Darwinian Dating Favors Survival of the Jerkiest

2010-12-05T14:30:03+00:00

The takeaway: Women can take a Chinese-menu approach to gender roles. But this isn't equality, it's a ratification of female privilege. They want to compete equally AND have the privileges of their mother's generation. They want the executive position AND the ability to stay home with children AND come back into the workplace at or beyond the position at which they left.

thetrollking · 2010-12-05T14:45:23+00:00

"I have lived in many places, countries, and cultures," says a young man named Douglas Gurney, from Montgomery, Alabama. "This is a worldwide phenomenon. The behavior of men is simply a response to the changing behavior of women. Simply put, men are a breeding experiment run by women. You reap what you sow - and when a man can sow all he wants and leave the reaping to others, well, why not?

Feminism is a sexual trade union. It's about expanding womens sexual, reproductive and resource potential while limiting mens.

abumpdabump · 2010-12-05T08:36:49+00:00

ofcourse, in a partner we all want a survivor, not a pleaser.

2010-12-05T13:43:38+00:00

women dates Jerk. falls in Love. pursues typical pre-programmed American Life, which involve marriage, kids. Jerks turns into asshole, natural evolution. Women realizes mistake. Leaves asshole, taking everything with her.

repeat

TheEnlightener · 2010-12-05T16:39:34+00:00

In a way, this woman has admitted that the natural result of feminism is destruction of culture. But in the end, she can't put two and two together.

No, the problem with the Darwinian tenor of the Menaissance is neither antipathy to women's equality nor a misguided reading of female nature. It is an uncompromising biological determinism that makes no room for cultivation. Human beings rely on culture to tame natural selfishness. Successful human cultures expect far more of their men than muscle and promiscuity.

But if Darwinian daters fail to understand this, you can't entirely blame them. They see that when the old dating and courting regime fell, it left a cultural vacuum with no rules for taming or shaming the boors and jerks. What do they have to lose?

"I have lived in many places, countries, and cultures," says a young man named Douglas Gurney, from Montgomery, Alabama. "This is a worldwide phenomenon. The behavior of men is simply a response to the changing behavior of women. Simply put, men are a breeding experiment run by women. You reap what you sow - and when a man can sow all he wants and leave the reaping to others, well, why not?

Who are the idiots who down-voted this, anyway?

Teknodruid · 2010-12-05T11:11:36+00:00

When we can go back to clubbing a bitch and dragging her back to the cave to make us a sammich... count me in.

BolshevikMuppet · 2010-12-05T08:51:12+00:00

when did /r/mensrights become "boo hoo I'm a nice guy why am I single"?

Title	Darwinian Dating Favors Survival of the Jerkiest
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Comments	18
Date	December 5, 2010 8:31 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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