So had a first date, it went well for a thursday night date. I made out with her on first date, she even twirled her hair, and she even sent a lengthy "thank you text" half hour later. So it seems positive though it may have been boring slightly due to her not being too talkative (other girls talk my ear off, but this one kept conservative and didn't delve into any topics that really made her rant or anything).

Usually I schedule a date like so:

  1. ask out whenever in the week, before wednesday, for a thursday night 1st date.
  2. 1st date goes ok/well, wait a day, silence on friday, then ask out 2nd date for saturday, same day, almost making it sound a bit last minute. She may have made plans already, and then you just wait for a counter-offer.
  3. if you haven't had sex by 2nd date, wait a bit longer even, then set a third date.

Keeping the momentum going, because I don't feel like waiting a whole week, for the next weekend, only to have her lose interest or start looking at her backup plans.

What do you think? Is this good enough? (thursday 1st date, ask for 2nd date saturday, have saturday 2nd date, then usually delay 3rd date to next thursday). Is that a good schedule of doing things?

I always think the 1st-2nd date timing are kinda critical? Maybe I'm wrong? I dunno because I haven't gotten flaked on after a 1st date, so people with more experience would know better. (if i ever get flakes, it's before a first date).