What's your take on girls, who hit the wall, coming on to you?

Docbear64 · 2016-04-22T22:38:21+00:00

From what i've read the issue with dating older women is that they are far more likely to " trap" you be that making sure you impregnate them , pushing for marriage, basically they want a husband and a lot of women will do anything to make you into one . The last thing you want is someone you just wanted a night of fun with to become forever bound to you .

Instead of thinking about it from their position consider it from yours, why settle for older women if you can have younger ones? Why waste time on an old picky chick who needs to keep you in order to feel she's worth a damn when you can have fun with a 20 year old hottie and be one of her blissful memories when she is that lonely 30 year old ?

an to a degree you are pedastalizing them remember the woman in her 30's who is to picky to find a husband has decided she is too good for an average guy and since you're above average you'll do . she had her fun on the Cock carousel and now is trying to find her forever cock now that she's too old to get whomever she wants ..... do you want to be her forever cock ?

As for finding a FWB relationship open up tinder, or some other dating app , go on simple dates, i think your LTR potential usually reflects how much energy you put into a date. if your first date is a " relationship date" it will lead to a relationship ... when you fuck a chick you met in a bar it sets the tone pretty easily.

good luck

7Fig · 2016-04-22T23:11:14+00:00

You saying you should probably just get laid is confirmation that you already have the mentality you will do anything for pussy = pedestal.

If you are "hanging out" with these 30 somethings you are their beta orbiter and they will consume your resources and wait for Chad.

You are dead wrong for not treating them as plates; the one who mentioned she is looking for marriage material; probably made you qualify yourself to her.

You are in over your head. The best thing is to do is blow your 30 something FRIENDS off (don't worry they'll come begging for your attention soon). Reset the tone and be clear in your own mind about what your standards are.

thenarrrowpath · 2016-04-22T23:57:06+00:00

I rather have FWB type of relationship with them.

Yes, its called having a plate. Look up Rollo Tomassi's plate theory posts on the Rational Male. He really frames it for you and the way you go about it is with complete honesty, that is you don't want to be exclusive with anyone. Check it out.

[deleted] · 2016-04-23T05:40:58+00:00

You say yourself that you would rather be with younger women, so go do that.

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-04-23T08:44:22+00:00

But I feel like that is being manipulative and cruel. I know that they want LTR with me, but should I use that as bait and just have fun and dump them?

I do feel it's unethical to hook up with someone you know wants an LTR with you, especially if you're in any way misleading. However, I do wonder if all these women really do, or if in some cases it's just an assumption you've made on stereotype. If you're not certain where they stand, I think if you make it clear from the start that you're not in the LTR market then you're fine. It will cut down your success rate, but it's the right thing. And besides, you're afraid it will be too easy.

Title	What's your take on girls, who hit the wall, coming on to you?
Author	mtwow789
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	April 22, 2016 10:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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