Man gets used by a Bi girl ; "You were a glorified dildo, tossed away once this girl deciphered her own sexual confusion, and nobody likes to feel disposable"

spagma · 2011-09-03T20:54:43+00:00

I dated a girl in my early twenties that was pretty sure she was gay, but felt compelled to date boys. She informed me of this a few dates in, and I could see why she felt that way. We stayed friends for a while, and continued to "date", but it was really just us going out and checking out other women together. It was pretty cool, and neither of us got hurt from it.

Cassio · 2011-09-03T22:39:39+00:00

How exactly is this men's rights related?

2011-09-05T05:49:45+00:00

You're allowed to feel upset. You were used.

becomes

Just let it go. Clinging to your hurt feelings just isn't worth it

Great way to say "suck it up and accept your shame at being lied to and used for sex by a manipulative person LIKE A MAN!" The columnist Lara Crigger even manages to get in a pithy "you don't get an Xbox Achievement for staying friends" comment, showing she's hip and with it.

Meanwhile, she actually seems to side more with the lesbian manipulator than the actual victim in all this; had this been a woman, saying that she was manipulated and used by a bisexual guy who just screwed her to see what it felt like, would she act the same way?

calonord · 2011-09-03T16:13:37+00:00

why would he want to stay friends with a lesbian

Title	Man gets used by a Bi girl ; "You were a glorified dildo, tossed away once this girl deciphered her own sexual confusion, and nobody likes to feel disposable"
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Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	September 3, 2011 3:24 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/k36sz/man_gets_used_by_a_bi_girl_you_were_a_glorified/
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