Summary: HB8 festival slut, I want to keep her as a long-distance plate or FWB, has this been done? Does it work? How should I frame the conversation?

Fellas,

There is this hot af HB8 that walked into my life at a festival about 3 weeks ago now. She's awesome, but for a variety of reasons I am hesitant to LTR this chick. I would like to keep fucking her and hanging out, but here's the problem: she lives in a different city like 9 hours away.

She came back to my house with a couple of other new friends we made at the festival (no-one knew eachother before then) and we all spent about 2 weeks partying. Are all out of the house for now, but she currently plans to come back on my invitation in another 2-3 weeks.

I was a beta schmuck about things and brought up the idea of her moving in with me, and us becoming exclusive - both options which she said she was considering before I even asked, but we have not come to any decisions.

Before she left I started acting pretty tense about things, insecure, whatever you want to call it.. until I decided to put us back in the frame of just being friends and casual, not worrying about becoming an exclusive LTR.

Per our last conversation it's still on the table, but I am 100% more comfortable being in the frame of FWB or plate with this girl than trying to convince myself she is safe for an LTR. She isn't. She is a drug dealer, has a high N-count, parties all the time, is CONSTANTLY getting blown up on her phone, and to be blunt, is out of my league. I know how to protect my finances from being abused and she seems to respect that, so I'd like to think I'm not beta bux in this scenario, but I may be the "safe, nice guy" for her to emotionally bond with and feel good about herself for a while before she runs off to get fucked by Chads again.

It's an interesting experience, first time for me where I was actually HAPPIER telling a girl that I didn't want to get serious. It relieved so many of the questions and issues in my mind about what she thought of me, what she was doing when I'm not around, etc. Leaving me free to just enjoy the ride and the companionship.

So that's definitely what I want here.. to keep her as a FWB and plate. But she doesn't live in my state. Cohabitating is a fucking dumb idea in that context, so what do I tell her?

Hey it's been fun, come back and hang out when you are between semesters? Come hang with me at this festival, at this vacation spot, etc? That would be fucking excellent IMHO.

Let me know your thoughts.

And as always, thanks for being real men that smack me upside the fucking head when I'm busy trying to fall in love with sluts.