I realize this is really broad, but I still hope I can find this answer. I'm really sick of being angry. It's come to the point where I can't even talk to other people about anything to do with relationships because having removed the BP goggles, I can see the shit people let women get away and how they (women and BP men) hamster shit away while ignoring the unpleasant reality. I guess what I'm really asking is "How do I stop giving a shit that women lie, BP men don't see it, and how do I stop giving a shit about other peoples' lives in general?