So I'm asking this question just to see what ideas you might have. My pops invited me to a salsa club and i assumed he frequented the joint. From my years of knowing him he never really went out to dance, but he works in Ney York with Spanish clients and we're Colombian so it wasn't unreasonable to assume that he was acquainted.

Anyways we get there, and it turns out he doesn't know anyone. I guess he didn't really plan things out. It started weird to say the least.

But, i got out on the floor and saw a group of 3 women in their mid to late 30s, and they're dancing together so i approach. It might be important to note Salsa and Latin dances are always with a partner and unlike the more free flow clubs in the US. So i kinda dance with them, but not one on one, and i talk a bit to the one that i first talked to.

But to be honest it was kinda awkward, at first i had the impression that just the 3 of them dancing seemed kinda silly and they would appreciate the company. The one that invited me in got kinda distant and so i just go on enjoying the dance. Then they went to sit down and i kept dancing.

I guess there was something i wasn't reading or didn't notice. Usually i have pretty good luck with women, but here at this Salsa club it just want the case.