Why do women lie?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-03-29T04:31:09+00:00

Most of what women say is Powertalk. That is, language intended to produce a certain response. Truth value is utterly irrelevant. (This is opposed to Straighttalk and Babytalk.) Women can't afford to be scrupulous when they feel their Ego Survival is at stake.

It almost always boils down to "pay attention to me, validate me, orbit me, give me the unearned respect I feel entitled to." What they actually say doesn't matter, as long as the get what they're looking for.

If a woman says she's looking for a "nice guy," she knows cowardly schlubs and white knights (who want to think of themselves as "nice guys", will try to orbit her.

You also need to understand that women are skilled emotional chameleons. They'll quickly adapt their feelings, beliefs, frame, and persona to any given environment. So what they'll say is 98% dependent on situational context, and perhaps 2% on objective facts. Move to a different context, feel, believe, think, and say things completely different.

savagedealer · 2017-03-29T02:44:46+00:00

Woman's truth changes like the direction of the wind ... they don't lie just what they want and think at any given moment depending on emotional state financial state ovulation stage the position of the moon how many times their Pomeranian took a shit factors into what truth they tell you which most times can and will overwrite and contradict other truths told at any point present past or future . Women can't lie if when they tell you the truth it's what they feel ... facts and opinions rarely have to do with woman's truths just feelings ... if the sky is blue but she's on her period she could very well be saying the truth when she says the sky is green cause her body and mind is telling her to feel that it is so .

It's up to us and I be like traffic controllers and direct all the bullshit to its own separate lane to get it moving the fuck out your way as fast as possible leaving you with the real problems and concerns at hand ... no need to be angry just to see it for what it is...

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-29T02:46:59+00:00

Because they want to preserve the idea of themselves how they see themselves.

So the hamster away other shit.

It's basically the underlying theme of all trp wisdom

Chicks are people just like you and me. They just have tons of options. Yet they get shamed if they fuck around but we get high fives. So they have a strategy surrounding that.

BullshittingNonsense · 2017-03-29T07:25:17+00:00

Why is the sky blue? It just is.

2017-03-30T04:46:43+00:00

AWALT how have you not learned this by now.. Im looked at as a 'nice guy' but that doesn't help get girls.

Ask yourself what do you want- in reality do you get that?

failingtheturingtest · 2017-03-29T03:18:17+00:00

The answers you seek are in the sidebar

Title	Why do women lie?
Author	SuperSneekerz
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	March 29, 2017 2:31 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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