I was dating a girl for three years, and we had two small children. Around three months ago she ran into a guy she went to school with at a bank, she started going to her mothers house for two to three hours a night, several times she started a fight and just up and left I believe because she has no real excuse to leave.

She started withdrawing attention, where we slept with our feet next to each other she no longer did this, where we had sex she told me she was afraid to get pregnant and would no longer be sleeping with me, ultimately I kicked her.

Speaking with her now she claims now she made an appointment before I even kicked her out to get on birth control, the guy from thr bank she ran into was a friend on Facebook and Instagram I notice, it wasn't until I found out a guy from the gym knew him and I asked if she had been going there did she have any idea, and she deleted him off both accounts.

I brought it up to her, and she begin telling me she had never been Facebook friends, I had imagined it, it's an insecurity of mine, etc etc

The kid from the gym never got back to me and dodged me, when I contacted that guy, and a few others thst lived at that house they never replied