get your ass off the fenceI can, why is Paul Elam scared of debate? Edit: It's a rhetorical question because I already know the answer. Paul is wishy washy and can't get off the fence and take a stand on important issues because he doesn't want to expose divisions and prefer's to rally the troops around anti-feminism. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.It wasn't AVfM policy. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Get your ass off the fenceGet yer head out of yer ass! | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 03:59 PM |
| 3 | A Gender ParableGood story bro. Pity they removed it from r/feminism. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:20 PM |
| 3 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.I'm not really sure what the mandate of AVfM is, seems like it mostly anti-feminism. Damn, after years of being on that site, I don't even know what their policy is on family law reform. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 03:51 AM |
| 3 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.It seems like the only hope for men is to collect evidence and if it gets ignored, publicise it. http://www.tmz.com/2010/11/18/teen-mom-amber-portwood-charged-with-domestic-violence-police-battery-punched-gary-shirley/ | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 03:50 AM |
| 2 | [AVFM] We are the radicals nowI like that one, anybody else's "personal agenda" is irrelevant but whatever get's Paul's dick hard is A-OK. It's just slandering dissent, reminds me of when TGMP enacted their "your irrelevant agenda" policy. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 03:05 AM |
| 4 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.Yes. My platform is that abused men need to collect evidence as their number one priority. Apparently, Dean and Kristina disagree that and and Paul is unwilling to form an opinion. I would like to debate Paul and get him to actually take a stand on this important issue of giving advice to abused men. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:46 AM |
| 4 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.Why not a debate? | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:22 AM |
| 2 | [AVFM] We are the radicals nowI've challenged Paul Elam et al to debate DV policy. He refused and even threatened to ban me. Apparently femi-boob, taxi-guy and douchey-dude are more important to debate than a long time men's advocate. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:18 AM |
| 4 | I've been thinking of a way to say this over the last few days, justicar expresses here my thoughts better than I could have hoped to.I can set an agenda of issues but one question that needs to be debated is "how does a man and his children escape from an abusive woman without being charged with kidnapping?" Also, I find the idea of crushing feminism and excluding them from academia and the shelter industry to be mere fantasy. I'm more of a pragmatist and the reality is that the system will need to be transformed gradually through negotiation. The question is, what is the end goal of how services should be operated. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:15 AM |
| 6 | [AVFM] We are the radicals nowI have no problem with attack dogs, I've supported all of those tactics whole heartedly from the beginning. I even helped set up register-her.com. It's the ideology and unwillingness to debate men's issues that I have a problem with. It's also when those attack dogs turn on their own to defend their ideology. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | [AVFM] We are the radicals nowNot radicals, just ideologues stuck in an echo chamber and unwilling to debate. Note, I've never taken issue with the tone argument, just the lack of intellectual integrity. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I've been thinking of a way to say this over the last few days, justicar expresses here my thoughts better than I could have hoped to.You can still appeal to emotion without going into ridiculous exaggerations. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 01:39 AM |
| 3 | I've been thinking of a way to say this over the last few days, justicar expresses here my thoughts better than I could have hoped to.Can you arrange for a debate on AVfM's non-existent DV policies? I mean if Paul is willing to debate with femi-boob, taxi-guy and douchey dude then why is he so afraid of forming an opinion and setting up a debate for me? I'm pretty sure Factory wants a debate about the future of the MRM too. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 01:31 AM |
| 0 | I've been thinking of a way to say this over the last few days, justicar expresses here my thoughts better than I could have hoped to.One thing I think AVfM is doing wrong is when they exaggerate the threat posed by feminists. All they are doing is reinforcing men's fears of going public with these issues. Geez John, "bludgeons and knives" really? Pull out your pants pockets so nobody frames you? Fucks sake, they're toothless tigers, stop exaggerating. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 01:29 AM |
| 3 | To Justicar, and in memory of Earl by Girlwriteswhat.GWW, I don't think I've ever disagreed with anything you've had to say and I have a great deal of respect for your opinion and efforts. I've been a FRA and DV activist for about 7 years now and I've followed Paul pre-AVfM and have been involved with AVfM from the beginning. Lately, I've found that quality has been replaced with quantity and it has become an ideological echo chamber focussed more on anti-feminism than actually helping men or even representing men. I know it's not a A Voice for Al… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Need knows no gender : The life of Earl Silverman, Canadian domestic violence activist, was an inspiration. His death is a tragedy - and one that raises questions about our attitude to men in crisisSleeping in your car? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/13 10:12 PM |
| 2 | How to Start a Career Ensuring Father's Get Equal Rights?Here's a good start, one of my favorite psychology professors: http://www.drdondutton.com/ | /r/MensRights | 01/05/13 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Although I'm reluctant to rehash this stuff, seeing Earl Silverman's death in the news this week made me decide to do something I have though about for a long time: I'm a male survivor of domestic abuDid the police offer you contact information for domestic violence services? Did they treat it as a domestic issue or as an assault? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/13 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Work underway for the Earl Silverman Center, a refuge for abused men and their childrenThere won't be any children there because according to Kristina's advice abused men should abandon their children to their abusive wives. Bad advice, not trustworthy. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/13 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Let's start a letter writing campaign for Earl SilvermanHere's the Canadian research on domestic violence, from the Public Health Agency of Canada http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/publications/mlintima-eng.php Statistics Canada first collected data on intimate partner abuse of both men and women through its 1999 General Social Survey (GSS). Respondents were asked 10 questions concerning abuse by their current and/or previous spouses and common-law partners during the 12-month and 5-year periods preceding the telephone interview.1 According to th… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/13 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Let's start a letter writing campaign for Earl SilvermanThere have been a few more news stories posted: http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2013/04/29/barbara-kay-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse-continue-to-suffer-in-solitude/ http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/inte-rnational-mens-movementtribute-to-canadian-mens-shelter-founder-earl-silverman http://www.salon.com/2013/04/29/feminism_didnt_kill_mens_rights_advocate_earl_silverman/ | /r/MensRights | 29/04/13 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Let's start a letter writing campaign for Earl SilvermanHere's some Canadian media contacts. http://www.cbc.ca/contact/ http://www.edmontonjournal.com/about-edmonton-journal/contactus.html http://www.theglobeandmail.com/help/contact-us/ http://fr.canoe.ca/corpo/en/rejoindre.html http://www.calgarysun.com/contact-us http://www.ottawacitizen.com/about-ottawa-citizen/contactus.html http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/about-sun.html | /r/MensRights | 29/04/13 10:07 PM |
| -16 | Fuck You, Kate Harding | A Voice for MenFuck you, Dean Esmay. You're a misandrist bigot stereotyping abused men as uncontrollable brutes and capitalizing on this man's death for another anti-feminist rant when your anger should be directed at the Government of Canada and the Province of Alberta. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/13 12:52 PM |
| 5 | How do I refute the "It's all patriarchy's fault" reply when discussing men's issues?The contemporary feminist discourse tends to focus exclusively on the fact that important and influential roles in society are filled by men in a patriarchy, and use this observation to conclude that patriarchy is about male dominance and male power. Through this generalization, the power of a small subset of men, is taken to represent all men, without investigating whether other men really have any power. Another factor that also isn’t investigated is whether the small subset of men with power … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/13 12:25 AM |
| 41 | Shouldn't the bit in brackets say 'equally intelligent' or something to that effect? What would be the best way to explain this without ending up getting flamed to oblivion?The statistical averages of starting wages has been shown to be because of differences in negotiation for higher wages. Men are simply more willing to negotiate for higher wages and risk losing a job opportunity. Now it may be true that she is more intelligent on an individual basis since individual differences are much greater than statistical averages. However, men are 3-4 IQ points higher on average (meaningless difference), but at the extreme ends of the scale there are far more male geniuse… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/13 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Radicals move the overton window by deliberately promoting ideas even less acceptable than the previous "outer fringe" ideas, with the intention of making the current fringe ideas acceptable by comparThis is true but the other consequence is that the "radicals" become expendable and don't end up at the negotiating table. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/13 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Another father failed by the system.1 priority in this situation is collecting evidence. If you don't then this is what happens. Don't listen to advice from AVfM editors Dean Esmay and Kristina Hansen that would advise you to leave the home without evidence. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/13 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Woman Stalks Man and Then Attacks Him In Jealous Rage. Those Pointing Out She Is a Domestic Abuser are Downvoted and Ridiculed.She threw water on him. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/13 04:16 PM |
| 5 | As a law student, I find it difficult to understand why MRAs oppose feminism.Haha, you're an obvious troll. Feminists (NOW) are fighting against Equal Parenting legislation in preference for the status quo. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 07:40 PM |
| 7 | As a law student, I find it difficult to understand why MRAs oppose feminism.it's gender neutral and definitely an improvement over presumptive maternal custody, isn't it? In practice, it is NOT gender neutral and it is still presumptive maternal custody. We have moved from no-fault divorce to not-her-fault divorce. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Rightful Feminism Criticism for an essay?The Duluth model: A data-impervious paradigm and a failed strategy http://lab.drdondutton.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Dutton-D.G.-Corvo-K.-2007-The-Duluth-Program_-A-flawed-and-data-impervious-paradigm.pdf What's Wrong and What Right with Contemporary Feminism? http://www.aei.org/files/2008/11/19/20090108_ContemporaryFeminism.pdf Feminist myths and magic medicine http://www.cps.org.uk/files/reports/original/111026184004-FeministMythsandMagicMedicine.pdf | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 07:07 PM |
| 2 | As a law student, I find it difficult to understand why MRAs oppose feminism.The best interests of the child is not served by the sole custody adversarial model of family law. It only fills lawyers pockets. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 06:35 PM |
| 2 | As a law student, I find it difficult to understand why MRAs oppose feminism.Feminist jurisprudence Mainstream feminist opposition to Equal Parenting legislation. Duluth model training and dominant agressor profiling Domestic violence kangaroo courts | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Richard Dawkins on Feminism invading scienceFluid mechanics was my best subject and it's still 90%+ men. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/13 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Question About /r/Mensrights's BeliefsI hate that term oppression because I don't believe that men or women have been oppressed by gender roles, but that they are discriminatory to both men and women. I think we could achieve equality faster if these two groups work together rather than being enemies. I already answered this question today: I posed this same question to Warren Farrel (former director of NOW). His response was "only in a union-management relationship". The problem is that mainstream feminist organizations like NOW ar… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 07:20 PM |
| 0 | UK custody question: Are you more likely to get custody if you are already the full-time dad over a working mum?That's a lot of incentive for a false domestic violence claim to have YOU removed from the home. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Dot | Feminist blogger in hiding after men's rights death threatsI think it's a Peter Andrew Nolan site. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Men and kidsWhats the deal with men and the how people perceive us as unable to look after kid or not able to be trusted near them. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Hey everyone. I've got a few thoughts I'd like some responses to, if you don't mind.I posed this same question to Warren Farrel (former director of NOW). His response was "only in a union-management relationship". The problem is that mainstream feminist organizations like NOW are opposed to popular changes to family law like the presumption of Equal Parenting and they aren't willing to negotiate. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 04:15 PM |
| 2 | I need some advice/help for my dad.Living in an abusive relationship, with an alcoholic and divorce are really stressful and can drive a person temporarily insane. You just need to reach out to him. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Fuck you, Judith GrossmanI keep thinking about the Nathanson and Young lecture and what it was all about. This isn't it. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 01:25 AM |
| 11 | Handout from a father's meeting - how much does family court cost?That's sounds about right for a custody dispute. Unfortunately, most fathers can't afford that so they are forced to settle for much less. That's why I highly recommend self-representation. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How can my friend get custody of his son?She's threatened him by saying he'll only get to see his son every other weekend and that's if he's lucky That's usually how it ends up, unless the mother is willing to share custody. Best thing is shared parenting, but there is significant bias for the mother if she is unwilling to be cooperative. She lives three hours away from him so he's worried that the court will grant her full custody and he'll only get to see his son every few weeks. That's a practical consideration, is he willing to mov… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/13 06:27 PM |
| 1 | CAFE Calls for Taskforce on Violence Against Young Males after GTA DeathsYes, Toronto was amalgamated with other municipalities. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/13 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Repeatedly watching the video of the boston marathon attack, the thing I noticed is the initial people approaching are almost all men.Thanks for looking into it. It sounds like an interesting topic. I've heard of other studies on war time stress between men and women. I'll try to look into it when I get some time. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Call for submissions from abuse victims for publicationWho is Eve Thomas? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 04:15 PM |
| 2 | We can prevent another Rehtaeh Parsons case. Talk of ‘rape culture’ won’t helpWith all due respect to them, I’m not sure what “rape culture” meaningfully means. To the angry cabal in my Twitter timeline, it seems to mean everything from tasteless jokes by stand-up comedian Daniel Tosh, to the RCMP’s delay in arresting serial killer Robert Pickford, to child brides in Afghanistan. I suppose that’s the point, that “rape culture” highlights an ever-present threat, but I think the term is too huge to be useful. “Rape culture” is insider jargon for those who already agree, an … | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 02:37 PM |
| 3 | CityNews Toronto covers the U of T feminist protest against a discussion of misandry. And does a pretty balanced job of it.Great job CAFE, keep up the good work. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 08:12 AM |
| 3 | CityNews Toronto covers the U of T feminist protest against a discussion of misandry. And does a pretty balanced job of it.It was a CAFE event. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Don't marry the white girls.Nah, we're doing just fine as a species and under no threat of extinction. Also, I'm more than just a breeder. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Don't marry the white girls.Better option is don't marry | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 01:51 AM |
| 12 | Do men in the "manosphere" actually think women want them?I find that in my age group that there are far too many desperate women looking for an established professional like myself. Sure, they have no problem getting a quick lay, but that's not usually what they're looking for. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 01:02 AM |
| 4 | My friend Ryan is possibly going to prison for 98 months for a crime he didn't commit. Show him support please!Sounds serious Police say Gasior later told officers that he "really [expletive] up," then acknowledged that he caused the injuries, began crying and apologized. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Repeatedly watching the video of the boston marathon attack, the thing I noticed is the initial people approaching are almost all men.Do you have any studies? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Stereotyping men? No problem! CAFE writer addresses NBC's "Guys with Kids"Here's the trailer for season one Taking their babies to a bar and picking up women. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Repeatedly watching the video of the boston marathon attack, the thing I noticed is the initial people approaching are almost all men.Think positive, it's the heroic male archetype. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 12:02 AM |
| 3 | “Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day”Where does this come from? In Canada, as far as I remember, it has always been "take your kids to work day" | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 11:48 PM |
| 1 | "Women with jobs": a new show airing on NBC about three 30-something women who struggle at work because they are really just housewives at heartI think there is an instinctive knee jerk reaction in which any title that even suggests traditionalism will get some downvotes as a defense against the common accusations of MRA's being reactionaries. I'm sure those who downvoted didn't even bother to read it. Popular titles seem to include either an MR issue or feminist embarrasment. You can delete and repost the same article. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 10:37 PM |
| 2 | "Women with jobs": a new show airing on NBC about three 30-something women who struggle at work because they are really just housewives at heartIt was a good read, I enjoyed it. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 10:32 PM |
| 15 | support criminalization of custodial parents whom do not honor custody and visitation guidelines set in Family Court. | We the People: Your Voice in Our GovernmentI think he means that he read your horrible sad story and found it greatly disturbing. Good luck to you friend. Contact your local Fathers4Justice or Fathers&Families. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Domestic Absue questionsOr kitchen implements. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Domestic Absue questionsGet more evidence including voice and video recordings if possible. Go talk to a lawyer and if necessary have them there when you report this to the police. Get a restraining order against her and tell your lawyer you want immediate custody because she is a dangerous and unstable woman and you fear how she will react to you and the children after this becomes known. Do not let your lawyer, the police or any social workers minimize the abuse that you have received. Document everything and good lu… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Collection of MRA info sourcesIdeas for improving services | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Collection of MRA info sourcesThis is good, thanks for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 11:20 AM |
| 6 | This has been posted up around the dorms.It could easily have been re-printed from an old file. OP has no history of trolling. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 04:35 AM |
| 3 | A very brief vent.Join the Father's Rights movement to make a better world for our sons. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 04:23 AM |
| 13 | This has been posted up around the dorms.It was only on MS paint and a half-assed effort at that. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 04:21 AM |
| 11 | This has been posted up around the dorms.Watch this video with your gf and repeatedly comment about how beautiful and caring GWW is. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 04:13 AM |
| 38 | This has been posted up around the dorms.Fixed it for you | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 04:05 AM |
| 30 | This has been posted up around the dorms.It's not mine and I'm always happy to share, also: Gender Symmetry in Partner Violence: The Evidence, The Denial, and the Implications for Primary Prevention and Treatment By 1980 there were already at least ten high quality studies which found that women physically assault their partners at about the same rate as men attack female partners. By 1995, there were about a hundred such studies. As of this writing, the evidence is even more overwhelming. There are about 200 studies documenting equal … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 03:31 AM |
| 5 | This has been posted up around the dorms.I would change it to human violence is a human issue. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 03:27 AM |
| 70 | This has been posted up around the dorms.Processes Explaining the Concealment and Distortion of Evidence on Gender Symmetry in Partner Violence Method 1. Suppress Evidence Method 2 Avoid Obtaining Data inconsistent with the Patriarchal Dominance Theory Method 3 Cite only studies that show male perpetration Method 4 Conclude that results support feminist beliefs when they do not. Method 5 Create “evidence” by citation Method 6 Obstruct publication of articles and obstruct funding research that might contradict the idea that male dominan… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 03:23 AM |
| 15 | This has been posted up around the dorms.Written by Jackson Katz, the first man ever to minor in Women's studies at the University of Massachusetts-Amherst. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Help! Divorce related mandatory psych eval, anger management, parenting classes, therapyhow a man put thru the divorce court wringer should pick a therapist? I've heard that they're often very biased. I don't know how you would know ahead of time though. You're probably better off with the dollar signs than the misandrist. You should do some research on characteristics of abusers and make sure that you don't exhibit them. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Need help fighting for my son! (x-post from r/divorce)This happens often. It sounds like you're doing the right thing considering the circumstances. There is very little that we can do for you. You need to join a Father's Rights group to change the laws that allow this to happen. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 01:03 AM |
| 41 | My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do?Stay calm and don't react to her provocations if they happen. Communicate in writing if verbal communication is tense. Document everything. You are better off to be proactive by filing first in court, don't forget to mention her history of mental illness. Always present your intentions as serving the best interests of your daughter. Focus on your child, forget about crazy. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 12:19 AM |
| 4 | A discussion of the argument that feminism helps with men's issues since men's issues are caused by patriarchyI can just ignore that whole argument and recognize that mainstream feminist organizations like NOW are fighting against Equal Parenting legislation. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Stop Abuse Now: We are here.Niagara, Canada Long time Men's Advocate. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 06:44 PM |
| 8 | "Men's Rights Movement Sees Resurgence Among Millennial Males" - Reasonably balanced coverage for onceI'm impressed that she dealt with the issues instead of focussing on the drama. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 12:16 PM |
| -5 | How do we view Islam here?Are there any Muslims here? I doubt it. If the Men's Rights movement becomes well-known, will Muslims come to us for support? I doubt that to, they're an insular community with strict social codes. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 03:35 AM |
| 1 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?“What is the appeal to “conservatives” of what appears to be a “liberal feminist” framing of this issue, with its use of activist rhetoric? Simply put, it provides a rationale for the further criminalizing of deviance and an expansion of the power of the criminal justice system.” http://www.mediaradar.org/docs/Dutton_Corvo-Transforming-flawed-policy.pdf | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Required to write a 25 page paper. Need info on husband abuse.Real story, real frightening "Now, isn't that strange? When she had a fat lip, it was a felony and I was going to jail. But when they finally realized that she tried to stab me in the neck, it stopped being a crime, and instead it was a mental health issue | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Required to write a 25 page paper. Need info on husband abuse.Stories http://www.batteredmen.com/ Research http://newmalestudies.com/OJS/index.php/nms/article/view/59 http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/V70-Gender-symmetry-PV-Chap-11-09.pdf | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Let's play a game: SRS, Feminist or MHRA?Well, it's used by AVfM. The labels are meaningless, it's the policies and positions that matter most to me. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Is there any website on which we can link to webpages on which men's rights issues are posted?Personally, I collect my own quotes and links in my preferred format. A lot of things like the Sharon Osborne issue are just easier to google. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Is there any website on which we can link to webpages on which men's rights issues are posted?http://www.reddit.com/r/MRRef http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRightsLinks | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:17 AM |
| 1 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?First world discrimination against men in law is difficult because most laws are written gender neutral (except VAWA), it's the application and training that is biased. The side bar link is good. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 02:00 AM |
| 1 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?If there is interest I'll take a video of the seminar. Yes, please do. Good luck. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 01:53 AM |
| 0 | Let's play a game: SRS, Feminist or MHRA?A term coined by AVfM in an attempt to distinguish between the "old" MRA and the new "MHRA". The H stands for Human, what it really means in practice I'm still trying to figure out for myself. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 01:52 AM |
| 1 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?Be more specific and I will search for you. I have data from all over the world. Straus' International study on dating violence? The rape of men in Congo? Dancing boys of Afghanistan? Where do you want to go with this? I have too much information available. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 01:42 AM |
| 1 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?No problem. I have about 75 pages of quotes and links in my DV file alone. Edit: FYI, domestic homicides are ~1/4 to 1/3 men in official justice department statistics and that's not including the cases that women got off in "self-defense". Justice department statistics on domestic violence (non-homicide) will always be skewed, as men are socially and legally deterred from reporting domestic violence to the police. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Let's play a game: SRS, Feminist or MHRA?No context is provided, guess first. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/13 12:41 AM |
| 2 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?FYI, Murray Straus has 40+ years of experience as a researcher in domestic violence. http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 11:16 PM |
| 5 | My father doesn't believe that women abuse and murder male partners at an equal rate as men. Can MFA link me to a scientific journal or study showing this?Gender Symmetry in Partner Violence: The Evidence, The Denial, and the Implications for Primary Prevention and Treatment., April 2007 Murray A. Strauss Symmetry in Perpetration Rates By 1980 there were already at least ten high quality studies which found that women physically assault their partners at about the same rate as men attack female partners. By 1995, there were about a hundred such studies. As of this writing, the evidence is even more overwhelming. There are about 200 studies documen… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Police, prosecutors failing sex-assault cyberbullying victims, experts sayMore on Peter Jaffe Re: Dutton 2009 - Domestic Abuse Assessment in child custody disputes "provide one-sided analyses of domestic violence based on self-selected and non-representavie samples" "severe physical child abuse is more likely to be perpetrated by mothers than fathers." "misleading focus of the female-victim orientation of the domestic-violence paradigm." "Subjective "engaging in discussion" with an evaluator, who is already primed to disbelieve the male respondent, is the very type of… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Police, prosecutors failing sex-assault cyberbullying victims, experts sayInterview with Peter Jaffe, re: his bias in youth sexual violence Peter Jaffe, the feminist psychologist I mentioned earlier, makes a very good living from sitting on feminist task forces, collaborating on writing feminism-driven guidelines for judges, keynoting domestic violence against women conferences and so forth because he says the things feminists (and therefore governments) want to hear. Jaffe sat on the 2001 task force that recommended the girls-only RUCS protocol, even though he is als… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Police, prosecutors failing sex-assault cyberbullying victims, experts sayThey're neither experts nor trustworthy. Nice job missing the point buddy. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 01:58 PM |
| 40 | Where Have All The Men Gone?Note this is a Christian television program Guys need to step it up My theory is too much xbox Too many manboys In media, men are fools, jokers, uneducated Need to help redeem men, stand up, be men They're not helping. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Police, prosecutors failing sex-assault cyberbullying victims, experts sayNick Bala, a Queen’s University law professor and expert on youth crime Nick Bala is notorious feminist hack who was opposed to Equal Shared Parenting in Canada for the usual reasons...female victimhood. Dr. Peter Jaffe, a professor at University of Western Ontario’s faculty of education and a noted expert in family violence Peter Jaffe spent his entire research career studying women's shelters. He knows nothing of "family violence", his only knowledge is of female victimhood. He is also well kn… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/13 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Primary Aggressor Laws - Dr. Charles CoreyThat was a good video, who is the interviewer? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 11:41 PM |
| 0 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comI could make the same point about a lot of MRM issues that are likely to put off potential supporters, but the problem is that it dilutes the activism when we allow outsiders to direct the movement. Paul isn't an autocratic ruler, he consults a lot of people that he trusts when he makes decisions. A lot of people were involved in building register-her.com and inputting all that data. A lot of people support it and the website. You can't change that from the outside, all you can do is get involve… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Canada Starts To Waked Up? "The new feminism certainly doesn’t look like the old. Some recent activism has left me wondering what the latest generation thinks “feminism” even means." - For some, feminThis isn't really new or a start. We get the occaisional newspaper story criticizing feminism in Canada, but they are few and far between. I still have a bit of a grudge against the Toronto Sun editorial board for printing a father's day editorial about 2 years ago that basically shat on fathers and said some fathers don't deserve to be fathers. OK fine, but on fathers day? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Alimony PaymentsNo, it's no-fault divorce. Whoever earns more pays. It's based on continuing the status-quo of the relationship. ie. It pays well to marry rich and not work. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 08:31 PM |
| -3 | I am a mother looking for divorced father's honest opinion on where my seven year old boy should live.Moving to be closer together would sound like a simple solution, wouldn't it!? But, unfortunately, it isn't an option. It's the best option and unless somebody is chained to the ground, all you have is excuses. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I am a mother looking for divorced father's honest opinion on where my seven year old boy should live.He sounds like he's just trying to play you against each other. All that other stuff about "who's best" sounds like nonsense, he needs both of you consistently in his life on a regular basis and not a year at a time. I think the best option is that you should not live far apart and share by the week and try to maintain some consistency in both your homes and parenting. Whoever moved far away should sacrifice whatever they need to do this. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comIf you have evidence of people apologizing solely because they were put on that site I would appreciate some links. Too much work. I can remember two specifically though. There was that one bigot who was advocating that male helpers shouldn't be allowed to help children in the washroom of a daycare (pedo-hysteria) and there was also a dude who helped produce the swedish feminist scum video. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comNo, it's merely an opinion based on experience with various groups. I started in father's rights activism but found that many of the groups involved were too sheepish to address the domestic violence issue. The very issue that has been repeatedly used as an accusation against FRAs to oppose Equal Shared Parenting. In the past few years, more FRA groups have begun to realize this and have started addressing it. There seems to be more understanding now that the victim grievance industry is the pow… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comHow has the social aspect been effective? It has led to people apologizing for their bigotry. If you were active on AVfM, you would already know this. And if it is just a list of "bad" people why not make it private so only MRAs can see it? It seems like we're going in circles, it's not just a list of "bad" people, it has multiple purposes. And why not include men? I agree completely, I would like to see Kimmel, Flood and Schwyzer profiled. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comsome creepy guy who runs a website basically stalking them. Edit: I'm not accusing you of being feminist. I know you're not one of them. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comHe's talking about fence sitters who want to appear impartial and are unlikely to support the cause. FFS, sunnewsnetwork is a heavily social conservative newsource and the only real agenda we share is anti-feminism. They are unlikely to support most of the MRM agenda and especially likely to negatively label anti-circ activists like memymineown. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comThat was my initial interest in it anyway. But I also pointed out the social shaming aspect, which has been effective in a number of cases. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comThat's why men's rights activism has been ineffective for the past 40 years. That's why groups splintered into their own tiny factions and descended into obscurity. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comThe Men's Rights Movement should be as squeaky clean as possible because everything we do is going to be scrutinized incredibly closely. That's been tried before. It has always caused infighting and was never effective. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comAnyway, can you really say that register-her.com is accomplishing anything besides giving the Men's Rights Movement a bad name? Yes, I advocated for a much more expanded database to include feminist academics and media personalities to provide a starting point for newbies to understand and recognize the enemies of men. Knowing who your enemies are and how they think is vitally important. Then there is the other aspect of shining a light on their bigotry as a warning to others. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comJtO is fully on-board with register-her.com, he also posts on AVfM with his real name. It should be noted that bigotry is not illegal in the US and the right of these people speak freely and advertise their ignorance is protected under free speech. register-her.com advertises their ignorance. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comWhich people? AVfM is doing a great job at attracting new supporters and forming coalitions with other groups. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:24 PM |
| -1 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comI don't think it's a big issue as you try to make it out to be. People will be turned off for many other reasons if they want to be. If another site or organization forms that becomes more effective and popular than AVfM by doing things differently, then and only then will you have proven me wrong. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comHe's merely trying to present himself as a moderate and unbiased. It's not extrajudicial punishment, it simply putting bigotry on public display. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comIt looks like people's bigotry is being put on display for the world to see. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comI wouldn't. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comYou seem to miss the point that everything and anything we do will be misinterpreted. If we were to water everything down to appease every critic then we become useless. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comsome creepy guy who runs a website basically stalking them. You're a liar. people like him I'm talking about people who actually get involved with AVfM and real life activism, rather than bored complainers on reddit. AVfM isn't just "one of the larger MRA sites", it is the largest and fastest growing. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Very sensible TV reporter tells University of Toronto feminists to 'grow up'.You mean the consequence of negative media exposure versus none? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Paul Elam should take down register-her.comCreep-shaming an MHRA. Great job. Yes, I disagree but it's irrelevant on reddit. The only people that matter are those who get involved and make a difference. Do you know the term "circular firing squad"? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Very sensible TV reporter tells University of Toronto feminists to 'grow up'.It's the media's fault if they choose only to focus on the negative and nothing else. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 02:50 PM |
| 1 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTFYI, Ian's response: http://www.avoiceformen.com/a-voice-for-men/interview-with-jto-and-dannnyboy/ | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 01:03 PM |
| 1 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTI don't trust this reporter. Ian may have linked AVfM to register-her.com and she is assuming that is related to these accusations of posters threatening women. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Getting sick of seeing/hearing "Happy wife means a happy life".Related: "If momma's not happy then nobodies happy" "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned" | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 11:40 AM |
| 1 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTAlso Ian Dwyer is an insidious little turd who needs to be called to account for his statements What an earth are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 11:35 AM |
| 2 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTI disagree, but only because I've learned to be cynical about media negligence. The reporter asked baited questions indicating her bias. They didn't fall for it and she didn't get the story she wanted. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:24 AM |
| 2 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTI know they want sound bites and drama, please elaborate with ideas. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:22 AM |
| 0 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTDon't insinuate malfeasance. State your case and get it out. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventMy mistake, it hasn't been enacted yet, just a proposal. http://www.economist.com/node/2335623 | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there much disagreement within the MRM about 'financial abortions?'I was just curious how spread the views were on this particular topic. Probably more popular among the younger reddit audience than elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventIn sweden, fathers are forced to take parental leave. Can you afford to live off 80% of your salary with a new child? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Is there much disagreement within the MRM about 'financial abortions?'Yes, there's much disagreement but it doesn't matter much because there are plenty of other issues that can be agreed upon. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Chivalry is NOT deadGyno-centrism is alive and well. Also, to hell with the king and country that has long since abandoned respect for men. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 01:05 AM |
| 3 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTThat was a good interview. Much respect Dan and John. Now I know why CityNews never aired any coverage of the UofT event. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 01:00 AM |
| 3 | CityNews Toronto Interviews John The Other and Dannyboy at UofTi chose not to use the term MensRights Activist any more It doesn't matter. I mean, why bother painting a bulls eye on yourself when you can just speak the truth unapologetically. MR are naturally sceptics, hence the difficulty in forming a cohesive movement. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/13 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The Myth Of Male Power featuring Warren FerrellThis is a great interview. I highly recommend it. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 11:22 PM |
| 18 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventI doubt that the number of SAHD's are ever going break 5% because given the option, women will continue to prefer hypergamy. All fathers are belittled by society, not just SAHDs. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Can't settle a divorce, suggestions?You're absolutely correct. $125 is cheap and I wouldn't trust the advice of a bargain basement attorney. However, you're looking for legal advice in the wrong place. Reddit is mostly inhabited by teenagers. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 10:52 PM |
| 39 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventStart getting used to the old ladies condescending to you or criticizing your every action in public. "oh, how nice of you to be babysitting and giving your wife a break from the kids" "I'm a nurse and I can tell that your daughter is in distress" (crying) "Do you belong here?" | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Racist, misandrist Canadian newspaper blames black men and "hip hop culture" for underage female prostitution. Judgy Bitch points out how youthful hooking and promiscuity isn't an issue of race, it'sI don't think vice.com is a "Canadian newspaper" | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 09:04 PM |
| 15 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventThe social workers jaw dropped.. and she just started screaming at me. The social worker had some misguided anger based on no credible information and deserved to be told to STFU. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 08:22 PM |
| 2 | My wife has been abusive and openly admits it. Question about child custody inside.You should try to obtain evidence, even witnesses. Nobody will believe you otherwise and social workers won't care one bit. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 06:24 PM |
| 29 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventMisunderstanding is an understatement, it was pure imagination. They deserve all the disrespect they get for such stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 06:06 PM |
| 164 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventWow, that's horrible OP. I've had plenty of encounters with misandrist strangers. I'll share one of the most recent. Dude walking down the sidewalk with his dog stops to ask my daughters if they know this man (me). They don't answer him and I interject and tell him it's because HE'S a stranger. I then tell him that he should be ashamed of himself for automatically assuming the worst when he see's a man with children. He explains that he was only trying to prevent a potential child abduction whic… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Is circumcision worth it to prevent venereal diseases?A childhood mastectomy is 100% effective at preventing breast cancer. You don't want your daughter to get breast cancer, do you? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I could use some help.http://themensproject.ca http://www.jimhopper.com http://www.malesurvivor.org http://www.1in6.org are good places to learn about it. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I could use some help.she failed us because it was not a "real cause." That's why I've never liked subjective subjects like English where you are at the whim of the teacher's opinion. You should be marked for the quality of work that you produced and not your teacher's opinion of the subject matter. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 03:06 AM |
| 0 | YMCA in toronto will not allow fathers to watch their girl's swim class, because men are either sinfull or uncontrollable sexual fiends, both theories offeredDon't sign up your daughters for swim lessons at YMCA. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 02:49 AM |
| 7 | So Tom Matlack two days after writing an exasperated piece about being hen pecked by feminists has left his own project.Congratulations Tom, you've finally come to your senses. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 02:45 AM |
| -1 | While I acknowledge there are false rape accusations, are they really as endemic as r/MensRights claims?…Rumney's smart debunkings leave us with a group of American, British, Canadian, and New Zealand studies that converge around a rate of 8 percent to 10 percent for false reports of rape. Not all of these studies are flawless, but together they're better than the rest of the lot. They include a massive 1997 report on sexual assault by the U.S. Department of Justice, which includes data from 16,000 local, county, and state law enforcement agencies. The DoJ found that "in 1995, 87% of recorded forc… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 12:55 AM |
| 8 | “One man’s sexual assault is another man’s sexual fantasy come true” - Toy Soldier rips Rosie deManno's article as rape apology"Some “assaults’’ are merely unwanted touching, annoying for an adult woman but should be slapped down when they occur rather than directed to police. Eighty-one per cent of such assaults — those reported to police departments in Canada, according to the most recent figures I could find — fall into the unwanted touching zone." She's also criticizing 81% of female victims that report unwanted groping to the police. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Is circumcision worth it to prevent venereal diseases?Are childhood mastectomies worth it if they prevent breast cancer? NEXT. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 12:37 AM |
| 4 | As silly as this story is, I figured you guys would enjoy [x-post r/funny]It's not silly. She probably batters him on a regular basis for the stupidest of reasons. She's a dangerous woman. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 12:35 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone else believe in mens right issues, but has a hard time identifying as a MRA?Labels don't matter, actions do. It's often easier to not have pre-conceived biases against you because you chose to label yourself. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/13 07:06 PM |
| 4 | How do I enforce this?Unfortunately, it's not very often that a judge will do anything to enforce visitation. However, the process of getting her back in court and being admonished by the judge is a big hassle and can be a deterence. I would suggest getting legal advice but I would also suggest that if you really can't afford it then you should self represent. It's very common. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/13 03:51 PM |
| 11 | Men talks about redefining men on TED, telling everyone how men should be. Advocates disempowering men and empowering women, no one finds anything wrong with it.What if his sisters are abusive and crazy? Take it like a man? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Can't settle a divorce, suggestions?Isn't it better to ask your lawyer? You could try /r/legaladvice. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 09:16 PM |
| 8 | When I was 16, I was denied a spot in homeless shelters with my family due to being a "man".Nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | When I was 16, I was denied a spot in homeless shelters with my family due to being a "man".They should be MORE uncomfortable with semi-private accomodations for children. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Changing the last nameGetting married is an outdated tradition. Why bother with it? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 04:12 PM |
| 10 | When I was 16, I was denied a spot in homeless shelters with my family due to being a "man".There are shelters for men but these are mostly sleeping on the basement of a church floor side by side with drunks and addicts and then you're kicked out the next morning. Not the type of place to bring children. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 04:03 PM |
| 2 | When I was 16, I was denied a spot in homeless shelters with my family due to being a "man".Shelters that accept families (children) don't have communal sleeping or showers. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Doing a research paper, Would like some comprehensive sources.http://newmalestudies.com/OJS/index.php/nms/article/view/8 http://newmalestudies.com/OJS/index.php/nms/article/view/15 Edit: fixed link. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/13 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Hello again...I have a follow up question to a custody situation I presented a few days ago.That's terribly sad, but even if you had a court order it wouldn't be enforced either. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/13 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Is Feminism misunderstood by the MRM, and vice versa?radfems seem to have forgotten the 'equality' part of it The moderates have forgotten as well, they're just less obvious about it. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/13 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is Feminism misunderstood by the MRM, and vice versa?Same thing happened in Canada with mainstream feminist organizations LEAF and SWC. Same thing happened in the US with NOW. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/13 01:15 PM |
| -6 | Ask Me Anything plannedYou did make those blanket statements about a woman abusing her husband and involving the child as a shield. We left off with your claims of experience as an MRA (appeal to authority) and your attacks on my character (ad hominen). Fuck you Esmay, my question was for Erin Pizzey. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/13 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Ask Me Anything plannedhttp://www.menweb.org/pronevio.htm | /r/MensRights | 06/04/13 05:37 PM |
| -2 | Ask Me Anything plannedI'm very interested. My first question will be if it's safe to assume that an abusive and irrational woman is NOT a risk to children, as claimed by Esmay. Personally, I think it's irresponsible for Esmay to make such blanket statements since every situation is different. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/13 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Feminists disrupt MensRights lecture at Canadian university, as documented by the Free Speech Alliance of CanadaThe are only illegal during an unlawful protest. (ie. a riot) | /r/MensRights | 05/04/13 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Feminists disrupt MensRights lecture at Canadian university, as documented by the Free Speech Alliance of CanadaWhich, by the way, is illegal in Canada. Not that the police will do anything about it. No, it's only illegal during unlawful protests (ie. riots). Once the police declare a protest unlawful and order people to disperse, then it is illegal. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/13 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Feminists disrupt MensRights lecture at Canadian university, as documented by the Free Speech Alliance of CanadaCanadian police have a history of arresting people acting in self-defense. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/13 08:31 PM |
| 2 | "Anger over men-only photo on billboard just bizarre gender politics" | this is news in Canada today, not the U of T thingThank you. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/13 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Canadian Association for Equality Responds Against Student Union Oppression, Harassment, and Policy BreakingThis is well written, thanks for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 04:25 PM |
| 5 | On the sponsored link to a "men are better than women" troll articleFrom what I've read in the past, it's silly humor and he makes fun of men as much as women. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Barbara Kay: Fair play for divorced dadsI don't have much optimism with Canada's supreme court. I suspect this will the same female pandering reforms that were instituted in BC that actually gave more work to lawyers and not less. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Barbara Kay: Fair play for divorced dadsWe still don't know what the "proposed reform" is. I suspect it's going to be less than satisfactory. This has all been done before and successive governments have been complete failures. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Groups promise 'militant' response to public event about misandryI can handle a few hits for the team. No biggie. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Have you considered the dominance enjoyed by males across Western society throughout history? Why is it that men disproportionately achieve higher status? Does this subreddit think that the maternal h1% of men != all males Does this subreddit think that the maternal housewife is the perfect evolutionary form of the female human being? No | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:48 PM |
| 13 | Groups promise 'militant' response to public event about misandryNo, just prank phone calls and online harrassment on message boards. I wasn't being offensive or anything, just quoting facts. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Groups promise 'militant' response to public event about misandryMeh, I've been doxxed and harassed before. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:22 PM |
| 13 | Groups promise 'militant' response to public event about misandryIt will make much better news coverage to take a few hits without retaliating. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:14 PM |
| 21 | Groups promise 'militant' response to public event about misandryThis is great news that will bring out all the media to watch angry feminists abusing men in public. The Fiamengo lecture was relatively tame. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Same author for both articles, yet when a man does this it's "shaming"...Authors don't usually write the headlines. Also, I don't really see a big difference. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Jodi Arias: The Abuse Defense Gone Wronghttp://news.ufl.edu/2006/07/13/women-attackers/ | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Jodi Arias: The Abuse Defense Gone WrongNot very, the cops would laugh at a man that claimed to be a victim of stalking. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Child custody case, beyond frustrated. Advice, please!Document all interactions with CPS as well. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Child custody case, beyond frustrated. Advice, please!Documenting everything is key. Use a bound journal, dated and with pen. 2.5 days a week is better than most divorced fathers get. This nonsense is common, welcome to the MRM. he sees the child's mother as being unfit, because she is jobless Judges don't care about that. It's only fathers that get judged as unfit for being jobless. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Child custody case, beyond frustrated. Advice, please!you will need to accumulate at least 10k That's just for the retainer. You will likely need much more to go to trial. On the plus side, Legal Aid lawyers have limited hours and won't put up with her shenanigans. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 07:49 PM |
| 4 | How Can I Start a Men's Health Activism Organization in Medical School?How about this one where they perpetuate bad statistics on rape and domestic violence and focus on male violence against women. Just another white ribbon feminist man-hating organization. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 01:14 PM |
| 5 | How Can I Start a Men's Health Activism Organization in Medical School?If you read some of the research, it becomes more apparent. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 11:55 AM |
| 2 | How Can I Start a Men's Health Activism Organization in Medical School?Warning: Division 51 are manhating feminists. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Alright, lets talk about The Wooly Bumblebee.I've never liked her. She's got the rhetoric, but she's not very bright. She sounds like a bumbling fool on blogtalk radio. Edit: There's nothing wrong with libertarianism, it's extreme partisanship that's the problem. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How Can I Start a Men's Health Activism Organization in Medical School?http://www.drdondutton.com/ | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 02:07 AM |
| 2 | A List of Men’s Rights Issues That Feminism Is Already Working OnBullshit. Feminists are my enemy because they oppose Equal Shared Parenting, Parental Alienation and meaningful reform to domestic violence services, training and policies. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 01:11 PM |
| 15 | I am part of a feminist organization and our next meeting (this upcoming Monday) is about MRAs and their movement.I have zero interest in educating feminists. My main goal is to educate young men about men's issues and feminist lies. As long as mainstream feminists continue spreading lies and misandry then I will continue debunking them to grow the MRM. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 05:13 AM |
| -1 | THE LEFT'S CONTINUING WAR ON WOMENSeems like the Right want's to arm women to kill men and claim abuse in self-defense. How many women kill men and get off with "self-defense"? | /r/MensRights | 29/03/13 07:10 AM |
| 5 | A /r/mensrights troll on the subject of 'growing balls.'You got that backwards. The shaming language is used to control and manipulate men to maintain traditionally chivalry and deference to women. It's a silencing technique used against male victims of abuse. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Possible changes on the way for Canadian Family Law?These reports have all been done before and no Canadian government has ever attempted to implement any meaningful change. I don't have any confidence in Harper, as he has failed several times to implement Equal Shared Parenting. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/13 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm thinking about kickstarting a project. I Need input from MRAs and Canadian fathers in particular.I'd be willing to donate just to support your enthusiasm, but I'm quite well off compared to most. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm thinking about kickstarting a project. I Need input from MRAs and Canadian fathers in particular.I love your enthusiasm and interest in the subject. It's a great idea but you are unlikely to get much for donations from a community of fathers that are already dead broke and beaten down by the family law system. Also, no offense, but you don't have any experience in family law. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I am the only male in my social work graduate cohort of 25, in the female 'dominated' field of social work, AMA.What do you think about the Duluth model of domestic violence theory? Do you think social workers have too much power and too little(none) accountability? | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 03:33 AM |
| -5 | Guys, women aren't your enemy. The patriarchy is.U R waste of time | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Guys, women aren't your enemy. The patriarchy is.Collective blame...so very feminist | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Guys, women aren't your enemy. The patriarchy is.Logic Fail | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Guys, women aren't your enemy. The patriarchy is.Well then' NOW and the women's shelter industry are patriarchal organizations for opposing Equal Shared Parenting and reform of discriminatory DV policies and training. /S | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 02:48 AM |
| 2 | People say women don't get arrested as much as men in domestic violence,can i get a source? (doing a paper on men's rights)I'm away from my home computer otherwise I'd give you a number of references Google Dutton Nicholls Gender paradigm in domestic violence research and data Also, Grant Brown did a research paper on the Edmonton Police. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Editorial mocking and ripping Adria Richards a new one... written by a feminist.Technically, she's ripping on Adria as any man would be ripped. That's equality. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/13 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Editorial mocking and ripping Adria Richards a new one... written by a feminist.How/why do you assume she is a traditionalist? | /r/MensRights | 24/03/13 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Need help finding an old post here for a gender studies paper.http://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/comments/w4ioz/bom_link_and_quote_farms/c6hrr5b | /r/MensRights | 24/03/13 07:38 PM |
| 2 | So apparently, there's this image on the internet with questions and no answers other than the recently acquired domain referenced...Of the women who believed some victims should take responsibility, 71% thought a person should accept responsibility when getting into bed with someone, compared with 57% of men. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/8515592.stm | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a local men's group in the PNWContact http://www.seattlemra.com/ Otherwise, look for a local F4J chapter. http://www.seattlemra.com/ | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Help with some statistics/sauces on female aggressor rape please.Predictors of Sexual Coercion AgainstWomen and Men: A Multilevel, Multinational Study of University Students 2.8% of men reported forced vaginal sex compared to 2.3% of women in a relationship in the previous year. From: Predictors of Sexual Coercion. http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID45-PR45.pdf Researchers have found that 1 in 6 men have experienced abusive sexual experiences before age 18. And this is probably a low estimate, since it doesn’t include noncontact experiences, which can also have … | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Domestic violence statistics, laws and information for men -Using the form below we encourage you to submit well thought out, succinct, and hard hitting examples of how bad domestic violence laws have^ Voices support, but does not upvote. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/13 05:48 PM |
| 1 | To debunk a rape culture feminist, simply point out that their erasure of female rapists through one sided stats, myths and obstruction of legislation to get envelopment recognized makes those rapes mI don't see how that debunks the concept of "rape culture", it just shows that feminists don't practice equality. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/13 05:48 PM |
| 10 | Is radical feminism worse in Canada?Our family court system is not quite as bad as the US, though I think it's just as bad. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/13 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Me and this guy are going round and round. Apologist and disgusting message against men.Predictors of Sexual Coercion Against Women and Men: A Multilevel, Multinational Study of University Students 2.8% of men reported forced vaginal sex compared to 2.3% of women in a relationship in the previous year. From: Predictors of Sexual Coercion. http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID45-PR45.pdf | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Me and this guy are going round and round. Apologist and disgusting message against men.The UK’s biggest ever investigation of sex trafficking failed to find a single person who had forced anybody into prostitution in spite of hundreds of raids on sex workers in a six-month campaign by government departments, specialist agencies and every police force in the country. The failure has been disclosed by a Guardian investigation which also suggests that the scale of and nature of sex trafficking into the UK has been exaggerated by politicians and media. http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/200… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Men's Rights Activists for a documentary art project.What area are you located? | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Father unable to visit newly born daughter.That's about all he can do at the time. He can also try reasoning with her that a long court battle won't be good for anyone, especially the child. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Father unable to visit newly born daughter.Well, if he shows up at the hospital and she calls the police then they will take her side and drag him away. IF he has inherent rights then they are not enforced. If they are not enforced, they aren't rights at all. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Father unable to visit newly born daughter.He does not have any inherent rights. He will have to go to court and/or get an agreement in writing. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Hey guys, we're doing a unit on the women's rights movement, and my teacher approved me making a short presentation to show to the class.Who’s oppressing who? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 07:58 PM |
| 4 | The popular mra analogy for rape victims - a rich man in a crime culture asking for it, or someone wearing the wrong colors in gang culture - does more to support the ides that women live in a "rape cI think it's a natural response by more than just MRAs to feminisms absolving women of all personal responsibility for preventative measures and personal protection. I do not see MRAs going on about rape culture, except you. Personally, I reject it entirely because in general society rape is seen as abhorrent and even in violent subcultures like prison, female rape is still seen as abhorrent. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 07:41 PM |
| 4 | The popular mra analogy for rape victims - a rich man in a crime culture asking for it, or someone wearing the wrong colors in gang culture - does more to support the ides that women live in a "rape cThe more you use bullshit feminist rhetoric, the more you give it legitimacy. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 06:24 PM |
| 26 | My feminist friend gave me the 1 in 3 women are raped shtick.Koss and her colleagues concluded that 15.4 percent of respondents had been raped, and that 12.1 percent had been victims of attempted rape.[9] Thus, a total of 27.5 percent of the respondents were determined to have been victims of rape or attempted rape because they gave answers that fit Koss's criteria for rape (penetration by penis, finger, or other object under coercive influence such as physical force, alcohol, or threats). However, that is not how the so-called rape victims saw it. Only a… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 05:18 PM |
| -3 | It's time this movement did a little cleanup.Get off reddit then. Reddit is a circle-jerk. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The popular mra analogy for rape victims - a rich man in a crime culture asking for it, or someone wearing the wrong colors in gang culture - does more to support the ides that women live in a "rape cI think there is more evidence of people condoning prison rape. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 04:46 PM |
| 10 | It's time this movement did a little cleanup.Reddit is not a movement, it's a news and information portal that is accessible by everyone including trolls. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 04:17 PM |
| 7 | The popular mra analogy for rape victims - a rich man in a crime culture asking for it, or someone wearing the wrong colors in gang culture - does more to support the ides that women live in a "rape cBad area of town where crimes are more likely to occur != crime culture | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 04:09 PM |
| 11 | The popular mra analogy for rape victims - a rich man in a crime culture asking for it, or someone wearing the wrong colors in gang culture - does more to support the ides that women live in a "rape cI agree that it's a bad analogy, but I disagree that it represents a "crime culture". We don't live in a "crime culture" either where theft is socially acceptable and children must be conditioned to "not-steal"- | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 03:41 PM |
| 1 | R/MensRights, can you please help me identify other privileges that I might have and not be aware of?You're probably right about the kissing on the cheek but that's also cultural and wouldn't be so much frowned upon in europe. I dont think you could generalize though, some women might not mind, especially if it were an attractive guy. I'm much more comfortable around men and more guarded around women. Men are more easygoing and not so uptight in general, although there certainly are exceptions. I gotta agree with you on southern politeness, also your accents are really hot. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 09:00 PM |
| 1 | R/MensRights, can you please help me identify other privileges that I might have and not be aware of?things would be a LOT different if a dude did what that chick did Please explain. Would you rudely brush her off rather than try to be polite? I think it's quite rare for women to be buying guys drinks in a bar. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 08:27 PM |
| 3 | My son needs help and I feel hopelessWhy don't you take him during school and inform her of the appointment. If you have "equal rights" then it shouldn't be a problem right? Or maybe some are more "equal" than others. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 08:23 PM |
| 6 | Why are men automatically granted parental rights to children?Because that's what's best for children, unless you just want to raise vegetables. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/13 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Conservatives presume ownership of men's issuesNo, right between the firemen in dark green Edit: I thanked those firemen as they left. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Conservatives presume ownership of men's issuesI'm in the green hanging out with the fems in front of the national post reporter. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 05:00 AM |
| 16 | Help a feminist out?Stop pretending that equality means only focussing on women. In this paper, Murray A Strauss lists the different ways in which feminist activists deliberately distort and conceal evidence in order to create the false impression that men are more violent to their partners than women. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Conservatives presume ownership of men's issuesGot my picture in the paper. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/13 02:24 AM |
| 25 | (xpost /r/news) Woman given lenient sentence for hours-long brutal machete attack on boyfriend.IF the boyfriend had answered the door, the cops would not have left without checking to see if SHE was okay. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 10:33 PM |
| 6 | After a very long debate on Facebook, an academic friend of mine posted this pro-feminist comment. Can you guys please help me to counter his facts?employing random samples numbers tens of thousands, or indeed local crime surveys, we find that domestic violence is overwhelmingly perpetrated by males against women. Not sure about data for UK but over 300 domestic violence studies have been performed in North America based on societal surveys that indicate similar (nearly equal rates) of domestic violence between men and women. Women are overwhelmingly amongst the economically oppressed, both here and abroad. Conjecture that women's lack of e… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Janice Fiamengo lecture in MacleansShe doesn't and he didn't mention CAFE in the article but gave AVfM credit for organizing the event. Shitty reporting is shitty. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Janice Fiamengo lecture in MacleansSo many factual errors, not sure if Josh Dehaas is biased or just plain dumb. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 07:31 PM |
| 1 | When a girl has a problem in engineering...Can't tell that from a picture. It's possible that they're all looking at the monitor and she's editing an group assignment. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 12:50 PM |
| 5 | When a girl has a problem in engineering...As an engineer, that's bullshit. Maybe they're helping one of the guys with a problem. There's very few women in engineering and it's not surprising to see only one in a group. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 06:32 AM |
| 7 | CAFE's Janice Fiamengo talk ReportHere's the handout the protesters where distributing outside the venue and the response CAFE has distributing inside. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Fire alarm pulled at U of T talk two minutes before it began.The were mocking the attendees by chanting "We want men's rights and we want it still" | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 05:00 AM |
| 5 | CAFE's Janice Fiamengo talk ReportOutside the venue, they were mocking the attendees by chanting "we want mens rights and we want it still" | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 04:48 AM |
| 2 | CAFE's Janice Fiamengo talk Reportin spite of pretty vehement resistance to the insistence of the contrary, no one could name one. I was in amongst the crowd of femmies and one of them suggested that "black feminism" and "womanism" doesn't rely on patriarchy theory. Not sure if this is true or even important considering mainstream feminists do rely on patriarchy theory. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 04:46 AM |
| 11 | CAFE's Janice Fiamengo talk ReportI was there too, didn't notice any frogs tho. They seems to be big fans of Robert Sides at AVfM, quoting him on some of their signs. One sign in particular said "Sorry we hurt your manfeelz". At that point I realized just how much feminisms cares about teh menz /s I think Janice made a rhetorical blunder in her response to a question about how father's rights or promoting fatherhood might diminish lesbian parenting. Janice said something to the effect that hetero parents are better for children … | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 04:44 AM |
| 2 | A Canadian looking for infoHere's a new one from Don Dutton. They're both Canadian, from UBC. He's got 30+ years in DV research and is an expert witness. I know it's published in an Australian journal, but the references are all North American. It's well written and he's very persuasive. http://newmalestudies.com/OJS/index.php/nms/article/view/59 | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 04:52 AM |
| 1 | A Canadian looking for infoMisandry does real | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 04:42 AM |
| 3 | A Canadian looking for infohttp://www.fathersandfamilies.org/2010/09/02/canadian-researcher-we-must-abandon-the-claim-that-the-family-court-has-been-acting-in-childrens-best-interests/ http://books.google.ca/books?id=RAjiD5HKcGkC&printsec=frontcover&dq=The+Best+Interests+of+Children:+An+Evidence-Based+Approach,%22+University+of+Toronto+Press,+2009.&source=bl&ots=wRooLxhFDc&sig=Z80HVXyKjft2347tmqDA9NgpzdQ&hl=en&ei=ApcLTarjBMOBlAf5rsTqCw&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=3&ved=0CCkQ6AEwAg#v=onepage&q=The%20Best%20Interes… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 04:39 AM |
| 3 | A Canadian looking for infohttp://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/publications/mlintima-eng.php http://www.fira.ca/cms/documents/179/April7_Kruk_Summary.pdf Read it, it's not that long. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..In some Canadian provinces, there actually is such a legal presumption. This is a false statement. The fact is that only when both parents agree does it actually happen. A (usually) mother can scuttle any chance of equal parenting simply by being uncooperative. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..Another good resource: http://canadianepc.org/ | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..Sorry, your anecdotes don't count, especially since it's not true in law. Perhaps the lawyers just realized that anything other than 50/50 would create a court battle. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..http://www.f4jcanada.com/ Also, check out these resources http://www.canlaw.com/rights/fathers.htm#Alberta | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..Shouldn't there be law that automatically assumes joint custody and 50/50 time with the children? Join your local F4J. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Separated, fighting for custody and visitation of my children..Bullshit, provide source. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Planning my future divorce. r/mensrights what do I do to make sure I dont get fucked?!?Since you haven't been married long, she has zero rights to alimony. You can't avoid child support and paying for child care, but you can attempt to be fully involved and an equal parent. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Planning my future divorce. r/mensrights what do I do to make sure I dont get fucked?!?Since you haven't been married long, she has zero rights to alimony. You can't avoid child support and paying for child care, but you can attempt to be fully involved and an equal parent. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Planning my future divorce. r/mensrights what do I do to make sure I dont get fucked?!?Start writing a journal of your daily interactions with her and your care for your child. Obtain some form of evidence of her disinterest/hate for your child. Get witnesses of her behavior. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/13 07:57 PM |
| 2 | The coming problem in the MRM.I prefer better content but I'm only a minority. The majority on reddit are teenagers who like facebook posts and memes. This is an old discussion and I'm resigned to the reality that this is a training ground for newbs. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/13 05:39 PM |
| 7 | The coming problem in the MRM.a lot of pointless anger and outrage. What's wrong with anger and outrage? People should be upset and they have a right to be so. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/13 05:06 PM |
| 7 | The coming problem in the MRM.Don't be fooled by reddit, this is not an organization and there is no group cohesion. Reddit is heavily populated with young inexperienced people, trolls and sock puppets. You make some good points but the constant self-analyzing and infighting just ends up being a circular firing squad with nothing getting done. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/13 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Having your cake and eating it too?It's sexist and discriminatory to generalize and apply average differences in sex to individuals. Equality in law and opportunity is not the same as equal outcomes. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/13 05:27 AM |
| -4 | Single father needing helpYou have zero legal rights. Also, she is fully justified in seeking a relationship with her biological father and family and you should support that and not interfere. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/13 12:30 AM |
| 9 | Need help refuting several made-up statistics that went uncontested on CBC's The Current this morningAnna Marie Tremonte is biased. She annoys me. Please post if they actually read your refutation on air. I doubt it. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 05:54 PM |
| 3 | And Turn Again With Worn Out Tools and Not Complain… — The Good Men ProjectCan you please post the important points. I can't be bothered to give the GiMP my webclicks or read a whole article of their nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex wants to move out of State with our children :(You should definitely take issue with her moving so far away. It's not in the best interest of the kids. If she's not interested in the kids, maybe talk to her about a lump sum - move away by herself payment. 5K sounds like a good deal. Good luck, keep us updated. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Ex is going to court to file for child support - how do I avoid getting raped?You're in the same situation as the tens of thousands of fathers who get fucked regularly by the family law system. It's unlikely you will get treated fairly in court. That's why there are Father's Rights Activists. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do we pin so much blame on Feminism?There are a few 'good feminists' but they have been ostracised from the coven of mainstream feminist activism. The 'good feminists' aren't in control of the program. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 05:59 AM |
| 3 | As a 22 year old male, I am deciding not to have sex for the forseeable future.you're actually monitoring your girlfriend's birth control Not possible your girlfriend isn't herself a little... crazy. Only determined after the fact. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/13 10:27 PM |
| 1 | AMA with Dr Warren Farrell, Tuesday 19th February at 1000 PST, 1300 EST, 1800 GMTHe has already responded in the past, he said that he was misquoted by Penthouse and genitally should be gently. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/13 02:16 PM |
| 7 | I'm getting labeled as sexist in my relationship.I talk openly and honestly about my opinions. Gender specific words are a petty issue. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/13 07:01 PM |
| -4 | Stop Standing Against Women and Start Standing FOR MEN!!!I think it's pointless, mainstream feminists will never be our ally, they only want to co-opt us and take control. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/13 04:39 PM |
| -3 | Stop Standing Against Women and Start Standing FOR MEN!!!I've been at this for a while and I've long since given up on trying to reason with mainstream feminists. Young men are our market. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/13 04:36 PM |
| -7 | Stop Standing Against Women and Start Standing FOR MEN!!!I disagree. Everyday feminists only provide subterfuge for the mainstream feminist organizations that oppose men's rights. Edit: It's like saying that r/againstmensrights has a brain and can think objectively. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/13 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Stop Standing Against Women and Start Standing FOR MEN!!!I don't care about rad-fems or anonymous reddit feminists. It's the mainstream feminist organizations like NOW that oppose equality in Family Law and domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/13 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Unjust bias towards father as parents head towards divorce - advice?Fuck it then, let him suffer, you're wasting my time. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Unjust bias towards father as parents head towards divorce - advice?Calling the police to make a complaint that my mother hit my father is not going to help anyone. Yes, it will. 1) It will force your mother to address her abusive behavior. 2) It will give your father official documentation of the abuse he suffered. 3) It will give your father the upper hand in family court. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Unjust bias towards father as parents head towards divorce - advice?I'll admit, though, that if he did, say, hit her in the same way she hits him, with the same force and with her not really being hurt by it, I'd be pissed. Yes, that's a little bit biased of me. I'm not perfect, unfortunately. It's sounds like you are part of the problem, rather than part of the solution. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Unjust bias towards father as parents head towards divorce - advice?You have to start an official record of her behavior. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Unjust bias towards father as parents head towards divorce - advice?It sounds like you're a witness to the abuse your father has suffered. Report your mother immediately to the police. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice on obtaining sole physical custody of my boy and hiring an attorneyIt doesn't matter what I think, it depends which judge you get. It's quite possible the judge will brush off your concern because she is 'recovering' and her parents are providing a stable home. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:35 PM |
| 7 | How to fix school for boysI think there's a good case to be made that single sex schools are better for both boys and girls. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice on obtaining sole physical custody of my boy and hiring an attorneyLawyers aren't a commodity, you get what you pay for. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Advice on obtaining sole physical custody of my boy and hiring an attorneyDon't price shop, look for quality and experience in a lawyer. In general, the more you pay, the more motivated your lawyer will be. If you don't have a lot of money then your lawyer won't be interested in a custody trial and will persuade you to settle. Make sure you have some evidence and witnesses that show she is an unfit mother. It's not simply a competition of you being a better parent, she needs to be proven unfit for a judge to take custody from her. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Lovely lads, is there a personal reason you identify as an MRA and not an egalitarian (not associated with feminism)? Or do you see them as synonymous? And if so, do you recommend it for others?Labels are irrelevant. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Mother arrested for creating child porn with her children, Robin Wilson still blames men.Typical CBC bias. George Orwell would be proud. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 02:06 PM |
| 3 | A funny way to get serious help for men who need it.I like the approach, it's quite humorous. Although I don't know how helpful these boilerplate questionnaires and recommendations actually are. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Long time lurker, need advice (not legal) for impending divorceThe judge won't give a shit about your petty squabbles. Just don't put yourself in the position where she can make false accusations. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Why I worship womenI smell a hypocrite troll. feminism has given women the tools they need to fight back against male domination. we still live in a man's world - men compete to get the hottest girl, men get made fun of if they hyphenate their name, womens sports arent as popular as mens and they cant get a multi million dollar sports contract, women still get locked out of most ceo and boardroom positions. we should take the best parts of chivalry - putting women first, ie opening doors, but discard the rest. soc… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Why I worship womensome women like to worship and submit to their men No they don't, they are merely stroking the egos of their draft horses. Vleaks1.0 : Female Submission as Emotional Dominance | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Long time lurker, need advice (not legal) for impending divorceDon't leave the house until you have a financial agreement worked out and she's paid you off. If you do then you will be paying rent and half of the house. Record everything for personal protection, as long as one party recording is allowed in your state/country. Don't argue with her, stay calm. Get to a lawyer and serve her first if possible. It always helps to gain the upperhand. Don't be overly generous or she will just take advantage of you. Edit: Get all your credit cards and banking inform… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/13 01:28 AM |
| 14 | You wanna know what's bullshit? (re: child support)As soon as you get divorced you should lose the privilege of staying at home and living off somebody else's income. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/13 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Boy vs. girl bathroom sizeFYI, building code requirements for my area: Mercantile occupancies for public use: 1 fixture for each 300 males and 1 fixture for each 150 females. Non-residential college buildings: 1 fixture for each 100 males and 1 fixture for each 75 females. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/13 09:57 PM |
| 9 | Nicole Ryan, who tried to hire a hitman to kill her husband, went free because she claims she was abused. However, 1:35 into this CBC video, she admits to the "hitman" (undercover cop) that her husbanActually, police work is low on the list of most dangerous jobs. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/13 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Boy vs. girl bathroom sizeNot sure how this is relevant without context. Is this for a female dominated business place? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/13 09:04 PM |
| 76 | Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his | NewsTip of the iceberg. Two years cohabitation with any woman with children and you are on the hook for child support in Canada. It doesn't matter if they already have a father making support payments. The mother can have multiple support payors. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/13 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible that not every woman who claims domestic abuse is actually a victim and merely trying to game the system??the trial judges made a finding on evidence. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. They didn't call witnesses like Michael Ryan or the Police. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/13 04:51 PM |
| 3 | ‘Childish prank’ sees innocent man branded as suspected child abductorIf I were to accept your argument that would mean that Pierce Harlan at COTWA is also not an MR issue and family law is also not an MR issue, because a much smaller percentage of women also get screwed. However, I don't agree with you. The mere fact that these types of false accusations happen to men in the vast majority of cases makes it an MR issue. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the sudden uptick in deleting of comments...Policies on the side bar are pretty clear. Your post belongs in meta. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 08:48 PM |
| 7 | ‘Childish prank’ sees innocent man branded as suspected child abductorIt's a good example of how easily false accusations are made. False accusations are an MR issue. Do you have a reason to think they are not? | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Why do women outnumber men at colleges?Lack of male teachers and feminist pedagogy in school. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Fathers being excluded from exciting new menu choices at McDonald's...."Millenial moms like to have their children have a broader range of flavors and tastes in their diet," she says. Doesn't seem like that big of a deal to get worked up over. I boycot many businesses already for misandry but I'm not particularly bothered by this. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Study links aggressive boys to Mom’s behavior - after all "the hand that rock the cradle rules the world."It happens a lot but what really bothers me is Kristina's logical fallacies in defending it. She's got the right rhetoric, but she's losing my confidence really fast. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/13 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How the War on “Dead-Beat Dads” is Hurting Co-Parenting Fathers — The Good Men ProjectStill not impressed. You should be questioning NOW's stance against equal shared parenting, parental alienation and biased domestic violence law. Those are real legal issues opposed by real organizations that are a threat to all fathers. Not just cultural stereotypes. Most 'deadbeat dads' are deadbroke and deadbeaten by the system. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/13 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Help! Having trouble finding a stat!Whites receive the lowest average sentence of 32.1 months. In sharp contrast, Hispanics receive a sentence of 54.1 months and blacks receive 64.1 months, which are 68.5 percent and 99.6 percent larger than the average sentence for whites. Even more pronounced is the difference between males and females. The average sentence for males is 278.4 percent greater than that of females (51.5 versus 18.5 months). http://www.terry.uga.edu/~mustard/sentencing.pdf | /r/MensRights | 03/02/13 02:21 PM |
| 11 | TIL the MRM grew out of feminism, acknowledges that men have disproportionate and unjust levels of power and its primary purpose is to help men to express their vulnerabilities, fears, and emotional nOnly very few men have power and the MRM didn't grow out of feminism. Male power is a myth. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/13 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Why I'm leaving this subreddit.I agree with you but I'm still downvoting your post because...it dilutes quality content. This place will only get worse without you. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Study links aggressive boys to Mom’s behaviorThat's a far better correlation than this study. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Study links aggressive boys to Mom’s behaviorsensationalized piece of garbage. fuzzy bumblebee sayz itz scienze! | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Study links aggressive boys to Mom’s behaviorAll they did was disprove a biological link with testosterone with the suggestion that it is environmentally determined by early childhood development. There was no study linking testosterone to aggression or aggression to maternal behavior, these are merely unproven assumptions. AVfM needs a science editor. This news report is pure junk, even worse than some of the shit that I've seen from feminist sociologists. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Study links aggressive boys to Mom’s behavior--- “Not that researchers are blaming mothers,” Dr. Tremblay said, “but it is a fact of nature that a child’s early environment (pregnancy and after birth)All they did was disprove a biological link with testosterone with the suggestion that it is environmentally determined by early childhood development. There was no study linking testosterone to aggression or aggression to maternal behavior, these are merely unproven assumptions. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do we get through to people?Fact and data are only part of the battle. We also need strong emotional arguments. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Highly gendered child support laws don’t account for the increased involvement of fathers. — The Good Men ProjectAre you fucking stupid? There is an epidemic of fatherlessness. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/13 06:58 PM |
| -10 | Do single fathers get child support, how is it treated?Troll. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 03:37 AM |
| -11 | Do single fathers get child support, how is it treated?I always thought child support was bullshit. Why can't he earn his own money? | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 02:45 AM |
| 9 | Just lost a 5yr relationship which produced a wonderfull kid. Unmarried. What should I be wary of/know about ?Write a journal of all your time with your child and interactions with your ex. Be cooperative and always act in the best interests of your child. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Getting married in about 10 months.. Is there any advice from married/divorced men that they wish they had before getting married?Gold bars are less conspicuous. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Getting married in about 10 months.. Is there any advice from married/divorced men that they wish they had before getting married?Regardless of the source, it would appear logical that anyone with a pattern of multiple short term relationships isn't a good candidate for lifetime commitment. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Getting married in about 10 months.. Is there any advice from married/divorced men that they wish they had before getting married?Nobody ever intends on getting divorced, just like nobody ever intends on losing their future earnings when they walk into a casino. Don't get married unless you fully recognize that everything will change because she's holding all the cards and there is a possibility of divorce. The most common characteristic of long marriages is male deference. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/13 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Child support ridiculousnessNone of this is surprising anymore. More and more second wives are waking up because they end up financially disabled and emotionally drained by the ridiculousness of the family law system that constantly screws their husbands. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Child support ridiculousnessOkay, but you have limited options. The courts can just assume that he should/could be making more money and then throw him in jail when he doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 10:08 PM |
| 6 | IAmA physically abusive wife. AMAI actually have a lot of respect for you for admitting your problem and trying to get help. What is the source of your anger? Jealousy, power and control, helplessness, anything else? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Child support ridiculousnessConsider filing without a lawyer and/or get a paralegal to help with paperwork. That may not be popular here but, many poor people do it. Get a job in the underground economy. Leave the country. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 10:02 PM |
| 3 | better to get a prenup or avoid marriage?Second wave feminism was a separatist movement, but hypergamy and letting the man go out to work still pays off for women. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 08:35 PM |
| 4 | "Supreme Court’s common-law decision may be good for women"Comments closed to avoid any exposure of Globe and Mail bias. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Canada Supreme Court: Quebec Common Law Partners NOT Entitled to Support.They understand but are purposely blurring the distinction between mother and child. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 07:38 PM |
| 5 | better to get a prenup or avoid marriage?What's the problem, it works for women? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Is feminism worse in Canada?Salvation army is a homeless shelter. QED shithead. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 06:42 PM |
| 13 | I love mandatory work meetings...File a formal complaint documenting workplace discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 05:44 PM |
| 4 | better to get a prenup or avoid marriage?Marry a rich woman and become a stay at home dad. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Is feminism worse in Canada?The Status of Women Canada is a federal group that funnels funding to local and regional groups. That includes northern territories too. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 05:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the Men's Rights theory regarding gender identity and development?Search for the 'brainwash' documentary on youtube. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 05:14 PM |
| 22 | Man sues police for defamation over false sexual assault accusations.Nope, he should have never been charged until after they did a proper investigation. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Is feminism worse in Canada?MORE mens shelters here on the west coast than there are women's shelters. Again bullshit. There is only one men's shelter in all of Canada and it is privately funded. Unless you are refering to homeless shelters and that's only because >80% of homeless are men. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Is feminism worse in Canada?But the health community, police, and government doesn't listen to the feminist circlejerk, and real statistics have flourished and given us the support we need to establish equality. That is outright bullshit. In Ontario, police and health care worker training was developed by discredited feminist Peter Jaffe. In Ontario, the RUCS protocal for screening of sexual assault victims is for girls only (also Peter Jaffe) Check out any police website in Canada and you will find the typical bullshit fe… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 04:05 PM |
| 29 | Man sues police for defamation over false sexual assault accusations.This is beautiful. If police had done their jobs properly then he never would have been charged in the first place. The false accuser is yet to be charged. Shame on windsor police. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 01:25 PM |
| 28 | Is feminism worse in Canada?Yes, Canada has a lot of government funding for feminist activists. It's not just Toronto, there is a lot of feminist brainwashing everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Canadians understandIMO, London, Ontario is the worst in all of Canada. International dating violence study by Straus also concluded that London, Ontario has the most violent women in all of Canada. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I need your helphttp://www.avoiceformen.com/activism/about/ | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Canadians understandLondon, Ontario, home of Chief Bigot Murray Faulkner and Feminist Bigot Peter Jaffe | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Marriage is the leading cause of divorce. Gawd you're fucking stupid. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Go back to your fake ladymra site for special snowflakes. You serve no purpose here. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Nova Scotia hitman case reinforces gender bias of Canadian courtsExcept that she was previously exonerated based on her lies of abuse. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:14 AM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Wrong again. I know from experience that you are dishonest and untrustworthy. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Once again, you seem to think very poorly of me for wanting to get married. Wrong again. You projected lack of trust and neglected the reality for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:02 AM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Claiming to be MRA isn't convincing either. I don't trust you. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/13 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Canadians understandYour post doesn't represent the Canadian population. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 11:59 PM |
| 7 | Canadians understandDon't be confused about Canada, this is the exception not the norm. Erin Pizzey once said that for gender politics, Canada is the scariest country on the planet. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 11:58 PM |
| 30 | I was jailed after my wife punched me in the face and called 911.I feel like she now has this huge card to play if she ever gets pissed at me and wants to ruin my life. She always had that card, she played it when she called 911. I feel sorry for you man, you need to get out of that situation. You are at risk with her. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 07:00 PM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Of course not, but it's an insurance policy for sibqm_lmvm | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:59 PM |
| -3 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?You're not trustworthy. Edit: You're definitely no GWW. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:58 PM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?You're just a special snowflake IMO. Yes, you neglected reality and projected trust issues. You're a shitty woman. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:57 PM |
| -1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?This is directed at YOU. You're a shitty woman for projecting 'trust issues' and neglecting the very likely reality of how women can divorce with ease while the system supports them and men just get fucked. I wouldn't even let you in my house. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?That's a pretty stupid response, especially directed at me personally. Most people marry because they believe in the ideals of romantic love. Many men remain married because they're trapped and obligated. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Highly unlikely. Marriage isn't about happiness, many of those that stay married do it out of obligation or fear of divorce. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:04 PM |
| 4 | The Lonely Existence of Mel Feit, Men's Rights AdvocateShe can't blame 'teh patriarchy' when major feminist organizations are the ones actively opposing efforts to end discrimination and bias in family law and domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Debate, inquiry, whatever: How do YOU feel about marriage?Only romantic fools believe that relationships are forever. I don't see any benefit for men, but there are a lot of potential negative consequences. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Petitioning the Australian Government to Support Male Victims of Domestic ViolenceThis is what an MRA looks like, | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 12:12 PM |
| 5 | I have read on here for a long time. I tried to find statistics for my own country to be able to use them in discussions to prove that violence against men is a big issue here too. The only study i foWhich country? Look at this international study | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 06:25 PM |
| 12 | Mens Rights club?In general no, but there really isn't any agreed upon 'MRA' platform. Pick the issues that interest you and work on them. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Advise on leaving partner (have child)You should document everything. If she accepts her faults and is interested in working out the problems then you have a rare gem indeed. The problem is, what's going to happen with her next boyfriend and how is that going to be good for your child? Hint, it's not. You need to be very clear that no violence will be tolerated and you should file a police report if it ever happens again. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 04:27 PM |
| 14 | Mens Rights club?Considering it's a jewish school, I highly doubt that circumcision will be an issue that they address. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 04:03 PM |
| 10 | All men are NOT evil: "14-year-old boy protects Mich. rape victim with hunting knife ... injured woman got in the bathtub and cowered ... sister Acelin (11) and brother Angus (2) joined her."We don't need to be human meat shields to prove men are NOT evil. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Picking your battles, what do you think I should do?It's low hanging fruit, unless you really like yoga and this is being offered by a student union / engineering society that is supposed to represent everyone. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is there no ongoing debate about the morally reprehensible act of breastfeeding and the pedophile nature of it when not done out of necessity anymore?I think you're being over the top rhetorically although it is true that breast feeding induces orgasms which is why women like it so much and are unwilling to give it up. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 05:07 PM |
| 14 | I'm a guy that worked at the Duluth Model in Duluth, Minnesota. AMA!The Duluth Model has mostly been discredited but is still being used as a tool for profiling and discriminating against men. The Duluth model: A data-impervious paradigm and a failed strategy by Dr. Don Dutton | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this is the right subreddit to ask but here goes anyway.This advice is far to vague to be of practical use. I can tell you the common advice from men in long marriages, it is deference to their wives and focussing on her happiness. A long marriage isn't necessarily a 'successful' one though because many of these men also receive condescending remarks and disrespect from their wives. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/13 09:24 PM |
| 9 | Not sure if this is the right subreddit to ask but here goes anyway.I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells with her (my now fiancée) I feel everything I say is met with a condescending remark, no matter what. She doesn't respect you and she's unlikely to change. Cut your losses and be happy that you've recognized the red flags before it's too late. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/13 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Can someone give me a quick run-down on how VAWA discriminates against men?I propose that the Occupational Safety and Health Act be chanced to the Men's Occupational Safety and Health Act since men are ~95% of workplace injuries [obvious sarcasm]. This is a much higher proportion than DV. Would that be discriminatory? | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Enough posts about India. We face discrimination in our own homes, in our own local courts, in our children's schools, and in our own media. Think culturally, act locally.I think you miss the point that western countries such as ours are spreading our problems to foreign countries. And, there are plenty of other stupid and off topic posts of little relevance. Also, reddit isn't limited to westerners. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Variation of domestic violence statisticsDo you think a bunch of people lie about female DV to a random interviewer? Actually, the societal surveys don't just ask questions about what violence is afflicted upon a person but also what violence is perpetrated by that person. The researchers can compare between men and women to determine the extent of reporting bias. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Variation of domestic violence statisticsI'd like to get beyond the debate of arguing over statistics. Even if you accept that a minimum 15% of men are victims of domestic violence then it's still discrimination to exclude men from services and laws for domestic violence. That is akin to having an Occupational Health and Safety Act for Men only, since men are ~95% of workplace injuries. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Variation of domestic violence statisticsI am just asking if anyone would be kind enough to explain why or how these variations in stats are possible. The difference is between justice department statistics of DV charges and societal surveys. Men are far less likely to report violence to the police and the police are less likely to charge a woman. That's the difference. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/13 12:44 AM |
| 3 | "Draw-the-Line.ca" Posters Good message but could be more gender neutralI've long since given up on trying to change the opinion of bigots. Our target audience is young men. You're chance of changing their message is near zero and I'd bet money on that. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 09:48 PM |
| 10 | A sad observationLabelling yourself is completely unnecessary and sometimes counterproductive. "tell people you're an MRA." I haven't seen that. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 09:31 PM |
| 5 | "Draw-the-Line.ca" Posters Good message but could be more gender neutralOntario's 'Sexual Violence Action Plan', through the Ontario Women's Directorate. Don't get your hopes up, they're gender bigots. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take?No, the strategy is to attack on all fronts, to co-opt and infiltrate everything and everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take?I've been around long enough to know that the MRM has libertarian roots but the recent growth has been mostly spurred by inclusiveness rather than aligning with right wing groups who have no interest in men other than their utility. Previous efforts to eliminate VAWA (small gov.) fell on deaf ears, even on the right. However, efforts by SAVE to work with VAWA and improve it to be more inclusive (less discriminatory) of men has been more effective in gaining supporters. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take?Somewhat relevant but still a false dichotomy between left/right wing politics. This is more divisive and destructive to men's rights than helpful. Nothing new from The Spearhead, not a men's rights site. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Custody Evaluator Recommendations - San Mateo CountyI suggest contacting your local F4J. There isn't much experience on reddit, mostly just teenagers. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 02:34 PM |
| 2 | What are the things Men fighting for custody should know....How did you win custody for 12k? It costs more than that before you even get to see a judge. She must have made a lot of mistakes for you to gain custody so easily. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/13 06:59 PM |
| 1 | "If the world had been full of female traders instead of male traders, the meltdown would have been avoided"Good point. Not just the wealth, but also all of the inventions too. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/13 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Woman with history of domestic violence kills her infant sonDean Esmay? WooleyBumblebee? Do you still suggest that a man walk away from his home and child when a woman is abusing him? This is what happens when people give shitty advice. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Processes explaining the concealment and distortion of evidence on gender symmetry in partner violence - MA Straus - European Journal on Criminal Policy and Research, 2007Concluding Comments: The seven methods described above have created a climate of fear that has inhibited research and publication on gender symmetry in PV and largely explain why an ideology and treatment modality has persisted for 30 years, despite hundreds of studies which provide evidence on the multiplicity of risk factors for PV, of which patriarchy is only one. Because of space limitations and because I am a researcher not a service provider, I have not covered the even greater denial, dis… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The younger generation is waking up.It's not an outrage because there isn't anything stopping women from entering those fields unlike teaching where men need to fear false accusations and parental distrust. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 07:19 AM |
| 1 | The younger generation is waking up.There are too few male teachers and this is a problem for boys. The same issue doesn't apply to engineering. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The younger generation is waking up.I'm an engineer. I graduated at the top of my high school and won most of the academic awards. When I went to university I found out that all of the women had 5% lower threshold for acceptance to the program and got $3000 per year from the gov free money just for being female. I got very few scholarships because I wasn't eligible for most of them. I lived off my credit cards and ate KD and PB&J (male privilege). All of my female friends in Uni recognized this unfairness. Female engineers and sci… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 07:14 AM |
| 0 | How often are men falsely accused of rape?…Rumney's smart debunkings leave us with a group of American, British, Canadian, and New Zealand studies that converge around a rate of 8 percent to 10 percent for false reports of rape. Not all of these studies are flawless, but together they're better than the rest of the lot. They include a massive 1997 report on sexual assault by the U.S. Department of Justice, which includes data from 16,000 local, county, and state law enforcement agencies. The DoJ found that "in 1995, 87% of recorded forc… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 06:29 AM |
| 22 | Introduction (Response to "Where are all you new MR Redditors Coming from?)From one reformed white knight to another. Welcome. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 07:45 PM |
| 5 | A Small VictoryI don't hold police responsible for biased laws, but I do hold them responsible for staying silent about their training programs. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 07:31 PM |
| 7 | A Small VictoryThey have power and authority and with that comes responsibility. They can not be excused. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How can we fight one-sided domestic abuse information and propaganda? DiscussRaising awareness needs to be done with tact in order to be most effective I can tell you with a great deal of experience in this subject that regardless of how much tact you use, you will be insulted and branded a heretic. You will be branded a woman hater for merely presenting valid statistics. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How can we fight one-sided domestic abuse information and propaganda? DiscussThis is a political issue that needs to be raised at every opportunity. The feminist Duluth model is used for training of police, lawyers, social workers and health care professionals. The Duluth model is largely discredited but still persists in academia, we must raise awareness and create public outrage. This is not just a men's issue but a family issue and a children's issue. If we continue to neglect one half of perpetrators and victims then the cycle of violence will continue to be taught t… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 06:36 PM |
| 9 | A Small VictoryI'm baffled when police officers come to the MRM after they've been screwed by the same system that they enforced with the pathetic excuse of 'just doing their jobs'. They are responsible for doing their jobs poorly and allowing the Duluth model bias in their training to persist. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 06:05 PM |
| 9 | Please help, my daughter is being threatened and neglected.Horrible situation, I feel bad for you man. All you can do is continue documenting and complaining to higher levels. Maybe someday somebody will listen and actually care about the children that are being sacrificed on the altar of Duluth model fraud. Domestic violence will never be stopped as long as we continue to ignore half of the victims and perpetrators. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 03:25 PM |
| 5 | The Woozle Effect - also known as evidence by citation, or a woozle, occurs when frequent citation of previous publications that lack evidence mislead individuals, groups and the public into thinking…Rumney's smart debunkings leave us with a group of American, British, Canadian, and New Zealand studies that converge around a rate of 8 percent to 10 percent for false reports of rape. Not all of these studies are flawless, but together they're better than the rest of the lot. They include a massive 1997 report on sexual assault by the U.S. Department of Justice, which includes data from 16,000 local, county, and state law enforcement agencies. The DoJ found that "in 1995, 87% of recorded forc… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Where are all of you new r/mensrights members coming from?A large number of /r/mensrights members are trolls, sockpuppets and feminist infiltrators attempting to co-opt and re-direct the men's movement. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:36 PM |
| 9 | A Small VictoryThe police are some of the main perpetrators of feminist fraud in domestic violence. This won't really change much since their training programs are still based on the biased and discredited Duluth model of domestic violence. IF there are any good cops out there then they should be fighting vigorously to change these biased training programs and policies. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Expert witnesses in determining support payments.The child support system is accounting fraud The judges know it and I'm not aware of any expert witnesses that will stop this fraud. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:27 PM |
| 56 | A girl I know just posted this on facebook... wonder how hard people would rage if the genders were switched...It's a false stereotype. Fact is that statistically women take more sick days than men. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/13 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Use of the word "Bitch", Is it sexist/Misogynist?Proving once again that feminists have no sense of humor. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/13 06:09 PM |
| 9 | Just as a note: Paternal Rights is a Feminist project.You are a liar. Both NOW and LEAF, two major feminist organizations opposed Equal Shared Parenting. Provide evidence or get out. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/13 03:31 PM |
| 5 | From Erin Pizzey, AVfM Editor-at-Large | A Voice for MenRefutation would be more credible from someone else. Many feminist issues stem from their displeasure with capitalism and many vocal feminists are rabid socialists. (UofT anyone?) | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 09:47 PM |
| 8 | From Erin Pizzey, AVfM Editor-at-Large | A Voice for MenYou are a communist feminist, so she's not totally off base. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 09:39 PM |
| 1 | From Erin Pizzey, AVfM Editor-at-Large | A Voice for Menas humbly as possible as not to offend anyone Say nothing, be ineffective. Gotcha. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 09:39 PM |
| -5 | My Christian view of masculinity. (xpost from r/OneY)You know exactly what I damn well mean. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Use of the word "Bitch", Is it sexist/Misogynist?It's insulting to dogs. Please, won't somebody think of the dogs? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 07:55 PM |
| -1 | My Christian view of masculinity. (xpost from r/OneY)What parts of adulthood don't apply to femininity/females? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 06:40 PM |
| 9 | Hey guys, need your help ASAP! Tomorrow I am scheduled for divorce mediation!"supervised visitations," If she has no good reason to demand supervised visitation, then there is no reason to agree to it. It will only make visitation more difficult for you and create more barriers (her intention) between you and your child. Mediation isn't binding and nothing can be used in court, it's a last ditch effort. Stay calm, stand firm and do not accept unreasonable requirements for access. I am entitled to at least once-a-week or so of non supervised visitations You should be goin… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 05:12 PM |
| 2 | To all those complaining about /r/mensrights recent attitude-shift...Take your strawmen and shove it. There is nothing wrong with being angry. Fuck off Mangina. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 04:59 PM |
| 2 | NAFALT and the Out-Group Homogeneity EffectGender feminists (read: radicals) are in the majority and hold the majority of influential positions in the feminist movement. MR radicals do not equate to the extremes of gender feminism (blaming men as a group) and MR radicals are a minority. "misogyny" is extremely rare even among MR radicals. "misogyny" is most often a false accusation. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 04:57 PM |
| 1 | To all those complaining about /r/mensrights recent attitude-shift...Strawmen. Fuck off Mangina. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Advice PleaseSocial shaming. Label her as an incompetent man-hater and back it up with statistics. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Balls of Steel Whiskey Coolers. They cool your drink and a portion of the proceeds go to testicular cancer research.I thought it was a drink, but it's actually just stainless steel ball bearings. http://www.originalbos.com/blogs/news/7047806-the-cause-behind-balls-of-steel-whiskey-drink-coolers | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 04:00 PM |
| 9 | From Erin Pizzey, AVfM Editor-at-Large | A Voice for MenHaters gonna hate, but all the best writers and activists are from AVfM. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 03:57 PM |
| 0 | To all those complaining about /r/mensrights recent attitude-shift...Male feminist, didn't read. Fuck off Mangina. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 03:36 PM |
| 9 | I may hate women???There's many good women in the MRM that give me hope. Also a few good feminists, but not many. Surely, you can't blame the innocent and ignorant? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Let's write a book.It doesn't work that way. Nothing will ever get done by commitee. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 05:15 AM |
| 1 | As a feminist, thank you r/MensRights.Yes. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 01:16 AM |
| 5 | I know most of us already know this, but here is a link to another study demonstrating that men and women are equally violent in relationships.This is a fantastic study to bookmark and use for debating the domestic violence issue. Also, see Domestic Abuse Assessment in Child Custody Disputes: Beware the Domestic Violence Research Paradigm and The Duluth model: A data-impervious paradigm and a failed strategy and Transforming a Flawed Policy | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 01:07 AM |
| -3 | Rape Abroad Study Recommends not Being SlutI think this was already posted and then removed because giving advice to women has absolutely nothing to do with mens rights. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Apparently it's time for the repost: On the nature of feminismFeminist Myths and Magic Medicine Gender feminists tend to see conventional masculinity as a pathology and the source of much of what is wrong in the world It's a mess out there. Men are suspicious of women's intentions. Feminism has crippled them | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 12:45 AM |
| 2 | As a feminist, thank you r/MensRights.Not exactly. Not all Nazis were involved or even realized the mass genocide that was happening. There were a few good nazis with good intentions. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 12:41 AM |
| -1 | As a feminist, thank you r/MensRights.I'm okay with the few good feminists, I just recognize that you are a very small minority of the gender feminists who actually have power and control over social issues. I hear there were a few good nazis too. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/13 12:39 AM |
| -4 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?I'm not wasting my time. You are 100% wrong on all counts. Fuck you. Edit: I've long since tagged you as Male Feminist/ Mangina and have stopped reading your posts. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?Let them say what's on their minds. Go to /r/mensrightsmeta | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 04:33 PM |
| -4 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?Except that you are wrong on all counts. I'm neither old or right wing. Your blanket ad hominen deserves nothing but a big fuck you. Edit: Your sockpuppet votes mean nothing either. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 04:32 PM |
| -7 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?Fuck you to all of the concern trolls and white knight manginas. pssst, you're both. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 03:16 PM |
| -5 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?Correction: Fuck you to all of the concern trolls and white knight manginas. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 03:15 PM |
| -8 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?Ma99ie is a known and trusted MRA. You are no one and are rarely involved in this subreddit and MR issues. Fuck you. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Is anybody else getting sick of feminists posing as /r/mensrights regulars telling us what we should and should not be posting?A few points. I appreciate the work that our mods do and for putting up with criticism and not giving up. If MRAs were doing what they are supposed to then all of those posts would have been reported to notify the mods. If the mods were doing what they are supposed to, then all of those posts would be removed because they belong in meta. If moderating /r/mensrights is too much work then we need more mods, not excuses. This should be a base of operations, our battles are to be fought elsewhere, n… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 01:44 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] In response to complaints about this subreddit. Some of the hostility in our comments should go.There is no 'we' or 'us'. This sub-reddit is inhabited by many people with different agendas. Many of those are trolls and false flag operations. Downvote for addressing /r/mensrights as a collective. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/12 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Men's Rights vs. Feminism vs. EgalitarianismNobody will ever strive for equality in the glass cellar. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/12 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Men's Rights vs. Feminism vs. EgalitarianismThis video has all the answers you need. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/12 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Women Rape Boys, Too - NOVEMBER 20, 2011 BY JACOB TAYLOR goodmenproject.comTroll or not, there are far better sources to post than the GMP. If you don't understand why, then you are either very new and have a lot to learn or just deliberately playing stupid. I don't think having sex with your sleeping boyfriend should be in the same category as "rape" (the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse) | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Women Rape Boys, Too - NOVEMBER 20, 2011 BY JACOB TAYLOR goodmenproject.comWell evidently you have no experience in the field of media of you would grasp the value and function of Irony when a name such as "I'm Not A Men's Right's Advocate 2 day old account, like NSWATM, you won't be taken seriously. "Yes Ladies, MRA Is A "Thought-terminating Cliché". Don't Think. Just Use It!". I don't use the term MRA personally, but it's label doesn't bother me and I don't go out of my way to reject association, ESPECIALLY on /r/mensrights. "So Fucking A Guy As He Sleeps Is Not Rape… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Women Rape Boys, Too - NOVEMBER 20, 2011 BY JACOB TAYLOR goodmenproject.comThe only time anyone posts GMP articles here is when they are affiliated with the GMP or an apologist for the GMP. Your nick + posting feminist website = troll | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Women Rape Boys, Too - NOVEMBER 20, 2011 BY JACOB TAYLOR goodmenproject.comEvery once in a while Uncle Tom lets out a pro-MR article to boost their alexa stats. Which GMP are you troll? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I'll never look at Bill Maher the same way again. I mean, this is one of the women behind V-Day and the Women's Media Center.Is Obama a feminist responsible for Dear Colleague? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 02:11 PM |
| 8 | So this is my 1st christmas where I won't be waking up with my kids.Thanks, yours too. You should never miss out on fathers day. I'm surprised that would be neglected in the court order. Christmas activities can be scheduled almost any time in December. When my kids were younger they just thought Santa made a special trip. It's Halloween that I miss out on. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 02:02 PM |
| 19 | So this is my 1st christmas where I won't be waking up with my kids.I had christmas morning last weekend, they opened most of their presents already. Just preparing a few more for christmas day and a major outing for boxing day. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 01:49 PM |
| 7 | The reason why feminism will never serve as the basis for an effective men's movementThat's very good summary, thanks for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Pope says future of mankind at stake over gay marriageI can't take any so-con seriously that they are so concerned about family values when they neglect the tragedy of fatherlessness caused by family courts. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:11 PM |
| 18 | 6 reasons why so many people believe feminism hates men, and why they're not trueThat didn't cover any of the reasons why I think feminisms hates men. Patriarchy theory and collective male guilt (white ribbon campaign) Opposition to equality in family law. Spreading bad/misleading/one-sided statistics about male violence/female victimhood. Neglect of male victims / female perpetrators of domestic violence | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Just a theory regarding equalityas it would bring the abused spouse in contact with the abuser on a regular basis, and that was deemed to be harmful to the abused spouse. That has nothing to do with the presumption of shared custody. Such an issue is already a problem with the unequal status quo of primary custody. Edit: It's also an issue for MEN, just as much as it is for women. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Just a theory regarding equalityliving in two households is detrimental to the child's development False claim, provide evidence. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Just a theory regarding equalityFact is that in practice violating the visitation provisions of a court order is very rarely enforced. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Just a theory regarding equalityThe whole point of child support (when properly implemented) is so that the non-custodial parent pays an equal amount of money towards the care of the child that the custodial parent does Nonsense. The custodial parent is not required to work or have any income at all. The non-custodial parent is assessed based on their income alone. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Just a theory regarding equalityliving in two households is detrimental to the child's development [citation needed] I have studies that suggest that maximizing both parent's involvement is in the best interests of children and that the status quo is not. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Just a theory regarding equalityIf the child is taken care of, then I stand by what i said By your same logic then $750 from a millionaire should be acceptable as long as the child is taken care of. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Just a theory regarding equalityforce shared custody in cases where the non-custodial parent is abusive and pointed out that living in two households is detrimental to the child's development That is blatantly false. NOBODY would ever propose to force visitation with an abusive parent. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Just a theory regarding equalityIf s/he is a hazard to the kid, then s/he should pay and have limited contact. That's not what happens though. Momma can refuse to allow access and the family law courts will do nothing. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Just a theory regarding equalitySo long as the money is paid to the custodial parent, it doesn't matter what that parent does with it, so long as the kid is taken care of. It doesn't seem fair if the millionaire pays $750, but it's okay if momma spends most of it on herself? Feminists oppose equality in family law, huh? What are you citing? NOW and LEAF, two major feminist organizations have officially opposed equally shared parenting. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Just a theory regarding equalityThe problem is that judges treat parent unequally in the first place. Feminists oppose "equality" in family law. Doesn't seem right for a millionaire to stiff his/her kid and pay $750 a month. Doesn't seem right that momma hires a nanny to raise the kid and lives off child support. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Just a theory regarding equalityIf feminists want equality then all parents should be forced to work and support their children under threat of imprisonment. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Rape case mistrial: Accuser testified that "there were times, yes, that I would tell him 'No,' but I didn’t mean it”That's only good advice if you have ESP. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 10:21 PM |
| 0 | GF won't blow BF: "Respect her issues with it." BF stops reciprocating: "You're selfish." Gotta love r/relationships.That and the young (read:immature) demographic of reddit. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 09:06 PM |
| 9 | [META] Can we stop posting links to Reddit posts we don't agree with?And stupid facebook conversations. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:33 PM |
| 3 | GF won't blow BF: "Respect her issues with it." BF stops reciprocating: "You're selfish." Gotta love r/relationships.I was wondering that too when I saw it this morning but it's a typical pattern. Man posts questions asking for help ~10 upvotes. Feminist concern troll asking questions ~50 upvotes Woman says dumb things on facebook ~100 upvotes | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Violence against women act.Probably because of trolls/sockpuppets that often manipulate voting in this subreddit. I just gave you an upvote. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Parenting: treat girls likes boys or boys like girls?Maybe so, I'm only aware of other studies that address the differences in parenting and it sounded familiar. ie. Fathers don't coddle children as much and encourage them to explore and take risks. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Parenting: treat girls likes boys or boys like girls?I can see advantages and drawbacks to both. I think what you have described is more of the differences between mother's and father's approach to parenting and not based on the difference between boys/girls. Who really wants a kid who overreacts everytime they fall down and can't get up by themselves? | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any up-to-date statistics on child custody? "Fathers who actively seek custody obtain either primary or joint physical custody over 70% of the time." - New England Law Review (1990)There's a lot of truth to this. Most fathers simply can't afford to spend $100,000 on a custody battle and have to settle with whatever they can get. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:08 PM |
| 1 | She said "A woman who sleeps with a lot of men is called a slut but a man is called stud. This is why feminism is important, because of double standards like this.", as a young feminist, don't understand why ALL of feminism is being discredited It's not, just a lot of the main tenets, like patriarchy theory, wage gap, rape culture, Duluthe model, etc. few of the posters here, they even say that women have not faced any discrimination and feminism is just BS. You may get those occaisional comments but it is certainly not a consensus. You previously used the word "oppression" which is ridiculous when compared to real oppressed people. I think you will find m… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Are there any up-to-date statistics on child custody? "Fathers who actively seek custody obtain either primary or joint physical custody over 70% of the time." - New England Law Review (1990)I know that in Canada that ~95% of disputed custody cases are awarded to the mother. Other than that there is a severe lack of statistics. Current case precedent is that if joint custody is disputed then the judge will award primary custody to the primary caregiver (whoever works less hours outside the home - usually mother) Joint custody is only awarded when it is agreed by both parents. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Violence against women act.To clarify, women's lobby groups and activists are funded by public money provided to the women's shelter industry. SAVE services is lobbying in Washington on our behalf. Get involved. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 02:51 PM |
| 2 | I am a soon to be divorced father of two that is about to get into a custody battle. Looking for a little help.I know guys that have ex wives shacked up and drinking/smoking away their support checks with their new BFs. You're going to need to get used to it and focus on your kids. Try to get as much time as you can with them. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Curious. What does mensrights think of the "Patriarchy?"I'm just noticing that the majority of the issues that feminists cite as oppressive can be traced back to capitalism. Yeah, pretty much but women are mostly their own worst enemies w.r.t. consumerism and unrealistic beauty standards. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 04:18 AM |
| -1 | I am a soon to be divorced father of two that is about to get into a custody battle. Looking for a little help.Sorry if this sounds harsh but you're going to have to get used to it because there's nothing you can do about it. You just gave her the house and set the precedent of her primary custody. She has all the power and can fuck as many douche bags as she wants any time she wants. All the judge cares about is YOUR money. Edit: You shouldn't have left. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 04:13 AM |
| 3 | “A father and mother, married, who live with their own child. And I pay support for that child. How ridiculous is that?”Don't shack up with women who have kids unless you are poor. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 04:47 PM |
| 6 | “A father and mother, married, who live with their own child. And I pay support for that child. How ridiculous is that?”Are they still paying the same amount they would have paid if he was the only one paying or do they split it? No, the amount is not split but rather evaluated separately based on income. Yes, it's clearly double dipping. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 04:47 PM |
| 2 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneWell yeah, it's within your rights but it also increases the likelihood of 'regret rape'. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:04 PM |
| 3 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneSo then, you're accusing me of victim blaming? Don't tell men not to hook up, tell women not to falsely accuse. Enjoy your hookup but don't pretend for a second that it is not an additional risk factor in sticking your dick in crazy. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:02 PM |
| 22 | “A father and mother, married, who live with their own child. And I pay support for that child. How ridiculous is that?”2 years common law in Canada and you're on the hook for child support for her children. It doesn't matter if the natural father is already paying, mothers can have multiple payers of child support for the same children. The standards for proving "acted like a father" are very low and arbitrary. Basically any excuse the judge can think of. [source: personal experience] | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:26 PM |
| 6 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneHow about ensuring that you have her consent when you have sex with her? That's just too obvious, everyone knows that already. constantly criticising feminists for creating a "culture in which women are constantly fearful of harassment!", No, just shitty statistics. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:22 PM |
| 2 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneDepends what you mean by "normal" dating behavior. I don't jump into bed with someone who I barely know. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:19 PM |
| 3 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneYes, I'm well aware that 'hooking up' has zero to do with getting to know someone. Unfortunately, that's what makes it risky because you don't know if you're sticking your dick in crazy and seduction techniques won't protect you from crazy. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Can you raise a mass murderer?Sons who have fond childhood memories of their fathers are more likely to be emotionally stable in the face of day-to-day stresses, according to psychologists who studied hundreds of adults of all ages. Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Memo to Media: Manhood, Not Guns or Mental Illness, Should Be Central in Newtown ShootingJackson Katz makes me want to puke. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneI don't date men and neither to ~95% of other men. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:33 AM |
| 1 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneAbusive women are far more prevalent, ~10% of the population. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:12 AM |
| 8 | I'm 28, in the middle of a divorce after 7 weeks of marriage (4 year relationship), because my wife had fallen 'out of love' but still went through with the wedding. I've learned a lot in the past few months that has made me a better man. Figured I'd share.I think you got off easy. Next time could be much worse. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:04 AM |
| 3 | This just happened to me, and I found it extremely disturbing and insulting.other men who face similar difficulties. Yes, like fathers. The problem that I have is teachers and principles pandering to mothers and neglecting fathers. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 03:02 AM |
| 5 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneIt's about 10% of rape claims, so that thousands of men each year. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:51 AM |
| 8 | I'm 28, in the middle of a divorce after 7 weeks of marriage (4 year relationship), because my wife had fallen 'out of love' but still went through with the wedding. I've learned a lot in the past few months that has made me a better man. Figured I'd share.Why bother with getting married ever again? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:46 AM |
| 1 | This just happened to me, and I found it extremely disturbing and insulting.There are definitely people who think like this, not just trolls | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:43 AM |
| 4 | This just happened to me, and I found it extremely disturbing and insulting.To hell with his sympathy, you have my respect sir. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:41 AM |
| 7 | This just happened to me, and I found it extremely disturbing and insulting.I had a father, but I would like to thank all of the male teachers that were great influences in my life and taught me to take an interest and excel in academics. Most, if not all of my favorite teachers were men. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:40 AM |
| 8 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating scene10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully Is Your Girlfriend or Wife a Professional Victim? 13 Signs Your Wife or Girlfriend is a Borderline or a Narcissist 12 Signs You Should Break Up With Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend or Spouse Is She a Crazy Bitch? A Quiz | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:30 AM |
| 0 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneIt's very practical advice because the more time that you spend developing a friendship and understanding who you are getting involved with, then the less likely you will become intimate with crazy. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Dear Men's Rights. I'm a female blogger seeking some help.I think there is some privilege to being a female and writing about gender issues. So many men seem to be too easily socially shamed for expressing an opinion but writers like GWW can get away with some pretty extreme statements without much criticism. Also, I think women are taken more seriously on gender/social issues and men's opinions are more easily excused/neglected. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 11:02 PM |
| 10 | My list of preemptive steps I take to avoid legal trouble - By a man in the dating sceneI recommend careful screening and learning to recognize red flags in behavior. Hook ups are very risky for false accusations and diseases. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 10:55 PM |
| 1 | My Dad has decided that he wants a divorce, and I would love some of your opinions on the matter. TLDR inside.Yeah, OP sounds like SRS troll. If not then I would like to share my experience as a teenager during my parents divorce. At the time I hated my father and was very defensive and supportive of my mother who I saw as an innocent victim of all this. It was only after I matured and got to know my father that I learned and understood what really happened and that he wasn't such a heartless monster that I originally thought. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 10:52 PM |
| 3 | The emergence and success of the MRM in Denmark: A study of the explosive growth of Danish masculinism in the past decade!Thanks for the reply. Is there a stronger preference for mediation rather than litigation with equal parenting? What happens when the mother is uncooperative? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 10:45 PM |
| 2 | mitt romney on single mothers and culture of violenceOminously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 10:40 PM |
| 6 | The emergence and success of the MRM in Denmark: A study of the explosive growth of Danish masculinism in the past decade!2007: New equal parenting laws are introduced, which makes men's situations in divorce court a thousand times better. How well is that working out for divorced fathers? Do you have any articles? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 09:48 PM |
| 3 | This is something feminists don't do very often...Supporting gay rights is a prerequisite to being an MRA? No, but I would distance myself from any "MRA" who made anti-gay activism a part of mens rights activism. Note that he was the one being divisive in attacking another MRA (Suz) so he gets the boot as a less valuable, more divisive "MRA". | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 12:14 PM |
| 6 | This is something feminists don't do very often...Have feminists ever called out Valeri Solanas or Andrea Dworkin for their extreme hatred? I don't think so. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Camille Paglia's 1995 Playboy interview: "Men must speak, and speak in their own voices, not voices coerced by feminist moralists."That's a great article, she's one of my favorite feminists. The majority of mainstream feminists hate her. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 12:32 AM |
| 6 | A hunch that something is missing in the discussion about the Sandy Hook shooter: Fatherlessness.You're not going find anything statistically significant from a small sample of mass murderers (Charles Manson, Ted Bundy, Marc Lepine, Andres Breivik) Sons who have fond childhood memories of their fathers are more likely to be emotionally stable in the face of day-to-day stresses, according to psychologists who studied hundreds of adults of all ages. Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 12:25 AM |
| 5 | In the Interest of Fair Exposure: An MRA blames Feminism for the recent school shooting.I think feminism shares some blame for a lot of things but this is just unsupported nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 06:52 PM |
| 6 | "This is an advertisement for the gun Adam Lanza used to murder 20 children and 6 adults. We need to talk about gun control and mental health, but we also need to have a conversation about American masculinity."I grew up with fairly traditional masculine beliefs but they were not at all like they are commonly portrayed by feminists. Traditional masculinity was very restrictive in when and how violence is acceptable. Guns were strictly limited to hunting for food, sport and self defense. Traditional masculinity place men's needs and security last and promoted sacrifice for others, especially women. Adam Lanza has nothing to do with traditional masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Help! My ex doesn't want me to see my sonShoot for joint custody/shared parenting, the judge should be obliged to at the very least maintain the status quo as long as it can be reasonably managed with his pre-school. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Women Do Not Benefit: The Science // Pity the author does not apply this logic about lack of women's agency to rape, sex crimes, divorce and child support issues.Pity the author does not apply this logic about lack of women's agency to rape, sex crimes, divorce and child support issues. She does. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Need source: Men vs women prison timesRACIAL, ETHNIC, AND GENDER DISPARITIES IN SENTENCING: EVIDENCE FROM THE U.S. FEDERAL COURTS* Whites receive the lowest average sentence of 32.1 months. In sharp contrast, Hispanics receive a sentence of 54.1 months and blacks receive 64.1 months, which are 68.5 percent and 99.6 percent larger than the average sentence for whites. Even more pronounced is the difference between males and females. The average sentence for males is 278.4 percent greater than that of females (51.5 versus 18.5 months)… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/12 04:41 AM |
| 8 | The Men's Rights Movement, CAFE and the University of Toronto | rabble.ca - WTF!cbc.ca and thestar.com are very pro-feminist with heavy handed censorship. I'm having a problem with one of the moderators in /r/canada too. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 04:52 PM |
| 16 | The Men's Rights Movement, CAFE and the University of Toronto | rabble.ca - WTF!FYI, rabble is mostly funded through Canadian union dues. I've been banned there for gasp posting statistics contrary to progressive thought. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 03:50 PM |
| 7 | Who are the Extremist MRAs and what do you think of them?This is what a rape apologist looks like | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 02:45 AM |
| 7 | r/mensrights, What actually is true feminism?This is easy to resolve, just look at those feminists in academia and political lobbying. Gender/victim feminism is the true feminism. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Who are the Extremist MRAs and what do you think of them?No, I think those are largely false accusations. The type of MRM strawmanning that is typically found in SRS/AMR :\ What we do have in fact is a recognition that a lot of 'dead beat dads' are actually dead broke dads or dead beaten dads. We also have a recognition that feminist jurisprudence has erased any expectation of fair trials and that innocent men are regularly sent to jail. However, the one thing different is that MEN understand what war actually is. It's feminists that think that a fail… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Who are the Extremist MRAs and what do you think of them?spend an awful lot of time spamming MRA-related forums. Yup, and so do feminists. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Who are the Extremist MRAs and what do you think of them?Manhood101 does not identify as MRA. They consider MRAs to be just another form of feminism. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Who are the Extremist MRAs and what do you think of them?We don't have extremists identifying as MRA in the same form of genocidal murderous bigotry as feminists do. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Mother of my child is not compromising now I filed a petition for visitation, do I have a chance?Do everything you can without lawyers and courts. Then take your agreement and spend a bit of money to talk to a lawyer, get advice and make it official. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 11:44 PM |
| 2 | NSWATM dead at last. Feminists' most serious attempt to focus on men has failed miserably.This doesn't mean much. I don't think many people ever took Oz seriously, except for hopeful feminists like Tom Matlack. The GMP serves no purpose anymore, they've been exposed as a feminist wasteland. Tom has shown himself to be a dishonest shill on too many occaisons. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 10:45 PM |
| 2 | How would feminism need to change before MRA's can co-operate happily with it?I asked Warren Farrell when he was on the Ultimate Mens Summit if he thought that men's advocates and feminists could ever worked together. His answer was only as a union/management relationship. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Mother of my child is not compromising now I filed a petition for visitation, do I have a chance?If she's not even breast feeding then there is absolutely no reason to deny extended visitation, even overnight. That should be your goal but you will appear a lot more reasonable if you propose gradually increasing your time. The problem with not having a lawyer is that lay people don't understand how to make court submissions (format / procedure). You could work out some arrangement with a lawyer/paralegal to help with court submissions. The problem with having a lawyer is that they use up all… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Mother of my child is not compromising now I filed a petition for visitation, do I have a chance?Your son is not too young to be away from his mother. Your visits may be only a few hours long though, scheduled in between feedings if he is being breast fed. If he's bottle fed, then he can be away for much longer. You will probably need to agree to quit/not smoke around your son. If you're honest about everything, then your ex is going to look like a big asshole for trying to keep your son away from you. I feel as if her and her family are making it difficult for me to see my son. #1 reason f… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 07:50 PM |
| 0 | What do the people of MR think of this poster?Link? | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Making excuses for murderous moms: The Winnipeg mothers who fell through the cracksFYI, Christie Blatchford is a prime example of right wing victim feminism. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Trying to Find Some False Rape Allegation Statistics.Here's a good summary | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why the stigma against divorced men who need to file to have their alimony/child support reduced?This happens quite often, Judges rarely reduce payments because they expect that you are capable of getting another job and maintaining the same level of income and if you aren't then it's your fault. Tabatha Southey is living quite nice in her mansion without barely ever working, she doesn't need to. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Have some questions/ Need advice...The situation has changed for the worse very rapidly and I would like it to be court ordered so that I can have visitation without having to feel like i'm underneath someone's thumb. Good idea, get it in writing. although won't stop you from feeling that way because the courts rarely ever enforce visitation. I just want to know if I need to hire a lawyer for this, or if one will be appointed. You need your own lawyer. I live in Illinois in LaSalle County, if I need a lawyer, can anyone reccomend… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Writing a paper on domestic violence, any help?The gender paradigm in domestic violence research and theory: Part 1—The conflict of theory and data http://www.mediaradar.org/docs/Dutton_GenderParadigmInDV-Pt1.pdf GENDER SYMMETRY IN PARTNER VIOLENCE: EVIDENCE AND IMPLICATIONS FOR PREVENTION AND TREATMENT http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/V70-Gender-symmetry-PV-Chap-11-09.pdf Transforming a flawed policy: A call to revive psychology and science in domestic violence research and practice http://domestic-violence.martinsewell.com/DuttonCorvo2006.pdf… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 01:58 AM |
| 3 | International Marc Lepine Day?nor have I heard anyone state that today's remembrances should be about violence against women. You're either a liar or extremely isolated. http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/12/06/idUS116737+06-Dec-2012+MW20121206 | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 07:05 PM |
| 6 | International Marc Lepine Day?3 self-identified MRAs that I know personally Bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 07:03 PM |
| 2 | International Marc Lepine Day?Are you asking if I have integrity? Yes, if you have integrity then you CAN NOT support feminist activists that push various biased statistics on domestic violence, wage gap, etc. Why do you call yourself a feminist? | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 07:03 PM |
| 5 | International Marc Lepine Day?Lepine has been the poster boy for domestic violence fund raising and activism in Canada for 20 years now. For Canadian feminists, he's not just representative of MRA's but representative of all domestic violence and those same feminists use the white ribbon campaign to place collective blame and responsibility on all Canadian men (and boys) | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 06:20 PM |
| 3 | International Marc Lepine Day?I'm not fucking stupid enough to think that the majority of Feminists glorify the murder of men. OP? | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Leftists taking over AVfM?Bern is too high strung and it's become obvious to me at least that his loyalties are to republicans first. He is divisive and destructive to men's solidarity. His videos are annoying too. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 06:14 PM |
| 3 | International Marc Lepine Day?Lepine was a traditionalist anti-feminist who killed female engineers. The blog you posted is pretty much defunct and there is no widespread celebrate of lepine, just a few scattered trolls. As an engineer how do you rationalize the feminist mis-use of statistical data? I'm an engineer too and feminists / social scientists disgust me. Have you no integrity? | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Best agruements and counter-arguments against feminismHere's a few http://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/comments/w4ioz/bom_link_and_quote_farms/ I suggest you start your own reference library, there's a lot more to learn. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 02:33 AM |
| 10 | Men's rights speech stifled, only on a Canadian campusHe's not like Bill O'Reilly at all, but that's the rhetoric used to discredit the Canadian right. The Canadian centre is shifted left to the point that the Canadian right wing is more like American democrats. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Male on male rapeYou said you wanted to discuss the issue. I'm not sure where to start. Rape is a bad thing and I think male victims are shamed in many ways and their experiences diminished. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Male on male rapeNot you, Lyonette. I'm willing to give you a fair chance, SRS or not. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Male on male rapeWell, he needs to be informed that the rule of thumb is a feminist myth. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:46 PM |
| 9 | Male on male rapeDisregard her, she's a troll. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Male on male rapeOur focus should be on victims, not on perpetrators. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:42 PM |
| 2 | My daughter's mom is threatening to take my kid away from me. Please help.You have to keep your cool and always be the bigger person. Be very careful if she trys to instigate arguments, do not engage. Try to smooth things out however possible and reassure her that you hold no bad feelings and that any conflict between you two is the worst possible thing for your daughter. Alway speak in terms of what is best for your daughter. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 10:40 PM |
| 12 | My daughter's mom is threatening to take my kid away from me. Please help.I have smoked weed Just quit, it will become a non-issue real fast. but I feel like she has turn them against me. If you can't see your daughter, neither can your parents. Money I don't have Talk to your parents or anyone willing to lend you money, you are better off being the first to file in court and getting visitation in writing. Can I refuse to give her to her mom when she comes to pick her up? Sort of but the cops and social services will be at your door and on her side. You are better off… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 09:54 PM |
| 2 | A query for you allThe centre is shifted more to the left in Canada. A typical right wing Canadian is more like an American democrat. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 09:14 PM |
| 3 | A query for you allThere is, they are ahead of us with their 1 in 3 campaigns and mensheds. Even the UK is ahead of us. F4J is far more effective than any group in Canada. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 09:12 PM |
| 4 | A query for you allDunno, maybe there's a stronger reaction to social engineering, but if that were the case then I'd expect even more coming out of sweden and UK. Lots from Australia too for such a small country. More to the point, why does it seem that there are so few MRAs per capita in the good ol' USA? | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 09:11 PM |
| 2 | "A few regard Lépine as hero of men's rights, and glorify his actions." Wikipedia Trolls?He has been lauded as a traditionalist hero of anti-feminism by one or two people and trolls trolling. Lepine never had anything to do with men's rights, ever! http://www.torontosun.com/news/canada/2010/03/31/13429581-qmi.html | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 09:06 PM |
| 12 | Women’s Federation sells fear and hatred in place of facts/r/canada thread has been invaded by srs | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Domestic abuse: inviting men to be part of the solution (whiteribbon campaign)That's generally the case for Globe and Mail journalism. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Getting sick of all these posts relating to Women and Feminism being intolerantI share your concerns and I agree that a lot of posts don't belong here. This is not an organized community, there is no control over who comments and a very lax moderator policy. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Getting sick of all these posts relating to Women and Feminism being intolerantYou're not crazy but you're post is off topic and I'm downvoting it. Address the issue on threads you think aren't relevant. I'm doubtful that anything will ever be done since there seems to be a popular interest in a wider range of topics. You'll just have to be satisfied with sorting through a bunch of petty/questionable posts to find the ones that you like. How often are you involved in discussion here for anyone to take you seriously? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Why Canadian family law system is broken: 3 children deadNormally sarcasm doesn't bother me, but when children die I'm just not in the mood for joking. I don't consider father's winning in court to be a success. Sole custody arrangements are always a tragedy for the children, especially so in this case. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Some Important FactsThanks, I put it here for future reference. http://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/comments/w4ioz/bom_link_and_quote_farms/ | /r/MensRights | 04/12/12 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Just found this. Go canada?2 years common law = married and liable for children that aren't even yours even if they already have two capable parents. The only difference (in Ontario at least) is that common law does not automatically give her 1/2 of your property (matrimonial home), only 1/2 of equity for period of cohabitation. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/12 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Petition to ban twitter posts from /r/MRAWhy have mods? I'm not going to bother explaining since you're an obvious troll/sock puppet. They're doing a good job. They removed this post after I reported it. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Petition to ban twitter posts from /r/MRAYou're a nobody. Why should your opinion matter? | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisI'm not making it a defense. Talking to the person who is offending you is merely the first step in resolving issues within a workplace. To start talking about it behind their back (gossip) and taking the issue outside the workplace will destroy the business and workplace relations and won't resolve anything. The problem is that "offense" is entirely subjective and depends on the individual. You gotta speak up and stop thinking that people can read your mind. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Petition to ban twitter posts from /r/MRARedditor for 12 hours. Why do you consider yourself MRA? | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 09:40 PM |
| 0 | English Paper - Misandry And The Men's Rights Movementhttp://books.google.com/books?id=y8rI7snipZcC&printsec=frontcover&dq=nathanson+young&hl=en&sa=X&ei=Yhu9UMbsGJKJ0QHH1YG4Ag&ved=0CDkQ6AEwAw http://books.google.com/books?id=ZHm0_5lRo3EC&printsec=frontcover&dq=nathanson+young&hl=en&sa=X&ei=Yhu9UMbsGJKJ0QHH1YG4Ag&ved=0CDMQ6AEwAQ#v=onepage&q=nathanson%20young&f=false http://books.google.com/books?id=JGocoMfjt_oC&printsec=frontcover&dq=nathanson+young&hl=en&sa=X&ei=Yhu9UMbsGJKJ0QHH1YG4Ag&ved=0CDAQ6AEwAA | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisI don't see why that is relevant. I hate {insert your ethnicity} and I don't think its a big deal to joke about it. It had nothing to do with hate or ethnicity. Dude was making joking remarks about his own weight as well. Then tell me how well you take it, like a big man that you think you are. First step is to put on your big girl panties and tell him that those conversations are unacceptable. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 07:10 PM |
| 0 | How do I deal with thisNext time go to a relevant sub-reddit. If you don't like the advice, fuck off. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 07:09 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with thisYou've missed an important step. Until you do that, it's not a big issue. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with thisI understand. You haven't even bothered talking to him yet and are making a big issue out of something that is easily resolved. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with thisI want to ask him to stop Then ask him! What the hell is the point of any further discussion if you haven't even taken this basic step? Yeah, you sound like a trouble maker. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:59 PM |
| 0 | How do I deal with thisWell, make that first step before you make a big issue over it and consider taking other actions. Yes, you are gossiping. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with thisThe problem is that you never even told your boss that it bothered you but you want to make a big legal issue over it. You're a trouble maker. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisI think presenting him with a list that looks like it's ready for legal action is entirely missing the previous steps of actually talking about it and telling him it's unwanted. It's just going to create a bad work atmosphere and label OP as overreacting / complainer / liability. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisThat is the first step to resolve the issue. So far, your boss doesn't even know that it is an issue and probably doesn't think it's a big deal to joke about weight. You address the issue by talking about it. If you can't talk about it then write a letter. It's only an issue if it continues after that. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:39 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with thisMRA's how did you react when you were on the receiving end of harassment? What did you do? How did you stop it? I told the person how I felt about it without gossiping behind their back and trying to make a legal issue over something so easily resolved by actually talking to them. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisIt always surprises me how people will bitch and complain (gossip) behind someone's back and never even bother to actually address the issue with that person. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with thisIf something is bothering you then you need to actually talk to your boss about it before going and complaining about it to others. This has nothing to do with mens rights. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I'm pleasently surprised with White Ribbon's new Be A Man Campaign: "Gentlemen, it's time to write a new code of manhood"The characterization "old" masculinity is false and their "new" masculinity (white ribbon campaign) is just old fashioned chivalry wrapped up in male disposability and biased feminist statistics. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Swedish Toys R Us Catalog Tries to Blur Gender RolesI did exactly that. I about two rubbermaid bins full of lego and enough to make a tower that reaches the ceiling. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Swedish Toys R Us Catalog Tries to Blur Gender RolesIn general yes, but the variation between individuals is greater. That means that those general / average observations are pretty much useless when applied to individuals. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Swedish Toys R Us Catalog Tries to Blur Gender RolesI'm going to agree with you because I understand your point and I've read the research. This is true on average and in general. However, the variability between individuals is much greater than the average differences between sexes. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 09:40 PM |
| 7 | "Walk a Mile in her Shoes." Why is there no "Walk a Mile in His Shoes"Sensible women wear sensible shoes. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 09:35 PM |
| 3 | "Walk a Mile in her Shoes." Why is there no "Walk a Mile in His Shoes"That's much like telling women to go start their own government and corporations if they want to be involved. The issue is still much bigger than that. DV is not or should not be a gender issue. If we truly want to address the issue as a society then we need to stop segregating people into groups and stereotyping them based on their sex. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 09:35 PM |
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