I have started dating a girl recently.

She is nice and cool. We went on one date, we paid separately and made out afterwards. Since she lives far and neither of us have a car, we Skyped for an hour everyday.

For our second date, we went to an amusement park. Everything was nice and cool until she told me her friend needs to come with us as well because that's her ride.

I got a little annoyed since it was a date and it was supposed to be between us. But you know it was reasonable that was her ride so I allowed for it.

What happened next surprised me because the friend was actually a guy. At that point I am pissed off because it was a guy as her friend but I keep it to myself. It does get worse, the girl is talking more to the guy than me and she's not as touchy as she was with me. Then it all clicks on me that she hasn't told them that I am dating her so they simply think they're hanging out with two friends.

At that point I had no idea what to do so I went with my guts and pulled her aside and told her that it's not cool having them here and we settled on going public if the third date went well.

But now she's being very dry and unresponsive and outright ignoring my messages by talking in other group chats that we are both part of.

What is the best course of action in your opinion? I often operate based on a three strikes system I just want to know if this one took it too far.