Do you go on dates?

vandaalen · 2018-07-09T18:16:25+00:00

1st date coffee or one or two drinks

2nd date at either of your places

1st date should be foremostly regarded as a chance for her to qualify herself to you and to get a first grasp on her personality, to try to determine if she is crazy, and not to have sex. If the chemistry is right, it can turn into sex though.

Girls at the club I'll usually try to fuck right from the start. Club game is much more sexually aggressive.

microgum · 2018-07-09T18:14:26+00:00

Sometimes straight to house.

Some will straight be too uncomfortable for that move though so I’ll bring em to a park or hiking.

I don’t pay, no.

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-09T20:13:12+00:00

I don't invite girls to my house first thing. There's been dudes who have done this and end up having a gang of guys breaking in and beating his ass and stealing all the shit.

I meet them in public for the first date, usually for coffee. Like someone said below, it's to feel the chick out and see if she's a nutjob or not, and to see if there's chemistry.

Coffee -> Bar/Drinks (even better with a live band playing) -> One of our places (preferably mine since it impresses them) This is the order I go by right now for a first date.

If there isn't much chemistry or I'm not sure if this is going to lead to a "late night", I'll either end the date at coffee or the bar. I'll think about the date and either hit her up in a few hours for an activity date, or I soft next if I'm not interested.

After a few successful dates you'll start to know the signs to look for. If a chick is dropping lines like, "You're not going to be getting any tonight with that attitude ;)", you know you can skip certain things and bring her straight to the house. The most important thing is to have a fluid plan, and already have some type of strategy in your mind about how you're going to do this. Keep gauging her interest and analyze her body language. Proper planning prevents piss poor performance.

martianartisan · 2018-07-09T22:44:09+00:00

It depends, with experience you'll know how to read them properly. If you've already created sexual tension when you met at the club (for example) and she's given clear signs she's down to go to your place then invite her over directly. Otherwise drinks or coffee. And your place on the second date. Some will require 3 dates, which is still fine.

Title	Do you go on dates?
Author	TopDawgTRP
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	July 9, 2018 6:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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