I threw away my old account as I started posting more here - username I used elsewhere. On to the good stuff:

I have a plate back home (first year uni, virgin when I met her) and I'm doing my finals before I head home. Being invited for an interview at a big company, I told her I'd be back in town and it could be fun to catch up. This is when she throws me:

"It would be great to see you again, but just to let you know, if we were to meet, then it could only be as friends"

followed by

"This is not to do with anything you've done, it's just my current situation right now"

So she's either found someone she wants to settle down with, or she's testing my reaction (less likely).

Immediate reaction is to play it down as nothing special (abundance mentality), say I'll get back to her closer to the date, not get back to her on that, and soft next her. It would be interesting to see if she hamsters and get back to me.

She's a decent 8.5/9, but it's the city and there are better women out there. Still, she's great fun in bed :p

Your thoughts, gentlemen?