So a little back story... Me, 19. Her, 21. Her ex (muslim) , 30.

They dated for 2 years, supposedly she loved him. He was absolutely perfect except that he was wanting to get married and due to his faith sex was very occasional.

Despite this "Love" I stole her VERY quickly. Like 3 weeks of gaming her and she left him for me.

The problem is, I found a comparison chart she wrote comparing me to her ex. Something her psychologist suggested she do. Her ex seemed to tick all of the bluepill boxes while I checked most of the redpill boxes.

So everything seems logical so far right? Moral of the story is that hypergamy is a bitch and love doesn't mean shit.

BUT HERE IS WHERE I'M SO FUCKING CONFUSED. She says that if their sex would be good then she would have definitely married him. And she claims that his "personality" is much better then mine and their relationship was "deep" and "mature" where as I'm more of a "Not so deep, lets have sex" guy...

So my Hypothesis is the wall... but she is still young and beautiful. So what the fuck?

FURTHERMORE on the bottom of the note it said "Best option, discuss swinging with them". So I asked her "What do you mean swinging" and she was like "I'd have two boyfriends."

My other hypothesis is that she is just making noise with her female mouth connected to her female brain and nothing she says means anything.

My other likely hypothesis is that he is not AS bluepill as he seems but still very bluepill.

Anyway please help me figure out what likely is the most realistic scenario because I'm so fucking confused. All the signs and actions say that I'm redpill and he is bluepill so it should be case closed. But why would she want to consider swinging then?

Here is everything I know about her ex:

- She claims she is completely sexually unattractive to him and even kissing him sucks.

-They know everything about each other and can share secrets

-He would definitely help her if she needed a loan or help no matter what help was needed where as I'd be more hesitant.

- After she broke up with him, he did not have sex with anyone since (Like 6 months). Infact he is still wanting to get back with her. (Bluepill af). She said she knows this because again they can "Share secrets and have deep meaningful conversations".

- He is financially stable.

- The one redpill thing I heard about him was that "He has his boundaries and I KNEW NOT to fuck with those boundaries".

-The other redpill thing I heard about him was that when he goes to a bar he has no problem talking to the women (Mind you this doesn't mean shit they could just be leaching drinks off him).

Here is the list to the best of my memories.

Topic-------Him --------- Me

Sex - Horrible - Awesome

Quality time - Awesome - Okay

Secrets/knowledge about each other - Awesome - Like nothing

Helps me - Always - Occasionally

Like 2 other points that basically follow this pattern that I don't really remember.

So guys, for real. Why does she want to consider swinging. I don't understand.