Like believe me, I’m all for poking fun at the system of patriarchy and through that have made a one two joke about pick-mes who are extremely deluded in their internalized misogyny. However, I’ve recently been noticing a trend on this sub where many “high-value” women are straight going out of their way to make cruel jokes of pick-mes - insulting their intelligence, outright deriding their low self-esteem, etc. Beyond that, I feel this sub has turned into one less about strategy for getting into worthwhile relationships/levelling up and more into a subreddit about pointing out other LV relationships… which inevitably leads to more of the same unnecessarily mean-spirited content directed at the women in these relationships.

Listen, I get wanting to unload a bit of steam because of how much bullshit we got to deal with just for having standards, but I don’t think that’s the most functional, reasonable, or high-value move and honestly, it’s just repetitive.