Hi all! I’ve slowly come to see the value of TRP, and mostly have been lurking until now.

In short, meet a girl at college. I make her buy me breakfast (she had meal points, I had spent all mine away on drunk food), and we really connected at the end of the school year. Things ramp up, and she broke with her bf to start talking to me seriously.

Things were going good for me, I talked to her when I wanted to, and not a moment more. I always prioritized me and my friends, and in combination with my summer internship (not summer common for freshman to be paid), I have little time. Needless to say after i work on self improvement, there is little time for her.

I invite her to visit my family, and she quickly jumps on the idea. Buys a 200 usd flight I suggested, and will visit in a few weeks. At first I thought all was well, but I seem to be wrong.

After this event she seems distant, and no longer always responds to my messages. Before, she would never leave a Snapchat on read, regardless of how little effort I put it.

Thanks for the thoughts guys, cheers.