I think most of us in here (especially late teens/ early 20s) miss the point in our success with women. R/k selection, aren't we addressing the wrong audience?

Ambilicous · 2018-07-19T12:23:57+00:00

You won't be able to effectively date any women as long as you put them on a pedestal which you do. And if you deny that, you should ask yourself: How do you know what kind of girl she is by looking?

To answer your question though: Become an interesting masculine man that all her (slutty) friends adore and from that position of power you can easily chat her up, screen her and verify that she really has these kinds of qualities you are projecting on to her and then you plow here like every other girl.

FatmanO · 2018-07-19T13:53:23+00:00

19 yo..

Stopped reading here. You are just a boy. Reading is ok, it's great that you try to learn psychology and the whole dynamics of SMV between men and women but you are in no position to give an advice to people of your own age even. You can help your 6 year old nephew, but not guys in their late teens.

Guys of your age are too young to have relationships anyway. Just fuck around, date multiple women at a time if you can manage this or whatever, but your main focus should be on developing yourself as a man first. Skills, hobbies, career that will help you later in life when you become mature enough to have a real relationship with a woman.

You can fuck same women that are your age now when you are in your 30s or 40s. Difference is that you will be more mature and have experience in what to do with them and how to mold then into a woman that you like. Or maybe just use them for sex until the day that you die, doesn't matter which path you will choose.

PatricONeel · 2018-07-19T12:34:30+00:00

I don't think genetics determine your r/K type as much as environment . Pretty sure humans can do both depending on their situation.

i.e if you are in a ghetto or a war zone where children die young you are incentivized to have more children.

TopTRP · 2018-07-19T13:36:20+00:00

Firstly, you're projecting when you say "most of us here" fall into the same category that you put yourself in.

The largest subsection of guys who come here are just looking for a quick answer or some tricks to get pussy.

In other words:

What I've noticed there seem to be a lot of R type men in the community ( or R type wannabe)

That's the reason you see the same kind of advice given so much. People are fucking morons, especially the "r type" who can't plan ahead and seek instant gratification.

You know the best way to reach people like that? Give them very easy to follow directions so they can't fuck it up.

That's why you see all these hard set rules in the RP Bible.

Lift Spin Plates Agree and Amplify IDGAF

That is the status quo here because it will help 90% of the posters who can't think without their dick.

What would be the best dating strategy for K type?

The part of your post focusing on some alternative strategy for K type men is really just another spin on trying to deny AWALT.

If you've been here long enough, you should know how often that kind of thing gets posted.

BUT BUT BUT this girl is different than the rest!

You know what? THERE ARE actually some girls out there, who have low N counts, you can marry and grow old together with and she will never cheat on you or divorce rape you.

Do you think it's a good idea for us to go around telling the fucking retards who post here that?

Of course not, because 99.9% of the time the girl in question is just your standard slut.

masculine who cares about her, and not a guy that is indifferent, aloof I doesn't care if she walks away

It's common knowledge here that LTR's require some beta characteristics to be thrown in. That's basically what you're talking about.

So in other words, YES. Some

I'll finish with this. If you're capable of thinking for yourself and trust your own judgement, don't be afraid to challenge the status quo.

If you find some 'k type' girl and don't feel like you want to follow TRP guidelines with her? Fine. Maybe she loses attraction to you because of it.

As long as you're smart enough to recognize it and cut your fucking losses, who gives a shit?

[deleted] · 2018-07-19T15:38:15+00:00

What does R/K selection mean?

AManIsBusy · 2018-07-19T12:41:23+00:00

I think you're definitely on the right track, but I disagree with this one part:

>Spinning plates through 20s and 30s sounds like a good strategy for an R type of man. However in my opinion the stratey for K type of man would be to date up to 3 women of K type and help her to develop into an Alpha K type woman.

Why would you date someone so that they can become an alpha female? I do think the alpha/beta article on women that you linked is full of issues, so maybe that's where your logical fallacy is. Alpha/beta are not developmental terms... they refer to social hierarchy and power. One can fully develop but not have power nor the potential to obtain it; people are just different. Also, women don't typically obtain power in the same way that men do, so it's sort of disingenuous to use alpha/beta with them like we use it with men. It'd be better to just use a more technical term, really.

I do think what you describe (r/K selection) is real, and moreover, this sub is definitely not a model for any sort of behavior or morality. What it is though is a honest (honest in analysis, not necessarily in use) approach to analyzing social situations (particularly communication) and bits of self-help stuff here and there (which, to be fair, is kind of amateurish compared to what you can find elsewhere).

An alpha man definitely doesn't have to make sex is primary goal in life. A manchild will, but a real man has other shit to do. At that point, it's totally logical to look for long term relationships. Regarding how TRP plays into this, you may have broken ideas for how to become this man if you grew up without a dad, or without a good one. Part of it is being a certain person, and part of it is just communicating that correctly to the woman.

Title	I think most of us in here (especially late teens/ early 20s) miss the point in our success with women. R/k selection, aren't we addressing the wrong audience?
Author	JohnDick2k
Upvotes	17
Comments	17
Date	July 19, 2018 10:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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