How to be part of TRP but still be a good boyfriend?

Dysentary_Gary · 2014-01-27T08:58:47+00:00

Multiple things I see here. First these are not rules. They are empirical observations, statistics, facts, theories and discussion thereof. You can do what you please with them, but just because you ignore the elephant in the room, doesn't mean there's not an elephant in the room.

Speaking of elephant in the room, "she makes me an overall better person." Danger Will Robinson! Danger! That's a sign of needing external validation. You should want to be the best version of yourself, for yourself, and no other reason. Because what you're saying is, if she's not there you don't feel like as good of a person. As in, her presence somehow makes you a better person? Sounds like you're pedalizing her. And that you are afraid to lose her.

Also, I'm not even going to touch the unicorn thing....since you can't touch them, being as how unicorns aren't real.

trplurker · 2014-01-27T09:04:52+00:00

TRP makes you a better boyfriend. It does this by making you realize what a man is and isn't. Understanding masculinity and what it means to embrace it and not let someone else manipulate you into releasing it. Taking power, which means taken leadership and making choices, then living with the consequences of those choices.

The first step to doing all of that is to realize that your women is not unique and has no special power over you. If she's a good women, and your a good man, then you just walk and she'll follow. Oh she'll bitch and moan about it at first, try to make you turn around or she might even walk away, shouldn't matter because your walking forward and not looking behind you to see if she's there.

RedSunBlue · 2014-01-27T13:26:07+00:00

Lurk more, read more, post less.

lillojohn · 2014-01-27T10:02:20+00:00

You are a good bf if you guide your girl to your perspective. This means you need to have a good perspective and a way to control her. For this you need trp.

Fitch0y · 2014-01-27T11:51:20+00:00

I see a lot of post here that pretty much say forget the woman just do what you want, You are the prize not her, if shes with you then shes with you if not move on.

Yeah do just that, she will love you for that. Except when you cheat without telling her that you will.

whatever6 · 2014-01-27T12:21:58+00:00

Lurk more because you understand fuck all about TRP. No one is telling you to be an abusive asshole.

TRP is about being the kind of man women need and are attracted to, not necessarily realize they want. Most of them know nothing about their actual needs.

I'm nice as shit to my GF. But we are dating on my terms and I realize what she needs and positively responds to: a leader.

whatever6 · 2014-01-27T12:26:49+00:00

but she is a unicorn to me and I am not AFRAID to lose her

You're delusional.

GayLubeOil · 2014-01-27T08:55:09+00:00

Your right man, a cool guy like you doesn't need to follow the rules. Read about my LTR here.

Title	How to be part of TRP but still be a good boyfriend?
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Comments	12
Date	January 27, 2014 8:14 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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