Originally posted in 2XC. Guy who, after years of Women's Studies courses, suggests women fuck their boyfriends in the ass to get the boyfriends to better understand them. Apparently it worked for the creeper author. Vomit.

2011-03-31T03:45:22+00:00

The fair comparison is that if he asks to take her anally, he should be willing to let her take him anally.

It is just plain retarded for her to act like vaginal and anal sex are the same though. Try telling any woman that if she is willing to have vaginal sex she should be willing to have anal sex - let me know how that goes.

girlwriteswhat · 2011-03-31T19:03:22+00:00

Speaking as a queer woman, a bit of a freak, and one who has a special affection for anal...um, yuck.

Not the idea of a man getting himself pegged by his gf. Shit, if he likes having his prostate stimulated and his gf's cool with that, more power to them both. I'm intelligent enough to understand that as long as it's a woman doing it to him, and as long as he's not picturing her as a man in order to get off, he's probably just as straight as he always thought he was. There's a reason the anus is covered with the same type of skin as the genitals, and with a high concentration of nerve endings. It's supposed to feel good.

But pretending that getting a little what-what in the you know where is some bizarre, twisted version of feminist solidarity with women... That's kind of sick.

It's also kind of sick to imply that being penetrated sexually in any orifice is somehow tantamount to being "stabbed". Certainly, being penetrated against one's will, whether you're male or female, is a violation. But equating all penetrative sex--even that dirty, nasty anal kind--as a potentially violent act that requires enormous amounts of trust is ridiculous.

Gay men have sex with strangers all the time (not all of them, but I'd guess as many or more as straight men). I've had sex with strangers. Hell, I've been (non-violently) sexually assaulted, and I'm pretty sure I'd rather go through that again than be stabbed in the back.

I've never gotten the whole feminist hypocrisy that "women's bodies should not be important", while at the same time taking one thing we do with our bodies--sex--and turning it into an almost political act that basically says "Our bodies are sacred". Our bodies must be treated with the proper amount of tenderness, reverence, love and respect because our bodies are EVERYTHING, and the smallest violation of said body will make us question our self-worth forever. But they're not who we are! How dare you even think they're important in any way!

Ma99ie · 2011-03-31T02:36:27+00:00

Max Levant is not the record holder, he is the record.

2011-03-31T02:57:27+00:00

I don't even... anal sex is an entirely different matter than vaginal.

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