Hello, i'd like to start off that in most situations i can think of ways to lead to an F-close but with this one in particular i'm having trouble with. An HB8 i'm trying to plate i can't seem to successfully F-close, I've K-closed once but honestly it didn't feel anywhere near sexual on her end. We've hung out, gotten food, taken pictures with each other at parties so it's not like she doesn't think highly of me because she knows i have high SMV. She's even said it herself and comments on how i know a lot of people and always doing fun shit blah blah blah.
In the beginning of trying to plate her i'll admit i was falling into an orbiter hole with her once i noticed me chasing her more and she also started coming to me with her emotional problems and when i realized that i then threw out nothing but alpha behavior and gestures and got the K-close (which is nothing special).
Though that was a while ago, she hit me up a couple weeks ago saying she's gonna be home from college for the summer and we should hang out more, in which i responded with "sure". So she hits me up again earlier this week to hang and i say sure you can come over later tonight and she said alright so i gave her my address. So she gets there we go to my room and she immediately sits on one of my single chairs and i go to the bed and sit down which is fine because the chair is right next to my bed. I start making us drinks to which she drinks slowly, i noticed that and took it as a sign she's not trying to get drunk which tells me she wants to keep her guard up for sexual activity, etc. So i take it slow, we eventually just stay up for hours listening to music and after a few hours she tells me this is one of the best nights she's had in a while and then leaves around 4am. When she left i felt like a huge beta especially since i didn't close at all.
She comes over the next night (i make sure to begin with some kino as she comes through the door) but yet again she sits in the single chair while i'm laying on my bed, i don't ask if she wants to drink as i'm already tired so we just start smoking hookah and listening to music. It's a decent night, nice conversation, music playing in the background (slightly sexual), and after an hour i put on a movie, reach my hand out to her, then tell her to come lay with me...her response was "nahh i'm good". I went to bed and woke up to a text the next morning that came at 3am saying "you fell asleep :("
RP...how do you suggest i go about plating this girl.
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