background: plate turned ltr, been about 7 months total seeing her. we both work long hours and are both career focused. whenever we see each other on the weekends, no complaints, constant sex. but during the week, sometimes she plays the "too tired" card. As such, I try to limit meeting up with her during the week.

for example: the other night, a weeknight, she wanted to see me so I go over. watching a show, she falls asleep during the last ~20 minutes. I tell her she should get some sleep and leave, when I usually sleep over. And I've never been one to force a girl to have sex, especially if she's going to be a starfish, so I wasn't too aggressive on initiating sex. I've always had the mindset that she should want to have sex with me as much as I do with her.

so my question: am I being unreasonable expecting sex every time we hang out or do I just need to be more aggressive on initiating