I posted a question yesterday and instead of being patient and waiting for asktrp advice, I decided to say something that in hindsight makes me seem like an asshole (I told her "we're going bowling on the 24th" she said "not if you ask me like that" and I said "aight see you then") and now she's mad at me. She told her best friend and her best friend texted me and said "once in a lifetime huh." I replied with a question mark, but realized that's what I told to the girl as a joke that I was once in a lifetime.