Can't think when with girls

trpthroway123 · 2016-06-16T13:12:36+00:00

Are you failing to think of a response, or failing to keep the conversation flowing?

If you're worried about keeping conversation flowing, a good idea is to people watch. Just subtly tap her arm or leg to get her attention, and point. It can be something as silly as "do you think that tie looks good with that shirt?" or "that dress is hideous", or "what is that guy eating, it looks delicious".

The point is, you're getting her opinion, and it opens up a new path for conversation (where to buy clothes, who has deals, what colors go together, stripes vs. argyle, whatever).

Plus, it's an excuse to make some physical contact.

Krunjar · 2016-06-16T13:14:59+00:00

Just talk to them like any other person you want to be friends with, but make it flirty. Ask them about things that makes them talk about themselves, they like that and it makes things easier.

You dont need to communicate your attraction much at all through direct words, its more about suggestion/body language/power talk, keep your intent clear in your mind and just talk about "anything". You don't really need to think about what to say (its more important to remember some things/behaviours NOT to say or do), actually that will make you more nervous and will make things more difficult.

Heres a couple of vids which might help you:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuvL7Dk8x8s

CaptainGloom · 2016-06-16T09:50:37+00:00

Just think deliberately and speak slowly. There's never a need to speak quickly, take your time. And make sure you have something to say, generally asking questions is a good idea because people like to talk about themselves. And silence isn't necessarily bad, I've had girls fill my silences. Toy with it.

Title	Can't think when with girls
Author	Hello_cam
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Date	June 16, 2016 9:34 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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