The Post RedPill Perspective: How has TRP opened your eyes?

PlansAndPlates · 2016-05-30T23:24:20+00:00

I noticed how a significant number of problems in my life, and the men in my families lives, were directly caused by women. I realised by minimizing dealing with them you Minimize their drama bullshit.

I discovered that by minimizing time on them your value increased (power law of absence applied.)

I discovered that there's nothing more important than your own health and goals, and that if you have them other people want to be around you - they will more often than not be unable to contribute to your goals - they don't make you healthier and they don't put money in your pocket or work for free or introduce you to useful people.

I know there's no value in arguing (power law? How to win friends? Both?) and I don't do it. I'll have a discussion to learn but I don't take an emotional stance and try and convince other people to my side. People always disagree and that doesn't mean I need to respond.

I realised I have so much to work on and improve. A few years ago little bullshit goals pleased me, now I've got bigger dreams.

No more Mr. Nice guy was important. I was a yes man and a people pleaser who thought there was value in sacrifice and being always accessible. I was wrong. Nobody values a free personal assistant.

There's a lot more about interactions with girls, but that focus has dropped off considerably, the focus now is on me whereas when I found and sought trp and advice on relationships it was about how to get laid more often.

Now my life is about minimizing stress and bullshit and maximizing health and enjoyment through whatever I enjoy doing.

Tldr: found trp looking for fuckbuddy and relationship easymodes, discovered I was not living right, changed my perspective and now fuckbuddies and relationships aren't a priority

Title	The Post RedPill Perspective: How has TRP opened your eyes?
Author	StoicCrane
Upvotes	5
Comments	2
Date	May 25, 2016 2:03 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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