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Who's abusing who?

McFurious

March 6, 2012

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Title	Who's abusing who?
Author	McFurious
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 6, 2012 4:22 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/qkabv/whos_abusing_who/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/whos-abusing-who.1026518 https://theredarchive.com/post/1026518

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I see it as a situation of mutual escalation that EITHER of them could have easily diffused. But he chose to continue escalating, and SHE CHOSE to continue escalating.

It ended when she struck him and he struck her back. Then she decided she didn't want to escalate... because it was no longer free jabbing that she could get away with because "you can't hit a woman".

The problem here is that you are trying to assign blame to only one person (just like most people who don't really understand DV). DV is, almost always, a mutual decision. This video plays out a mutual decision. She jabs him, emotionally and eventually physically, until he retaliates.

If you mess with the bull, you get the horns. I can't be so disposing of men nor gynocentric towards women to say that this was "all his fault"

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