I've been loitering on & off since I divorced my wife... I haven't had a problem with girls since... I keep in good shape etc. and have a hot fuck buddy (who is a bit nuts for LTR but we've had that chat!) so all good.

Except an amazing HB10 who works in the same company, I've known her for 3-4 years, always been nice to her without going over the top. I've had a bit of a physical transformation the past few years, she probably didn't have the hots for me when we first met. Been on two nights out with work colleagues which end up us in a taxi on way past hers, kissing etc, drop her off and I head home.

I have serious oneitis. Can't get her out of my head. She thinks it's serious too. She is in a LTR and owns a house with her boyfriend.

But fuuuuck... She is super hot, smart, nice, funny... She knows about my divorce and kids... She says this needs to stop as she feels so bad about what she's doing... I get how my ex felt now and still did it...

So it's messy... Stupid... But I've not had a buzz like this for a long long time... I'm a director at the company we work at though... She is worried about that... She says she shouldn't fancy me because I can be a dick at work (well you can't please everybody all the time... I am demanding sometimes because I want good results!) but outside of work I have cultivated a high SMV thanks in part to TRP... triathlete, travel, skydive, DJ, have fun nights out...

So I probably need a slap in the face to wake me up from this stupidity but it will be sooo hard to do that... Wondering if there is any other advice... I swore to myself I wouldn't let myself get hooked on a girl again hence FWB and enjoying Tinder etc but this one is amazing...

Help!!