Because once again it's taking something uniquely mail and using it against us but the same people who do want us to treat them with respect and not see them for their gender or any trace of their gender but we are still socially expected to take all types of s*** because we're men

As a big dude I've always hated that excuse because that's the same reason why so many people felt it was okay to mess with me because I always tempered myself and try not to be abrasive because I knew I could always cause damage but that allowed me to be a magnet to bullies

And whenever I fight back I got in trouble because I was too big.

And I'll be honest as a black dude it just makes me uncomfortable when I hear white women say this argument especially if they are feminists white women because they are so hypocritical.

They has white women have the ultimate privilege as that most of society looks at them as princesse, who are very fragile and can do no wrong.

Whenever I hear them say this I think of Emmett Till because he was not doing anything but because some white woman said he was, everyone believed that of course and then he ends up dead.

And don't get me wrong I intellectually know men have best strength and size difference but so many feminist try so hard to make us equal it hurts when they can't see their own damn hypocrisy