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Beta awkwardly asks out girl

The_BitterTruth

January 25, 2014
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Title Beta awkwardly asks out girl
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The_BitterTruth

Upvotes 14
Comments 33
Date January 25, 2014 10:12 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]puaSenator 22 points23 points24 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, let's turn it into a fucking marriage proposal... That surely wont let her know how fucking high she is on that pedestal.

[–]Evers89 31 points32 points33 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dried every vagina in a ten mile radius...

[–]zeedub 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

http://youtu.be/22ec8o7p2bI

The last one is the worst thing you will ever see

[–]rumbledust 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my God these videos are like porn to me.

[–]redbluepilling 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The death of men: 'I la-la-la-love the way you..you cut your cupcakes and hold them' and then goes on to mention how they cuddle. That's what we're churning out these days. Putting women on a pedestal, worshiping how they cut their pastry.

[–]Costafarian 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those men pedestal-ized their girls so much they were afraid of falling from such a height so they did what anyone would do: run the fuck away before it got worse.

Making shit like that such a spectacle in front of a large crowd would put pressure on anyone. Suppose it were the opposite situation, where the man was being asked to marry by the woman like that? What if at that point in the relationship you just weren't ready to say yes?

If some bitch I was dating for a few months decided to propose to me at a basketball game on live TV or in a food court at a mall where we met. And I had no serious intentions at that time or anything, of course I would fucking say no. What choice would you have otherwise? Say yes, please the crowd and lie to your SO? Then tell them later that they need to talk about it more first?

Stupid bullshit. Those idiots put their women in a position where they had the potential to be the bad guy. And no girl wants to be the bad guy. But she also doesn't want to lie to his face and go against her own self-interests. And most women these days value their own self-interests over everything (this includes friends, family, co-workers, lovers, etc.), she won't want to put in that much effort to bullshit her way out of it. Not unless she was some Dark Triad bitch or something.

Bottom line: Don't propose in public, nor do you fucking make a spectacle of something as simple as saying "Marry me?". As if it was like the bitch won the Mega Millions or something. I don't speak from experience but I would talk about it first. If she said yes I would make a spectacle of it by throwing a party at my place, invite both our families and make a big announcement. You know, to the people who actually would give a shit about the marriage.

[–]VictorFIreFish 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow, I really hope that last one was an act or something..

[–]gwizmcpyro 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Completely random thought, but that last guy sounded exactly like Ken Kaniff.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, that last one is painfully awkward. "Can we talk about this later?" The food court one was bad too. Who proposes in front of a freakin' food court Sbarro?

One guy who had a failed marriage proposal turned it around and made a documentary about himself called Unhung Hero: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghPZ3KxAYSQ I've not watched it yet, but good on him for at least trying to do something a bit more interesting than fail at a marriage proposal.

[–]ADPowers001 -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i dont think a single one if those is real

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Painful on so many levels.

Notice how the girl says no, but keeps the gift anyway. This is a clear sign that she's a taker and not a giver. She'll suck a beta dry for every dollar and every spare second of time he has with no remorse, and she'll give nothing in return.

A kind woman will return a gift given with romantic intentions if she is not interested. I've met women who were either raised to do this or had an innate sense of right and wrong, but they are not common.

Of course, the best solution is to be a Skittles Man: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/

Edit: clarification

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, I just re-read that skittles article - I knew it was good, but I forgot it was pure RP gold:

When you know the score, when you understand that this life is all there is and all there ever will be and your legacy in gold or works or kids means nothing when your consciousness is obliterated to nothing and your deathbed is lined with the garland of regret and pleasures denied and the memory of your decades of pointless sacrifice crawls slowly across the walls like night shadows to suffocate you in your final doom… only then will you look your blushing bride in the eye and inform her that there will be no $15,000 wedding flowers and she can hit the bricks if that’s unacceptable to her.

[–]salami_inferno 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Notice how the girl says no, but keeps the gift anyway. This is a clear sign that she's a taker and not a giver.

To be fair she was forced into an awkward situation where he was the one to shut the door. If I was in a situation like that it would be an easy mistake to not be able to give the gift back before he closed the door.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point. Sometimes it is also nice to return the gift afterwards so that you don't embarrass the person.

What was weird was that she accepted the gift and then just stood there shaking her head indicating a refusal, contributing to the awkwardness. I suppose rejecting someone can be hard sometimes. The whole situation was terrible.

[–]WeAreAllSheep 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is true. In my younger days, when a first date went south and the girl was clearly not interested in me anymore, the kinder women would insist on paying for their half of their meal (even after I said I would get the check). That was maybe 20% of them.

The rest would just let me get the check, even when we both knew we weren't going to talk to each other again.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish there were more women like this - I'm surprised it was as high as 20% in your case.

[–]AveofSpades 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wow. This dude is doing at all wrong, didn't even get he hint when all the trim in the room was laughing at him. SMH

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]AveofSpades 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shake my head

[–]Blaw40 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Couldn't watch it all the way through. I could feel the awkwardness. Made me to uncomfortable.

[–]Casanova-Quinn 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude is wearing an "I heart Miley Cyrus" t-shirt... smh

[–]winnnnnnnnn -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

idk man odd future is pretty red pill lol: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_yjHfAyh80

[–]Costafarian 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is some Omega shit right here.

I'm embarrassed for the guy right now. If I had been right there while that dumb motherfucker got on one knee I would have punched him in the face.

[–]SomersetRaglan 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

gotta respect how she handled it.

[–]FinalEquin0x 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just throwing it out there, I'm near damn positive that guys was joking around. His huge smile on his face at the end, him closing the door on her, locking it, and then sprinting back to the camera?

Sounds like someone wanted to make a "funny" internet video.

[–]sadshark 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Youtube comment:

wow wtf why would she le friendzone him like that! im sure he's a super nice guy

Have I internalized RP so well that I wonder in what fucking parallel universe are these people living in? I can only view that comment as being sarcastic, but it probably isn't.

[–]yea_tht_dnt_go_there 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I thought the "le" gave it away as sarcasm.

[–]sadshark 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, i filtered that out when i first read it. So it's definitelly sarcasm.

[–]asaspade5 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

WOW.....what a waste of testicles.

[–]WeAreAllSheep 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

After this, the cameraman bangs all 3 girls at once while the poor proposer guy watches

[–]rednukleus1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What even happened, his wet blanketness drowned out the entire scene into absurdity. I heart Mikey Cyrus tshirt is the nail in the coffin.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I was expecting the girl to at least be a hot babe way out of his league. Instead it was a marginal girl who looks like she will be full on hamplanent by the end of school..... wtf.

The funny thing is she will probably get pumped and dumped a bunch, and claim "all these men only like me for my pussy!!!".. meanwhile the dude in the video probably has legitimate feelings for her as a human being.

[–]SupALupRT 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think thats horseshit. If she was ugly his "feelings about her great personality" would never happen. Guys just want to get it in, Girls just want to be entertained.

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