I recently came across this sub, and am very happy that you all exist. You are on the right track. I don’t know how welcome my input is but wanted to add some positive reinforcement to what you are doing here. I have personally observed a lot of interesting things from dating girls of all ages and think I have some insight. But I will start with what is most important to me when looking for a partner. Hopefully it’s an opportunity for you to hear it directly from a person rather than from one of the many speculations (some wild and frankly over complicated) that I am reading on this sub.

1)Age 21-29 (Roughly). This is why it’s so important to not waste time. I feel badly for girls who are taught poorly by their mothers.

2)Stay fit like it’s your job. Waist to hip ratio is crucial.

3)Understand how to wield the feminine energy in the world. This means being submissive to me, but assertive (yet not manly!) towards the rest of the world. Why? Because if we are a team, you need to get shit done, as if I was there doing it myself. If I am sick/injured/indisposed (which of course would never happen haha), I need to know you can step up. Basically, even though I want you to look young, I want you to think old. Jeff Bezos: “I want a woman who can spring me out of a third world prison”. So true.

3)Wear dresses, cook, wear makeup. Make my eyes and stomach happy, and I will know you love me.

4)Unless you are OCD and love cleaning, I think cleaning should be a shared activity. However if you insist, then you deserve all sorts of extra affection.

5)Have a genuine hobby that we can share that is not fashion or relationship related. Sometimes we need to do something other than have the sex. Running is fundamental, tennis is nice, and golf would be wonderful but I don’t want to get too greedy.

  1. Keep your notch count as low as possible. You need to protect your soul so you have something pure to share.

TLDR: Look good, act sweet, be competent. Simple but so difficult for many.

If I think of more, I will post.